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Why is it so hard for genuine men to get meets ?
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I'm wondering if there's a trick to getting meets I don't know about ?
I've seen some ladies comment in the married men with single profiles and the single men who are just time wasters or liars !
I must say Not all men lie !
I'm as honest and as genuine as they come and try to put that across in my msgs (I try to add something from their profile) looking for play times but since I've been on here I've had no play other than clubs !
I add a face pic to msgs and only msg if we match ie: if they don't meet smokers I don't msg.
I've genuine verifications from single ladies and couples !
Do ladies even read them ?
How does a genuine guy get a local playmate on here ??
Seems impossible !
Any ladies like to help with serious advice ?
Thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no magic trick.
If someone is attracted to you they'll engage with you. If they're not then they won't. It's really that simple.
Just because you match what they're looking for in principle doesn't mean they won't have another 100 guys with the same credentials in their inbox.
Your approach seems reasonable to me and I'd be more inclined to reply to a message like yours if I liked your pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if there's a trick to getting meets I don't know about ?
I've seen some ladies comment in the married men with single profiles and the single men who are just time wasters or liars !
I must say Not all men lie !
I'm as honest and as genuine as they come and try to put that across in my msgs (I try to add something from their profile) looking for play times but since I've been on here I've had no play other than clubs !
I add a face pic to msgs and only msg if we match ie: if they don't meet smokers I don't msg.
I've genuine verifications from single ladies and couples !
Do ladies even read them ?
How does a genuine guy get a local playmate on here ??
Seems impossible !
Any ladies like to help with serious advice ?
Thanks in advance "
It's not relevant, but I'd love you to put 'The Next Day' on that white rectangle over your face.
Good luck here.
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
I read profiles before messages many times I rarely look at verifications as so many are fake its what that person says about themselves that counts more for me. There are a lot more men to women I get that but then only 1 in 20 men make a full effort with messages and profiles so the guys who do i find are the successful ones. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Don't be honest and genuine the successful ones play mind games and are c^^t's... new terminology for that called fuckboy apparently  "
Oh really...I've not met him yet but there's still time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Supply & demand, male saturation of site"
Agree!... blokes in the Chester area are 10 a penny!...
You need to stand out a little!... Women have the pick of the herd on here and it sounds like as soon as you send them a pic of your dish they lose interest?
You need to be more attractive?
@OP btw... am not going off in a tangent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience....
Unless your one of the guys with loads of dubious feedback that basically stick their Willy in a crack in a pavement if given half a chance  |
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It's tricky. The best way is to have verifications and don't get too pushy or needy. Can be a catch 22 when you don't have any meets and therefore no verifications but keep at it. Never think less of yourself if people don't reply or say they don't want to meet. Always take the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune with a shrug and a smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if there's a trick to getting meets I don't know about ?
I've seen some ladies comment in the married men with single profiles and the single men who are just time wasters or liars !
I must say Not all men lie !
I'm as honest and as genuine as they come and try to put that across in my msgs (I try to add something from their profile) looking for play times but since I've been on here I've had no play other than clubs !
I add a face pic to msgs and only msg if we match ie: if they don't meet smokers I don't msg.
I've genuine verifications from single ladies and couples !
Do ladies even read them ?
How does a genuine guy get a local playmate on here ??
Seems impossible !
Any ladies like to help with serious advice ?
Thanks in advance "
It's not easy, personality and patience are two attributes you also need |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if there's a trick to getting meets I don't know about ?
I've seen some ladies comment in the married men with single profiles and the single men who are just time wasters or liars !
I must say Not all men lie !
I'm as honest and as genuine as they come and try to put that across in my msgs (I try to add something from their profile) looking for play times but since I've been on here I've had no play other than clubs !
I add a face pic to msgs and only msg if we match ie: if they don't meet smokers I don't msg.
I've genuine verifications from single ladies and couples !
Do ladies even read them ?
How does a genuine guy get a local playmate on here ??
Seems impossible !
Any ladies like to help with serious advice ?
Thanks in advance "
I'm pretty sure there are other threads asking a very similar question.
Often the folk asking look for other reasons for their lack of perceived success when often the reason is far closer to home.
and those folk saying ladies have lots of choice.. **news flash** guys have just the same choices..yes please or no thanks |
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