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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gossip. A titillating bit of fun to see you through the day? Or a claustrophobic fucking nightmare you try your best to avoid?
Would you meet/date a gossip? Or would you avoid them like the plague?
I can't stand gossip. So it's avoid avoid all the way for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nothing better than gossip. Did she, no he didn't, did he, oh my goodness she did, no I don't believe it, is it true, I swear on my grandmothers grave she said that, oh my god I'm telling my .......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing better than gossip. Did she, no he didn't, did he, oh my goodness she did, no I don't believe it, is it true, I swear on my grandmothers grave she said that, oh my god I'm telling my .........."
That's the stuff you let go in one ear and out of the other.
Gossip is stuff that isn't quite true and has been embellished. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s gossip and then there’s gossip!
Some is very negative / destructive. Lighter hearted stuff eg “ooh I liked that dress that so and so was wearing” can bond and build relationships. It’s all about the right balance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Define a gossip...
If you have never ever spoken about another person to another person, then shine your halo. I tend to be a little suspicious of anyone that suggests they don’t ever, ever, ever gossip. Remember, what you deem “just having a conversation about”, might feel very much like gossip to someone else or the subject of the conversation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing better than gossip. Did she, no he didn't, did he, oh my goodness she did, no I don't believe it, is it true, I swear on my grandmothers grave she said that, oh my god I'm telling my ..........
That's the stuff you let go in one ear and out of the other.
Gossip is stuff that isn't quite true and has been embellished. "
Yep. We spend ages gossiping at work... most of which we know we're making up on the spot so no one takes any of it seriously.
That's the fun kinda gossip. Bitchy gossip I don't have an interest in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cor! You lot of gossips haha  I think the women who chat to me in private are sometimes disappointed about quite how disinterested in gossip I am. I pride myself on being a good secret keeper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Harmless gossip, yes. Dangerous gossip, never. I tend to get told it though. I'm pretty clueless to what goes on in others lives and even then, gossip is not always based on fact. I take it all with a pinch of salt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only have one real friend so we know just the same as everyone's else. I'm on Facebook though so I tend to rely to her any interesting gossip.
At work I'm showing that I don't get involved with gossip, neither do I offer up much information about myself but that's purely because I'm trying to show a colleague that if I fucked his brains out it would stay secret! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't mind gossip in general. I tend to take it with a pinch of salt though. If you didn't see it with your own eyes and hear it with your own ears then don't pass it on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if someone blabs about fb's or meets on places like this forum i avoid them.
because you will be the next one slagged off if you go there.
they aint happy for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gossip. A titillating bit of fun to see you through the day? Or a claustrophobic fucking nightmare you try your best to avoid?
Would you meet/date a gossip? Or would you avoid them like the plague?
I can't stand gossip. So it's avoid avoid all the way for me "
Not if they were better at it than me no. |
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