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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Do women like flattering type PM's, "great body, super tits, great legs" etc. I very rarely get replies to these sort of messages, but if they're posting pics I would have thougjt that these type would have been appreciated.
Or do you just get too many of these.........? |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
I think women get the fact you're drawn to certain physical features of theirs but in mist cases would rather you engaged their brains first.
I knew a woman on here who would get messages from guys saying "great tits" and to be fair they are pretty impressive, but if every guy says that then how are you going to stand out? Her gripe was that she felt that there was more to her than her fantastic boobs.
Actually bad examp,e, she was a dick and her boobs were her only good feature but you wouldn't know that unless you'd taken the time to get to know her first
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think women get the fact you're drawn to certain physical features of theirs but in mist cases would rather you engaged their brains first.
I knew a woman on here who would get messages from guys saying "great tits" and to be fair they are pretty impressive, but if every guy says that then how are you going to stand out? Her gripe was that she felt that there was more to her than her fantastic boobs.
Actually bad examp,e, she was a dick and her boobs were her only good feature but you wouldn't know that unless you'd taken the time to get to know her first
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Nice navy T-shirt. |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Its hardly an imaginitive opening to a message imo..
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No it's not, I'm aware of that, but if they're posting pics are they not seeking this kind of reaction?
Or have I got it all wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its hardly an imaginitive opening to a message imo..
No it's not, I'm aware of that, but if they're posting pics are they not seeking this kind of reaction?
Or have I got it all wrong?"
They are probably looking for fabs rather than messages..
Having said that I get messages along the lines of 'great pics' etc that i used to respond to with a thankyou but I rarely bother replying to anymore.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women like flattering type PM's, "great body, super tits, great legs" etc. I very rarely get replies to these sort of messages, but if they're posting pics I would have thougjt that these type would have been appreciated.
Or do you just get too many of these.........?"
I like men who read my profile. If they just message to compliment me and can’t be bothered going beyond the pictures, then meh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol, point taken.
No more benal compliments from me....."
Depends on what the 'compliments' are. On here it just seems like an attempt to get into their knickers. Which of course is the point of the site.... but women are people too.  |
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It’s a difficult one
I’ve seen similar threads with people bemoaning the poor quality of opening messages but why should someone put their efforts into a thoughtful message when time and time again they get deleted unread |
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Most message contents depend on the context - if it's from someone that you'd like to know more closely, then it can be great to hear something so positive. There are certainly a plethora of 'You're the most beautiful ... ever' messages but the better messages can be thoughtful and expressed really well. |
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"Most message contents depend on the context - if it's from someone that you'd like to know more closely, then it can be great to hear something so positive. There are certainly a plethora of 'You're the most beautiful ... ever' messages but the better messages can be thoughtful and expressed really well. "
Then deleted unread!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the volume of messages but do agree men can't win. I tend to prefer a funny brief message as a hello, I don't expect a personalised full length dialogue to begin with as we all know that we are simply not attracted to everyone.
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