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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax

This is happening more and more just recently makes me so mad when you travel to meet and no one appears then you go to mail them to find your blocked how rude? Anyone else having these issues or is just me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im sure others do too op

Sorry to hear its happened to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Were they verified profiles? Did you speak to them on the phone first?

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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax

Not verified but had been mailing each other for days I've learnt my lesson only verified from now on lol we live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a women on here do it to me a month back, we were chatting for about a week, I booked a hotel as she requested, we were chatting right up untill an hour before I was due to pick her up, went to the meeting point, came on here to let her know I was there and I couldn’t find her profile, she had deleted it. She was fully verified a silver site supporter and had a cam verification too, waste of £90

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not verified but had been mailing each other for days I've learnt my lesson only verified from now on lol we live and learn"

This is the catch 22 again everyone says you got to be verified to meet so I got photo verified then they say that's not good enough you have to meet in person of on cam, I don't have a web cam so that's out and can't meet in person because they won't meet because not verified.

And no I'm not going to drive miles to go to a club hoping to meet someone that will verify me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never ever been stood up on here.

I do chose my meets wisely though!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a women on here do it to me a month back, we were chatting for about a week, I booked a hotel as she requested, we were chatting right up untill an hour before I was due to pick her up, went to the meeting point, came on here to let her know I was there and I couldn’t find her profile, she had deleted it. She was fully verified a silver site supporter and had a cam verification too, waste of £90 "

Never book a room until after you have met them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah happens to me too.

Guess they just get nervous but hey, your back on here and looking so that's a good step .

Keep moving on forward x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never ever been stood up on here.

I do chose my meets wisely though! "

I've never been stood up on here either as no one chats or wants to meet not even in public for a coffee.

But have been stood up before from other sites in the past.

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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax

I've been on here many yrs on this profile and my cpl profile I choose very wisely and like to think I can tell if someone is genuine or not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Il know next time to at least ask for half the room price lol and yeah it pissed me off but it didn’t stop me trying, good on you, to be honest he probably had a girlfriend and couldn’t get away

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple  over a year ago

Planet Ork


"This is happening more and more just recently makes me so mad when you travel to meet and no one appears then you go to mail them to find your blocked how rude? Anyone else having these issues or is just me hahaha"

The joys of fab. It’s happened to most of us and it does make you more hesitant about putting in the time and effort to try again. There are however some very decent genuine people on here that do make it worthwhile.

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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax


"Il know next time to at least ask for half the room price lol and yeah it pissed me off but it didn’t stop me trying, good on you, to be honest he probably had a girlfriend and couldn’t get away "
your probably right just annoying when you take time and effort to travel for no one to be there and be blocked lol at least have bollox to say sorry summet came up or I've changed my mind id rather that than nothing

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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax


"This is happening more and more just recently makes me so mad when you travel to meet and no one appears then you go to mail them to find your blocked how rude? Anyone else having these issues or is just me hahaha

The joys of fab. It’s happened to most of us and it does make you more hesitant about putting in the time and effort to try again. There are however some very decent genuine people on here that do make it worthwhile. "

I may stick to the club seen for a while at least I'm not sat like a prize lemon waiting for mr fresh air to turn up haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah exactly, it’s easier to do through message as well lol

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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax

Ah well we live and learn lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is happening more and more just recently makes me so mad when you travel to meet and no one appears then you go to mail them to find your blocked how rude? Anyone else having these issues or is just me hahaha

The joys of fab. It’s happened to most of us and it does make you more hesitant about putting in the time and effort to try again. There are however some very decent genuine people on here that do make it worthwhile. I may stick to the club seen for a while at least I'm not sat like a prize lemon waiting for mr fresh air to turn up haha"

Definitely do the club scene.

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"This is happening more and more just recently makes me so mad when you travel to meet and no one appears then you go to mail them to find your blocked how rude? Anyone else having these issues or is just me hahaha"

If it's happening more the common denominator is you op.

Change your selection process add checks and balances any red flags walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Op

Some guys don’t know how lucky they could have been!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t let some ppl spoil it for you , just be much more thorough . Good suffers for the bad lo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been there but I’m probably lucky they didn’t as they was probably up their own arse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People be crazy arranging meets and not showing up, at least have the decency to say "I can't make it I got too nervous" "I had a wank and thought better of it" "my wife came home from work early" the amount of excuses you can use are ended, just don't be rude!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP- sorry to read this. I’ve had it once, I’d met him before too. It happens , Sometimes there’s reasons, but I always do a social first somewhere public, then if nothing else I can sit having a coffee and people watch if they fail to show.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Many people pose online as things they aren't, it's very unwise to assume anyone is telling the truth, don't let yourself get caught out and if you do use it as a lesson for next time!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is happening more and more just recently makes me so mad when you travel to meet and no one appears then you go to mail them to find your blocked how rude? Anyone else having these issues or is just me hahaha"

No; it’s not just you. Seems quite widespread

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By *ebbs OP   Woman  over a year ago

halifax

I always do a social 1st this meet was only a social coffee but travelled half way so was miffed off I'm usually pretty good at spotting a wanna be my radar must be off lol it's on top form from today haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not happened yet....

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