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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male? |
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
I don't get many messages, but I delete more than I reply to.
All of the single males I'm regularly talking to at the moment I messaged first (and they are from the forums). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By your own admission OP, you say you’ve sent lots of messages. So by definition are you simply adding to that volume of over eager males?
When I first joined Fab a few years ago I did the same - sent lots and lots of rather generic messages and got absolutely nowhere at all.
Now I hardly send any messages to anyone new at all. But when I do it’s to someone I really like the look of and I try to do it properly, fully read the profiles, and make sure that I at least appear to meet their requirements before sending off.
Alternatively, be very vocal and active on the forums and hopefully conversations will start to flow from that!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I say “lots” it’s more like a couple a week if that and I never send multiple messages to the same person if I haven’t had a response. When I say “lots” it more to do with the time frame i’ve been on here and not had many responses lol.
And as far as going to a club, i’d Definitely be up for that, but i’d Like to get to know someone on here and go together. I’d feel very much out of my depth braving it on my own for the first time haha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
Nope no point.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I say “lots” it’s more like a couple a week if that and I never send multiple messages to the same person if I haven’t had a response. When I say “lots” it more to do with the time frame i’ve been on here and not had many responses lol.
And as far as going to a club, i’d Definitely be up for that, but i’d Like to get to know someone on here and go together. I’d feel very much out of my depth braving it on my own for the first time haha.
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Man up and get yourself to a club or a Fab social event. Get yourself known on the scene. It's really difficult if you rely solely on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By your own admission OP, you say you’ve sent lots of messages. So by definition are you simply adding to that volume of over eager males?
When I first joined Fab a few years ago I did the same - sent lots and lots of rather generic messages and got absolutely nowhere at all.
Now I hardly send any messages to anyone new at all. But when I do it’s to someone I really like the look of and I try to do it properly, fully read the profiles, and make sure that I at least appear to meet their requirements before sending off.
Alternatively, be very vocal and active on the forums and hopefully conversations will start to flow from that! "
this, he knows, read and repeat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys "
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women "
Is that a fact? Wouldn’t surprise me though   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How can you describe sending a couple of messages a week as lots ?"
It has amounted to a fair few attempts at conversation since i’ve been on here haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women
Is that a fact? Wouldn’t surprise me though "
Statistics are always true. 
People have done experiments before. Search for men within 100 miles, search for women within 100 miles etc. Compare numbers.
Some areas are very cock heavy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
Depends on why he's on here. If he's looking for easy sex then no.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
so youre not an over eager male? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes there’s loads of men but from what I see there are plenty of women too.
Toy need to make yourself stand out, you’re possibly doing that in your messages but if not then maybe thats why.
And as Dotty says, maybe get some more pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there’s loads of men but from what I see there are plenty of women too.
Toy need to make yourself stand out, you’re possibly doing that in your messages but if not then maybe thats why.
And as Dotty says, maybe get some more pics"
Naked ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there’s loads of men but from what I see there are plenty of women too.
Toy need to make yourself stand out, you’re possibly doing that in your messages but if not then maybe thats why.
And as Dotty says, maybe get some more pics
Naked ones "
perv |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there’s loads of men but from what I see there are plenty of women too.
Toy need to make yourself stand out, you’re possibly doing that in your messages but if not then maybe thats why.
And as Dotty says, maybe get some more pics
Naked ones perv "
Look at his arms! I just wanna see if the rest matches  |
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By * n C NWCouple
over a year ago
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When I started of as a single man on her it was quite tough.
However message ladies with intent of making them laugh n be respectful. They will soon you out from the sharks.
Some of the messages that lady friends tell me about begger belief .
2nd the organised socials. Great way for single guys to interact.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By your own admission OP, you say you’ve sent lots of messages. So by definition are you simply adding to that volume of over eager males?
When I first joined Fab a few years ago I did the same - sent lots and lots of rather generic messages and got absolutely nowhere at all.
Now I hardly send any messages to anyone new at all. But when I do it’s to someone I really like the look of and I try to do it properly, fully read the profiles, and make sure that I at least appear to meet their requirements before sending off.
Alternatively, be very vocal and active on the forums and hopefully conversations will start to flow from that! "
third paragraph is the best way to get a response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a single male. Most people I meet is from club scene that I keep in contact on here.....
There is on or two I would like to meet in person  "
Nice tits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
Urm er fuck yes there is its like chrismas for my cock so many presents to unwrap |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Things can take time on here. Make your profile the best it can be and perhaps join in on the forums. Don’t forget there is a whole world of Fab outside the forums though.
Be true to yourself and have fun then there’s a point in being here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all seriousness though, you've got a good height, circumference of your penis looks nice and chunky, good colouring on him, muscular forearms which suggests the quads would be good as well.
I'd just put more pictures up. I like a close up, cheeks spread bum hole picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there’s loads of men but from what I see there are plenty of women too.
Toy need to make yourself stand out, you’re possibly doing that in your messages but if not then maybe thats why.
And as Dotty says, maybe get some more pics
Naked ones perv
Look at his arms! I just wanna see if the rest matches "
see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women
Is that a fact? Wouldn’t surprise me though "
Deffo not 'single guy's' from our experience they are all just on here for a thrill! Talk the talk but don't walk the walk! That's probs why actual single men don't get replies on here. F x |
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women "
My math is like this early in the mornings as well. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Most ladies and couples will take a look at your profile before deciding whether to even open a message (let alone reply to it) OP - so first thing to do is take a look at yours and ask yourself is it the best it can possibly be? Does it make you stand out from the crowd and entice people to want to know more? Does it have a good selection of pics that show off more than your cock? Does it show some personality and read differently from all the other generic single guy profiles?
If the answer to any of the above is no - then that's where you need to make changes first - your profile is your shop window - if you dress it poorly then people won't want to come into your shop, let alone buy things.
As others have said getting along to group socials or clubs (which by the way are nothing like Eyes Wide Shut or wall to wall orgy as soon as you walk through the door) or getting more involved in the forums are all great ways to get to know people and get yourself known.
Ultimately Fab is what you make it - make it a chore and hard work and it will be - put the best possible side of you forward with no expectations and it can be very fulfilling and it's down to you and you alone which you make it |
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"What are the clubs like anyway? Would I expect to see a seen from the Movie “Eye’s wide shut” or is it more tame? Haha"
Not at all like eyes wide shut..
The woman are very much in charge there are no Hollywood movie that come closes..
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women
My math is like this early in the mornings as well."
Need to add 10% fake
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I feel that this thread is a direct attack on the real do not pass by genuine men on here and I would like to personally say that it’s not true. Men are men. They are proper good outstanding men with big big big cocks and wonderfully shinny hair and fantastic smiles. So please give them a chance it’s difficult enough for them without the haters |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
No they aren't all saturated with messages at all my thread the other day proved that. The lack of
Verifications won't help OP. So attending a club or social could really help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op hang in there its a marathon not a sprint , you wont be for everyone but you will click . Just be yourself ,polite and message people you feel theres common interests etc .
Be brave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is every point!
I’m sure it’s hard for straight males on here, going by all the posts I see. But just stick it out, there’s always someone for everyone, and eventually you’ll find get some success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
I agree we need more of your type, the type that keeps his top on and never talks sex on a swingers site and who's not afraid to ask why women aren't replying to his well thought out polite messages |
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There is a point but you have to manage your expectations. You're not going to get sex seven days a week on here. But if you give it time, you will eventually click with someone.
The upside to clicking with someone on here is usually they are open minded and know how to, or want to, have a very good time.
Until then, just chill, enjoy the forum and don't be so focused or sit there sending out message after message.
That's how I use the site anyway, just go with flow and only message those that really catch your eye. |
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There are single males that stand out on here and if you are one of those then I would think there is a lot of point being on here. There are others who think it will just come to them and believe they don't have to do much to get people to meet them and for them well they are the ones who complain on here nobody is interested. It all depends on what sort of single male you are and how much effort you are going to put in to say if its worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are the clubs like anyway? Would I expect to see a seen from the Movie “Eye’s wide shut” or is it more tame? Haha
Not at all like eyes wide shut..
The woman are very much in charge there are no Hollywood movie that come closes..
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Haha very true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are single males that stand out on here and if you are one of those then I would think there is a lot of point being on here. There are others who think it will just come to them and believe they don't have to do much to get people to meet them and for them well they are the ones who complain on here nobody is interested. It all depends on what sort of single male you are and how much effort you are going to put in to say if its worth it. "
I'm a content single male, I can be eager, I can be spontaneous, I can be a plan but I don't think I can be categorised
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"There are single males that stand out on here and if you are one of those then I would think there is a lot of point being on here. There are others who think it will just come to them and believe they don't have to do much to get people to meet them and for them well they are the ones who complain on here nobody is interested. It all depends on what sort of single male you are and how much effort you are going to put in to say if its worth it. I'm a content single male, I can be eager, I can be spontaneous, I can be a plan but I don't think I can be categorised "
Everyone can be categorised though you di it to yourself putting you in the single male category. Its human nature to people in groups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all seriousness though, you've got a good height, circumference of your penis looks nice and chunky, good colouring on him, muscular forearms which suggests the quads would be good as well.
I'd just put more pictures up. I like a close up, cheeks spread bum hole picture. "
It’s like f*cking crufts lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each message i get i look to see if theres a paper clip attatched, if not I delete. If there is a face pic and i like it i look at the profile..if there's no interesting photos or a good write up I say no thankyou and move on. One cock pic is good, so many have 20 plus photos of it. Its a huge turnoff.
Your profile didn't show hardly anything about u sorry OP |
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
You just have to be better than them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve noticed most activity on here being from males. I have had very little conversation from any females, I have sent a lot of messages, trying to strike up some sort of conversation.
I get the impression that most straight female’s inboxes are saturated my messages from overly eager males?
Is there any point in being on Fab as a straight single male?"
No point what so ever mate, we’re all wasting our time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there’s loads of men but from what I see there are plenty of women too.
Toy need to make yourself stand out, you’re possibly doing that in your messages but if not then maybe thats why.
And as Dotty says, maybe get some more pics
Naked ones perv
Look at his arms! I just wanna see if the rest matches "
I agree more topless and teasing pictures please. |
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women "
Those numbers don't add up how can it be more than 100 percent or Are u joking |
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"In all seriousness though, you've got a good height, circumference of your penis looks nice and chunky, good colouring on him, muscular forearms which suggests the quads would be good as well.
I'd just put more pictures up. I like a close up, cheeks spread bum hole picture. "
Annie. I flipping love reading you  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"What are the clubs like anyway? Would I expect to see a seen from the Movie “Eye’s wide shut” or is it more tame? Haha"
I'm not a fan. They can be ok, but usually contain d*unk women I don't want to have sex with who then pester me for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women
Those numbers don't add up how can it be more than 100 percent or Are u joking "
No I never joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are single males that stand out on here and if you are one of those then I would think there is a lot of point being on here. There are others who think it will just come to them and believe they don't have to do much to get people to meet them and for them well they are the ones who complain on here nobody is interested. It all depends on what sort of single male you are and how much effort you are going to put in to say if its worth it. I'm a content single male, I can be eager, I can be spontaneous, I can be a plan but I don't think I can be categorised
Everyone can be categorised though you di it to yourself putting you in the single male category. Its human nature to people in groups. "
I decategorise see sorted |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women
Those numbers don't add up how can it be more than 100 percent or Are u joking
No I never joke. "
The numbers so add up because of the number of single guys with additional profiles pretending to be women (information sourced from the forums so must be accurate) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do wonder the actual ratio of single guys to females, couples, tv/ts. At a guess it’s mostly single guys
97% single guys 3% tvs 1% couples 4% single women
Those numbers don't add up how can it be more than 100 percent or Are u joking
No I never joke.
The numbers so add up because of the number of single guys with additional profiles pretending to be women (information sourced from the forums so must be accurate) "
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