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over a year ago
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"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply
Truth ... about 60 a day
If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double "
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply
Truth ... about 60 a day
If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double " Oh I want the truth, it's like how they say if you ask a man how many women he has slept with divide it by 3 and ask a woman x3 but I don't think this is the case for this. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Depends what filters I have on, if I have have a status update or post new pictures, or I'm active in the forums that day. It can vary from ten or so to hundreds depending on these factors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my profile hidden so only about 1-5 at the mo from people I already know. If unhidden then many more but not as many as most as I’m not here for casual meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen .... you’ll get the ones that tell the men they get hundreds , the reality is and the truth is it varies
Today I’ve had about 25 , Friday I got over 60 , but only due to a new picture. If I said I needed a cock , I’d get lots - any hole brigade
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on which day, the time of day, how long I stay online and how I use my filters.
Cab be 5 or 6 from 3 different men, or 100 from 100 different men. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on. " I think the forum would help too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too."
In what way? |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way?" To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on which day, the time of day, how long I stay online and how I use my filters.
Cab be 5 or 6 from 3 different men, or 100 from 100 different men."
Online after midnight on a Friday and I get loads of messages. I'm more attractive in the dark.
Might just be the men online while wifey is asleep though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way?
To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it."
A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot? |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way?
To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?" Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well. |
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over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way?
To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?
Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well."
What attention?! I’ve even just explained I get hardly any...and I’m happy with that ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it."
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way?
To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?
Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well.
What attention?! I’ve even just explained I get hardly any...and I’m happy with that " Messages, 70 today is a substantial amount |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on which day, the time of day, how long I stay online and how I use my filters.
Cab be 5 or 6 from 3 different men, or 100 from 100 different men.
Online after midnight on a Friday and I get loads of messages. I'm more attractive in the dark.
Might just be the men online while wifey is asleep though. "
It's people coming home from a night out I think. Although, my age range is probably a lot lower than yours. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. " I think it would help especially fuck,kiss,avoid threads etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. "
I rarely got any from people on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way?
To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?
Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well.
What attention?! I’ve even just explained I get hardly any...and I’m happy with that
Messages, 70 today is a substantial amount"
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"Well nothing so far is suggesting that anybody really needs a P.A. keep em coming very interesting "
If I have a 'normal' profile I can get 10 messages in half an hour while I'm reading the forums. I always reply to first messages but while replying more can come in.
I don't have any pics so I'm sure that women with great pics will have tons more messages. On a phone it's difficult to reply quickly so I don't blame anyone for not trying to keep up- it's a nightmare.
So yes some probably do 'need a PA'. It doesn't mean they as women are being rude. It's just the way it is. |
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over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. "
If I post on a pegging thread my inbox goes mad. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in.
If I post on a pegging thread my inbox goes mad. "
Oh I can post on kink-type threads and get messages months and months on! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well nothing so far is suggesting that anybody really needs a P.A. keep em coming very interesting
If I have a 'normal' profile I can get 10 messages in half an hour while I'm reading the forums. I always reply to first messages but while replying more can come in.
I don't have any pics so I'm sure that women with great pics will have tons more messages. On a phone it's difficult to reply quickly so I don't blame anyone for not trying to keep up- it's a nightmare.
So yes some probably do 'need a PA'. It doesn't mean they as women are being rude. It's just the way it is. " No I understand completely a no reply means not interested and I don't expect any women too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in.
If I post on a pegging thread my inbox goes mad. "
Actually, I’ve had that too. Like I want to peg a stranger. That’s saved for someone quite special. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.
#pussypower
You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either. "
500 said "fancy a fuck".
500 said "shit... sorry.. I mailed the wrong profile!"
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over a year ago
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OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. " Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either? |
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?"
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
Because then they wouldn’t get the attention " oooh controversial statement ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?"
I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.
Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.
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"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.
#pussypower
You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either.
500 said "fancy a fuck".
500 said "shit... sorry.. I mailed the wrong profile!"
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
Because then they wouldn’t get the attention "
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.
Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.
I need a PA." People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox |
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
Because then they wouldn’t get the attention oooh controversial statement "
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I rarely open up fab to a message and i usually get them as i read through the forums, maybe 1 or 2 but it also depends whether its the weekend or not and the time, fri/sat nights i get more! |
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.
Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.
I need a PA. People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox"
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"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.
I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.
I think the forum would help too.
In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.
Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. I think it would help especially fuck,kiss,avoid threads etc"
Possibly, although I was under the impression that it's the same people posting on them all the time. |
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"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.
Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.
I need a PA. People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox"
I'm like that. It grates on me when I have unread messages and I have to delete ones I've answered. A cluttered inbox is a cluttered mind. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.
It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?
I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.
Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.
I need a PA. People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox
I'm like that. It grates on me when I have unread messages and I have to delete ones I've answered. A cluttered inbox is a cluttered mind." Yeah I would be the same. |
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Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.
Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.
If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.
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"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.
Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.
If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.
Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.
If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.
" Yeah you can be shrewd if you don't want the attention. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.
Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.
If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.
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over a year ago
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I'm the most unattractive female profile. Even shadows have more messages than me. I get about 3 new ones a day. None of my friends really message me on here. |
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over a year ago
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"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.
Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.
If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.
Exactly"
ahh keep the photo's coming ladies...I wank bank them all secretly anyway...
also..am too shy to message |
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over a year ago
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"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.
Mine are open "
Oooh I got a message from someone from the forum today... wanting me to pass a message to clem
Us ladies get all the attention eh?? |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.
Mine are open
Oooh I got a message from someone from the forum today... wanting me to pass a message to clem
Us ladies get all the attention eh??" I know, I'm lead to believe you do. |
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"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.
Mine are open
Oooh I got a message from someone from the forum today... wanting me to pass a message to clem
Us ladies get all the attention eh??"
I haven't had one message yet. I've just changed my profile pic and I probably should change my blurb too, now I come to think of it. |
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"4 new messages so far. I from a forum user I spoke to at the STP last night Nice, you are gonna start an avalanche "
On 8 now. 4 unread and a couple of conversations going. One looks rather promising; if it comes to fruition I owe you a drink ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"4 new messages so far. I from a forum user I spoke to at the STP last night Nice, you are gonna start an avalanche
On 8 now. 4 unread and a couple of conversations going. One looks rather promising; if it comes to fruition I owe you a drink "
7 unread now! |
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over a year ago
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"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.
Stop showing off!!"
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over a year ago
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"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them. you can handle a few more "
My hand holding my phone is going numb ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?"
I don't count but I know I delete way more than I've ever read. Only about 5% are ever opened. |
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"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.
Stop showing off!!
I have an opening for a PA if you're interested "
I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.
Stop showing off!!
I have an opening for a PA if you're interested
I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too "
I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.
I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.
Stop showing off!!
I have an opening for a PA if you're interested
I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too
I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.
I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out "
When I've dealt with the 10 unread messages. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.
Stop showing off!!
I have an opening for a PA if you're interested
I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too
I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.
I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out " Ah shame, I was expecting an invite to the wedding. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.
Stop showing off!!
I have an opening for a PA if you're interested
I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too
I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.
I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out Ah shame, I was expecting an invite to the wedding. "
I over anticipated ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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over a year ago
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It depends though. I get about 100 a day since I’ve changed my profile to not meeting. Before that it was about 200. But you do get more if you’re showing on line and I usually am as I leave it signed on the laptop in the office even if I’m not on here so that’s probably why. |
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over a year ago
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On our couples profile - the occasional horny hubby when wifey is asleep pops up in our inbox. Generally speaking if we've no new pics or status - none. New pics and statuses garner attention - so we get around half a dozen to a dozen.
If we open it to single men and are looking for a meet we usually hit around 50.
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over a year ago
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"Delete Men off your 'Looking for' lists if you don't want mail. "
That's what I do and set my age range to 99-99. Even if I forget to block men after unblocking for some reason, I don't show on searches as I have no preferences ticked. |
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"Delete Men off your 'Looking for' lists if you don't want mail.
That's what I do and set my age range to 99-99. Even if I forget to block men after unblocking for some reason, I don't show on searches as I have no preferences ticked."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?"
Average about 5-10 new people a day.
If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.
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"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?
Average about 5-10 new people a day.
If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.
Well your pictures are very sexy!
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over a year ago
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"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?
Average about 5-10 new people a day.
If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.
Well your pictures are very sexy!
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"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?
Average about 5-10 new people a day.
If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.
Well your pictures are very sexy!
Ah you make me blush " Just as well I'm out of your age range then ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply
Truth ... about 60 a day
If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double Oh I want the truth, it's like how they say if you ask a man how many women he has slept with divide it by 3 and ask a woman x3 but I don't think this is the case for this."
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply
Truth ... about 60 a day
If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double Oh I want the truth, it's like how they say if you ask a man how many women he has slept with divide it by 3 and ask a woman x3 but I don't think this is the case for this.
Who's they? " you not in the loop ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by " ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy " Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe. |
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over a year ago
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At the beginning 200 plus messages. If I'm not online much them between 10-15. If I'm online a fair bit then maybe around 50 to 60 messages. New pic on display usually 80 plus but that's only if I am online ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe." as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first |
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over a year ago
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"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first " No because I had a pretty good inkling already. Well not many women approach men so maybe a change of tactic is required. |
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"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first No because I had a pretty good inkling already. Well not many women approach men so maybe a change of tactic is required." think about it like this, do you take advice from me? And there you have the answer |
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over a year ago
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"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first No because I had a pretty good inkling already. Well not many women approach men so maybe a change of tactic is required.think about it like this, do you take advice from me? And there you have the answer " No because you don't have vast knowledge or experience like some ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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