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MMF’s are an administrative nightmare!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

I’ve done it once but it didn’t go well. One man was lovely, the other, not so much (not at all!)

Guy one: “I can do Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday”

Guy two: “I’m free on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday”

Or at a club: “I’d rather have you alone first”

Or on Fab: can find one willing and localish but not a second. Now the first is saying “Let’s just meet as a two”.

Or in person, one or both struggle to “perform” in the presence of another bloke.

So, fellow pervs, how do you manage it?

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

Ignore the apostrophe in the title. Let’s just pretend it never happened...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes they’re a pain especially if it al goes wrong.

When I had an MMMMMF, it was clear that the organiser was shattered from all of the organisation and for what seems like a simple task is actually very complex

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

The hard part is finding one or two guys who are comfortable and able to perform in close proximity for a lady during an MMF.... however once a small pool of them is found its just a question of seeing which ones are available when the girL is on a day off... and if it becomes a MMMF...Al the better

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It’s only ever happened organically in a club. Truth be told.. I’m not a fan. One cock and one ego too many.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Yes they’re a pain especially if it al goes wrong.

When I had an MMMMMF, it was clear that the organiser was shattered from all of the organisation and for what seems like a simple task is actually very complex"

Hahahahaha. Indeed. By they you’d just be saying “you all fuck while I snooze”.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

You poor thing. Come and have a lay down here. Bring a mate...

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"The hard part is finding one or two guys who are comfortable and able to perform in close proximity for a lady during an MMF.... however once a small pool of them is found its just a question of seeing which ones are available when the girL is on a day off... and if it becomes a MMMF...Al the better

That’s a good point. I know a couple of guys that have done it. Maybe I need to try to expand the pool so availability is less of an issue.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"It’s only ever happened organically in a club. Truth be told.. I’m not a fan. One cock and one ego too many. "

Hahahahaha. I know what you mean. There’s something very focussed about a 1:1.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

It's a problem I'm prepared to embrace..

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

It's a problem I'm prepared to embrace.."

Such a trooper.

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

You poor thing. Come and have a lay down here. Bring a mate..."

He'd have performance problems if I turned up

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

You poor thing. Come and have a lay down here. Bring a mate...

He'd have performance problems if I turned up

You have Malteasers AND handcuffs! Who needs an MMF?!

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

You poor thing. Come and have a lay down here. Bring a mate...

He'd have performance problems if I turned up

You have Malteasers AND handcuffs! Who needs an MMF?! "

Sorted then

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

You poor thing. Come and have a lay down here. Bring a mate..."

PMSL

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

You poor thing. Come and have a lay down here. Bring a mate...

He'd have performance problems if I turned up

It's always the 1s talk the talk

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s only ever happened organically in a club. Truth be told.. I’m not a fan. One cock and one ego too many. "
egos are an amazing thing in this world

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

It’s worth a try.

(See you on Saturday at 3pm...

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

You're asking blokes to miss the Premier League kickoff?

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

You're asking blokes to miss the Premier League kickoff?"

Outrageous! You’d rather watch men play with balls than help me play with balls?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven’t done it yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me about it. I haven't had one for over 10 years. A combination of being super-fussy and a logistical nightmare.

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

I'm available

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I’ve done it once but it didn’t go well. One man was lovely, the other, not so much (not at all!)

Guy one: “I can do Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday”

Guy two: “I’m free on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday”

Or at a club: “I’d rather have you alone first”

Or on Fab: can find one willing and localish but not a second. Now the first is saying “Let’s just meet as a two”.

Or in person, one or both struggle to “perform” in the presence of another bloke.

So, fellow pervs, how do you manage it? "

To much organisation just go with the flow

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I haven’t done it yet!

There should be an app for this!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Tell me about it. I haven't had one for over 10 years. A combination of being super-fussy and a logistical nightmare. "

Hi!

Maybe a club event of willing men would get us all seen to.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I’ve done it once but it didn’t go well. One man was lovely, the other, not so much (not at all!)

Guy one: “I can do Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday”

Guy two: “I’m free on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday”

Or at a club: “I’d rather have you alone first”

Or on Fab: can find one willing and localish but not a second. Now the first is saying “Let’s just meet as a two”.

Or in person, one or both struggle to “perform” in the presence of another bloke.

So, fellow pervs, how do you manage it?

To much organisation just go with the flow "

My point is, it doesn’t flow! It not something that’s come up (so to speak).

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Never really an issue ... I just rely on the ones I’ve met before ... pick a day juggle around a bit and that’s it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any MM couples locally to you ?

i.e. guys that are known to each other who play as a duo with women ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell me about it. I haven't had one for over 10 years. A combination of being super-fussy and a logistical nightmare.

Hi!

Maybe a club event of willing men would get us all seen to. "

Yes, if the club were full of good-looking, fit, intelligent witty men. Tell me such a place and I'll be there like a shot. It very much depends on who's there on the day with clubs,and what they're looking for at that particular time.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Never really an issue ... I just rely on the ones I’ve met before ... pick a day juggle around a bit and that’s it

Might be the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you want bi or straight MMF?

Pick your main man as someone you've met before. Then you just need one more.

Everything in life takes some organisation but it's worth it.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Any MM couples locally to you ?

i.e. guys that are known to each other who play as a duo with women ?"

That would be ideal. I’ve looked in the past. I think the nearest is London. But that’d be awesome!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

You're asking blokes to miss the Premier League kickoff?

Outrageous! You’d rather watch men play with balls than help me play with balls?!"

Balls to that! Not me, personally. I'd rather help you play with balls than watch men play with balls. We'd have a ball. Err... balls.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

Some lads do have a problem with performing in close proximity of others; I personally don’t, but I think that is because I often meet couples so mmf with 3 indervifuals is fine

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Do you want bi or straight MMF?

Pick your main man as someone you've met before. Then you just need one more.

Everything life takes some organisation but it's worth it."

I’d love it with two bi men! The combinations and possibilities would be lovely. But two relaxed straight men would be absolutely fine.

Organisation?!? Damn. I wanted Dial-A-Threesome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you want bi or straight MMF?

Pick your main man as someone you've met before. Then you just need one more.

Everything life takes some organisation but it's worth it.

I’d love it with two bi men! The combinations and possibilities would be lovely. But two relaxed straight men would be absolutely fine.

Organisation?!? Damn. I wanted Dial-A-Threesome. "

Yes. You'd think it would be easier on a site like this wouldn't you?

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where’s the violin? Ah here it is!

Just kidding, Mrs T, you know that!

I don’t know about MMF but don’t they normally say that FFM is better if the 2 x F already know each other and are friends rather than trying to bring 2 random people together?

I only know this as I’ve researched bringing two ladies to the party, but never researched bringing two fellas together.

Anyway it also depends on the fella doesn’t it? Even trying to arrange a cwaffee with me, for example, takes months of meticulous planning!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Do you want bi or straight MMF?

Pick your main man as someone you've met before. Then you just need one more.

Everything life takes some organisation but it's worth it.

I’d love it with two bi men! The combinations and possibilities would be lovely. But two relaxed straight men would be absolutely fine.

Organisation?!? Damn. I wanted Dial-A-Threesome.

Yes. You'd think it would be easier on a site like this wouldn't you? "

I’ll devote my life to it (who needs a job or kids?)

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Where’s the violin? Ah here it is!

Just kidding, Mrs T, you know that!

I don’t know about MMF but don’t they normally say that FFM is better if the 2 x F already know each other and are friends rather than trying to bring 2 random people together?

I only know this as I’ve researched bringing two ladies to the party, but never researched bringing two fellas together.

Anyway it also depends on the fella doesn’t it? Even trying to arrange a cwaffee with me, for example, takes months of meticulous planning!

Yes - you’re a fucking nightmare to meet frankly.

Maybe you need to find yourself a nice FF couple and invite them to play. I know they’re scarce... can’t imagine where you’d start...

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action"

"FAB... Swingers."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you want bi or straight MMF?

Pick your main man as someone you've met before. Then you just need one more.

Everything life takes some organisation but it's worth it.

I’d love it with two bi men! The combinations and possibilities would be lovely. But two relaxed straight men would be absolutely fine.

Organisation?!? Damn. I wanted Dial-A-Threesome.

Yes. You'd think it would be easier on a site like this wouldn't you?

I’ll devote my life to it (who needs a job or kids?)"

Perhaps there's a business opportunity here, "ThreesomesRUs?"

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

This is an excellent opportunity to ask someone who knows - how many messages can you get in your inbox at once?

Maybe you need to plan for a MMMMMMMMMF and allow for some fall out?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action

"FAB... Swingers.""
hahaha perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is an excellent opportunity to ask someone who knows - how many messages can you get in your inbox at once?

Maybe you need to plan for a MMMMMMMMMF and allow for some fall out?

This approach would only work for the seriously non-discerning. If anyone would do, there would be no difficulty in the first place

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

Try being a bloke after a MF, or so I hear...

Personally, I'm biding my time for a FFFFFFFFFFFM with a netball team, I'm sure it will happen soon...

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action"

I’m in!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"This is an excellent opportunity to ask someone who knows - how many messages can you get in your inbox at once?

Maybe you need to plan for a MMMMMMMMMF and allow for some fall out?

Some would certainly “fall out” on that ratio. In fact, I’m not sure they’d “fit in” in the first place...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore the apostrophe in the title. Let’s just pretend it never happened..."

It's a bit like the two dicks in the mouth. Let's just pretend it never happened.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

Try being a bloke after a MF, or so I hear...

Personally, I'm biding my time for a FFFFFFFFFFFM with a netball team, I'm sure it will happen soon...

Patience is the key...

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action

I’m in! "
did you bring a man..or maybe two?

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Ignore the apostrophe in the title. Let’s just pretend it never happened...

It's a bit like the two dicks in the mouth. Let's just pretend it never happened."

I remember. I was surprised you managed them both.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action

I’m in! did you bring a man..or maybe two?"

Damn the small print.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action

I’m in! "

That's what they said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore the apostrophe in the title. Let’s just pretend it never happened...

It's a bit like the two dicks in the mouth. Let's just pretend it never happened.

I remember. I was surprised you managed them both. "

Hahahaha.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

My ex FB arranged one for me with his best mate. Awesome! Had a few in clubs with a fella id previously played with and randoms. Awesome! I need more. When it works it's ...you guessed it awesome!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My ex FB arranged one for me with his best mate. Awesome! Had a few in clubs with a fella id previously played with and randoms. Awesome! I need more. When it works it's ...you guessed it awesome!

Agreed, when the mix is just right it is - but very rarely found in my experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you want bi or straight MMF?

Pick your main man as someone you've met before. Then you just need one more.

Everything life takes some organisation but it's worth it.

I’d love it with two bi men! The combinations and possibilities would be lovely. But two relaxed straight men would be absolutely fine.

Organisation?!? Damn. I wanted Dial-A-Threesome. "

MMF is always better with 2 bi guys...we've never had the inability to perform in front of another man problem...DP works better with men who aren't scared to cross swords...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Organising anything more than a twosome is a pain.

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

logistically they're ten times harder, add into the mix three parties (yep all 3) have to get on it's a very different dynamic to a solo meet so yeah the guys need to be comfortable with each other they're not walking cocks.. add into the mix attraction ,

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

I struggle finding one to join us on this site. We do have two single guys, but we didn’t meet them directly through their profile on Fab! (Introduction or club) the guys on here have either not turned up or disappeared. Talk the talk but don’t want to walk the walk I’ve given up looking.

If you’ve found one, why not add a couple to the mix for FFMM. We have a couple we regularly meet where I just watch as she doesn’t want her husband to touch me! I tip up throw in the odd kiss but mainly let them get on with it. It’s very sexy to watch, but not sure how many women like me are out there! Lol

Good luck on your quest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did mine with 2 mates..

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I tried one the other week.

It didn't go well.

I've given up that it would actually work.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I struggle finding one to join us on this site. We do have two single guys, but we didn’t meet them directly through their profile on Fab! (Introduction or club) the guys on here have either not turned up or disappeared. Talk the talk but don’t want to walk the walk I’ve given up looking.

Good luck on your quest "

That sounds fun. I’ve only met one MF couple. They’re really experienced and really relaxed. It was lovely.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I tried one the other week.

It didn't go well.

I've given up that it would actually work."

Hello lovely!

Why didn’t it work?

My only experience of it was one guy being great but the other hating it so much that he cancelled a subsequent one-to-one meet we had planned and wouldn’t talk to me. I repelled him!!!

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Perhaps us men should get together and form a MM task force ...a bit like Tracey island... ready to go to any F waiting for action

I’m in! "

Sounds perfect

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Well I’m out to Cyprus soon for a FFM ... and that was easy to organise but then I have been out to see the Male a few times ... it’s all about building relationships with people ... not in the romantic sense but getting to know people etc ...

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Just moved to Glasgow not done yet but happy try with you

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

So what went wrong

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

How did go u look 39

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"I tried one the other week.

It didn't go well.

I've given up that it would actually work.

Hello lovely!

Why didn’t it work?

My only experience of it was one guy being great but the other hating it so much that he cancelled a subsequent one-to-one meet we had planned and wouldn’t talk to me. I repelled him!!!

I'll explain fully elsewhere, but it's not a threesome if only two people take part

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Wow u model

Well in leeds from Friday I would turn up

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I tried one the other week.

It didn't go well.

I've given up that it would actually work.

Hello lovely!

Why didn’t it work?

My only experience of it was one guy being great but the other hating it so much that he cancelled a subsequent one-to-one meet we had planned and wouldn’t talk to me. I repelled him!!!

I'll explain fully elsewhere, but it's not a threesome if only two people take part

Eeeek!

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Wow love to help you a model

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

Actually I just remembered that I did do a lovely thing with two guys once.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Well I’m out to Cyprus soon for a FFM ... and that was easy to organise but then I have been out to see the Male a few times ... it’s all about building relationships with people ... not in the romantic sense but getting to know people etc ...

That sounds very nice indeed.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Just moved to Glasgow not done yet but happy try with you"

I’m on my way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've always had the same problems, its why after 8 yrs I've still never had a good sucessful MFM pLay. Agreed dates and confidence all add to stress. DP is my fantasy and sadly now thsts just what it is as I know it won't ever happen x

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Okay see u soon

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

My partner's friend who he's done a few with. That's kind of cheating and not really very helpful! Going for someone who has a friend he (he being the person you know) feels comfortable with or there are a few MM profiles. FFMs have always been easier for me!

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"I've always had the same problems, its why after 8 yrs I've still never had a good sucessful MFM pLay. Agreed dates and confidence all add to stress. DP is my fantasy and sadly now thsts just what it is as I know it won't ever happen x"

I’ve helped someone fulfill her DP fantasy, it was fantastic! Keep trying

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Probably the easiest way to arrange would be as part of a "couple" at least that way you already know, and can rely on one half of the mix (once you've made sure he's comfortable with it) and just need to find a third party you both like either through here or at a club

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Love your photos

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything. "

I know men have lives 1 can't meet this day the other can't do theses days ..feelings..your op can't perform. hence my post not walking cocks. It's a very different dynamic . If the guys don't know each other it can be very nerve wracking hence why I said all 3 need to be comfortable with each other.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple over a year ago

Bloxham

Finding any kind of meet for us at moment a nightmare

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

It really is trickier than it sounds.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

In a club spoilt for choice

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"My partner's friend who he's done a few with. That's kind of cheating and not really very helpful! Going for someone who has a friend he (he being the person you know) feels comfortable with or there are a few MM profiles. FFMs have always been easier for me! "

Same re FFM.

You’re right, nail down one then find another.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Never really an issue ... I just rely on the ones I’ve met before ... pick a day juggle around a bit and that’s it

Same here, no drama then.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

I’ve helped someone fulfill her DP fantasy, it was fantastic! Keep trying

It wasn’t me though you disloyal bugger.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Probably the easiest way to arrange would be as part of a "couple" at least that way you already know, and can rely on one half of the mix (once you've made sure he's comfortable with it) and just need to find a third party you both like either through here or at a club

I’m gonna take that as an offer. X

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Love your photos"

Thanks.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

I know all that. I’m always lovely to folk unless they’re shitty with me. I understand men have hopes, fears, needs etc. This is a slightly self-indulgent wish but loads of times I’ve enjoyed helping men fulfil their fantasies. I’d want people who were comfortable in an MMF but ideally I’d like them to know how they felt about it before we were all in the sack.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Finding any kind of meet for us at moment a nightmare

How come?

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"In a club spoilt for choice"

I go as a single person. I suppose it’s the awkwardness of asking two guys and hoping they’ll both be ok with it all. Maybe I need to throw caution to the wind.

I suppose as well I don’t want to feel “in charge” of it - who goes where, whether they swap etc.

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Wow Mrs looks 35

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

Can you mail me pleaae

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

"In a club spoilt for choice

I go as a single person. I suppose it’s the awkwardness of asking two guys and hoping they’ll both be ok with it all. Maybe I need to throw caution to the wind.

I suppose as well I don’t want to feel “in charge” of it - who goes where, whether they swap etc. "

As a couple already one male with hubby so easy to connect with a single sociable flirty male

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"In a club spoilt for choice

I go as a single person. I suppose it’s the awkwardness of asking two guys and hoping they’ll both be ok with it all. Maybe I need to throw caution to the wind.

I suppose as well I don’t want to feel “in charge” of it - who goes where, whether they swap etc. "

Obviously a bi MMF would be more difficult in a club unless it was a bi night . But it really ought to be easy enough to arrange . Of course you should throw caution to the wind ! After all , any guy attending a club is there to fulfil his fantasies too , and you must realise that in a club there is way less expectation of exclusivity than there is on here .

If you get a lockable room the bi mmf would be perfectly feasible too , so it’s down to you to chat and be open on your next club visit .

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple over a year ago

Bloxham

"Finding any kind of meet for us at moment a nightmare

How come? "

Lots of fakes and people letting us down is becoming more common if we are not for them would rather they be up front we are adults

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi"
sexy

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

Were all here to indulge in fantasies ..put yourself in two strange guys situation, getting naked in front of a lady can be daunting enough .will she think I look like my pictures am I buff enough big enough will I pleasure her enough ..put another guy in the mix and you can add..is he more buff than me bigger than me will he give her more pleasure than me.. and many other thoughts will go through a guy's head in that situation.

Did you ask the guy why he didn't "perform". Maybe it's something you did or didn't do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You lot are very ambitious, I find scheduling to be a challenge when trying to arrange an M. Bunging in a second M and an F or 2 seems like a serious challenge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry, Mrs Trellis! olovingman has taken on your case...

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

"I’ve done it once but it didn’t go well. One man was lovely, the other, not so much (not at all!)

Guy one: “I can do Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday”

Guy two: “I’m free on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday”

Or at a club: “I’d rather have you alone first”

Or on Fab: can find one willing and localish but not a second. Now the first is saying “Let’s just meet as a two”.

Or in person, one or both struggle to “perform” in the presence of another bloke.

So, fellow pervs, how do you manage it? "
. Morning Mrs T, sorry to hear of your logistical nightmare, in truth ( and not sure if this is helpful) perhaps finding one chap first and then popping along to a lovely club and meeting a single chap or perhaps a willing couple who are happy to spare the chap for a couple of hours

the latter I feel is a good option if the couple are already experienced in this area, imho it works as they are comfortable

we’ve had a fair few experiences and usually in a setting where lots of couples are playing in a room, then we may borrow the chap for a tick

or Mr will lend his services out for a tick

I’ll be honest though, it has been with people we are already comfortable with

hopefully you’ll find what you’re looking for rather soon but don’t give up looking, it’ll happen

Mrs blue eyes

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

MFM in club for us always awesome - chat & connect see dynamics, hubby always leads and controls. Nothing but respectful fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MFM in club for us always awesome - chat & connect see dynamics, hubby always leads and controls. Nothing but respectful fun"

Same with MFF 2 + 1 is much easier than 1+1+1 & often easier than 2+2

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By *ewBurtonMan over a year ago

Derby

I love MMF fun. But if it’s with three people that have not met before that’s a problem. And don’t forget all single guys are married (well not all) It’s not easy but great fun when it gets sorted xxxxx good luck. Shame you not in Derby xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a couple we find an Mmf is the easiest to arrange, but that’s because we already have each other it’s a ffm we find difficult to find. X

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Best for me has always been having a friend and finding a third together. Look for guys with threesome or group/ gangbang veris.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Someone needs to set up some kind of gangbang supply agency. A database of willing guys who aren't going to ask for 1:1.

Alternatively just add the meet to the meat section and see who applies rather than trying to do it yourself. Once you've done it a few times you might get some reliable guys.

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By *irthy73Man over a year ago

stourport

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

You're asking blokes to miss the Premier League kickoff?"

Not all blokes like football. Hard to believe but true!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

absolutely hahah and I'm the Mrs who wants this haha

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By *irthy73Man over a year ago

stourport

"Best for me has always been having a friend and finding a third together. Look for guys with threesome or group/ gangbang veris. "

I was the on call dial a shag for a few friends. Would get a text asking me if I fancied joining in with X and Y (or X and X). Being a horny sod I usually shot over

no pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

It's a problem I'm prepared to embrace..

Such a trooper. "

My greatest sexual experience. Sadly now just a distant memory...

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Best for me has always been having a friend and finding a third together. Look for guys with threesome or group/ gangbang veris.

I was the on call dial a shag for a few friends. Would get a text asking me if I fancied joining in with X and Y (or X and X). Being a horny sod I usually shot over

no pun intended. "

I've been fairly lucky in that I've got a handful of male friends who are really comfortable in clubs and groups. Finding another guy on top isn't hard, plus they tend to know (of) other people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve done it once but it didn’t go well. One man was lovely, the other, not so much (not at all!)

Guy one: “I can do Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday”

Guy two: “I’m free on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday”

Or at a club: “I’d rather have you alone first”

Or on Fab: can find one willing and localish but not a second. Now the first is saying “Let’s just meet as a two”.

Or in person, one or both struggle to “perform” in the presence of another bloke.

So, fellow pervs, how do you manage it? "

Try a third guy then if only 2 can turn up on the same say you are sorted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone needs to set up some kind of gangbang supply agency. A database of willing guys who aren't going to ask for 1:1.

Alternatively just add the meet to the meat section and see who applies rather than trying to do it yourself. Once you've done it a few times you might get some reliable guys. "

Meat section.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

I used to look for men with veris from couples. That way I knew they'd had a 3some before and were ok with the situation. I'd imagine it would be nerve wracking their first time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a bloke an after a ffm. You think you've got problems

Or a women wanting an ffm

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Create a Doodle poll?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Organising anything more than a twosome is a pain."

Even trying to organise that is a pain lol

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

Did you ask the guy why he didn't "perform". Maybe it's something you did or didn't do.

You seem to be reading my remarks as being disparaging of men. No of them have been. You’re being fairly “prickly”.

The anxieties you describe are common to all of us. Am I too fat? Are my boobs droopy? Do I have too much pubic hair? Are my labia too big? Etc etc etc. Body anxiety isn’t unique to men.

The thing about being able to “perform” (which I also put in quotation marks because I don’t like the term but I suppose it conveys what I mean) - meant they couldn’t get or maintain an erection and they didn’t continue (by doing other things) beyond that.

The guy that was dismissive of me, was happy enough for me to suck his cock, then disappeared and cancelled our next meet and wouldn’t speak to me. I guess he didn’t fancy me or didn’t like my blow job technique but, if you’re suggesting I beg him to talk to me and tell me what I did “wrong”, it’s not my style. I’m happy to receive feedback but not from someone who won’t talk to me.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I’ve done it once but it didn’t go well. One man was lovely, the other, not so much (not at all!)

Guy one: “I can do Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday”

Guy two: “I’m free on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday”

Or at a club: “I’d rather have you alone first”

Or on Fab: can find one willing and localish but not a second. Now the first is saying “Let’s just meet as a two”.

Or in person, one or both struggle to “perform” in the presence of another bloke.

So, fellow pervs, how do you manage it? . Morning Mrs T, sorry to hear of your logistical nightmare, in truth ( and not sure if this is helpful) perhaps finding one chap first and then popping along to a lovely club and meeting a single chap or perhaps a willing couple who are happy to spare the chap for a couple of hours

the latter I feel is a good option if the couple are already experienced in this area, imho it works as they are comfortable

we’ve had a fair few experiences and usually in a setting where lots of couples are playing in a room, then we may borrow the chap for a tick

or Mr will lend his services out for a tick

I’ll be honest though, it has been with people we are already comfortable with

hopefully you’ll find what you’re looking for rather soon but don’t give up looking, it’ll happen

Mrs blue eyes

Thank you! It seems the way to go.

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

........but, oh!, so worth it!

I think the best solution is to find two guys who already know each other. Much easier and more relaxed for all concerned.

If that’s a help to anyone, then by all means come and ask

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Someone needs to set up some kind of gangbang supply agency. A database of willing guys who aren't going to ask for 1:1.

Alternatively just add the meet to the meat section and see who applies rather than trying to do it yourself. Once you've done it a few times you might get some reliable guys. "

Good advice. Thank you!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

I used to look for men with veris from couples. That way I knew they'd had a 3some before and were ok with the situation. I'd imagine it would be nerve wracking their first time. "

Good idea!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Create a Doodle poll?

Love a good Doodle poll!

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"........but, oh!, so worth it!

I think the best solution is to find two guys who already know each other. Much easier and more relaxed for all concerned.

If that’s a help to anyone, then by all means come and ask

Good plan. If they already know each other I won’t feel like I’m solely responsible for the success of the encounter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bi mmf is my absolute favourite! My experience I've looked for a bi playmate first that I click with and meet first to get to know well. Then I put up a meet request for a bi man and we choose together depending on how experienced/Dom/sub they both are to get the right mix. It's always worked really well for me. Good luck x

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Create a Doodle poll?

Love a good Doodle poll! "

I look forward to receiving it in the post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

Yup, exactly why I’m still a MFM virgin...

...and the craving gets bigger and bigger each day... *sigh*

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"........but, oh!, so worth it!

I think the best solution is to find two guys who already know each other. Much easier and more relaxed for all concerned.

If that’s a help to anyone, then by all means come and ask

Good plan. If they already know each other I won’t feel like I’m solely responsible for the success of the encounter. "

And you can leaves the guys to organise everything. Shame you are not a bit nearer.......

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By *on12xxMan over a year ago

leeds

U after mmf or ffm

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......"

I apologise unreservedly.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Yup, exactly why I’m still a MFM virgin...

...and the craving gets bigger and bigger each day... *sigh* "

We should get 50 women and 100 lovely men in a club and go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

I apologise unreservedly. "

Accepted x

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"........but, oh!, so worth it!

I think the best solution is to find two guys who already know each other. Much easier and more relaxed for all concerned.

If that’s a help to anyone, then by all means come and ask

Good plan. If they already know each other I won’t feel like I’m solely responsible for the success of the encounter.

And you can leaves the guys to organise everything. Shame you are not a bit nearer......."

I know! Shall I move?

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......"

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"U after mmf or ffm"

MMF.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"........but, oh!, so worth it!

I think the best solution is to find two guys who already know each other. Much easier and more relaxed for all concerned.

If that’s a help to anyone, then by all means come and ask

Good plan. If they already know each other I won’t feel like I’m solely responsible for the success of the encounter.

And you can leaves the guys to organise everything. Shame you are not a bit nearer......."

I would be very wary of meeting 2 men that already know each other if I didn't know them well.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*"

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another tip OP. If you're looking for bi men, do an Advanced Search for men that are 'looking for' men and/ or tv's.

Good luck. Don't give up.

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"........but, oh!, so worth it!

I think the best solution is to find two guys who already know each other. Much easier and more relaxed for all concerned.

If that’s a help to anyone, then by all means come and ask

Good plan. If they already know each other I won’t feel like I’m solely responsible for the success of the encounter.

And you can leaves the guys to organise everything. Shame you are not a bit nearer.......

I know! Shall I move? "

Or just meet in the middle.....literally

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!! "

I was always rubbish at English Language

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!! "

You're right.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m usually the second M so it has just been a matter of a couple to contactibg me. It’s been quite easy but an essential part is agreeing boundaries first.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused

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By *oss25Man over a year ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

Bi MM duo here.....looking for our F

Comfortable with each other and no egos, really

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"The fact there are lots of guys doesn't equate ease.. can't do a certain day or time.

. How very dare the guys have a life and aren't available at the click of a finger..

I'm more surprised they ever happen than not.

“Not available at the click of a finger”... “not walking cocks”... Men have feelings and lives and preferences? This changes everything.

Did you ask the guy why he didn't "perform". Maybe it's something you did or didn't do.

You seem to be reading my remarks as being disparaging of men. No of them have been. You’re being fairly “prickly”.

The anxieties you describe are common to all of us. Am I too fat? Are my boobs droopy? Do I have too much pubic hair? Are my labia too big? Etc etc etc. Body anxiety isn’t unique to men.

I'm not prickly ..I'm putting forward reasons why these threesomes are mega hard to organise.. easier as a mf couple

my first post said quantity of a gender don't make it easy folk often think it should be .. finding two people you find attractive is hard enough ..finding two people you find attractive that are interested in a mfm even smaller number.. available on the right day even smaller.. throw into the mix guys that don't know each other I'm surprised you got that near..

why the guy wasn't able to get or maintain an erection .. could be you, could be the situation, could be a thousand other reasons, I only suggested you asked him.. if you managed to arrange another mfm the same reason might occur.

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused"

Those are all abbreviations of two separate words - it is / do not / does not.

MMFs is the plural of MMF, so no apostrophe.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused

Those are all abbreviations of two separate words - it is / do not / does not.

MMFs is the plural of MMF, so no apostrophe."

Ahhh...every day is a learning day...

Sadly, tomorrow is likely a forgetting day

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused"

The apostrophe in those words represents a missing letter. It’s is it is, don’t is do not and doesn’t is does not.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused"

If a letter is missing you use an apostrophe;

- Doesn’t isn’t wasn’t can’t

- Paul’s late (Paul is late)

- My leg’s hurting (my leg is hurting)

- it’s getting late.

If it belongs to one person you use apostrophe-S:

- Jane’s dog

- Bob’s son.

- EXCEPTION: something belongs to it - “the house is nice. I like its windows”. No apostrophe.

If it belongs to two or more things you put an apostrophe after the S:

- The dogs’ balls (two dogs)

- The chickens’ food (seven chickens)

If it belongs to something that’s already plural you use apostrophe-S:

- the children’s shoes

- the men’s hats.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

But now I'm confused again because "emale" is missing?

Let's go back to the two words shoved together rule, that made sense

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused

If a letter is missing you use an apostrophe;

- Doesn’t isn’t wasn’t can’t

- Paul’s late (Paul is late)

- My leg’s hurting (my leg is hurting)

- it’s getting late.

If it belongs to one person you use apostrophe-S:

- Jane’s dog

- Bob’s son.

- EXCEPTION: something belongs to it - “the house is nice. I like its windows”. No apostrophe.

If it belongs to two or more things you put an apostrophe after the S:

- The dogs’ balls (two dogs)

- The chickens’ food (seven chickens)

If it belongs to something that’s already plural you use apostrophe-S:

- the children’s shoes

- the men’s hats.

Sexy and clever. I like that

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"But now I'm confused again because "emale" is missing?

Let's go back to the two words shoved together rule, that made sense"

That’s called a portmanteau. A new word made of two old ones.

Electronic mail - email

Motorway hotel - motel

Spoon and fork - spork

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused

If a letter is missing you use an apostrophe;

- Doesn’t isn’t wasn’t can’t

- Paul’s late (Paul is late)

- My leg’s hurting (my leg is hurting)

- it’s getting late.

If it belongs to one person you use apostrophe-S:

- Jane’s dog

- Bob’s son.

- EXCEPTION: something belongs to it - “the house is nice. I like its windows”. No apostrophe.

If it belongs to two or more things you put an apostrophe after the S:

- The dogs’ balls (two dogs)

- The chickens’ food (seven chickens)

If it belongs to something that’s already plural you use apostrophe-S:

- the children’s shoes

- the men’s hats.

Sexy and clever. I like that

Sexy and Scottish. I like that.

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"But now I'm confused again because "emale" is missing?

Let's go back to the two words shoved together rule, that made sense

That’s called a portmanteau. A new word made of two old ones.

Electronic mail - email

Motorway hotel - motel

Spoon and fork - spork

Two Girls, One Cup - T Cup.

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By *rsTrellis OP Woman over a year ago

Cambridge

"But now I'm confused again because "emale" is missing?

Let's go back to the two words shoved together rule, that made sense

That’s called a portmanteau. A new word made of two old ones.

Electronic mail - email

Motorway hotel - motel

Spoon and fork - spork

Two Girls, One Cup - T Cup.

Sexy Adam - Sadam. Oh.

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"I'm still too traumatized by the inappropriate apostrophe to be able to comment......

Is it inappropriate though?

MMF's has truncated the Male Male Female down into letters, so to add an apostrophe is no worse than using "it's" in place of "it is" surely?

Who's good at English round here? Someone must know?

*shines EstellaSignal*

It was incorrect. You don’t use an apostrophe after an abbreviation unless indicating possession. “The BBC’s employees” but “BBWs are delightful”.

I think!!!

You're right.

But what about it's, don't, doesn't etc?

#confused

If a letter is missing you use an apostrophe;

- Doesn’t isn’t wasn’t can’t

- Paul’s late (Paul is late)

- My leg’s hurting (my leg is hurting)

- it’s getting late.

If it belongs to one person you use apostrophe-S:

- Jane’s dog

- Bob’s son.

- EXCEPTION: something belongs to it - “the house is nice. I like its windows”. No apostrophe.

If it belongs to two or more things you put an apostrophe after the S:

- The dogs’ balls (two dogs)

- The chickens’ food (seven chickens)

If it belongs to something that’s already plural you use apostrophe-S:

- the children’s shoes

- the men’s hats.

Sexy and clever. I like that

Sexy and Scottish. I like that. "

An English gent living in the city of enlightenment. Love Scotland but English always!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it safe to come back in yet?

#SexNotGrammer

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Sex with Grandma you say?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex with Grandma you say?

Not mine, but there are plenty of hot GILFs (no apostrophe) around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fucking

you lot!!!!

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Sex with Grandma you say?

Not mine, but there are plenty of hot GILFs (no apostrophe) around

Helen Mirren being the ultimate...

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

"I find it easier to dictate the arrangements. “Saturday at 3pm my house” and then see who’s available.

It’s worth a try.

(See you on Saturday at 3pm...

Yep at the footie then too...

I'm game any other time tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sex with Grandma you say?

Not mine, but there are plenty of hot GILFs (no apostrophe) around

Helen Mirren being the ultimate...

Wouldn't kick her out of bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I fucking

you lot!!!!

Like your profile

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Arranging anything that involves multiple people is a nightmare.

I don't think I've ever had anything go exactly to plan!!

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