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What the outside world think of us
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First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?
So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .
What do you think they think of us ?
Do you care ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I’m aware of that and actually did browse for about a week or so before deciding to rejoin!
What do they think of us? I have no idea - a mixed bag I guess! Some people might think there’s NO WAY I want any part of that, others might think ‘hell yeah, can’t wait to join in!’
Do I care? Not really. Unless it’s a hot local lady that doesn’t join up because of what they see. But then I’ll never know so can’t really mourn the loss!  |
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So I’ll start .
They must think that swinging involves a lot of chocolate and cake .
That swingers spend an awful lot of time socialising , and that there’s no expectation of doing anything sexual in a swinging club . If you do happen to touch someone in a club , the chances are that you’ll get a smack in the mouth .
Far from being a liberated and non judgemental lifestyle , it’s quite the opposite .
Swingers really don’t have more sex than the average person . If you look at threads like what’s the longest you’ve been without sex , you’ll see what I mean .
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"Yes I’m aware of that and actually did browse for about a week or so before deciding to rejoin!
What do they think of us? I have no idea - a mixed bag I guess! Some people might think there’s NO WAY I want any part of that, others might think ‘hell yeah, can’t wait to join in!’
Do I care? Not really. Unless it’s a hot local lady that doesn’t join up because of what they see. But then I’ll never know so can’t really mourn the loss! "
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"My philosophy is it's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am, and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier."
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"My philosophy is it's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am, and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier."
- Anthony Hopkins"
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Perhaps they'll realise that swinging people are just people. Not all are obsessed about sex 24/7.
I often read the forums without being logged on. It's easier that way. |
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"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?
So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .
What do you think they think of us ?
Do you care ?
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A great many probably think it’s immoral and disgusting, some will be intrigued and curious and a few will leap gleefully in. |
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"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?
So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .
What do you think they think of us ?
Do you care ?
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In terms of these forums, they don't get a very good representation of swingers. Reason #1 would be that most the people on this forum are not not swingers. I'm very glad i experienced clubs before joining the forums because fab would have jaded by enthusiasm for the sport. The average swinger, compared to the average forumite, is more conservative, in a stable and happy marriage, has a strong stance against cheating and feels perfectly justified to look down on people that aren't. Read it and weep snowflakes. |
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"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?
So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .
What do you think they think of us ?
Do you care ?
A great many probably think it’s immoral and disgusting, some will be intrigued and curious and a few will leap gleefully in. "
To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles. Its ok, the feeling is mutual when I look at serial monogamists. |
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"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?
So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .
What do you think they think of us ?
Do you care ?
In terms of these forums, they don't get a very good representation of swingers. Reason #1 would be that most the people on this forum are not not swingers. I'm very glad i experienced clubs before joining the forums because fab would have jaded by enthusiasm for the sport. The average swinger, compared to the average forumite, is more conservative, in a stable and happy marriage, has a strong stance against cheating and feels perfectly justified to look down on people that aren't. Read it and weep snowflakes."
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Peaple I've spoken to still think it's like putting your keys in a bowl ect theyv been quite shocked to find out about the club's ect and also intreaged they have thought it was just sex and no social side that's what I've found and as for what peaple think who cares as long as peaple have a good time no one gets hurt ect it's no one's buisnes |
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To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.
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Very much this.
Well we did our best   "
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To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.
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Very much this.
Well we did our best
There's more to sex than leaving the light on. "
Well blow me down , really ?
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To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.
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Very much this.
Well we did our best
There's more to sex than leaving the light on. "
You leave the light on!? |
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To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.
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Very much this.
Well we did our best
There's more to sex than leaving the light on.
You leave the light on!? "
Many people are surprised to learn there are more than 4 sexual positions. |
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To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.
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Very much this.
Well we did our best
There's more to sex than leaving the light on.
You leave the light on!? "
No way. It makes it hard to picture someone else. |
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To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.
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Very much this.
Well we did our best
There's more to sex than leaving the light on.
You leave the light on!?
No way. It makes it hard to picture someone else. "
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