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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a question... But can you sleep with someone your not attracted too In a physical way? I mean i know it happens but i just couldn't have the right mind to do it. I mean yeah... Not everything has to be perfect... No one is perfect. But something has to attract you right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it."
Well I'm not alot of men, i just couldn't do it. Not going to mention his name but i have a mate on here. He will shag anyone... Literally. I just don't know how he does it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it."
When you say a lot, what's that in percentage wise? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it.
When you say a lot, what's that in percentage wise?"
No one would really know that would they? Do you think some girls could do that too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I need attraction both mental and physical.....won't sleep with anyone for the sake of it. "
Yeah mental helps to. On the same wavelength etc... A good connection works like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it.
When you say a lot, what's that in percentage wise?"
Going by the messages I receive on here, at least 80%. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Makes you wonder how much trauma prostitutes, escorts, gigalos put themselves through
They may well enjoy the sex, especially if they get paid well."
Well yeah but they wouldn't have a choice if that was there client. All of you on here are saying are saying no so they must have to get in the right frame of mind to or they need the money more... Also would they enjoy it if they weren't attracted? That's where the 'money over mind' matter comes in i guess. Must be hard  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I've always been ultra picky 
Me too mate... I'm terrible... Hence no verifications, ive been here 2 months lol"
but you could have a coffee with anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a question... But can you sleep with someone your not attracted too In a physical way? I mean i know it happens but i just couldn't have the right mind to do it. I mean yeah... Not everything has to be perfect... No one is perfect. But something has to attract you right? "
nope no attraction no sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I've always been ultra picky
Me too mate... I'm terrible... Hence no verifications, ive been here 2 months lolbut you could have a coffee with anyone"
Yeah need to talk to someone first lol. I'm happy with socials though. I can see to people how important a verification is on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's got to be people in this world where they are so obsessed with sex (nymphomanic) that thet don't care (without the money) I'm guessing that would be a problem. People go to counseling about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I've always been ultra picky
Me too mate... I'm terrible... Hence no verifications, ive been here 2 months lol"
It’s not a bad thing though. I’ve been here a year, met loads of people for a drink. If you don’t feel it you don’t feel it. Don’t settle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it.
When you say a lot, what's that in percentage wise?
Going by the messages I receive on here, at least 80%. "
That's high, jeez, I don't know if this website accentuates that but I thought it would be more like 30% at most. I would say though that I know some fussy lads. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I've always been ultra picky
Me too mate... I'm terrible... Hence no verifications, ive been here 2 months lol
It’s not a bad thing though. I’ve been here a year, met loads of people for a drink. If you don’t feel it you don’t feel it. Don’t settle "
Thank you. I won't  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I wouldn't even get as far as suggesting meeting, let alone sleeping with, someone there was no physical and mental attraction to.
In the dim and distant past I've done it and it's always been a far from satisfying experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I've always been ultra picky
Me too mate... I'm terrible... Hence no verifications, ive been here 2 months lol
It’s not a bad thing though. I’ve been here a year, met loads of people for a drink. If you don’t feel it you don’t feel it. Don’t settle "
I've met just 2 people from this site, then only had sex with one of them and I've been here since May last year. It took 4 months before I found someone with mutual attraction.
I wouldn't quite recommend fab to anyone looking for countless hookups, certainly not guys anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I've always been ultra picky
Me too mate... I'm terrible... Hence no verifications, ive been here 2 months lol
It’s not a bad thing though. I’ve been here a year, met loads of people for a drink. If you don’t feel it you don’t feel it. Don’t settle
I've met just 2 people from this site, then only had sex with one of them and I've been here since May last year. It took 4 months before I found someone with mutual attraction.
I wouldn't quite recommend fab to anyone looking for countless hookups, certainly not guys anyway."
Yeah mate. Quite enjoying these forums tbh. That's a good enough reason to stay for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it looks like we all agreed then "
To be fair though. Is anyone going to actuallly come on here and admit that 'yes, they'd fuck anyone if it meant they were getting sex'. I'm doubtful anyone would. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So it looks like we all agreed then
To be fair though. Is anyone going to actuallly come on here and admit that 'yes, they'd fuck anyone if it meant they were getting sex'. I'm doubtful anyone would."
I wouldn't be surprised. I can imagine on here some lashes like to get gangbanged by 10 men. Surely she can't fancy them all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it looks like we all agreed then
To be fair though. Is anyone going to actuallly come on here and admit that 'yes, they'd fuck anyone if it meant they were getting sex'. I'm doubtful anyone would."
Maybe, but I've seen posts say as much, even profiles with veris and even seen messages as such would suggest people do say that. But how many admit to as much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it looks like we all agreed then
To be fair though. Is anyone going to actuallly come on here and admit that 'yes, they'd fuck anyone if it meant they were getting sex'. I'm doubtful anyone would.
I wouldn't be surprised. I can imagine on here some lashes like to get gangbanged by 10 men. Surely she can't fancy them all lol"
A lot of women choose their guys for gangbangs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So it looks like we all agreed then
To be fair though. Is anyone going to actuallly come on here and admit that 'yes, they'd fuck anyone if it meant they were getting sex'. I'm doubtful anyone would.
I wouldn't be surprised. I can imagine on here some lashes like to get gangbanged by 10 men. Surely she can't fancy them all lol
A lot of women choose their guys for gangbangs."
Must be time consuming haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need physical and mental attraction. I have to actually like the person I'm fucking. Yes this is a swingers site and not a dating site, but I still have my own set of personal standards and will not deviate from them, just for a meaningless shag. |
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"Just a question... But can you sleep with someone your not attracted too In a physical way? I mean i know it happens but i just couldn't have the right mind to do it. I mean yeah... Not everything has to be perfect... No one is perfect. But something has to attract you right? "
Simple answer. No
And not just physical, has to be a mental attraction too |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it.
Well I'm not alot of men, i just couldn't do it. Not going to mention his name but i have a mate on here. He will shag anyone... Literally. I just don't know how he does it. "
Glen Quagmire, Giggity? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There has to be a physical attraction for me, but I think a lot of men will sleep with just anyone, 'any hope is a goal' type attitude.
For me there's a lot more to it.
Well I'm not alot of men, i just couldn't do it. Not going to mention his name but i have a mate on here. He will shag anyone... Literally. I just don't know how he does it.
Glen Quagmire, Giggity?"
Haha... Something like Quagmire yeah  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I need physical and mental attraction. I have to actually like the person I'm fucking. Yes this is a swingers site and not a dating site, but I still have my own set of personal standards and will not deviate from them, just for a meaningless shag. "
Well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need physical and mental attraction. I have to actually like the person I'm fucking. Yes this is a swingers site and not a dating site, but I still have my own set of personal standards and will not deviate from them, just for a meaningless shag. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it looks like we all agreed then
To be fair though. Is anyone going to actuallly come on here and admit that 'yes, they'd fuck anyone if it meant they were getting sex'. I'm doubtful anyone would."
Any holes a goal you mean or maybe use a dark room a totally dark room in a club or wear a gimp mask in a club gangbang event maybe |
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