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Why do aggressive people think aggression and anger will make people meet them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have moment of anger, and some deal with it better than others.
If someone sends a angry message I'd just block.i received a few and I never replied to them just blocked.
The internet allows someone to act differently to a point without any come back.
In person face to face I'm sure most people you currently disagree with may be different towards you once you've met.
I get angry ,angry at work,missing deadlines and I'm under pressure a lot with my new business.
It's tougher than I thought so I have vented my rage and regretted it straight after.
I just hope people see the real me.
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"It’s the alpha males isn’t it?"
No its not that its just some peoples mental attitude thinking they can bully people into things an alpha doesn't need to as he is self confident and usually caring towards women he is just assertive with other males.  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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If it's from messages I have a solution..
Block those genders..My account message filters and apply appropriately.
if you wish to communicate with that gender you can still message those that interest you.
I suggest it often.. few seem to choose to do it.
If it's forum posts if their views are polar opposites to yours . it's a useful filter in itself as you'd likely be incompatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have moment of anger, and some deal with it better than others.
If someone sends a angry message I'd just block.i received a few and I never replied to them just blocked.
The internet allows someone to act differently to a point without any come back.
In person face to face I'm sure most people you currently disagree with may be different towards you once you've met.
I get angry ,angry at work,missing deadlines and I'm under pressure a lot with my new business.
It's tougher than I thought so I have vented my rage and regretted it straight after.
I just hope people see the real me.
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Great points.
Everyone gets angry at some point. If people just see the anger and not the human being behind it, are they worth worrying about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't, they just don't have the coping mechanisms or social skills to interact any other way.
A large section of society are unable to debate differing perspectives or needs and they've been taught to shout louder or intimidate to get what they want.
Avoid! |
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" They don't, they just don't have the coping mechanisms or social skills to interact any other way.
A large section of society are unable to debate differing perspectives or needs and they've been taught to shout louder or intimidate to get what they want.
Avoid!"
A new generation with a shouting culture is upon us then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" They don't, they just don't have the coping mechanisms or social skills to interact any other way.
A large section of society are unable to debate differing perspectives or needs and they've been taught to shout louder or intimidate to get what they want.
Avoid!"
^This.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least you know where you stand with aggressive people. It’s the snidey ones that are more dangerous. "
I am not keen on snidey ones but intrigued as to why they are more dangerous than aggressive ones? |
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"At least you know where you stand with aggressive people. It’s the snidey ones that are more dangerous.
I am not keen on snidey ones but intrigued as to why they are more dangerous than aggressive ones?"
They can chip away at someone bit by bit until there’s no fight left. It happens without the receiver knowing in some instances. I’d much rather someone wore their aggression on their sleeve so I can swerve them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone said that I seem angry, I don’t get it. Cantancerous perhaps, frustrated probably, but not angry and certainly not aggressive.
When I was much younger I got into a few scrapes, but that was like 30 years ago... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least you know where you stand with aggressive people. It’s the snidey ones that are more dangerous.
I am not keen on snidey ones but intrigued as to why they are more dangerous than aggressive ones?
They can chip away at someone bit by bit until there’s no fight left. It happens without the receiver knowing in some instances. I’d much rather someone wore their aggression on their sleeve so I can swerve them. "
I get that I suppose I tend to avoid the snidey ones as soon as they start but I see your point some can be subtle then chip away. |
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I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click?? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click?? "
Could be the roid rage that
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click?? "
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click?? "
That's why I think women should always think of abusive messages as a kind of positive. It proves they were right to turn him down - they should trust their gut feeling.
Imagine how it would have been if they'd met someone like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click??
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion"
It is as is referring to people as freaks out if interest why is it unacceptable to insult one group of people yet ok to insult another? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click??
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion
It is as is referring to people as freaks out if interest why is it unacceptable to insult one group of people yet ok to insult another? "
Because it's a forum and people on forums have double standards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click??
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion
It is as is referring to people as freaks out if interest why is it unacceptable to insult one group of people yet ok to insult another?
Because it's a forum and people on forums have double standards "
Not a pleasant guy are you then oh dear oh dear.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click??
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion
It is as is referring to people as freaks out if interest why is it unacceptable to insult one group of people yet ok to insult another?
Because it's a forum and people on forums have double standards Not a pleasant guy are you then oh dear oh dear. "
I think you'd have an argument with your own shadow.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click??
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion
It is as is referring to people as freaks out if interest why is it unacceptable to insult one group of people yet ok to insult another?
Because it's a forum and people on forums have double standards Not a pleasant guy are you then oh dear oh dear.
I think you'd have an argument with your own shadow. "
No just more respect for other people as to refer to them as "freaks". No you are an unplesent thing your own words condemn you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may get lambasted for saying this, but it has been my experience that a lot of the most aggressive messages and reactions I've gotten are from gym freaks. A polite no thank you reply to a 'I'm in a hotel in your area tonight' message from some big muscle-bound guy will inevitably result in a rant about how lucky I should feel at my age/with such a fat arse that anyone wants to meet me at all, and tell me I'm a time waster and/or everything that's wrong with Fab. The amount of status updates I've even seen lately from guys along the lines of 'ugly women nobody would look at only they're on here' has been steadily rising, and it's nearly always from guys with gym bod pics. Not all... But damn close to it. I often wonder... If they get that aggressive about someone saying no thanks in a message... How scary must it feel to have to say no in person if you do meet them and don't click??
Funnily a woman I know who is in the "BBW" category told me that the amount of hate messages she got from gym freaks was in the dozens....
Poor behaviour in my opinion
It is as is referring to people as freaks out if interest why is it unacceptable to insult one group of people yet ok to insult another?
Because it's a forum and people on forums have double standards Not a pleasant guy are you then oh dear oh dear.
I think you'd have an argument with your own shadow.
No just more respect for other people as to refer to them as "freaks". No you are an unplesent thing your own words condemn you. "
I'm sure I'll go to Hell then... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. They are it’s all over forums at moment I’m afraid. We need more tea and love
I try to spread tea and love. Mostly tea"
I'm gonna hire me a new waiter! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a helluvva lot of aggression from folks bemoaning aggression on here of late, be it passive or overt...  "
*disclaimer: No fab folk were harmed and no aggression was used in the making of this post* |
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"There's a helluvva lot of aggression from folks bemoaning aggression on here of late, be it passive or overt...
*disclaimer: No fab folk were harmed and no aggression was used in the making of this post*"
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's aggressive men who think they're entitled, there's aggressive women whose entire profiles are one long rant in capitals.
I couldn't be arsed with chatting to any of the miserable sods tbf, so I don't. |
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"It’s the alpha males isn’t it?
No its not that its just some peoples mental attitude thinking they can bully people into things an alpha doesn't need to as he is self confident and usually caring towards women he is just assertive with other males. "
My thoughts, your words. |
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"It’s the alpha males isn’t it?
No its not that its just some peoples mental attitude thinking they can bully people into things an alpha doesn't need to as he is self confident and usually caring towards women he is just assertive with other males.
My thoughts, your words."
Though I would've gone for "respectful" instead of "caring". |
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" They don't, they just don't have the coping mechanisms or social skills to interact any other way.
A large section of society are unable to debate differing perspectives or needs and they've been taught to shout louder or intimidate to get what they want.
This !!!
Avoid!"
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