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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago
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I m an advocate that we all have the same choices
Yes please or no thanks.
Guys after messaging and exchanging pictures or meeting in person do you often say no thanks ?
Ladies couples if you exchange messages pictures or meeting in person do you get many rejections from guys ? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I've not as yet been outright rejected after exchanging face pics. I have had conversations with people that eventually kind of fizzled out as we had nothing to say to each other though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There have been a few occasions that I have politely declined. And there have been mixed reactions too. A few didn't take it at all well, whilst others were gracious and wished me a happy fabbing experience. No need to be nasty, but also no need to lead someone along with false hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not had anyone say sorry can't do this after seeing me in person and most have asked to see me again, or stayed in contact (It's my blow job skills). |
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"I've not had anyone say sorry can't do this after seeing me in person and most have asked to see me again, or stayed in contact (It's my blow job skills)."
Can I ask, does being in possession of your face pic automatically entitle the bearer to a blowjob?
Just curiosity, that's all...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've not had anyone say sorry can't do this after seeing me in person and most have asked to see me again, or stayed in contact (It's my blow job skills).
Can I ask, does being in possession of your face pic automatically entitle the bearer to a blowjob?
Just curiosity, that's all... "
It gives them the chance of something to wank over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.
Obviously I don't have a face pic on my profile but happy to send them, the same I ask to see them fairly quickly. Whilst I will tell someone if I'm not interested I've never had the same back. I'm fully aware I'm not a stunner & everyone's cup of tea.
Is it just that women tend to be fussier? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.
Obviously I don't have a face pic on my profile but happy to send them, the same I ask to see them fairly quickly. Whilst I will tell someone if I'm not interested I've never had the same back. I'm fully aware I'm not a stunner & everyone's cup of tea.
Is it just that women tend to be fussier?"
I'm not fussy; I have to have that instant facial attraction.
Men need to not want to throw up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.
Obviously I don't have a face pic on my profile but happy to send them, the same I ask to see them fairly quickly. Whilst I will tell someone if I'm not interested I've never had the same back. I'm fully aware I'm not a stunner & everyone's cup of tea.
Is it just that women tend to be fussier?
I'm not fussy; I have to have that instant facial attraction.
Men need to not want to throw up "
I completely agree, I have to fancy someone, it's when you then get a cock picture with a what about now message?! Uh still no! Your cock isn't going to change that I don't fancy you! |
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I once got a response, after sending a pic of: sorry, not my type, but if you're a double D or bigger, I'd consider meeting anyway.
I politely informed him that I'd been willing to overlook his appearance in the first place, and while I apparently met his criteria, he no longer met mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.
Obviously I don't have a face pic on my profile but happy to send them, the same I ask to see them fairly quickly. Whilst I will tell someone if I'm not interested I've never had the same back. I'm fully aware I'm not a stunner & everyone's cup of tea.
Is it just that women tend to be fussier?
I'm not fussy; I have to have that instant facial attraction.
Men need to not want to throw up
I completely agree, I have to fancy someone, it's when you then get a cock picture with a what about now message?! Uh still no! Your cock isn't going to change that I don't fancy you!"
As much as I like the penis I am turned off by a pic of one thrust into my inbox, from a stranger.
It feels like they think I'm just after the cock and it will have me drooling and gagging for it; when it has the opposite effect.
If they were to send a face pic, I was attracted to it and we chatted, I could very well be gagging for his cock. |
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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago
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"I once got a response, after sending a pic of: sorry, not my type, but if you're a double D or bigger, I'd consider meeting anyway.
I politely informed him that I'd been willing to overlook his appearance in the first place, and while I apparently met his criteria, he no longer met mine.
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Now I like boob's I do.. however ..
I might be in the minority of guys on here ..if I'm not attracted to the others sorry it ain't happening.  |
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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago
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Two reasons I asked ..
1. I saw a thread about a single guys value in the swinging world being zero.
2. I suggest to folk they do the searching rather than wait for the diamond to appear be proactive and search for whom they seek .. often the response is I don't send first messages .. I wondered if it was the fear of rejection from guys or whoever that might stop them messaging ? |
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"I once got a response, after sending a pic of: sorry, not my type, but if you're a double D or bigger, I'd consider meeting anyway.
I politely informed him that I'd been willing to overlook his appearance in the first place, and while I apparently met his criteria, he no longer met mine.
Now I like boob's I do.. however ..
I might be in the minority of guys on here ..if I'm not attracted to the others sorry it ain't happening. "
There's nothing wrong with having a preference, or attraction to whatever. I guess I consider myself a normal woman--who prefers to be seen as a person, rather than a pair of tits that make a meet worthwhile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to say no thanks if men are looking for a club buddy, or a woman for 3somes..or if they say, after chatting and exchanging pics, that they also have a 'female friend' they can bring along to meets as thats not what I'm looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had one man tell me I wasn't his type after he saw my pic.
Can't be everyone's cuppa "
Do you know, I wouldn't want to be. I'm that that self obsessed to think I would be either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got rejected straight after standing a face pic once.
He messaged straight back with ‘god no, not what I’m looking for’. Ouch! "
Hope you told him to fuck right off?
What a knob |
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I've never been turned down after sending a pic, but I've had chats that have just fizzled out.
I've found when someone sends me a random message, and a pic. It's easier just to delete than say no thanks.
I've also 'gone off' people I've been chatting with after they've posted a verification, status or a photo.
I've ended all communication with them, I've always figured it was pokye to tell them why first.
But usually block immediately too, to avoid any follow up messages from them.
I've had a few socials, thst have gone nowhere, although chatting was going ok - In real life something just didn't click.
I've apologised been polite to most, but a few I have left, without saying anything and then blocked the person, as I just got a bad vibe & didn't want a confrontation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I m an advocate that we all have the same choices
Yes please or no thanks.
Guys after messaging and exchanging pictures or meeting in person do you often say no thanks ?
Ladies couples if you exchange messages pictures or meeting in person do you get many rejections from guys ?"
Two in 8years. |
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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago
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"I got rejected straight after standing a face pic once.
He messaged straight back with ‘god no, not what I’m looking for’. Ouch!
Hope you told him to fuck right off?
What a knob"
I'd expect a guy who'd been told that would receive a different response.  |
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