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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not been told I’m selfish but I did have a meet where she never touched my cock or showed any interest in giving oral. We had protected sex once and then she just wanted to chat. Was the dullest meet I ever had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not been told I’m selfish but I did have a meet where she never touched my cock or showed any interest in giving oral. We had protected sex once and then she just wanted to chat. Was the dullest meet I ever had"
Surely your cock touched her during sex?  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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OP it sounds like there’s more to your story than you are saying. But if I met someone that didn’t show any interest in me and I had in her then I might say it was one sided. Not necessarily selfish though. |
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"Not been told I’m selfish but I did have a meet where she never touched my cock or showed any interest in giving oral. We had protected sex once and then she just wanted to chat. Was the dullest meet I ever had
Surely your cock touched her during sex? "
He already said protected sex so in reality it didn't lol
I cant say I have ever been called selfish as a lover / partner mutual pleasure is always saught and to my knowledge achieved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not been told I’m selfish but I did have a meet where she never touched my cock or showed any interest in giving oral. We had protected sex once and then she just wanted to chat. Was the dullest meet I ever had
Surely your cock touched her during sex?
He already said protected sex so in reality it didn't lol "
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really."
Why didn’t you touch his cock ?
Was it agreed beforehand that it would be a one sided selfish meet ?
If not , I’m not surprised he got pissed off , and if it wasn’t agreed that that you wouldn’t be touching him , then you can’t really be surprised he stopped playing with you .
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I've had a couple of meets where I have gone to touch and been told "no" which puts me off some as can make me feel a bit shit.... but they say they "too sensitive" quite annoying really!! Haha...or is that just me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not touching? Seems strange to me.
Wasn't there a court case recently of a woman decieving other women by posing as a man with a plastic cock?.
Only had sex with them in the dark or them being blindfolded but made sure they never touched what they thought was a real cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really.
Why didn’t you touch his cock ?
Was it agreed beforehand that it would be a one sided selfish meet ?
If not , I’m not surprised he got pissed off , and if it wasn’t agreed that that you wouldn’t be touching him , then you can’t really be surprised he stopped playing with you .
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To be honest, I was thinking this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have but the lady in question only wanted to suck my cock nothing more and she is on my verification list and o must admit it was one of the best blue jobs I have ever had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, but I have had the reverse, i.e. saying I am a very generous lover. Sounds like the man in question was pretty selfish himself OP. Maybe choose future partners more carefully? |
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really."
Spin it the other way.... How would you feel if a guy just wanted all the pleasure of a meet but didn't touch your fandango once.... How would you feel? |
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No but I have had meets where they've happily allowed me to give them oral but then haven't shown any interest in returning the favour.... hence they don't get a second meet but I wouldn't just stop playing or be rude to someone like he was to you x |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really."
to be honest I prefer to pleasure a woman so this wouldn't bother me however everyone is different so what pleasures one person may offend another I like to tie and use whips spanking paddles sex sings I'm sure this would turn some women to run where as others really like it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been told I ‘give ‘ too much
I’m a giver, but I’m learning to receive 
It’s great when two givers get though! Everyone’s a winner "
I can’t concentrate when it’s at the same time though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really."
What was polite? His reaction or you not touching his cock? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex has to be mutual to work for me
If you didn't touch me, I would worry you were going through with it cos you felt you had to, rather than being there you were genuinely enjoying our time together
That would be a major passion killer
That said, if I felt that was the case, I'd be checking you were OK, breaking for a while, perhaps discussing a re-meet
I certainly wouldn't kick off about it
There are a 1,001 reasons why a meet might not work for people, why lose your head over it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really.
Why didn’t you touch his cock ?
Was it agreed beforehand that it would be a one sided selfish meet ?
If not , I’m not surprised he got pissed off , and if it wasn’t agreed that that you wouldn’t be touching him , then you can’t really be surprised he stopped playing with you .
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No we met for a social meet things progressed from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sex has to be mutual to work for me
If you didn't touch me, I would worry you were going through with it cos you felt you had to, rather than being there you were genuinely enjoying our time together
That would be a major passion killer
That said, if I felt that was the case, I'd be checking you were OK, breaking for a while, perhaps discussing a re-meet
I certainly wouldn't kick off about it
There are a 1,001 reasons why a meet might not work for people, why lose your head over it ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really."
Well lots of ways of looking at this, if he got annoyed that would have me leaving personally but then why did you meet and get naked and not touch him.
There seem to be lots of gaps missing in this tale to seriously comment. |
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really.
Why didn’t you touch his cock ?
Was it agreed beforehand that it would be a one sided selfish meet ?
If not , I’m not surprised he got pissed off , and if it wasn’t agreed that that you wouldn’t be touching him , then you can’t really be surprised he stopped playing with you .
No we met for a social meet things progressed from there. "
You don't have to do any anything you don't want to do, but you also need clear boundaries in place.
If your social progressed to getting hands on, I can see why the other party then got confused.
No he wasn't entitled to get his cock played with but if you'd both been clear from the start it was a social only then there would have been clear boundaries.
You need to manage expectations on meets and make sure you are both on the same page.
No excuse if he became verbally/physically abusive tho.
Hope you are ok.
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really.
Why didn’t you touch his cock ?
Was it agreed beforehand that it would be a one sided selfish meet ?
If not , I’m not surprised he got pissed off , and if it wasn’t agreed that that you wouldn’t be touching him , then you can’t really be surprised he stopped playing with you .
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I thought the same. |
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It sounds like you weren’t into him. If this happened to me I’d very much feel uncomfortable and unattractive.
I’m definitely not one sided. If I like you enough to get naked then I’m going to be all over you and probably chasing you around the bed to get that cock in my mouth again |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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Hope the guys not reading this.. if a guy had posted this he'd be told all about discretion.
There seems to be a lot missing from the one side of this story.. social that progressed to fun for one but not the other.
Only two folk know what happened, as is often said there are three sides to any story yours there's and the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies and gentlemen
Genuine interested if you've had a meet and told you were one sided? Ie selfish. Met with a mature guy to say long story short as I didn't touch his appendage he stopped playing with me and got annoyed - polite for what happened really.
Well lots of ways of looking at this, if he got annoyed that would have me leaving personally but then why did you meet and get naked and not touch him.
There seem to be lots of gaps missing in this tale to seriously comment. "
Very odd. |
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