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Bullies and trolls

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ve been hearing there’s been a fair bit of abuse through the forums lately. I’m guilty of taking banter a bit to fat myself at times but going out of your way to send someone a rude message is wrong.

What can be done to stop this?

I think the individual blocking another just isn’t enough.

Should abusive members be banned?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be fucking nice

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes they should. Problem is they come back.

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"Just be fucking nice

This. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything or be sycophantic. Just don’t be a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its nice to be nice..

Its just a shame not everyone is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be fucking nice

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Some send messages, some are openly unpleasant to people on threads, some make a second profile just so they can hide behind it to upset people. I’ve never understood the appeal but watch and read and you see it clearly enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report abusive messages.

I don't understand the blocking thing. People can just make new profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be fucking nice

This. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything or be sycophantic. Just don’t be a cunt. "

Agreed

Too much hate and fucking drama

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been hearing there’s been a fair bit of abuse through the forums lately. I’m guilty of taking banter a bit to fat myself at times but going out of your way to send someone a rude message is wrong.

What can be done to stop this?

I think the individual blocking another just isn’t enough.

Should abusive members be banned?"
electric chair or the rack

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be fucking nice

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not sure what the answer is, but public calling out when such behaviour occurs in a thread would be good. Maybe make them take a look at themselves. But it goes in waves and will settle soon before it starts again x

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By *heGentleman2024Man over a year ago

North West

There will be always someone trying to bring others down, weather on a forum in public, work social media etc it happens all around us.

Trolls and abusers think they gain popularity hiding behind a keyboard/phone but in reality they are the sad ones. Hating on people only shows their true colours.. dont be hater be a lover

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Banter,debate and sarcasm are all good in the forums but sending nasty,rude messages is totally out of order.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

They do it for attention. Ignore them and they shrivel up and die.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What can be done to stop this?

I think the individual blocking another just isn’t enough.

Should abusive members be banned?"

Yes. Won’t happen though. They’ll just come back...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not new and it's not as prevalent as people think.

We'll never stop it online completely, but everyone ignoring it and not responding will make them lose some interest?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

As a litmus test for this if anyone thinks I've done this snidey subtle dig stuff... I really hope no one does... I genuinely don't. If I seemed to, it was because I was poking fun at some one who I know pokes fun and so gets that I'm just kidding. I have 0 jealousy for the other single guys on here and feel utterly unthreatened by them. That's not due to any superiority. I just understand that, like at the clubs, it's just a party in here and the characters add to it. Some of my favourite posters on here are guys.

So perhaps what sometimes looks snidey is just someone trying to be funny not in a bitchy way, just a silly mutual poking way

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman over a year ago

Somewhere down south

"Banter,debate and sarcasm are all good in the forums but sending nasty,rude messages is totally out of order. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm guilty of being a Troll on Facebook groups, hence I did the online walk of shame as I kept getting banned.

I love a wind up, I'm available for Birthdays, BBQ's and special occasions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

So perhaps what sometimes looks snidey is just someone trying to be funny not in a bitchy way, just a silly mutual poking way "

That's the problem with writing on here-it doesn't always come across how it's meant to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do think abusive members should be banned.

I’ve had my fair share of abusive messages from forum members who didn’t agree with what I’ve said, and rather than ignore, have sent me a nasty message. Both men and women.

All it does is show what kind of nasty individual they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

I haven't noticed any... oh... wait...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What can be done to stop this?

I think the individual blocking another just isn’t enough.

Should abusive members be banned?

Yes. Won’t happen though. They’ll just come back..."

They always do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think abusive members should be banned.

I’ve had my fair share of abusive messages from forum members who didn’t agree with what I’ve said, and rather than ignore, have sent me a nasty message. Both men and women.

All it does is show what kind of nasty individual they are."

I’m the same, just fed up. But a lovely sexy man convinced me to come out of hiding

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

Fwiw I wasn't referring to you, you seem like a nice guy.

So perhaps what sometimes looks snidey is just someone trying to be funny not in a bitchy way, just a silly mutual poking way "

Yes some people sometimes, Other people often not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think abusive members should be banned.

I’ve had my fair share of abusive messages from forum members who didn’t agree with what I’ve said, and rather than ignore, have sent me a nasty message. Both men and women.

All it does is show what kind of nasty individual they are."

That’s fucked up

There are some holier than thou shitheads about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think abusive members should be banned.

I’ve had my fair share of abusive messages from forum members who didn’t agree with what I’ve said, and rather than ignore, have sent me a nasty message. Both men and women.

All it does is show what kind of nasty individual they are.

I’m the same, just fed up. But a lovely sexy man convinced me to come out of hiding "

Good!

Don’t let the negative Nancy’s get to you!

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

Aye and when detected posting via their ‘secret’ profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

So perhaps what sometimes looks snidey is just someone trying to be funny not in a bitchy way, just a silly mutual poking way

That's the problem with writing on here-it doesn't always come across how it's meant to. "

That's why I try to include a smiley when it's a joke. It can look a bit naff filling a post with smileys but it's the only way to avoid confusion I've found

I suspect sometimes other people think a remark is snidey when the recipient is quite comfortably aware it's a joke. So it can be a bit like taking offence on behalf of someone who isn't actually offended.

Don't get me wrong though... there are some who do make digs (I feel) and also there are some outright bullies and trolls. So I'm in no way condoning them. I'm just explaining that on my behalf there's absolutely no malice or jealousy. I'm just having fun *with* people (I hope). So if you think of me as someone who makes snidey digs... as a litmus test... then perhaps some others aren't doing it too. Dunno

Oh... But... When someone really silly comes on like the gorilla guy the other day and I just laugh at them... I definitely am laughing *at* them

Sorry about that but if you're going to be a total wally you are going to make me giggle. It's just natural

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

Fwiw I wasn't referring to you, you seem like a nice guy.

So perhaps what sometimes looks snidey is just someone trying to be funny not in a bitchy way, just a silly mutual poking way

Yes some people sometimes, Other people often not."

Aww cheers dude

You too

Sorry. I didn't mean to infer you were talking about me. I just thought you made a really good point but wanted to add to it that sometimes the whole snidey dig thing *might* be just a comedy lost in translation thing. I agree though that in some cases, maybe quite often, it isn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with what more or less evreyone else has said; too many people on here are too sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" too many people on here are too sensitive."

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To be honest, compared to other sites, Fab is generallly pretty good natured.

I haven't really noticed much in the way or bullying or trolling.

Though there are one or two that seem to jyst like being bloody minded.

Maybe I'm just not reading the threads it happens in.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To be honest, compared to other sites, Fab is generallly pretty good natured.

I haven't really noticed much in the way or bullying or trolling.

Though there are one or two that seem to jyst like being bloody minded.

Maybe I'm just not reading the threads it happens in.

Nita "

Probably because you haven’t experienced it and the threads or comments get deleted?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest, compared to other sites, Fab is generallly pretty good natured.

I haven't really noticed much in the way or bullying or trolling.

Though there are one or two that seem to jyst like being bloody minded.

Maybe I'm just not reading the threads it happens in.

Nita

Probably because you haven’t experienced it and the threads or comments get deleted?"

It's annoying that posts get deleted. It's like giving the perpetrators a second chance

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

What can be done to stop this?

I think the individual blocking another just isn’t enough.

Should abusive members be banned?"

Odd thing is, if they don’t get a rise, they go elsewhere, usually into their “why is everyone better than me” lives.

Blow them a kiss, as ( in their world where often every silver lining has a cloud) it will make them happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest, compared to other sites, Fab is generallly pretty good natured.

I haven't really noticed much in the way or bullying or trolling.

Though there are one or two that seem to jyst like being bloody minded.

Maybe I'm just not reading the threads it happens in.

Nita

Probably because you haven’t experienced it and the threads or comments get deleted?"

There really are some vicious threads that pop up every now and then and quite quickly get shut down or deleted by admin.

But I know what you mean. Sometimes I come on here and everyone's upset and I'm miffed as to why and it turns out some quick thread just erupted with bile and was deleted and I missed it

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"To be honest, compared to other sites, Fab is generallly pretty good natured.

I haven't really noticed much in the way or bullying or trolling.

Though there are one or two that seem to jyst like being bloody minded.

Maybe I'm just not reading the threads it happens in.

Nita

Probably because you haven’t experienced it and the threads or comments get deleted?

It's annoying that posts get deleted. It's like giving the perpetrators a second chance

I think it's better the offending post is deleted rather than the whole thread.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Il not start they ban me if i do

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"To be honest, compared to other sites, Fab is generallly pretty good natured.

I haven't really noticed much in the way or bullying or trolling.

Though there are one or two that seem to jyst like being bloody minded.

Maybe I'm just not reading the threads it happens in.

Nita

Probably because you haven’t experienced it and the threads or comments get deleted?

There really are some vicious threads that pop up every now and then and quite quickly get shut down or deleted by admin.

But I know what you mean. Sometimes I come on here and everyone's upset and I'm miffed as to why and it turns out some quick thread just erupted with bile and was deleted and I missed it "

I'm pleased that I miss them ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" too many people on here are too sensitive.

A couple of weeks ago I slagged off a bar in tbe forums...not a person, a bar, like where people go for a drink.

The abuse I got by pm was unfathomable. Of course the couple then blocked me so I couldn't reply.

Silly f*ckers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" too many people on here are too sensitive.

A couple of weeks ago I slagged off a bar in tbe forums...not a person, a bar, like where people go for a drink.

The abuse I got by pm was unfathomable. Of course the couple then blocked me so I couldn't reply.

Silly f*ckers."

Which bar?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

" too many people on here are too sensitive.

A couple of weeks ago I slagged off a bar in tbe forums...not a person, a bar, like where people go for a drink.

The abuse I got by pm was unfathomable. Of course the couple then blocked me so I couldn't reply.

Silly f*ckers.

Which bar?"

Snickers x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?"

Nope, lemme look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How’s Asda?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?

Nope, lemme look "

Mine are easy to spot, they're all highlighted in blue background.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

Completely agree and i've seen a few that are very proficient in doing just this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?

Nope, lemme look

Mine are easy to spot, they're all highlighted in blue background."

Such a tit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

Completely agree and i've seen a few that are very proficient in doing just this."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How’s Asda?"

Took me a while to park the car

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How’s Asda?

Took me a while to park the car

I apologise

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How’s Asda?

Took me a while to park the car

I apologise

Please cum again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How’s Asda?

Took me a while to park the car

I apologise

Please cum again

Yes sir

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo."

^^^ this

Some are so subtle that only a few will know that it's a dig.

Pretty hard for moderators to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its nice to be nice..

Its just a shame not everyone is

Haters will always hate and lovers will always love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There’s only one kind of dick we love here, and it’s certainly not one that can type.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

^^^ this

Some are so subtle that only a few will know that it's a dig.

Pretty hard for moderators to deal with."

Some are just grumpy negative people with nothing nice to say about anyone. So it's quite useful that they clearly feel free just to bitch all the time on here. I'd hate to find out they were like that only when I met them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On Fab!? Surely some mistake!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just be fucking nice

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

Just ignore them...it's only words.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

One of the reasons I stopped commenting in the lounge forum's so much.

The banter and camaraderie that used to be here has been replaced with quite nastiness.

There's also the ones that post with the authority of "I've been here since the dawn of time, my word is law" ridiculing newer Les experienced forum users.

I'll get my tin hat now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?

Nope, lemme look

Mine are easy to spot, they're all highlighted in blue background.

Such a tit."

You hate me and you love me.

Every night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least out right abuse is obviously identified and action can be taken.

It's the snidey and subtle digs which some people are proficient at but that only get noticed by the intended audience and go unnoticed by the majority that are more of an issue imo.

^^^ this

Some are so subtle that only a few will know that it's a dig.

Pretty hard for moderators to deal with.

They're the trolls I think.

My post was about bullies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?

Nope, lemme look

Mine are easy to spot, they're all highlighted in blue background.

Such a tit.

You hate me and you love me.

Every night."

That I do. You make me laugh.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"One of the reasons I stopped commenting in the lounge forum's so much.

The banter and camaraderie that used to be here has been replaced with quite nastiness.

There's also the ones that post with the authority of "I've been here since the dawn of time, my word is law" ridiculing newer Les experienced forum users.

I'll get my tin hat now

Les experience isn't something to ridicule, I would kill for some girl on girl action

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello Beach in Fuerteventura.

Anyway, forget that. Have you seen my reply in the "things that you do" thread?

Nope, lemme look

Mine are easy to spot, they're all highlighted in blue background.

Such a tit.

You hate me and you love me.

Every night.

That I do. You make me laugh. "

Result

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"One of the reasons I stopped commenting in the lounge forum's so much.

The banter and camaraderie that used to be here has been replaced with quite nastiness.

There's also the ones that post with the authority of "I've been here since the dawn of time, my word is law" ridiculing newer Les experienced forum users.

I'll get my tin hat now

Les experience isn't something to ridicule, I would kill for some girl on girl action

Bloody typo

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Bullies... Yes.

Making a valid comment on a thread, politely challenging someone's opinion.

Having them, then 'green arrow' your previous thread posts, and use personal details to stick the knife in.

It takes a lot to upset me, bring me to tears, but tonight someone has succeeded.

I hope he can sleep well tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bullies... Yes.

Making a valid comment on a thread, politely challenging someone's opinion.

Having them, then 'green arrow' your previous thread posts, and use personal details to stick the knife in.

It takes a lot to upset me, bring me to tears, but tonight someone has succeeded.

I hope he can sleep well tonight. "

Hope you’re okay. Don’t let idiots get you down, it says so much more about them that kind of behaviour. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bullies... Yes.

Making a valid comment on a thread, politely challenging someone's opinion.

Having them, then 'green arrow' your previous thread posts, and use personal details to stick the knife in.

It takes a lot to upset me, bring me to tears, but tonight someone has succeeded.

I hope he can sleep well tonight. "

Sorry to hear that. Big hug xx

I hate the way some people on here have such long term memories. So I feel for you. We're all only on here to discuss things and have fun. I *never* green arrow and I rarely remember what someone said months ago. Why? Because it was probably just an idle thought they had. Like much of my threads are. I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt based purely on what they've written than dig up stuff

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

"Bullies... Yes.

Making a valid comment on a thread, politely challenging someone's opinion.

Having them, then 'green arrow' your previous thread posts, and use personal details to stick the knife in.

It takes a lot to upset me, bring me to tears, but tonight someone has succeeded.

I hope he can sleep well tonight. "

This is truly fucking awful. Can't get my head around it. I've seen you. I've met you. You're wicked.

Hold your head high. Smile and fucking wave. Easier said then done I know...

Wish I had words.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Bullies... Yes.

Making a valid comment on a thread, politely challenging someone's opinion.

Having them, then 'green arrow' your previous thread posts, and use personal details to stick the knife in.

It takes a lot to upset me, bring me to tears, but tonight someone has succeeded.

I hope he can sleep well tonight. "

That guy was just an absolute piece of shit looking to upset people deliberately. Easier said than done but just brush it off, he's not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always try to bear in mind the mental state of someone if replying to their posts. Would hate to upset someone and mske any underlying mrntal issue worse for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The best piece of advice I've ever been given is "Try not be a cunt".... if more people subscribed to that philosophy the world would be a much nicer place

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Thank you so much, your comments mean alot.

My head is high, my shoulders are back and I'm sticking my perky tits out

You can knock me down, but oh, I will always get back up... Brighter than ever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you so much, your comments mean alot.

My head is high, my shoulders are back and I'm sticking my perky tits out

You can knock me down, but oh, I will always get back up... Brighter than ever! "

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

"Thank you so much, your comments mean alot.

My head is high, my shoulders are back and I'm sticking my perky tits out

You can knock me down, but oh, I will always get back up... Brighter than ever! "

Mexican wave emoji (if there is one).

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