Why do most people on here not take the opportunity to meet people to actually find out what they are like in the flesh some people will come across as not that genuine in an email but when you actually meet if you give them a chance they are very genuine and very nice people give people like my self a chance and meet us and see what we are really like rant over |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I'm sure lots of people might come across better in person, unfortunately I don't have the time to meet every single person who asks to give them that chance, so I meet the ones I get along with and am attracted to via messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woah, you didn’t take a breath!
Because I don’t have the time. I go by fave and personality. If I don’t like them online, I probably won’t like them in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet people I’ve spoken to for a little while and once I think I’ve got a feel for the kind of person they are and how well we’ll get on. If someone isn’t going to be open and genuine with my by text then that’s not my problem |
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"Why do most people on here not take the opportunity to meet people to actually find out what they are like in the flesh some people will come across as not that genuine in an email but when you actually meet if you give them a chance they are very genuine and very nice people give people like my self a chance and meet us and see what we are really like rant over"
Because on here, I make decisions about people based on their profile.
There are things I'm looking for, and things I don't want too see.
Yes that person may well be a very nice in real life, but if the profile isn't attractive, inspire me, or contains things that put it off.
Then I'll skip by it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do most people on here not take the opportunity to meet people to actually find out what they are like in the flesh some people will come across as not that genuine in an email but when you actually meet if you give them a chance they are very genuine and very nice people give people like my self a chance and meet us and see what we are really like rant over"
Welcome to the forum. 
I do meet people to give them a chance- if we have something in common. I've also had people give me a chance.
If it's very unlikely that we're compatible I won't meet them because I don't want to waste their time. They could be having more fun doing something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do most people on here not take the opportunity to meet people to actually find out what they are like in the flesh some people will come across as not that genuine in an email but when you actually meet if you give them a chance they are very genuine and very nice people give people like my self a chance and meet us and see what we are really like rant over"
Basically because I can't be arsed..
If i am going to meet someone i have to know beforehand that we are going to get on, and not just meet on the off chance..
Thats not how it works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet at group socials, it’s like casing the pic an mix in Woolworths and then popping back in when you get chance and knowing exactly which troughs to stick your hand in.
Every now and then you make off with the tastiest sweets without the guess work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only respond to people I am attracted to, that means I need to see a face... That I like. Once they prove they are genuine aswell as what I am looking for personality wise, then we can sort out a meet. Pretty sure that is how it's meant to go, right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i meet rarely because for me, meeting the right people is more important.
dont care if its a sex site or not im not interested in meeting all.
it can take time, but those worth it know that.and they remain special friends to me and hopefully they see me the same way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We only meet at group socials, it’s like casing the pic an mix in Woolworths and then popping back in when you get chance and knowing exactly which troughs to stick your hand in.
Every now and then you make off with the tastiest sweets without the guess work "
Sticking your hand in the trough.  |
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