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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What keeps you on fab ?
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What would cause you to leave ?"
Currently the forums. Hoping to be meeting again within the next few weeks though.
And closing my marriage up. Although I’m sure my hubby would have no problem with me staying on the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s generally fun and if I’m lucky I get to meet some really great women who enjoy the same kinds of things as I do 
I’d leave if it wasn’t so much fun. I did so before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The people make me stay. They'll probably make me leave one day too. "
*plays a violin* That actually sounded really poignant. I guess that's what happens on Fab for most people. Sooner or later everyone would grow out of this lifestyle and move on to pastures new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What keeps you on fab ?
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What would cause you to leave ?"
What keeps me on Fab? The fact that I own my sexuality as well as my sex drive, and I've no wish to partake in the d*unken mess that is conventional hookups from the nightlife scene. I much prefer to fuck with people who can be upfront about what they want, not be shy about it, not need to drink or have an excuse to do it, and also be open to exploring scenarios and boundaries together as adults fully enjoying themselves.
What would cause me to leave Fab? If I get attached to a partner in future I'd come off Fab and enjoy some quiet monogamy time to build up my relationship and love life. Or alternatively, I'd leave Fab if it seems to me that my time's run out on here, that I'm unable to rebuild any new social scene and find anyone who would want to meet me for swinging fun anymore. Happens to us all I guess from time to time, when we realise the scene's moved on from us, the meta of what's considered attractive and the new "hot thing/people in swinging" changes.
And in my personal case, I'd leave Fab once I end my time in the UK for good and have to return home. No sense keeping my profile on here anymore if I don't have a permanent life in this country or any other countries that Fab's active in. |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
I pop on to chat to friends and put up some pictures that are not for my mum's eyes. The forums I like to read and excercise my eye rolling. I'm not looking for new meets but maybe someone I come across ticks all the boxes for the particular kink I am involved with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been here for over 10 years never left but hidden my profile many times.
I joined because I love sex and I'm not cut out for vanilla type relationships I tried hence why I've hidden profile, but something brings me back on here
I'll be honest it gives me confidence getting messages and meeting different people where in 'real life' I'm shy and don't get much attention from men and even less from women.
I know on here there can be any holes a goal mentality with some but I'm lucky I've met only nice people so far.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An element of addiction, the forums and the what if possibilities. Can't be bothered to leave then go through the whole remaining as a newbie hassle which invariably happens. 
I know when I next leave it's forever. It's soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What keeps you on fab ?
And
What would cause you to leave ?"
Have you had a problem with fab?, reads like you are searching for an answer, want to explain your thoughts on the matter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What keeps you on fab ?
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What would cause you to leave ?"
1) The (getting much harder) chance of meeting sexually liberated, attractive people.
2) It moving ever more towards a chat/forum site rather than one for meeting others of a like mind.
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