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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't know what you're doing to be able to tell you what's wrong 
As you say though, competition is high here, single guys find it tough. Especially since in real life your personality comes across much more in an initial greeting plus most people wouldn't dream of ignoring someone face to face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last 12 months I've kissed more women off fab than members of fab x
Its hard work on here lol
Too much competition haha
What am I doing wrong  "
I think it's first line of your profile write up " I'm not looking for a relationship " oh and two cock pics they write you off straight away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t talk about you, OP, as I have no idea how you interact with people on here versus real life. But in general men do better in real life for a number of reasons, such as in real life our first approach to a lady isn’t waving our cock in their face saying ‘WUU2?’ or ‘I want to destroy you, fancy a fuck?’.
Also when you meet a woman in a bar it tends to be just you and her chatting. It’s not a case of you and 250 other blokes all at once approaching the same lass so she can pick and choose who she likes the best..
So it’s a totally different market place on Fab.
The key thing is to remember the ladies on here are just perfectly normal people, like you and me (with one or two exceptions, maybe  ) so if you approach them and speak to them like you would in real life, they will respond appropriately!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the sentences in your long profile start with I ...
Yup
Me, myself and I.but isn't that the essence of fab? "
What?
Coming across as self absorbed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the sentences in your long profile start with I ...
Yup
Me, myself and I.but isn't that the essence of fab?
What?
Coming across as self absorbed?"
the best boobs thread eg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t talk about you, OP, as I have no idea how you interact with people on here versus real life. But in general men do better in real life for a number of reasons, such as in real life our first approach to a lady isn’t waving our cock in their face saying ‘WUU2?’ or ‘I want to destroy you, fancy a fuck?’.
Also when you meet a woman in a bar it tends to be just you and her chatting. It’s not a case of you and 250 other blokes all at once approaching the same lass so she can pick and choose who she likes the best..
So it’s a totally different market place on Fab.
The key thing is to remember the ladies on here are just perfectly normal people, like you and me (with one or two exceptions, maybe ) so if you approach them and speak to them like you would in real life, they will respond appropriately! "
What are these 'normal' folk you speak of Dan?... |
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This year I've met 2 people from fab that I've come into contact with through the site alone. Others I've met from here I've met at clubs or parties, but first contact has been at the location I met them.
Get out and about!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can’t talk about you, OP, as I have no idea how you interact with people on here versus real life. But in general men do better in real life for a number of reasons, such as in real life our first approach to a lady isn’t waving our cock in their face saying ‘WUU2?’ or ‘I want to destroy you, fancy a fuck?’.
Also when you meet a woman in a bar it tends to be just you and her chatting. It’s not a case of you and 250 other blokes all at once approaching the same lass so she can pick and choose who she likes the best..
So it’s a totally different market place on Fab.
The key thing is to remember the ladies on here are just perfectly normal people, like you and me (with one or two exceptions, maybe ) so if you approach them and speak to them like you would in real life, they will respond appropriately!
What are these 'normal' folk you speak of Dan?... "
Shhh G3orgie, it’s a special technique to entrap the ladies, let them *think* that they’re normal! But we’ll keep it as our secret ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last 12 months I've kissed more women off fab than members of fab x
Its hard work on here lol
Too much competition haha
What am I doing wrong "
It’s a online cafe where people don’t meet just chat with the odd biscuit and cup of latte |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What are these 'normal' folk you speak of Dan?...
Shhh G3orgie, it’s a special technique to entrap the ladies, let them *think* that they’re normal! But we’ll keep it as our secret ... "
Ahhhhh gotcha! You really are as cunning as a fox who's just been appointed Professor of Cunning at Oxford University! My lips are sealed Dan!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do u word your messages ,do you actually show you read their profiles ,maybe your pics need work ,who knows fab is a strange place at times op"
Absolutley. Most definitely take note of what ladies say on their profiles. That is very much appreciated when a fella shows that he has understood what they are or are not looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're profile is quite problematic
Both your pics have dicks in them and your profile pic shows you hanging out the back of someone... "
Women love that in a profile though don't they? Kinda like a sneak preview if you will? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're profile is quite problematic
Both your pics have dicks in them and your profile pic shows you hanging out the back of someone...
Women love that in a profile though don't they? Kinda like a sneak preview if you will?
C"
Yeah
It gives us an idea of what the sex will be like |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Since joining fab i've met more sexy, amazing women the past year than I ever did as a bachelor in my 20's.
Too much competition? I disagree. It all comes down to how you present yourself, come across and how much time and effort you put into your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since joining fab i've met more sexy, amazing women the past year than I ever did as a bachelor in my 20's.
Too much competition? I disagree. It all comes down to how you present yourself, come across and how much time and effort you put into your profile."
This damn fine fabber is pretty much spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since joining fab i've met more sexy, amazing women the past year than I ever did as a bachelor in my 20's.
Too much competition? I disagree. It all comes down to how you present yourself, come across and how much time and effort you put into your profile."
i know exactly what you mean man the comp thing is a cop out for whiners |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since joining fab i've met more sexy, amazing women the past year than I ever did as a bachelor in my 20's.
Too much competition? I disagree. It all comes down to how you present yourself, come across and how much time and effort you put into your profile."
This.....totally!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 veris OP - I cant get even the remotest sniff of interest from the ladies here. Mind you, I've accepted this and so I hardly even bother trying anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see things from both sides as me and my wife swing we have a couples profile and we both have a singles profile. Our personal opinion is on our couples probably 2 or 3 out 5 messages haven’t read our profile my wife’s single females profile if she gets 20 message she’s lucky if 1 of them have read her profile Then it’s the abuse you get if you don’t respond or say no thank you. So as a couple or her on her profile it makes it feel like a chor going through the messages. But then I read profiles and have sent proper messages out don’t have cock pics on my profile and get no response. But then we’re more active with clubs and social events and looking at most people on here there meets are from clubs or socials. If you think that your going to get a meet every week off here alone then your mistaken. Put effort in with a decent profile and get out to socials and clubs. Females and couples can have silly amount of messages a day from guys so it’s always going to be a loosing battle |
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"You're profile is quite problematic
Both your pics have dicks in them and your profile pic shows you hanging out the back of someone...
Women love that in a profile though don't they? Kinda like a sneak preview if you will?
C
Yeah
It gives us an idea of what the sex will be like"
Well I read the profile, because of this thread.
But under normal circumstances I'd have stopped at the profile pic
I like a bit of mystery, not slapped in my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last 12 months I've kissed more women off fab than members of fab x
Its hard work on here lol
Too much competition haha
What am I doing wrong "
If you do better in person why come here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get fed up with seeing statuses saying -‘I get more luck on tinder’ or ‘are there any real women on here’. Not sure why they stay to be fair! Us women have the pic of fab and want messages to grab our attention immediately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get fed up with seeing statuses saying -‘I get more luck on tinder’ or ‘are there any real women on here’. Not sure why they stay to be fair! Us women have the pic of fab and want messages to grab our attention immediately "
exactly mine says that
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"Too much competition? I disagree. It all comes down to how you present yourself, come across and how much time and effort you put into your profile."
This is spot on. I have never been to a social or a club just to try and meet, I have been to clubs with people I have met through a 1-2-1. I can go months without meeting because I choose to, but if I am want to be active on here, putting a bit of effort in, understanding what people want, or more importantly, what they dont want, and making sure I am compatible with that, usually results in meets.
Also, understand that its a two way thing, come across as selfish and its only your satisfaction that you aiming to fulfil and you wont get very far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last 12 months I've kissed more women off fab than members of fab x
Its hard work on here lol
Too much competition haha
What am I doing wrong "
Well personally I don’t see anything wrong with your profile... pictures agreeing with some it’s like a sneak peak sorry it doesn’t help but it’s another side to opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're profile is quite problematic
Both your pics have dicks in them and your profile pic shows you hanging out the back of someone...
Women love that in a profile though don't they? Kinda like a sneak preview if you will?
C
Yeah
It gives us an idea of what the sex will be like
Well I read the profile, because of this thread.
But under normal circumstances I'd have stopped at the profile pic
I like a bit of mystery, not slapped in my face"
I was joking.
I have no idea why men think pics of them fucking other women, will attract us.
I think its a bizarre thing to do.
Men are from from anus, and women are from Luton.
Or some shit like that |
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"You're profile is quite problematic
Both your pics have dicks in them and your profile pic shows you hanging out the back of someone...
Women love that in a profile though don't they? Kinda like a sneak preview if you will?
C
Yeah
It gives us an idea of what the sex will be like
Well I read the profile, because of this thread.
But under normal circumstances I'd have stopped at the profile pic
I like a bit of mystery, not slapped in my face
I was joking.
I have no idea why men think pics of them fucking other women, will attract us.
I think its a bizarre thing to do.
Men are from from anus, and women are from Luton.
Or some shit like that"
Ah I knew you were joking my lovely x
And I have no idea either....
Yes, we're all having sex.
Yes, I'd happily watch in a club.
I just don't enjoy seeing photos of it on a profile, well a singles profile.
Even more ironic when the word, discretion is used in the bio! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last 12 months I've kissed more women off fab than members of fab x
Its hard work on here lol
Too much competition haha
What am I doing wrong "
Oh dear, I think the OP is either butt-hurt by the comments or has something to hide- namely his profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Disparaging remarks about having pictures of playing with another (that are not breaking Fab rules) aren't really helpful to the OP. Many on and more so away from the forum (both single men AND woman) display them and it does not effect their chances of meeting... unless the OP is specifically wanting to meet up with those on the forum that don't like those kinda pics. In which case, it's probably too late now! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"You're profile is quite problematic
Both your pics have dicks in them and your profile pic shows you hanging out the back of someone...
Women love that in a profile though don't they? Kinda like a sneak preview if you will?
C
Yeah
It gives us an idea of what the sex will be like
Well I read the profile, because of this thread.
But under normal circumstances I'd have stopped at the profile pic
I like a bit of mystery, not slapped in my face
I was joking.
I have no idea why men think pics of them fucking other women, will attract us.
I think its a bizarre thing to do.
Men are from from anus, and women are from Luton.
Or some shit like that"
They're proud and showing that they can meet women an be allowed to fuck them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've met 3 different women this year. Some men would think that was a great success."
3 in a year ruby is a bit of disappointment....in a month isn’t too bad |
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