Does the desire for virgins make sense? In some circles they are highly prized, especially female virgins. After all people wouldn't be queuing out the door to have their hair cut and styled by someone who'd never cut hair before? Or is the attraction on the lines of the satisfaction of being the first to open a brand new packaged item? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(Some) men like to think that they will lead women astray, steal their innocence etc.
I know (some) men find it a turn on that I’m pretty inexperienced and innocent. Before my husband I hadn’t really done anything sexual with anyone else.
My first meet on fab I sucked his cock within twenty minutes and he asked if that was the second cock I had ever sucked, I said yes and he moaned ‘fuck that’s so hot..’. Is it? 
Although, I haven’t met a woman who wants to take a mans virginity. |
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Possibly bucking the trend here but i have little interest in virgins. I've always preferred women of experience.
I think a woman who knows what's what and who's had an active sex life already is much more fun both in life and between the sheets. |
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I've no interest in virgins, I did have sex with a couple way back when I was around 18 and whilst just having sex at that age was great, I'm not into that nervousness or inexperience as a grown mature man. Give me a woman who knows what she wants and what she's doing any time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think for men wanting a female virgin it's about her being so young (probably) and inexperienced that she puts up with his BS because she doesn't know it's BS.
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Excellent question. I think it's an ego think. People make such a big fucking deal out of virginity that the men feel they've left their cock print on the world because they'll always have been her first.
Personally I've never had remotely good sex with a virgin and have no desire to try and fix that. Nobody wants to be represented by a rookie lawyer. |
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"Warning jaded post:
I think for men wanting a female virgin it's about her being so young (probably) and inexperienced that she puts up with his BS because she doesn't know it's BS.
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Well isn't that an age old story? The older I have got and the more women I have got to know in my life the more I have seen this story and cycle repeat. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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Sometimes it comes down to male insecurity. If he's the only one she's ever had by default he must be the best. Also for some guys it's a form of slut shaming, promiscuous women are seen as "dirty or damaged goods."
The fetishisation of male virgins is low because in society it is still the norm for the man to "lead and be dominant. |
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