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People not very friendly to me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by unfriendly?
As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!  "
They clearly aren’t interested. It isn’t being unfriendly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by unfriendly?
As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back! "
Do you read profiles or do you go for the scattergun approach? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"What do you mean by unfriendly?
As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back! "
You've been on here long enough to know how it works??? If the rejection is getting to you, maybe time to make a change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ?  "
There are some great people on here, in fact the majority I've spoken to are really nice people. You get the odd ones who are awkward shall we say but that's just part of life.
Chill, relax make friends and have fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "
If you think that they're unfriendly to you, you should see what they're saying behind your back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by unfriendly?
As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!
They clearly aren’t interested. It isn’t being unfriendly. "
It could bee that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by unfriendly?
As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!
Do you read profiles or do you go for the scattergun approach?"
Yes I read all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by unfriendly?
As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!
They clearly aren’t interested. It isn’t being unfriendly. "
Read the fab FAQs. It isn’t considered rude to delete/not reply to messages. https://m.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ?
If you think that they're unfriendly to you, you should see what they're saying behind your back."
So how do I know what they say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't you see a surgeon about your penis? There must be something they can do, surely?
I guarantee that once you get that sorted, you'll have a bit more luck."
It’s implants. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly  "
Ah. I forgot that was OP.
Riorio, you have made yourself slightly non-standard, which could be reducing the pool of potential partners. As a result, your ratio of replies to messages could be even worse than us boring vanilla types...
Keep at it (but stay away from strong magnets) |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Can't you see a surgeon about your penis? There must be something they can do, surely?
I guarantee that once you get that sorted, you'll have a bit more luck.
It’s implants. "
That's self inflicted?
Jesus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly
Ah. I forgot that was OP.
Riorio, you have made yourself slightly non-standard, which could be reducing the pool of potential partners. As a result, your ratio of replies to messages could be even worse than us boring vanilla types...
Keep at it (but stay away from strong magnets)"
They’re plastic, I asked when he put up a thread about them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly
Ah. I forgot that was OP.
Riorio, you have made yourself slightly non-standard, which could be reducing the pool of potential partners. As a result, your ratio of replies to messages could be even worse than us boring vanilla types...
Keep at it (but stay away from strong magnets)"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly, I'm not being mean - get your knob sorted asap.
Chalk it up to youthful exuberance or something.
I'd put money on it putting a lot of women off..."
Thanks man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "
We understand how difficult it is on her to get known and make friends etc. Specially for single guys.
But not answering messages is not unfriendly it's just the amount of messages couples and single females get on here can number in there hundreds.
Get yourself out alot of areas have social get togethers or get to a local club and start chatting to people.
It all helps |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
There's no one message that gets results from everyone.
You are just one of many guys,all seeking the same thing.
So long as you read profiles fully and if you do reply, do so in good terms, stay polite and accept that not everyone will respond, then it's all part for the course.
Plus, add in Patience, more Patience and Perseverance! It does work! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Honestly, I'm not being mean - get your knob sorted asap.
Chalk it up to youthful exuberance or something.
I'd put money on it putting a lot of women off...
Thanks man "
Or if you really like your implants put the pic away for the time being?
Didn't you do a thread on it recently? What was the majority ~ a yay or a nay? |
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You were told by almost everyone when you made a thread about your implants that it put them off so on top of being in the vast majority of single men that already struggle to get meets/replies, you've got that going against you too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good looking guy,suited & booted,goes to the gym but Jez the implants do seem a bit strange if one's never seem them before I agree,take the mickey pic's off your profile & if a lady request's to see the mickey photos in private,then show them.Out of curiosity,are the implants sore? |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
Isle of Arran |
Hi op ,I am a newbie on here (6months or so).but I have found that most folk on here are friendly but not allways responsive ,big difference .just hang in there and keep on trying . Good luck and best wishes |
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People not replying isn’t unfriendly it’s just the normal way of saying not interested.
Personally if you messaged me and I saw your implants I would be put off. That’s not to say everyone will be the same but going by your thread on your implants the general consensus wasn’t positive.
Mrs |
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It depends on what you mean by friendly op. Some people here are incredibly friendly and supportive - but you need to balance this with the fact you are a single man who is up against incredible volumes of similar men, with a bias for sex and not friendliness.
Most people have established networks of friends, others gain many here but an internet site only swinging presence isn't the best option for a single man to gain friends Imo.
If it's about getting sex, it's a similar hardships to the other single guys who post the same |
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Like others have said, single guys are ten a penny, so getting a response is not easy.
You must have realised when having them that your implants weren't going to be for everyone, so this reduces your chances even more. I wouldn't say get rid of them to marginally improve your chances on fab, if you like them then great but you need to realise it's going to be extra hard on here. |
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Females and couples get literally hundreds of messages, they can't reply to them all, so as mentioned many don't reply if they are not interested. You are a good looking guy but your implants are putting many off meeting you, that said, none of this has any bearing on your acceptance in to the forum community |
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