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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all. Has anyone used P O F? Men in particular. Is it worth paying for? It's saying I've got matches etc. I know they're probably bots, but is it worth the money? Not looking for a relationship it would just be nice to meet someone and have some company, chats, good times and a laugh before I fuck off like. I'll be going in April. I got friends but I'm not interested in cwtching up to them....

Let me know what you think. Also what experience you've had with the site and people on there.

Thank you in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s a dating site this isn’t.

What do you actually want OP, a fuck or a girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ummmmm. Some company. Don't want a girlfriend. P O F has an option to find just friends. I'm not desperate for a shag. I miss having that sort of company. Cwtch and movie. Meal out. A FWB x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've recently met someone on POF. Like this site make your profile interesting. Don't pay for POF. Take the lead, send individual messages. I met some really nice people had some good dates. You'll quickly learn to spot fakes and question Snapchat photos! ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Years ago POF was just a dating site didn’t know it was the other too. Apologies OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Never used it. How much is it out of interest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

No problem. There's not much you can do without paying for it. If you've had a good experience then I just try it for a month. £26 for a 1 off month. Not bad really. Hopefully better odds than fab!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'm backpacking around the world in april and just wanted someone to chill out with now and then. Nights in etc. I miss someone to be close too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me."

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out. "

Where and what do you do during the nights? What's your username?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out. "

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I will try it for a week or so. If no luck I may go to a social event?

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I've hidden my pof profile, found the folk on there uninspiring ..a lot of ladies seemed very angry carrying baggage.

From what I understand the upgrade allows you to see if your messages a RE read, that's no use it's the same as here inbox is important ..the meet me feature my profile said I've no access to it and yet I'm still swiped .. I take that feature with a pinch of salt..

I wouldn't pay for the features ..no use imo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious. "

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm on there, same people from here are on there looking for hookups too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off* "

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

From a womans point of view. All men want a bunk up on there. Its no better than on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm on there, same people from here are on there looking for hookups too. "

Hahaha this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just go on Tinder and drag some randoms round?!...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out? "

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same "

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"No problem. There's not much you can do without paying for it. If you've had a good experience then I just try it for a month. £26 for a 1 off month. Not bad really. Hopefully better odds than fab!? "

If I had to pay that much I'd be putting a lot more effort into it than I do on here, and I would expect a better class of man to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!"

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

"

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending "

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier."

As in Brexit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't pay for PoF.... Plenty of free fun on there!

I met a Fuck buddy for 7 months on it, until I moved out of the area....

There's others too....

Just watch out for the bunny boilers!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit"

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun. "

My problem is, I see it written on most profiles, it doesn't actually tell me anything. Other than, you're okay with the night.

Saying I like nights out to the theater/cinema/roller derby/circus/whatever else gives a little more insight.

Admittedly, I may be reading to much into this. Maybe why I'm single

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe "

I don't think we will leave. Going to get to a stage and we will have a referendum and we will stay. May even put some money on that....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun.

My problem is, I see it written on most profiles, it doesn't actually tell me anything. Other than, you're okay with the night.

Saying I like nights out to the theater/cinema/roller derby/circus/whatever else gives a little more insight.

Admittedly, I may be reading to much into this. Maybe why I'm single "

I think we are in similar predicaments, Dear. I often wonder if I’m reading too much into things when I dismiss the profiles of people who never learnt about vowels in school and list their profession as “bin a Leg-End”. We are just fools with unrealistic expectations I think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe

I don't think we will leave. Going to get to a stage and we will have a referendum and we will stay. May even put some money on that...."

Go to Thailand first then

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun.

My problem is, I see it written on most profiles, it doesn't actually tell me anything. Other than, you're okay with the night.

Saying I like nights out to the theater/cinema/roller derby/circus/whatever else gives a little more insight.

Admittedly, I may be reading to much into this. Maybe why I'm single

I think we are in similar predicaments, Dear. I often wonder if I’m reading too much into things when I dismiss the profiles of people who never learnt about vowels in school and list their profession as “bin a Leg-End”. We are just fools with unrealistic expectations I think. "

I agree. I've always gone for quality over quantity. But that's not right. I've met people who I normally wouldn't go with but once you get to know them personally and not on a site it's a different story. Online profiles can't say everything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun.

My problem is, I see it written on most profiles, it doesn't actually tell me anything. Other than, you're okay with the night.

Saying I like nights out to the theater/cinema/roller derby/circus/whatever else gives a little more insight.

Admittedly, I may be reading to much into this. Maybe why I'm single

I think we are in similar predicaments, Dear. I often wonder if I’m reading too much into things when I dismiss the profiles of people who never learnt about vowels in school and list their profession as “bin a Leg-End”. We are just fools with unrealistic expectations I think. "

Online dating allows you to be picky, maybe to picky. I have in the past dismissed profiles where they said they thought Russell Howard is funny.

I'm not attractive, smart or rich enough to be that picky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe

I don't think we will leave. Going to get to a stage and we will have a referendum and we will stay. May even put some money on that....

Go to Thailand first then "

Maybe... but I was looking forward to Holland!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe

I don't think we will leave. Going to get to a stage and we will have a referendum and we will stay. May even put some money on that....

Go to Thailand first then

Maybe... but I was looking forward to Holland! "

Oh I see. Pick up some "supplies" eh?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun.

My problem is, I see it written on most profiles, it doesn't actually tell me anything. Other than, you're okay with the night.

Saying I like nights out to the theater/cinema/roller derby/circus/whatever else gives a little more insight.

Admittedly, I may be reading to much into this. Maybe why I'm single

I think we are in similar predicaments, Dear. I often wonder if I’m reading too much into things when I dismiss the profiles of people who never learnt about vowels in school and list their profession as “bin a Leg-End”. We are just fools with unrealistic expectations I think.

Online dating allows you to be picky, maybe to picky. I have in the past dismissed profiles where they said they thought Russell Howard is funny.

I'm not attractive, smart or rich enough to be that picky. "

David Attenborough does the voice over for you though! Automatic win!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe

I don't think we will leave. Going to get to a stage and we will have a referendum and we will stay. May even put some money on that....

Go to Thailand first then

Maybe... but I was looking forward to Holland!

Oh I see. Pick up some "supplies" eh? "

Probably get enough of that in Thailand

Want to see France and Germany etc. I like all the WW2 Documentaries. Be good to go visit few places.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun.

My problem is, I see it written on most profiles, it doesn't actually tell me anything. Other than, you're okay with the night.

Saying I like nights out to the theater/cinema/roller derby/circus/whatever else gives a little more insight.

Admittedly, I may be reading to much into this. Maybe why I'm single

I think we are in similar predicaments, Dear. I often wonder if I’m reading too much into things when I dismiss the profiles of people who never learnt about vowels in school and list their profession as “bin a Leg-End”. We are just fools with unrealistic expectations I think.

Online dating allows you to be picky, maybe to picky. I have in the past dismissed profiles where they said they thought Russell Howard is funny.

I'm not attractive, smart or rich enough to be that picky.

David Attenborough does the voice over for you though! Automatic win! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think I'm just going to make a map of where hippy free love communes exist and base my journey on that

I'll probably start in India. Best place to find yourself surely? Ommmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got chatting to a woman on there some years back. She was helping her friend set a trap for her (friend's) husband as she was suspicious that he was cheating in her.

We chatted for a couple of weeks and ended up having an nsa meet in a hotel.

I don't know if the mantrap story was true of if that was her cover story for being on there but either way, if you're looking for ironic sex, PoF is the site.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central


"POF is great if you want someone who is fun, bubbly, outgoing, down to earth, laid back, looking for adventure, likes nights in and nights out.

Because that's all of them.

Honestly, I really didn't like POF at all. The profiles were either like above or had nothing. I'm a second impression kind of guy, I need something to work with.

You might have better luck with it than me.

Ahem...I’ll have you know that my POF profile is a absolute hoot to read and I HATE nights in and nights out.

More of a day person?

You must be an exception then. Because most profiles are atrocious.

Really, I love nights in and nights out.

*slopes off*

Question. Do you put what you like to do on a night in or night out?

I have not - but I haven’t written “Likes nights in and nights out” on my profile. I would of thought that was a given. Unless they have a morbid fear of the dark - in which case, they aren’t likely to be much fun. "

Nights in, keeping the lights on is alright

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By *DSGCouple  over a year ago

That place in

I remember when POF was free Lol

Mind you it was about eight years ago, I left and went back on about five years ago and lasted a week that time

SG

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe "

More likely he could backpack around the world, twice, and still get back home before we have even got around to actually leaving the EU in the first place.....

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman  over a year ago

London


"I got chatting to a woman on there some years back. She was helping her friend set a trap for her (friend's) husband as she was suspicious that he was cheating in her.

We chatted for a couple of weeks and ended up having an nsa meet in a hotel.

I don't know if the mantrap story was true of if that was her cover story for being on there but either way, if you're looking for ironic sex, PoF is the site."

Ironic sex? Sounds right up my street!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You know what. I may just do it the old fashioned way. Actually go up to woman and ask them out?

Wow 25 minutes from entertaining online dating to giving up on it and realising the very best way to find someone you truly fancy is just to ask them out in person. I think that's a record! You must be a very switched on guy I've come to the same conclusion myself. But it's easier said than done. Takes a lot of balls to chat women up.

Where are you off to in April? Thinking of doing the same

You think I've been on here 25 minutes? I've been on a few times then get to that stage of fuck it and give up. Actually last time I was on here I upset a few people and I got banned. I was in a bad place then but I'm good now. I haven't upset anyone. I used to get more messages upsetting people though.

I'm backpacking around the world. No plan or time limit just going to France and see what happens. Giving it all up to live off the grid. Can't do this settling down stuff!

I'm thinking of going off to "find myself" I'll probably start in a more far flung destination as I know what it's like... you get to France, you find a lovely village, you stay a while, then you never get to China or wherever you were intending

Was thinking of starting in Thailand. But I want to see Europe before we leave. Be easier.

As in Brexit

By the time you've whizzed round the world we'll be back in Europe

More likely he could backpack around the world, twice, and still get back home before we have even got around to actually leaving the EU in the first place....."

Well officially leave December 2021.. so got few years

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Make sure you post some pics so we can follow you on your travels. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Make sure you post some pics so we can follow you on your travels. Xx"

Yeah could do. I'm down st Austell on Thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pof is good for socials I found. Had some nice coffee meets. Ok Cupid and baddoo are good aswell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I didn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone that's on POF in my area is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone that's on POF in my area is on here.

"

really... wowzers

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