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Do you punch above your weight on here ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How does pulling on Fab compared to meeting someone in the real world. For example I usual get 8 or 9’s in the real world, so I’m punching slightly below, but on here I’m lucky to get a 7, so I’m way below my weight.

How do you compare on here, to meeting in real life ? Do you go for the same level of attractiveness, or are you looking to aim higher, say you’re a 5 and you’re looking for an 8. Or like me, you don’t mind punching below most of the time ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Certainly do. All my fab meets lower their standards for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks by the way, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks by the way, OP."

I said 7

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"How does pulling on Fab compared to meeting someone in the real world. For example I usual get 8 or 9’s in the real world, so I’m punching slightly below, but on here I’m lucky to get a 7, so I’m way below my weight.

Totally different criteria - leagues are an anathema to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahahahaha

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By *c1989Woman over a year ago

Manchester

It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks by the way, OP.

I said 7

That was generous, that’s why I said thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks by the way, OP.

I said 7

That was generous, that’s why I said thanks"

The lighting was kind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks by the way, OP.

I said 7

That was generous, that’s why I said thanks

The lighting was kind."

You insisted on having the lights off, that’s why

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I think I play in my own weight category most of the time. If I don’t fancy someone I won’t have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In football terms, if we’re talking leagues, I tend to try for a cup shock every now and then. You know, the plucky underdog from the Ronseal Northern Premier league who gets drawn against Premier League opposition.

Most of the time I get defeated heavily, blocked, ignored, openly mocked and laughed at. But every once in a blue moon, a cup shock can happen, and you can legitimately bag a Premier League hottie!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ? "

They’re not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lucky for me all of those showing an interest are way hotter than I am. Definitely punching well above my weight and grateful for the opportunities fab provides

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By *c1989Woman over a year ago

Manchester

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ? "

According to you. I wouldn't know I'm not one for checking out models.

Take Christian Ronaldo for example putting aside the recent allegations. I have friends who find him attractive but I for one thing he's pug ugly.

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By *ittle LunaCouple over a year ago

London (future visits not now)

If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. I blank the hot, handsome men because I have one at home and want something different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

I stay clear of forumites, so they won’t see.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

Look up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

I stay clear of forumites, so they won’t see.

EXCUSE ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

According to you. I wouldn't know I'm not one for checking out models.

Take Christian Ronaldo for example putting aside the recent allegations. I have friends who find him attractive but I for one thing he's pug ugly. "

You’re not thinking of Terry Christian are you ?

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By *eah BabyCouple over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Always look for level paring but if somebody comes along to make me want to punch higher why the hell not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

I stay clear of forumites, so they won’t see.

EXCUSE ME"

Always one exception to the rule.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

They’re not. "

I was going to say that. I think a lot of models have weird faces.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tend to attract allsorts worldies and non worldies. In real life tend to get looks from all as they can also see the face x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks by the way, OP.

I said 7

That was generous, that’s why I said thanks

The lighting was kind.

You insisted on having the lights off, that’s why"

I couldn’t watch you eat another Black Forest gateau.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's that long since I've met someone in real life, I've forgotten what it feels like.

That said, I'd only ever 'chat up' those I fancied. If the attraction was mutual then

So, by default, I never 'punched'

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By *c1989Woman over a year ago

Manchester

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

According to you. I wouldn't know I'm not one for checking out models.

Take Christian Ronaldo for example putting aside the recent allegations. I have friends who find him attractive but I for one thing he's pug ugly.

You’re not thinking of Terry Christian are you ? "

Lord no. It's a bit shallow to use a scale of attractiveness anyway. I think it's more binary than that. Some one either does it for you or they don't.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple over a year ago

HereAndThere

I know am punching,

Mrs is way hotter than me that’s why it took so long for us to get together,

Had to wait on her standards dropping (no other fab boys about)before I got a shot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks by the way, OP.

I said 7

That was generous, that’s why I said thanks

The lighting was kind.

You insisted on having the lights off, that’s why

I couldn’t watch you eat another Black Forest gateau. "

You said it was sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*cant tell if first post was a joke or not*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

Was thinking same I just hope they don't read this how degrading

Did they lower there standards when meeting him I wonder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

They’re not.

I was going to say that. I think a lot of models have weird faces. "

It’s ok, us models have thick skin.

Sincerely

Morph x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"No. I blank the hot, handsome men because I have one at home and want something different."

Bugger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You like who you like

I like some right handsome men and gorgeous women and some like me back and there’s the odd one who is clearly insane

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. I blank the hot, handsome men because I have one at home and want something different."

Well hello there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If women could just read this before they read your profile - you'd get the meets you truly deserve

Was thinking same I just hope they don't read this how degrading

Did they lower there standards when meeting him I wonder

No, most think they have won the Lottery. I have to tell them, yes I’m a 9.5 maybe a 10 if I put a suit on, but I am just like you too.

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

"No. I blank the hot, handsome men because I have one at home and want something different."

For me it’s similar as in my husband is very handsome (so have been punching way above my weight for 15+ years

) but different as in the bar is set super high and won’t settle for anything less. So it has to be as good looking or more...

So yeah, punching well above my weight...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any one I meet is hotter than me....but I'm an awesome kisser so they do ok

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

No, I am just heavier than I look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I aim high but fail miserably, my arrow falls and hits the floor dwellers and my inbox fills with "u r sexy, wanna meet?" messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. I blank the hot, handsome men because I have one at home and want something different.

Bugger. "

Can't win 'em all Clem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think in those terms. I'm attracted to who I like, here or elsewhere, and vice versa. My high standards never waiver irrespective of environment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think meeting 7s on here keeps me grounded, takes me back to my roots.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think in those terms. I'm attracted to who I like, here or elsewhere, and vice versa. My high standards never waiver irrespective of environment. "

couldnt of put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. I'm perfect sweetie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you think you're a 10!?!?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Yeah, I'm a minger who couldn't pull in real life, so I have to

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ? "

I've met a Russian supermodel. Absolutely stunning, but not "classical supermodel" looks.....

And I was definitely punching that day!!!!!!

I might have been a pity shag though.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"No. I blank the hot, handsome men because I have one at home and want something different.

Bugger.

Can't win 'em all Clem."

Now i wish i was on your blanked list. Rather than a charity case!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

I've met a Russian supermodel. Absolutely stunning, but not "classical supermodel" looks.....

And I was definitely punching that day!!!!!!

I might have been a pity shag though.

That was my good deed for the day, Stingly. Apologies x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jeez....

...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So you think you're a 10!?!?

Only when I’ve got my wig on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I go for the same level of attractiveness on here as I do in the real world. Obscenely handsome only.

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

Haha so why are you lowering your standards on here? Are you performing some kind of community service?

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

I've been accused of being picky here and real life despite being a lard arse but give me average looking with a 5 star personality any day.

All the conventionally "hot" shags I've had have been painfully boring in the bedroom

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ?

I've met a Russian supermodel. Absolutely stunning, but not "classical supermodel" looks.....

And I was definitely punching that day!!!!!!

I might have been a pity shag though.

That was my good deed for the day, Stingly. Apologies x"

No need to apologise, a full shags a full shag, am I right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been accused of being picky here and real life despite being a lard arse but give me average looking with a 5 star personality any day.

All the conventionally "hot" shags I've had have been painfully boring in the bedroom

I’m an erotic genius, so swings and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go for the same level of attractiveness on here as I do in the real world. Obscenely handsome only. "

And why not? I thoroughly endorse this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haha so why are you lowering your standards on here? Are you performing some kind of community service?

Yes, very much so. I like to spread joy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go for the same level of attractiveness on here as I do in the real world. Obscenely handsome only. "

Obscenely handsome is the level just below me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say yes, but I have a fairly low opinion of myself.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"I go for the same level of attractiveness on here as I do in the real world. Obscenely handsome only. "

You and the op should be a good match

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems I'm the one that gets pulled apparently. I not aware what has happening till it happens.

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By *ittle LunaCouple over a year ago

London (future visits not now)

"*cant tell if first post was a joke or not* "

There are recognised disorders that sound like this...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

I think Mr Impala sees himself as more of a Lion, prowling the Serengeti. Picking off the weak and wounded. To improve the blood line maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*cant tell if first post was a joke or not*

There are recognised disorders that sound like this..."

Look up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think Mr Impala sees himself as more of a Lion, prowling the Serengeti. Picking off the weak and wounded. To improve the blood line maybe?"

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

Check out the veris and see how many 50 year old women are shagging 30 year old hung body builders. So many men and so few women means women, on average, can get guys they might not get in real life and guys will shag women they wouldn’t bother with in real life.

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By *iffaWoman over a year ago

wherever

Yea probably am but fuck it

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

Haha so why are you lowering your standards on here? Are you performing some kind of community service?

Yes, very much so. I like to spread joy. "

Well plain girls need love too I guess.

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By *YC SausageMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Certainly do. All my fab meets lower their standards for me."

I always punch above my weight wether that’s IRL or through FAB.

Just look at Hannah, perfect 10 in my eyes. I think I’m a 5, which usually puts her way WAY out of my league x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

So by your reckoning 50 year old women can't possibly be attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm punching to be fair. I have been surprised by some of the hotties that have been interested in me.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

Spot on

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I think Mr Impala sees himself as more of a Lion, prowling the Serengeti. Picking off the weak and wounded. To improve the blood line maybe?

Ouch"

He may see himself like he's doing his meets a favour, doesn't mean he's right though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But who is the real loser? The woman who has shagged a really fit guy or the guy who has dropped his standards

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

So by your reckoning 50 year old women can't possibly be attractive? "

Some of the best 7s I’ve had, have been 50 year old women.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But who is the real loser? The woman who has shagged a really fit guy or the guy who has dropped his standards

No one is a loser .

It’s all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But who is the real loser? The woman who has shagged a really fit guy or the guy who has dropped his standards

No one is a loser .

It’s all good

Quite. Its all sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No such thing as 'punching above/below'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think Mr Impala sees himself as more of a Lion, prowling the Serengeti. Picking off the weak and wounded. To improve the blood line maybe?

Ouch

He may see himself like he's doing his meets a favour, doesn't mean he's right though.

Well all I can say is that my dry spell was well and truly ended, whether I’m a 4,5 or whatever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No such thing as 'punching above/below'.

Absolutely right. It's a ridiculous notion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What we view ourselves and what others view us can differ greatly.

The older I get, the more inclined lower leagues try their luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I weigh much less now I'm always punching above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you think you're a 10!?!?

I know eh

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"Certainly do. All my fab meets lower their standards for me."

Would you lower your standards for me?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"No such thing as 'punching above/below'.

You tell Melania Trump that...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think Mr Impala sees himself as more of a Lion, prowling the Serengeti. Picking off the weak and wounded. To improve the blood line maybe?"

That would explain a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got my hands tied behind my back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you think you're a 10!?!?

I know, someone has confidence about the way they look. Hang them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

So by your reckoning 50 year old women can't possibly be attractive?

Some of the best 7s I’ve had, have been 50 year old women. "

I'm a 10 myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got my hands tied behind my back."

Are you typing with your nose?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God I’ve no idea, you’d have to ask someone who’s met me. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got my hands tied behind my back.

Are you typing with your nose?"

Little Lib is in charge of the keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I definitely punch above my weight with some of the men I get messages off but if the guy sounds like he is just blowing smoke up my arse with how hot he reckons I am then it will really put me off of him. I prefer to play with guys that don’t seem to realise how hot they are or that at least seem to have a few brain cells knocking around their pretty little heads.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got my hands tied behind my back.

Are you typing with your nose?

Little Lib is in charge of the keyboard."

Bless him, he’s a good speller isn’t he

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got my hands tied behind my back.

Are you typing with your nose?

Little Lib is in charge of the keyboard."

Is he worried he won't get any pussy if he comments?

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

It’s like you want to shop at M&S but you only have enough money for Aldi and a mans gotta eat, am I right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But who is the real loser? The woman who has shagged a really fit guy or the guy who has dropped his standards

An ex forumite had a great saying just like that. They may be 'shagging a minger' but I'm shagging a hot guy. He's the loser not me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got my hands tied behind my back.

Are you typing with your nose?

Little Lib is in charge of the keyboard.

Bless him, he’s a good speller isn’t he"

He's been in some intelligent pussies.

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By *ittle LunaCouple over a year ago

London (future visits not now)

"I know, someone has confidence about the way they look. Hang them!

'confidence'... It's nice to be confident, but something altogether different to be assessing others on a scale and speaking like you are doing them a favour if you have sex with them.

But if you feel blessed by that attention or excited by that kind of peacocking - it's all yours to enjoy... if he will lower his standards enough for you that is x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The best sex sessions I have ever had, were with men you would have not thought of as "hot as fuck". Instead they were. I also had sex with some male models. And to be honest they couldn't compare with they 'ugly' but passionate ones.

About me, I am definitely not the most attractive woman, overweight, simply dressed and much more into intellectual life than slutty appearance. But I had experienced men swearing I was their best ever sex and begging for more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only pull in real life all my fab meets i made up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know, someone has confidence about the way they look. Hang them!

'confidence'... It's nice to be confident, but something altogether different to be assessing others on a scale and speaking like you are doing them a favour if you have sex with them.

But if you feel blessed by that attention or excited by that kind of peacocking - it's all yours to enjoy... if he will lower his standards enough for you that is x

Oh come on, you’ve never seen this kind of talk in the forum before? How men lower their standards for meets? It’s mentioned every day. It’s a clear joke, dear. Don’t be so sensitive

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By *ittle LunaCouple over a year ago

London (future visits not now)

Oh come on, you’ve never seen this kind of talk in the forum before? How men lower their standards for meets? It’s mentioned every day. It’s a clear joke, dear. Don’t be so sensitive"

I don't usually haunt forums on sites... this is why! My mistake, please ignore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve definitely punched way above my weight in most of my meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

So by your reckoning 50 year old women can't possibly be attractive? "

50 year old women can be very attractive but in the real world good looking 30 year old guys are generally with good looking 30 year old (or thereabouts) women. Fab’s a different world where it’s not uncommon for sex to occur between a guy 20 years younger than a woman. That can happen in the real world but it much much rarer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know, someone has confidence about the way they look. Hang them!

'confidence'... It's nice to be confident, but something altogether different to be assessing others on a scale and speaking like you are doing them a favour if you have sex with them.

But if you feel blessed by that attention or excited by that kind of peacocking - it's all yours to enjoy... if he will lower his standards enough for you that is x

Oh come on, you’ve never seen this kind of talk in the forum before? How men lower their standards for meets? It’s mentioned every day. It’s a clear joke, dear. Don’t be so sensitive"

Men have standards?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But who is the real loser? The woman who has shagged a really fit guy or the guy who has dropped his standards

No one is a loser .

It’s all good

Exactly we’re not saying anyone is a loser as everyone is, hopefully, having fun. We’re just comparing what we observe in Fab versus real life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So can I just clarify. Is this rating system based on just looks or on whether someone's worth fucking or not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I think I play in my own weight category most of the time. If I don’t fancy someone I won’t have sex with them. "

Same here and a great way to put it. Always try to go for an equivalent if possible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think about it someone's out of my league or not, in real life I probably would though

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ? "

They're not to everyone; hence subjective. I think Naomi Campbell is striking but not good looking. Tara Banks is stunning to me not for everyone.

My other half looks like a cross between Jason Statham and Bruce Willis. I met him on Fab five years ago. On more than one occasion I've been asked if I'm Diane Abbott!

Yet he thinks he's struck gold...and he has!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aim high is what I say!

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm 75kg and really don't mind if the lady is heavier or lighter

But I'm not aggressive and would never dream of punching a meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Aim high is what I say!

Aim for the stars you might go through the roof.

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

Champagne tastes

Beer face

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t meet people in real life for sex only via fab and I’ve been happy with almost all I have met, simply because I’m pretty choosy about who gets me naked. I’d say I punch at the right level (if that’s a saying).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No...i pitch it about right.. I am never disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leagues and point systems are a tad rubbish .

If people like you they like you if they don't well that's life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In normal life I do ok. On Fab I struggle to pull a skin off a rice pudding.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's all subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

So why are all models good looking ? "

They're not though are they? It's all subjective to the person looking at them as the poster above said

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Catwalk models do absolutely nothing for me. Glamour models on the other hand...

But to answer the original point, it's pretty much the same in real life to on here for me. Possibly the women I've met and chatted to on here have bigger boobs though.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I only fuck people I'm really attracted to be it on here or real life, probably why I hardly ever fuck anyone new.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

In one!!....bullseye

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But I disagree - a 30 yr old hung gym bunny is of low value to me from here or from dating sites, they are 10 a penny, only worth a 5 to me - that's not punching.

Now a charming, educated, solvent man in his fifties who is a good lover? Now he might be far more worth a 10 - so your perspective is skewed IMO.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

Absolutely SPOT ON. There’s nothing else to say on this matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But I disagree - a 30 yr old hung gym bunny is of low value to me from here or from dating sites, they are 10 a penny, only worth a 5 to me - that's not punching.

Now a charming, educated, solvent man in his fifties who is a good lover? Now he might be far more worth a 10 - so your perspective is skewed IMO. "

There are always exceptions but if we were to contrasts Fab to real life then consider that only 15% of relationship in real life are where the woman is older than the man; Google it.

Now pick a few female profiles and most of their meets are with younger men. Again only on average.

We’d guess from the small sample we’ve seen that there are more single women veris with younger men than with older men which goes again the published real life stats on age in relationships.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only fuck people I'm really attracted to be it on here or real life, probably why I hardly ever fuck anyone new."

This

Punching anywhere doesn’t come into it. If I like someone I do if I don’t I don’t. Takes a lot for me to be attracted to someone though which is why I don’t meet many. Different strokes for different folks though.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But I disagree - a 30 yr old hung gym bunny is of low value to me from here or from dating sites, they are 10 a penny, only worth a 5 to me - that's not punching.

Now a charming, educated, solvent man in his fifties who is a good lover? Now he might be far more worth a 10 - so your perspective is skewed IMO.

There are always exceptions but if we were to contrasts Fab to real life then consider that only 15% of relationship in real life are where the woman is older than the man; Google it.

Now pick a few female profiles and most of their meets are with younger men. Again only on average.

We’d guess from the small sample we’ve seen that there are more single women veris with younger men than with older men which goes again the published real life stats on age in relationships. "

But you are assuming younger is better and higher value - I am saying the opposite is true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s like that old chestnut that keeps on popping up that guys would fuck girls on here they wouldn’t date in the vanilla world.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

No because all are welcome to use me

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I do x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its all a question of body image and self worth.

Do i think i am better or worse than others NO.

Do i worry about it NO.

There are beautiful people in all shapes and sizes.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Dunno, never chatted a girl up in real life

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?"

Pussy. I expect.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Oh come on, you’ve never seen this kind of talk in the forum before? How men lower their standards for meets? It’s mentioned every day. It’s a clear joke, dear. Don’t be so sensitive

I don't usually haunt forums on sites... this is why! My mistake, please ignore

10 threads you've posted on, 6 of which you started so you're getting the hang of it.

You'll be as crackers as the rest of us soon......

When you get to 35 there's no going back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Punch way above my weight as i am fugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh come on, you’ve never seen this kind of talk in the forum before? How men lower their standards for meets? It’s mentioned every day. It’s a clear joke, dear. Don’t be so sensitive

I don't usually haunt forums on sites... this is why! My mistake, please ignore

10 threads you've posted on, 6 of which you started so you're getting the hang of it.

You'll be as crackers as the rest of us soon......

When you get to 35 there's no going back.

Another couple of threads and she’ll learn about the green arrow

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

On here no I don't even try in real life it's been said way above. What can I say personality and the ability to laugh a woman into bed more than makes up for my fugleyness

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"On here no I don't even try in real life it's been said way above. What can I say personality and the ability to laugh a woman into bed more than makes up for my fugleyness

Snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?"

I like to spread the love, it keeps me humble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"*cant tell if first post was a joke or not*

There are recognised disorders that sound like this..."

What’s that sarcasm or irony ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?"

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I punch below most of the time. A fuck is a fuck.

(Finally got it right)

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I don’t look for anyone away from Fab.

It’s simple really it’s about mutual attraction and interest. I don’t want to be somebody’s tick list older woman and I don’t want anyone to ‘settle’ for me. That’s just an awful thought. Mutual attraction is what I enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I punch below most of the time. A fuck is a fuck.

(Finally got it right)"

Totally. I think it keeps us 10s grounded as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t look for anyone away from Fab.

Babs don’t bring logic and reason to the thread.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I don’t look for anyone away from Fab.

Babs don’t bring logic and reason to the thread.

Sorry! I just want to shag absolute hotties, only 10s under 45 .... what are you doing later?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t look for anyone away from Fab.

Babs don’t bring logic and reason to the thread.

Sorry! I just want to shag absolute hotties, only 10s under 45 .... what are you doing later?

I’ll pencil you in, I like to mix with the riff raff.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I don’t look for anyone away from Fab.

Babs don’t bring logic and reason to the thread.

Sorry! I just want to shag absolute hotties, only 10s under 45 .... what are you doing later?

I’ll pencil you in, I like to mix with the riff raff.

In that case I’ll bring someone with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both here and in real life. Aim high I say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both here and in real life. Aim high I say "

aim for the stars, and you might reach the moon!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aim high is always a good thing,so is confidence...but arrogance is a major turn off...the original poster has arrogance in spades...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both here and in real life. Aim high I say

aim for the stars, and you might reach the moon! "

That’s kind of what I was going for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I punch above my weight everyday with Sarah. Agree that everyone’s idea of attractive can be different and the connection is what makes the real impact.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Supply and demand probably means that on average the women on Fab are punching and the guys are trading down.

But I disagree - a 30 yr old hung gym bunny is of low value to me from here or from dating sites, they are 10 a penny, only worth a 5 to me - that's not punching.

Now a charming, educated, solvent man in his fifties who is a good lover? Now he might be far more worth a 10 - so your perspective is skewed IMO.

There are always exceptions but if we were to contrasts Fab to real life then consider that only 15% of relationship in real life are where the woman is older than the man; Google it.

Now pick a few female profiles and most of their meets are with younger men. Again only on average.

We’d guess from the small sample we’ve seen that there are more single women veris with younger men than with older men which goes again the published real life stats on age in relationships.

But you are assuming younger is better and higher value - I am saying the opposite is true."

We’re not saying younger is better we’re just saying, judging by veris, women are meeting guys younger, and sometimes much younger, than themselves much more than real life published stats would suggest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Aim high is always a good thing,so is confidence...but arrogance is a major turn off...the original poster has arrogance in spades...

Thank you, I am excellent at digging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thrre all above my weight im not really here im a ghost

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Both here and in real life. Aim high I say "

I would say, in real life you should aim to end up with someone you love, that should be your aim.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?"

In normal life the girls I meet are very vanilla. Fab girls are much naughtier.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Actually I know exactly what the op means - and this certainly isn’t the first thread of this nature!

The complete lack of women in comparison to men DOES mean that women can more demanding with regard to looks on here - hence an old fart like me with an average body has met some absolutely gorgeous young men (as well as some lovely older ones!)

However - I’m a completely different package to the stunning young women they date in the real world!

For a start - I don’t give a damn what car they drive, what job they have or how much money they earn! I don’t want their babies and I don’t want to meet their mum/kids/dog!

My ONLY motive for meeting them is chats, giggles and bloody amazing sex - possibly leading to a friendship in which I expect/encourage them to sleep with other people.

Oddly, a lot of very hot guys think that package is worth putting up with a couple of wrinkles and wobbly bits for!

Needless to say - what I’ll look for in a longer term relationship isn’t a gorgeous 30 year old with a six pack- and the gorgeous 30 year old won’t be looking for a long term relationship with me either - so everyone’s a winner!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually I know exactly what the op means - and this certainly isn’t the first thread of this nature!

However - I’m a completely different package to the stunning young women they date in the real world!

For a start - I don’t give a damn what car they drive, what job they have or how much money they earn! I don’t want their babies and I don’t want to meet their mum/kids/dog!

My ONLY motive for meeting them is chats, giggles and bloody amazing sex - possibly leading to a friendship in which I expect/encourage them to sleep with other people.

Oddly, a lot of very hot guys think that package is worth putting up with a couple of wrinkles and wobbly bits for!

Very nicely put. X

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?

In normal life the girls I meet are very vanilla. Fab girls are much naughtier. "

You do realise that Fab girls are normal girls with normal lives? They’re not a different breed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?

In normal life the girls I meet are very vanilla. Fab girls are much naughtier.

You do realise that Fab girls are normal girls with normal lives? They’re not a different breed

Love this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?

In normal life the girls I meet are very vanilla. Fab girls are much naughtier.

You do realise that Fab girls are normal girls with normal lives? They’re not a different breed

yep!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Genuine question: If so many men on here claim to do so much better in real life than here then why are you here?

In normal life the girls I meet are very vanilla. Fab girls are much naughtier.

You do realise that Fab girls are normal girls with normal lives? They’re not a different breed

I'm not sure about that...

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