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Mid-life crisis
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who’s having one? Or had one?
Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?
If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one? 
Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans!  ) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all 
Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a partner 24 years my junior
I jacked a very good job in for an unknown future late last year
I have lost a decent amount of weight this year and now go to the gym 5 times a week
The signs are all there ?
Mid life crisis tho ?
I just like to think I am making my life a bit better for myself
I deserve it  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I had my mid life crisis when I was 30. Although I hope it wasn’t actually mid life.
I figured I’d get it out of the way early.
Maybe I’ll have another one later but right now I’m feeling ok about life.
Sometimes a crisis is required to get you out of the ruts that become your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine 
I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.
I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers  |
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"I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine
I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.
I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers "
. same here... only keep the job ... just working less |
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"I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine
I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.
I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers "
same here! As much as I can’t aford it, I brought a sport’s car and acting like I am twenty. Can’t find a new lover and stuck in a rut. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooh yeah i am! Hoping its more like a 1/3 of my life crisis!
The sports car is a sports bike!
18 year old girlfriend....nah, but im chasing couples instead! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are closer to 50 than 40!
I don't know if I will - I'd like to type no but I can clearly imagine me doing so.  "
I know, right!! It’s my youthful good looks that’s so deceiving!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it was a mid life crisis but when I lost my Dad to cancer a few years ago it really made me think about my own life and what I wanted and needed from it. Joining the swinging scene was just one decision I made to improve my life.....Hmmmm.......having just said that, maybe it was a crisis after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bet my mid life crisis trumps the rest of you I've always said... If you're going to do something you may as well go all in
But you know what. There's part of me that thinks a mid life crisis is quite a good thing now (it'll be even better if I can find a 20yr old girlfriend haha ). It's a moment of reassessment and rejuvenation. It's the last cry of a rebellious youth in the face of oppressive social conventions |
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I'm just carrying on as I did in my 20's so if others perceive that as a midlife crisis then so be it! I still like the same clothes and cars, I still like going out often, I still like buying the latest gadgets, I just have more money to indulge it than I used to |
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"Who’s having one? Or had one?
Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?
If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?
Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans! ) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all
Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend? "
One is more achievable than the other! You will find the best insurance details for a 2 seater on moneysupermarket |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who’s having one? Or had one?
Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?
If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?
Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans! ) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all
Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend?
One is more achievable than the other! You will find the best insurance details for a 2 seater on moneysupermarket "
And the best chance of finding a young girlfriend on cradlesnatchersRus. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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My husband is by having this mistress 18 years younger than him (and me...)
Apparently my 4-stone weight loss was my midlife crisis, he says.
I’ve been on the swinger scene on and off for 10 tears, so not really a mid life crisis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm actually better now than I was 10 years ago.
I'm a better man, feel better and know so much more.
Experience of my younger years is paying off now"
If only i could remember my youth.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.
Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."
So Dan... where shall we start looking? |
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"Did mine a couple of years back ... re located from city to country ... left job and Home and everyone behind ... and I started afresh ... and I love it best thing I ever did ... got my dream house in my dream location , new friends and exercisewith yoga and Pilates .. gave up the booze too and feel great Life is fantastic
Are you rich?
Money is the only thing that would help me out of my predicament.
The lottery is my only hope 
Good for you though - I'd love to do what you've done x"
My partner passed and left me able to do it unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I don't know whether it's midlife because I don't know how long I will live lol. But I am a 33 year old mother of 4, semi professional job, married for 15 years and a formerly saintly wife. I had never even kissed another man/woman since I was a teenager. Then I got so tired of the mundane, I got a new job, gained more confidence and all that old routine went out the window. My husband gave me the space to develop as a person this year. Even though he hasn't much been involved he has allowed me to develop and explore myself as a person and I guess the thing that has changed most about me this year has been my sexuality. I am a completely different person, I met him so young. He is 10 years older than me and got to do so much before we met but I felt like I had missed out so much getting married and having babies young.
I not harming anyone else so I am embracing it. My extended family, brother sister's and mum and dad have all noticed a change in me but that is because I am not being a doormat any more and I am not doing all the legwork of relationships with them. I have moved on this year, grown up and put myself first for a bit for once and I think this has been my happiest year yet apart from losing a very dear relative. Maybe it isn't so much of a midlife crisis than actually making myself happy rather than living my life for other people's approval |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.
Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."
So Dan... where shall we start looking? "
Is it available on the NHS? |
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Think I'm mid way through mine. Dyed my hair a really bright colour and out every weekend practically. Oh and the new found liking for guys at least 10 years younger than me! Pretty tame but cant afford the new car haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm passed that stage now,in my 40s I passed my bike test and got a motorbike,it felt right at the time,but alas it was midlife crisis,men=motorbikes,women=tattoos |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I don't know whether it's midlife because I don't know how long I will live lol. But I am a 33 year old mother of 4, semi professional job, married for 15 years and a formerly saintly wife. I had never even kissed another man/woman since I was a teenager. Then I got so tired of the mundane, I got a new job, gained more confidence and all that old routine went out the window. My husband gave me the space to develop as a person this year. Even though he hasn't much been involved he has allowed me to develop and explore myself as a person and I guess the thing that has changed most about me this year has been my sexuality. I am a completely different person, I met him so young. He is 10 years older than me and got to do so much before we met but I felt like I had missed out so much getting married and having babies young.
I not harming anyone else so I am embracing it. My extended family, brother sister's and mum and dad have all noticed a change in me but that is because I am not being a doormat any more and I am not doing all the legwork of relationships with them. I have moved on this year, grown up and put myself first for a bit for once and I think this has been my happiest year yet apart from losing a very dear relative. Maybe it isn't so much of a midlife crisis than actually making myself happy rather than living my life for other people's approval "
that’s brilliant!! |
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"According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.
Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."
So Dan... where shall we start looking? "
I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.
Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."
So Dan... where shall we start looking?
I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy? "
I'm 55 this coming monday |
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"According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.
Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."
So Dan... where shall we start looking?
I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?
I'm 55 this coming monday "
Happy birthday mate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.
Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."
So Dan... where shall we start looking?
I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?
I'm 55 this coming monday
Happy birthday mate! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is bumping you own thread another sign!?
Or just pure attention seeking?
Both, now get your arse into my messages and comfort me!!! "
Oops! Off to other social media instant messaging channel of choice ..  |
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No crisis... I just don't give a damn what anyone else thinks these days and want to enjoy life and grow old disgracefully.
My dad thinks I've been having a mid life crisis since getting my first tattoo in my mid 30s, then more and dying my hair random colours since turning 40.
Nits |
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"Who’s having one? Or had one?
Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?
If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?
Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans! ) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all
Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend? "
I've never grown up so no midlife crisis to have |
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"I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine
I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.
I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers "
I'm seriously considering doing just this, next year myself. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Maybe about 4 years ago...when I decided there's more to life than work ing all the time....now I have that work life balance. It was a about 3 years ago I decided I would be in the best shape ever and also the fittest not sure I've achieved that goal just yet...maybe next year.
Bring on the younger fwb or whatever you want to call it and I'll be sailing though the crisis. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband is having one he is trying to get the body he had when he was 21 he now is 56 and bodybuilding he may get the six pack and muscle but he won't be 7 stone like he was back then |
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