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Women. What’s your priority. Looks or chemistry?
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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I would imagine it has something to do with the right combination of/ enough Chromosomes but not too many and the ability to speak/ act through the right head at the appropriate time. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Chemistry but I do have to have visual attraction as well. It doesn't have to be anything like traditional good looks, but definitely must be pleasing to my eye. Chemistry is more important, if I had to choose only one it would be that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s got to be a mixture of all but first thing is the physical attraction and there’s bits that attract you to someone more,I have to fancy them in the face.Chemistry and click are key then the rest falls into place..... |
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There has to be something that sparks an interest to build upon. Have met a lovely variety of people off here and the ones that stick out have had a witty comment or an erotic pic that has got the ball rolling.
I’d say humour goes a long way too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks attract you
Chemistry keeps you interested
Which one is more important?"
A bit of both because you can really fancy someone and their personality puts you off,but someone who you wouldn’t look at twice might have a personality your really into but if the physical attraction wasn’t there then you would never of spoke to them so it’s a case of just going with your gut instinct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There definitely has to be an "oh hello handsome" moment for me to want to find out whether there is any chemistry. For things to really work there has to be both though....but think it's looks first, then chemistry! x |
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Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both but not in equal measure though
Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!
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It's because you are so in touch with your feminine side F&B
#becauseyou'reworthit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held"
 This plus I  ladies all of them  
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both but not in equal measure though
Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!
It's because you are so in touch with your feminine side F&B
#becauseyou'reworthit"
Yes, that's true ! Thanks for having my back ! No pun intended ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both but not in equal measure though
Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!
It's because you are so in touch with your feminine side F&B
#becauseyou'reworthit
Yes, that's true ! Thanks for having my back ! No pun intended ! "
As long as you keep shaving it I'll be the there |
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
This plus I ladies all of them
Jo.Xx"
Great minds! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
This plus I ladies all of them
Jo.Xx"
owwwwww bugger  |
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Chemistry wins out in the end but this is more likely if there is physical attraction to begin with. Physical attraction can be instant but chemistry comes through conversation and connection and takes time to deepen. |
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
This plus I ladies all of them
Jo.Xx
owwwwww bugger "
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Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. |
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"Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. "
Love it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
This plus I ladies all of them
Jo.Xx
Great minds! "
Absolutely!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
This plus I ladies all of them
Jo.Xx
owwwwww bugger "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m interested to hear your views on this one  can you give a clear explanation to back it up too. "
You're on an online Website, how can there be any chemistry, it's as superficial as it can get |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Both
I need to like their face , then the chemistry grows "
When women don't show their faces, for reasons of discretion and all that, which I understand. I still wish I could see their faces. So I can see if I fancy them even more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks first, but chemistry decided when we meet. Yet to find someone I had physical attraction to but no chemistry when meeting. So the chat after first contact is very important. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chemistry ..
There has to be a spark of something to attract you otherwise why bother"
So it wouldn’t have to necessarily be a physical attraction first? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chemistry
That's why I struggle on here
It's really hard to judge unless you have time for 300 socials a week
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It’s tough for the ladies. But isn’t there something that stands out in terms of what gives you a good idea that a guy is potentially worth getting to know? |
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"Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. "
Yes, that's what I look for, hard to find though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There definitely has to be an "oh hello handsome" moment for me to want to find out whether there is any chemistry. For things to really work there has to be both though....but think it's looks first, then chemistry! x"
This seems to be the majority outlook. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held"
Do you try to engage with messages or are you looking for guys to simply hold yours? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. "
I’m really interested in your view. Is it fair to say that you could find someone more attractive if you’ve got great chemistry? |
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
Do you try to engage with messages or are you looking for guys to simply hold yours?"
It's a two way street! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As others have said there has to be both. If either are missing then I lose interest. "
Hey NSA chick. Which one is more important or should I say a priority? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction
Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held
Do you try to engage with messages or are you looking for guys to simply hold yours?
It's a two way street! "
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.
Yes, that's what I look for, hard to find though. "
Hard to find on here on in life I’m general. By the way that’s a big football |
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"Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.
Yes, that's what I look for, hard to find though.
Hard to find on here on in life I’m general. By the way that’s a big football "
Indeed.... and yes, they're both monsters lol! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.  |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow. "
Tineye might be your friend here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.
Tineye might be your friend here "
Unrelated to thread but....Red, is that Holkham Beach?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both
I need to like their face , then the chemistry grows
When women don't show their faces, for reasons of discretion and all that, which I understand. I still wish I could see their faces. So I can see if I fancy them even more."
Agree!
Think that's the reason i put my face in my profile. I wont be everybody's cup of tea and i respect that. But i know for a fact looks its more important that chemistry anyway... I mean seriously most lads on here will have the gift of the gab. I know i do... But no attraction your not going to get a chance to show that no matter how good you are at it. Therefore the chemistry doesn't get a look in.
Just my opinion anyway |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.
Tineye might be your friend here
Unrelated to thread but....Red, is that Holkham Beach?! "
Not holkham but close, wells next the sea |
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By *unaBelleWoman
over a year ago
Near the big road |
I would say both.
Looks obviously cause you to feel attracted to someone initially, couple that with a really good personality and you are onto a winner.
It's just finding the handsome ones who can also hold a decent conversation, make you laugh etc. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.
Tineye might be your friend here "
*Tuts* |
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By *unaBelleWoman
over a year ago
Near the big road |
"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow. "
Are all of the men in suits dashingly handsome and needing to be wicked at?
Maybe I should look at the ones in clothes |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.
Tineye might be your friend here
*Tuts* "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.
At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.
If you’re all good looks but dull as dishwater I’m probably going to say no. I figure you’ll probably be a boring lay. If you cannot be bothered to try to connect with me mentally, sexually you might be selfish too. It’s usually the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.
At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.
If you’re all good looks but dull as dishwater I’m probably going to say no. I figure you’ll probably be a boring lay. If you cannot be bothered to try to connect with me mentally, sexually you might be selfish too. It’s usually the case. "
Yeah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.
She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow. "
It can start with a wink. Given time, flirting and expressive communication, chemistry can develop. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.
At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.
If you’re all good looks but dull as dishwater I’m probably going to say no. I figure you’ll probably be a boring lay. If you cannot be bothered to try to connect with me mentally, sexually you might be selfish too. It’s usually the case. "
Brilliantly and comprehensively put!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As others have said there has to be both. If either are missing then I lose interest.
Hey NSA chick. Which one is more important or should I say a priority?
I prioritise both equally  "
Greedy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.
At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.
If you’re all good looks but dull as dishwater I’m probably going to say no. I figure you’ll probably be a boring lay. If you cannot be bothered to try to connect with me mentally, sexually you might be selfish too. It’s usually the case.
Brilliantly and comprehensively put!! "
Thank you
You did ask for a clear explanation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.
At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.
If you’re all good looks but dull as dishwater I’m probably going to say no. I figure you’ll probably be a boring lay. If you cannot be bothered to try to connect with me mentally, sexually you might be selfish too. It’s usually the case.
Brilliantly and comprehensively put!!
Thank you
You did ask for a clear explanation "
And it’s crystal clear but eloquently delivered. Sometimes those that are more attractive can be lazy which in itself is unattractive |
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"Chemistry, every time.
Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.
I’m really interested in your view. Is it fair to say that you could find someone more attractive if you’ve got great chemistry? "
Yes.
Physical attraction only goes so far with me.
I've met people that would be described as drop dead gorgeous, but felt nothing, and walked away.
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"I’m interested to hear your views on this one can you give a clear explanation to back it up too. "
Got to be chemistry doesn’t matter how attractive someone is if there isn’t a spark then where’s the fun |
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