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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On sites like this do you accept compliments for what they are or do you think they always come with a hidden agenda?
Does it depend on who is giving the compliment?
Do you react differently to real life compliments? |
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If I think a compliment is genuine I smile and say "thank you". If I genuinely feel I can compliment the person in return I do.
If I don't think the compliment is genuine I do as above but don't return the compliment. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"On sites like this do you accept compliments for what they are or do you think they always come with a hidden agenda?
Does it depend on who is giving the compliment?
Do you react differently to real life compliments?"
If your a man on here yeah that is sincere. If given by a man take with a pinch of salt. |
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"It doesn’t come naturally but I’ve learned to get better at it. If someone says something nice, accepting it does you good and of course it’s nicer for the person giving the compliment too  "
Very eloquently put! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m terrible at accepting compliments in person and in here. I try and say thank you but inwardly I feel awkward, it’s my problem I know and I’m trying to get over it x |
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That depends who it is, i dont take things people say too seriously especialy strangers on the internet, i usually say thanks though as its polite to. If i get a compliment from someone i meet thats a bit different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question.
Sometimes I think what do you want.
And other times that was nice. Very difficult to feel anything unless you know the person of course.
You can tell by way something is written if it's for real as it's usually well thought out.
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"What if you're given a compliment. Do you feel obliged to give one back,because you've been given one?. So a fake compliment. I'm sure many do it. "
No you dont have to if its someone you meet, i met someone who said i was pretty, i didnt compliment him though, i did enjoy having sex with him most of the time though. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"I’m terrible at accepting compliments in person and in here. I try and say thank you but inwardly I feel awkward, it’s my problem I know and I’m trying to get over it x "
I’m the same. I feel like if I say ‘thank you’ it’s like I agree with them and I usually don’t agree with them at all. I’m fairly self deprecating so my go to response is a put down (about myself) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Compliments on Fab are not real tbh, guys will tell you anything just to get what they want. They say the same things to every woman lol regardless of her looks, and without even seeing her face !!
Real life compliments are more honest in my opinion. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"Compliments on Fab are not real tbh, guys will tell you anything just to get what they want. They say the same things to every woman lol regardless of her looks, and without even seeing her face !!
Real life compliments are more honest in my opinion. "
As a friend of mine would say -ya think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I compliment in life as I do here so for me it's a natural thing, if some women are over complimented and so therefore take them with a pinch of salt I can't odds that, I can only do what comes naturally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compliments on Fab are not real tbh, guys will tell you anything just to get what they want. They say the same things to every woman lol regardless of her looks, and without even seeing her face !!
Real life compliments are more honest in my opinion. "
I dont totally dissagree about fab ones but thrre are many girls too far away to meet what does a guy gain in lying to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends who says it and what they say.
I think most people genuinely mean it when they comment on pics, the fact they've done the same to other ladies is irrelevant. Some can go a bit overboard though and seem insincere. |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
Germany / Manchester |
"On sites like this do you accept compliments for what they are or do you think they always come with a hidden agenda?
Does it depend on who is giving the compliment?
Do you react differently to real life compliments?"
If someone sends a compliment we just accept it for what it is, thinking otherwise just wasting cognitive energy. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
I am dreadful at accepting compliments, it's something im working on. Rather than rebuffing them im trying to graciously accept the compliment and return one whenever I can.
It's a work in progress.
I do give lots more than I get though, which really isn't a problem, just an observation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compliments on Fab are not real tbh, guys will tell you anything just to get what they want. They say the same things to every woman lol regardless of her looks, and without even seeing her face !!
Real life compliments are more honest in my opinion.
I dont totally dissagree about fab ones but thrre are many girls too far away to meet what does a guy gain in lying to them?"
Some are prepared to travel or travel with work all over the country. I see this all the time. Also even if they are not the travelling type, they are happy to make a specific journey, those always try to convince me that distance is no issue. Guys have got everything to gain, well a meet , sex if they are lucky, it’s why everyone is on this site lol |
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