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Just to say I totally get why people moan about receiving messages with no effort. Especially woman who get 100's every day.
Got a message today from a female with the following:
Hello
Yip that was it  |
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over a year ago
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"Just to say I totally get why people moan about receiving messages with no effort. Especially woman who get 100's every day.
Got a message today from a female with the following:
Hello
Yip that was it "
Women don't get 100's every day..
They just arent that into you |
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"Just to say I totally get why people moan about receiving messages with no effort. Especially woman who get 100's every day.
Got a message today from a female with the following:
Hello
Yip that was it
Women don't get 100's every day..
They just arent that into you "
Lol nobody has rejected me by using that line. Just simply going with the ratio of males to females on here. And actually saying I feel for them if lots of guys do this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think messages should include something that shows you have read the profile...or make a comment on the profile update"
Bingo! Sounds so simple when you say it like that doesn't it ha?! Otherwise you're only messaging because the profile says female and I'm not sure that does it for most girls! |
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"I must fail at being a woman, because I’ve had three today  
But yes OP. They’re annoying "
Really wow that surprises me maybe I've got the wrong impression. You are good looking and active on the forums thought you would get bombarded.
Maybe I should just be pleased I received a message haha. But the sheer lack of effort....
All you have to say is nice profile or I like this pic or something other than hello |
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A simple, 'hello how are you?' message works for me. The annoying ones are when you get a whole fucking essay which goes into detail about every which way they want to have you, and it's so explicit it's completely what they want without even thinking about what you want as well so there's hardly even room to reply so you're the one who ends up looking like a boring bastard!
Sorry for the essay! |
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"Maybe she thought it's better than a wink..
Get slated for them 2"
Maybe but isn't that the point of a wink though? Quick wink says you like the look of something. Then leave it up to them. If they wink back or message then may lead somewhere.
Hello. doesn't even spark a conversation.
I don't think I'm being harsh |
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I think in general women are getting less messages than say a few years ago if friends have anything to say about the subject. Not sure the reason but there may a few factors.
1. The number of posts this year in particular about the subject.
2. Guys are messaging more selectively contrary to popular belief.
3. Maybe the ladies that have been on longer have learnt to use the filters better and it's only the newer ladies who get hundreds.
4. More guys are blocking those who don't reply and therfore are saying not interested.
5. Maybe guys are getting tired of of little response.
Might be more but it's definitely a trend atm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A simple, 'hello how are you?' message works for me. The annoying ones are when you get a whole fucking essay which goes into detail about every which way they want to have you, and it's so explicit it's completely what they want without even thinking about what you want as well so there's hardly even room to reply so you're the one who ends up looking like a boring bastard!
Sorry for the essay! "
If you don't manage a meet out of her then you're really fucked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think in general women are getting less messages than say a few years ago if friends have anything to say about the subject. Not sure the reason but there may a few factors.
1. The number of posts this year in particular about the subject.
2. Guys are messaging more selectively contrary to popular belief.
3. Maybe the ladies that have been on longer have learnt to use the filters better and it's only the newer ladies who get hundreds.
4. More guys are blocking those who don't reply and therfore are saying not interested.
5. Maybe guys are getting tired of of little response.
Might be more but it's definitely a trend atm."
I don't said messaged anymore.
I wait to be contacted |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
It will be the same result wheather its 2 words, 2 sentences or 2 paragraphs.
Ignored and deleated.
Like when the fuck has anyone ever said they made contact with someone because of a long message.
Get a fukin life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It will be the same result wheather its 2 words, 2 sentences or 2 paragraphs.
Ignored and deleated.
Like when the fuck has anyone ever said they made contact with someone because of a long message.
Get a fukin life!"
Just to be contrary, I got the longest message I’ve ever had recently and we will be meeting on Tuesday |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"It will be the same result wheather its 2 words, 2 sentences or 2 paragraphs.
Ignored and deleated.
Like when the fuck has anyone ever said they made contact with someone because of a long message.
Get a fukin life!
Just to be contrary, I got the longest message I’ve ever had recently and we will be meeting on Tuesday "
What was the message?
"Can we meet on Tuesday" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It will be the same result wheather its 2 words, 2 sentences or 2 paragraphs.
Ignored and deleated.
Like when the fuck has anyone ever said they made contact with someone because of a long message.
Get a fukin life!
Just to be contrary, I got the longest message I’ve ever had recently and we will be meeting on Tuesday
What was the message?
"Can we meet on Tuesday""
It’d be pretty sad if that was the longest message I’d ever had now, wouldn’t it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to say I totally get why people moan about receiving messages with no effort. Especially woman who get 100's every day.
Got a message today from a female with the following:
Hello
Yip that was it "
I hope you deleted and blocked a no thanks might get you a load of abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think in general women are getting less messages than say a few years ago if friends have anything to say about the subject. Not sure the reason but there may a few factors.
2. Guys are messaging more selectively contrary to popular belief.
5. Maybe guys are getting tired of of little response.
Might be more but it's definitely a trend atm."
5 definitely, I messaged a couple of people local to me and to where I work, the messages were polite, showed that I'd read their profile and that I liked their photos.
And, nothing, one of them even blocked me immediately yet I'd done or said nothing wrong.
Which leads to 2, I've not sent a message since - I do keep editing my profile when I think of things I've got to say for myself.
Then there's the photos, a lot of f/cpl profiles say no cock shots, other f/cpl profiles leave absolutely nothing to the imagination - so you're in the wrong 50% of the time anyway.
It's a jungle out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It will be the same result wheather its 2 words, 2 sentences or 2 paragraphs.
Ignored and deleated.
Like when the fuck has anyone ever said they made contact with someone because of a long message.
Get a fukin life!"
I have responded to an opening message that was just "baaaa". I thought it was amusing and we ended up meeting several times. If a message is too long I tend not to bother reading them. If someone has that much to say in a first message then they probably like the sound of their own voice too much |
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I wrote a message once to complain about this ladies man bashing profile which (like a lot of female profiles) had nothing but a list of her demands and what you need to do to get blocked. I titled my message ‘I don’t like your profile’.
Where as normaly it would take a few days (if at all) for an answer, this took under 4 mins for a reply. |
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