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Why do goys write one liners as an introduction first message
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they have previously spent time writing full paragraphs with sentences structured with many clauses, only to find them deleted unread.
Or, they are lazy like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they have previously spent time writing full paragraphs with sentences structured with many clauses, only to find them deleted unread.
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This!
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You really need to ask? Is it not obvious?
Their success rate has been very low if not zero, despite tailored well thought out messages. Not even an acknowledgement from the other parties. So over time they start to message as many people as possible, but this does mean a shorter generic message will have to be used if you are cutting and pasting.
Patience might be a virtue, but its not really in infinite supply. Others just give up entirely. Also you need to ask yourself, what men come on this sight? There are plenty on here solely because they struggle to meet and communicate with women in real life. They are told or have been led to believe, this place is the best way to get laid as its full of women wanting sex. They then presume this means their standards are as low as theirs.
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By *arc1one OP Man
over a year ago
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"You really need to ask? Is it not obvious?
Their success rate has been very low if not zero, despite tailored well thought out messages. Not even an acknowledgement from the other parties. So over time they start to message as many people as possible, but this does mean a shorter generic message will have to be used if you are cutting and pasting.
Patience might be a virtue, but its not really in infinite supply. Others just give up entirely. Also you need to ask yourself, what men come on this sight? There are plenty on here solely because they struggle to meet and communicate with women in real life. They are told or have been led to believe, this place is the best way to get laid as its full of women wanting sex. They then presume this means their standards are as low as theirs.
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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I always write several lines. If The person/people yourewriting to have a reasonable amount of information in their profile, it's easy to write a decent length first message.
If all a profile has is "fill in later" or is blank then it's more challenging to write more than one line; and, if they don't think that writing much is important, they won't be expecting much to be written to them (not accounting for Fab-double standards).
Also, when you write well thought out decent length messages that get deleted time after time the incentive to continue doing so disappears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t need long first messages, just a quick hello and face pic so I can see if I’d like to chat. "
I normally write a couple of paragraphs. Hmm! Perhaps that’s were I’m going wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've done one liners, I've done essays, I've done personalised mesages with a face and most of the time it's still the same outcome but it is what it is"
do you bake? They love cake
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've done one liners, I've done essays, I've done personalised mesages with a face and most of the time it's still the same outcome but it is what it isdo you bake? They love cake "
I don't bake but I can buy cake and supply it on a meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It easy guys use one liners because that how to start off a conversation.
Women don't go out to a bar and some guy comes over for a chat and he just goes on and on and on about him self.
It the same on here it just a short message to say hi like normal people start a conversation.  |
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I think a lot of the length of an introduction has to do with the detail (or not as the case may be) on the profile of the person they are messaging. After all how much can you write to a profile with a picture of a bum and a text that simply reads '40yr old women looking fun'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It easy guys use one liners because that how to start off a conversation.
Women don't go out to a bar and some guy comes over for a chat and he just goes on and on and on about him self.
It the same on here it just a short message to say hi like normal people start a conversation. "
Normal people.........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It easy guys use one liners because that how to start off a conversation.
Women don't go out to a bar and some guy comes over for a chat and he just goes on and on and on about him self.
It the same on here it just a short message to say hi like normal people start a conversation.
Normal people......... "
Good point. A conversation is a two way thing. I think some women want you to show case yourself on the first message. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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Why bother what or how others use the site..
I write messages in a manner that others wouldn't each to their own.
If your approach works keep doing it, if it's not change something.
P.S.
I've said it before no amount of words would change a ladies mind if that person didn't find you attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why bother what or how others use the site..
I write messages in a manner that others wouldn't each to their own.
If your approach works keep doing it, if it's not change something.
P.S.
I've said it before no amount of words would change a ladies mind if that person didn't find you attractive."
Not sure about that. I met someone a while ago and I wasn’t really feeling a spark. We stayed friends and been chatting for ages and I’m starting to change my mind a little bit now so not always true. |
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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago
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"I think a lot of the length of an introduction has to do with the detail (or not as the case may be) on the profile of the person they are messaging. After all how much can you write to a profile with a picture of a bum and a text that simply reads '40yr old women looking fun'?"
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Why bother what or how others use the site..
I write messages in a manner that others wouldn't each to their own.
If your approach works keep doing it, if it's not change something.
P.S.
I've said it before no amount of words would change a ladies mind if that person didn't find you attractive.
Not sure about that. I met someone a while ago and I wasn’t really feeling a spark. We stayed friends and been chatting for ages and I’m starting to change my mind a little bit now so not always true. "
Why did you meet him though his message or his picture.. Initially you thought ?
I've messaged folk exchanged pictures thought I like the look of them .. met folk and not felt a spark .. I can only say from my perspective words ain't gonna change that.. I might stay friends maybe to chat maybe not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"minimum effort for a quick shag ?  "
And yet plenty still fail!
I don’t really like one liners, and I don’t like long “all about me” messages either.
A nice introduction from someone I fancy, does well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why bother what or how others use the site..
I write messages in a manner that others wouldn't each to their own.
If your approach works keep doing it, if it's not change something.
P.S.
I've said it before no amount of words would change a ladies mind if that person didn't find you attractive.
Not sure about that. I met someone a while ago and I wasn’t really feeling a spark. We stayed friends and been chatting for ages and I’m starting to change my mind a little bit now so not always true.
Why did you meet him though his message or his picture.. Initially you thought ?
I've messaged folk exchanged pictures thought I like the look of them .. met folk and not felt a spark .. I can only say from my perspective words ain't gonna change that.. I might stay friends maybe to chat maybe not. "
I’ve met loads for a drink and only ever felt a spark with two. I’m not sure, it’s strange. He’s sort of grown on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel sorry for some. No doubt some have written well thought out messages over time, only for them to be deleted or left unread. I'm not surprised that some get disillusioned and resort to one liners, because the can't be arsed to make an effort anymore. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Why bother what or how others use the site..
I write messages in a manner that others wouldn't each to their own.
If your approach works keep doing it, if it's not change something.
P.S.
I've said it before no amount of words would change a ladies mind if that person didn't find you attractive.
Not sure about that. I met someone a while ago and I wasn’t really feeling a spark. We stayed friends and been chatting for ages and I’m starting to change my mind a little bit now so not always true.
Why did you meet him though his message or his picture.. Initially you thought ?
I've messaged folk exchanged pictures thought I like the look of them .. met folk and not felt a spark .. I can only say from my perspective words ain't gonna change that.. I might stay friends maybe to chat maybe not.
I’ve met loads for a drink and only ever felt a spark with two. I’m not sure, it’s strange. He’s sort of grown on me. "
If attraction wasn't important folk wouldn't ask for face pictures ..I can only think of one poster who says she's no t bothered about exchanging face pictures ..
Attraction captures my attention, their words maintain my interest. |
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