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Are submissive women just lazy ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?! "
All women are lazy aren't they?
Lounging around all day, relying on men |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
All women are lazy aren't they?
Lounging around all day, relying on men"
No, just submissive ones in the bedroom. It says in the title. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not entirely sure you understand the concept of a submissive.
It does not mean you lie there like a sack of spuds....
It can be fucking hard work....ask any sub
In fact I think they might all be about to correct you
I'll sit back and watch the fire works.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To a genuine dominant man a submissive who listens and does as shes told is perfect. Otherwise shed be topping from the bottom and that's not the done thing in DS play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not entirely sure you understand the concept of a submissive.
It does not mean you lie there like a sack of spuds....
It can be fucking hard work....ask any sub
In fact I think they might all be about to correct you
I'll sit back and watch the fire works...."
I’ve never heard of anyone complaining they’ve had a hard days graft while being a sub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not allowed to be lazy. He keeps me on my toes...or rather my poor old knees.
I recommend knee pads."
He gives me a cushion when I groan, or tells me to hop on his cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not entirely sure you understand the concept of a submissive.
It does not mean you lie there like a sack of spuds....
It can be fucking hard work....ask any sub
In fact I think they might all be about to correct you
I'll sit back and watch the fire works....
I’ve never heard of anyone complaining they’ve had a hard days graft while being a sub. "
I just about manage an hour. A whole day would kill me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not allowed to be lazy. He keeps me on my toes...or rather my poor old knees.
I recommend knee pads.
He gives me a cushion when I groan, or tells me to hop on his cock. "
Comfy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not allowed to be lazy. He keeps me on my toes...or rather my poor old knees.
I recommend knee pads.
He gives me a cushion when I groan, or tells me to hop on his cock.
Comfy."
Yes. It fits nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
All women are lazy aren't they?
Lounging around all day, relying on men"
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thoughts ?!
I ate too much earlier and now my tummy is sore. 
Want a tummy rub? 
Nooooooo, I don’t want touched!!!!
How about grammar lessons!  "
Noooooo, I don’t want them either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thoughts ?!
I ate too much earlier and now my tummy is sore.
Want a tummy rub?
Nooooooo, I don’t want touched!!!!
How about grammar lessons!
Noooooo, I don’t want them either! "
Good sport!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this."
Don't mind the OP
He likes to think he's contraversial but he's really just a wind up merchant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have all that bracing to do whilst on your knees. Need strong core skills
And a strong jaw for all the sucking.
I need to chew more gum"
Or suck more cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this.
Don't mind the OP
He likes to think he's contraversial but he's really just a wind up merchant "
Ok lol. I did bite a little tbh. He's no idea what a submissive is i dont think xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have all that bracing to do whilst on your knees. Need strong core skills
And a strong jaw for all the sucking.
I need to chew more gum
Or suck more cock "
Shush they'll hear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to be fucked rather than do the fucking. I like laying flat on my front and having my whole body stroked and tickled and massaged and then be mounted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to be fucked rather than do the fucking. I like laying flat on my front and having my whole body stroked and tickled and massaged and then be mounted. "
Ild wake you up every more like that .....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can be physically draining.
OP - ever tried it?"
Yes, used to have a domme. Wouldn’t say it was physically draining, I found it relaxing, but maybe I was a crap sub. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this.
Don't mind the OP
He likes to think he's contraversial but he's really just a wind up merchant "
*controversial |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you've confused submission with inactivity OP. If a Dom (or Dommé for that matter) instructs their submissive to do 'all the work' that kinda negates your theory "
That’s true  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this.
Don't mind the OP
He likes to think he's contraversial but he's really just a wind up merchant
Ok lol. I did bite a little tbh. He's no idea what a submissive is i dont think xx"
No, I’m clueless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
All women are lazy aren't they?
Lounging around all day, relying on men
No, just submissive ones in the bedroom. It says in the title."
I’m pretty submissive.
Most men would struggle to keep up with me though. I’m one helluva wild fuck.  |
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"Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this.
Don't mind the OP
He likes to think he's contraversial but he's really just a wind up merchant
Ok lol. I did bite a little tbh. He's no idea what a submissive is i dont think xx
No, I’m clueless "
I generally find a sub puts in the effort she thinks her Dom deserves
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I'm exploring my submissive side. I just can't be arsed to make an effort anymore  "
Jokes by the way . I'm just as active, I just have more marks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe it’s the Male that’s the issue
*sarcasm alert* Don’t be silly it could never be the Male who thinks he’s a dom but is in reality a fantasist"
So many things I want to say to this, but can’t. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
All women are lazy aren't they?
Lounging around all day, relying on men"
ooh fiesty -I like ones that talk -handy outside the house you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Submissive women are not lazy in the bedroom. There DS protocol. Its not just sex. The Dom loves tying, spanking flogging and so much more. The sub is usually tied or told to not move. Its like role play. Theres rules. If the sub tried to do anything without permission there would be punishment. You need to be a proper Dominant to understand this.
Don't mind the OP
He likes to think he's contraversial but he's really just a wind up merchant
Ok lol. I did bite a little tbh. He's no idea what a submissive is i dont think xx
No, I’m clueless
I generally find a sub puts in the effort she thinks her Dom deserves
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Being submissive doesn't always equate to being a sub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?! "
Haha my husband says the same thing! The couples we’ve met have been lovely but he says it’s made him realise I am “very active” in bed. I don’t understand just lying there. It doesn’t feel as nice either but I guess I’m just not a submissive woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To a genuine dominant man a submissive who listens and does as shes told is perfect. Otherwise shed be topping from the bottom and that's not the done thing in DS play. "
I guess this is it. I haven’t come across a genuinely dominant “respectful” man yet just a load of Sadomasochistics. It’d be nice to meet a real one I’d actually respect enough to obbey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To a genuine dominant man a submissive who listens and does as shes told is perfect. Otherwise shed be topping from the bottom and that's not the done thing in DS play.
I guess this is it. I haven’t come across a genuinely dominant “respectful” man yet just a load of Sadomasochistics. It’d be nice to meet a real one I’d actually respect enough to obbey"
That's why I've kept my long term partner in my life. I try to stay away from men calling themselves Doms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Haha my husband says the same thing! The couples we’ve met have been lovely but he says it’s made him realise I am “very active” in bed. I don’t understand just lying there. It doesn’t feel as nice either but I guess I’m just not a submissive woman. "
They might be passive, not submissive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Haha my husband says the same thing! The couples we’ve met have been lovely but he says it’s made him realise I am “very active” in bed. I don’t understand just lying there. It doesn’t feel as nice either but I guess I’m just not a submissive woman.
They might be passive, not submissive."
Thats true... probably are or abit of both. I think it’s hard having a swap with a submissive because I don’t think they let go of that role easily even with others not just there Dom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To a genuine dominant man a submissive who listens and does as shes told is perfect. Otherwise shed be topping from the bottom and that's not the done thing in DS play.
I guess this is it. I haven’t come across a genuinely dominant “respectful” man yet just a load of Sadomasochistics. It’d be nice to meet a real one I’d actually respect enough to obbey
That's why I've kept my long term partner in my life. I try to stay away from men calling themselves Doms."
I don’t blame you!! Lucky you, it seems like they are as rare as unicorns...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Haha my husband says the same thing! The couples we’ve met have been lovely but he says it’s made him realise I am “very active” in bed. I don’t understand just lying there. It doesn’t feel as nice either but I guess I’m just not a submissive woman.
They might be passive, not submissive."
Agree. That is more passive. Submission is not about just lying there  |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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If there is clutter lying about with dirty clothes and general dust and dirt in the bedroom its safe to say she has a lazy streak in her.
It could be her heart that causes it.
Its called been heart lazy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Haha my husband says the same thing! The couples we’ve met have been lovely but he says it’s made him realise I am “very active” in bed. I don’t understand just lying there. It doesn’t feel as nice either but I guess I’m just not a submissive woman.
They might be passive, not submissive.
Agree. That is more passive. Submission is not about just lying there "
I’m still quite new to the site, is passive a meaning for something? Or is it just bloody bone idle and not bothered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Haha my husband says the same thing! The couples we’ve met have been lovely but he says it’s made him realise I am “very active” in bed. I don’t understand just lying there. It doesn’t feel as nice either but I guess I’m just not a submissive woman.
They might be passive, not submissive.
Agree. That is more passive. Submission is not about just lying there
I’m still quite new to the site, is passive a meaning for something? Or is it just bloody bone idle and not bothered "
It means being led rather than leading. It doesn't mean they lay there like wet blankets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK... I've stayed away from this thread up to now but bugger it.
Most people who know me, know I enjoy Ds play. I am classed as a Submissive, however I'm far from passive. I don't top from the bottom but I am bratty and will fight to get what I want. Full submission is totally exhausting and I've found many more lazy doms than lazy submissives in my time. If my Dom requires me to cock worship him for a hour (my favourite thing) or be tied in one place with a toy strapped to me while he sits there and watches believe me I am good for nothing after that. I enjoy dressing up, I enjoy direction and roleplay Far from being a pillow princess or lazy in the bedroom  . I'm only lazy if being vanilla as it's damn right boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If there is clutter lying about with dirty clothes and general dust and dirt in the bedroom its safe to say she has a lazy streak in her.
It could be her heart that causes it.
Its called been heart lazy.
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My heart is lazy, I’ve got a pacemaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I noticed that a few people commenting on here were fervently defending their sense of humour on another thread over the weekend! Obviously some were forced to sign theirs away before they were allowed to join fab. Look up, guys, it’s clearly not serious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I noticed that a few people commenting on here were fervently defending their sense of humour on another thread over the weekend! Obviously some were forced to sign theirs away before they were allowed to join fab. Look up, guys, it’s clearly not serious."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I noticed that a few people commenting on here were fervently defending their sense of humour on another thread over the weekend! Obviously some were forced to sign theirs away before they were allowed to join fab. Look up, guys, it’s clearly not serious.
This "
Yea, yea |
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By *oley999Woman
over a year ago
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I kind of think it is a little itty bitty lazy. Not from a physical perspective but from the point of mental effort.
Must be kinda nice to do as you are told and not plan several steps in advance what you want huh? |
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?! "
I will happily admit to being a sub and even more happily admit to being lazy with it 
It's not pure laziness though. In the bedroom I just want to be used. I want the man (or woman) to do to me all the things they want to do, within reason that is . That's what turns me on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
*their
Sincere apologies eyebrows
Shameful "
What the thread bumping or the there/ their thing? |
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
*their
Sincere apologies eyebrows
Shameful
What the thread bumping or the there/ their thing? "
Well now you say that's double shameful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Why keep a dog and bark? "
So you just lie on the end of the bed and get up when it’s dinner time instead? |
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"Maybe it’s the Male that’s the issue
*sarcasm alert* Don’t be silly it could never be the Male who thinks he’s a dom but is in reality a fantasist"
I find most so called Dom males on here are pretty clueless. If you are doing this right there shouldn't be a lazy person either side of the fence ( Dom or sub).there's more to it than being tied up and lying back thinking of England .when I'm sub I'm seriously put to task .there are so many levels of bdsm .we,all start somewhere but for most it stops at the first hurdle |
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"They never pull there weight in the bedroom and expect all the work to be done for them.
Thoughts ?!
Why keep a dog and bark?
So you just lie on the end of the bed and get up when it’s dinner time instead? "
Oh no, I like the middle of the bed!! |
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In any D/s relationship the sub generally works as hard as the Dom who pushes them.
Sometimes I will allow kitten time to rest and other times she is nonstop at my call.
From tasks to training to other obligations whilst being a submissive might seem an easy life in cold reality it tends not to be. I say jump, she asks how high, irrelevant of the hour.
But it is also based on trust and respect. She trusts me not to abuse the control I have over her which she has willfully given me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was lazy last night. I laid back and let him do all the work.
Best thing I did was declare myself a sub "
I’m a part time sub, the hours are very good and I get bank holidays off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems"
But at least with the cock sucking it keeps you quiet for 5 minutes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs N is very submissive and yes does make me do all the organising. She can't be arsed with all the time wasting and crap that goes on.
She has tried to be dom and we have most definitely role played either. In one scenario we got a young guy round and she pretended to dominate us but openly admitted that she found it all a bit of a yawn and hard to think of what to do.
Complete opposite when I made her and a different guy our sex slave. She seemed to love it and threw herself into it. She loves being told what to do and for the men to use their imagination so yes in my case there is definitely a type of scenario which Mrs N prefers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems"
Your sacrifices will be rewarded in kink heaven |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems
But at least with the cock sucking it keeps you quiet for 5 minutes! "
5 minutes?! You cheeky beggar!
Only take me three and a half to tip any guy over the edge. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems
But at least with the cock sucking it keeps you quiet for 5 minutes!
5 minutes?! You cheeky beggar!
Only take me three and a half to tip any guy over the edge. "
4 minutes of that was you trying to swallow the load, sorry! |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems
Your sacrifices will be rewarded in kink heaven "
There’s eternal orgasm control up there, right? By a Tom Hardy lookalike? *looks hopeful* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems
Your sacrifices will be rewarded in kink heaven
There’s eternal orgasm control up there, right? By a Tom Hardy lookalike? *looks hopeful*"
Oh absolutely. There's probably a version of every one of his film characters too, so you get to pick your favourite torturer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was lazy last night. I laid back and let him do all the work.
Best thing I did was declare myself a sub
I’m a part time sub, the hours are very good and I get bank holidays off."
Oh yea, I'm only a sub sexually, he can do his own cooking. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Pfffft...if I was a Domme, I could just order my sub to do everything. Instead, I’ve resigned myself to a life of hard work and marathon cock sucking.
#firstworldkinkproblems
Your sacrifices will be rewarded in kink heaven
There’s eternal orgasm control up there, right? By a Tom Hardy lookalike? *looks hopeful*
Oh absolutely. There's probably a version of every one of his film characters too, so you get to pick your favourite torturer"
Ehr Maa Geeeerhrd!
There could be a book, so you could pick your Hardy Dom-of-the-Day. Hmmm...do I go for Kray Hardy or Bane Hardy today...
Shit. Honey, if you read this, kink heaven obviously has you in there too. You and Hardy are totally a tag team. |
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D/s is all about power exchange. Which is all about the mind, proticols and boundries. It's not about physicol acts. How can I sub be lazy, if it's mind games?
That's like saying the " chasers" on the chase are lazy, as they just sit answering questions. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"D/s is all about power exchange. Which is all about the mind, proticols and boundries. It's not about physicol acts. How can I sub be lazy, if it's mind games?
That's like saying the " chasers" on the chase are lazy, as they just sit answering questions. "
I think that’s a good analogy. In some ways the contestants on the chase are lazy. They don’t have to make any decisions or think up any questions. They just do what they are told. And answer questions if they can. But the aren’t required to take any initiative. |
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Some Ds is about power exchange
Some subs are lazy
Some doms are lazy
Some sadists are hot
You burn a fair amount of calories taking a good kicking/whipping you know
Most the subs I know are neither lazy or passive in all honesty |
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