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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if any of you lovely ladies had advice about how to get a meet , I'm polite with my messages and in the chat rooms is that a bad thing ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK
I'll lay it on the line
None of this is advice, just observation, questions and common sense
You're a regular looking guy - nothing spectacular about you at all, not ugly, not great looking
Your pics are boring
Your text is boring
It wouldn't be hard to imagine your messages will be boring too
You are a guy here amongst thousands looking for what most of the 30,000 here are looking for, women
Bearing in mind the above, why would a woman want to meet or fuck you above the next guy, or the next or the next ?
Have you been to any clubs ?
Have you been to any social events ?
Do you contribute on the forums regularly ?
Do you do anything to raise your visibility on the site / scene other than logging on and sending messages ?
Fab is a tough place for ordinary guys
Fab is a really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side
Fab is a really, really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side and don't know how to make themselves stand out or different
It won't change any time soon
The ladies (and couples with a female) have got this site running to their advantage
A few guys have cracked the code
That's what you need to do
Nobody here is going to give you the code
It's up to you to change
Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK
I'll lay it on the line
None of this is advice, just observation, questions and common sense
You're a regular looking guy - nothing spectacular about you at all, not ugly, not great looking
Your pics are boring
Your text is boring
It wouldn't be hard to imagine your messages will be boring too
You are a guy here amongst thousands looking for what most of the 30,000 here are looking for, women
Bearing in mind the above, why would a woman want to meet or fuck you above the next guy, or the next or the next ?
Have you been to any clubs ?
Have you been to any social events ?
Do you contribute on the forums regularly ?
Do you do anything to raise your visibility on the site / scene other than logging on and sending messages ?
Fab is a tough place for ordinary guys
Fab is a really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side
Fab is a really, really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side and don't know how to make themselves stand out or different
It won't change any time soon
The ladies (and couples with a female) have got this site running to their advantage
A few guys have cracked the code
That's what you need to do
Nobody here is going to give you the code
It's up to you to change
Sorry "
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"Just wondering if any of you lovely ladies had advice about how to get a meet , I'm polite with my messages and in the chat rooms is that a bad thing ???? "
People mainly meet people they are interested in so the key is to make yourself as possible. How you do that though is down to you and how you express yourself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will apologise if you (or anyone else) feels that last post was overly personal or critical
I'm not going to remove it as I feel it has validity
I mean no offence and the comments were made with the best of intentions
Sometimes though I have the subtlety of a brick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the time it;s taken to type this I;ve forgottenm what your profile said. It gave not a single clue as to anything about you and was instantly forgetable. Effort in = reward out. Write a profile that pulls people in and snd messages that make people want to reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK
I'll lay it on the line
None of this is advice, just observation, questions and common sense
You're a regular looking guy - nothing spectacular about you at all, not ugly, not great looking
Your pics are boring
Your text is boring
It wouldn't be hard to imagine your messages will be boring too
You are a guy here amongst thousands looking for what most of the 30,000 here are looking for, women
Bearing in mind the above, why would a woman want to meet or fuck you above the next guy, or the next or the next ?
Have you been to any clubs ?
Have you been to any social events ?
Do you contribute on the forums regularly ?
Do you do anything to raise your visibility on the site / scene other than logging on and sending messages ?
Fab is a tough place for ordinary guys
Fab is a really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side
Fab is a really, really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side and don't know how to make themselves stand out or different
It won't change any time soon
The ladies (and couples with a female) have got this site running to their advantage
A few guys have cracked the code
That's what you need to do
Nobody here is going to give you the code
It's up to you to change
Sorry "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Appreciate the feedback people , and no worries Bussy , I do have social skills just more wondering if this is the right place for me , I'm like everyone on here enjoy sex , but that gets frowned upon on plenty of fish lol . |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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It's as simple as this..
If folk aren't attracted to you no words on your profile or in your messages wil change their minds..
If they attracted to you a well written message and profile will create interest .
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