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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process."
I wonder why I bothered losing weight some days. Seems my skin is used to being stretched  |
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process."
I used to, then I sold my soul to the devil...
Sorted, no more aging although the eternity of damnation and having a blivet up my arse isn't anecessarily enticing prospect..
But hey, that's the price of vanity and its far cheaper than most of those anti aging serums..  |
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I'm actually quite relaxed when looking in the mirror.. full length and nude... no hangups and although I could do with losing about a stone it was nice to be complimented by a younger lady last month that I don't look 53  |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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Funny you should ask
Was in Tesco went by mirror.
Oh ffs, hairs a mess
Skirt is on back to front
Mud on shoe
Make ups gone to pot
One boob is lower than the other
One earring!!!
Looked as if I’ve just fallen out of some randoms bed.... |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Funny you should ask
Was in Tesco went by mirror.
Oh ffs, hairs a mess
Skirt is on back to front
Mud on shoe
Make ups gone to pot
One boob is lower than the other
One earring!!!
Looked as if I’ve just fallen out of some randoms bed...."
Had you? |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Nah because I'm so young and youthful.
Sod. Off.
One day lady you too will be old.
 So cruel."
That's the kind of mood I'm in and yes life is cruel,very cruel.
Oh and once you turn 30 your youthfulness will be long gone... |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Funny you should ask
Was in Tesco went by mirror.
Oh ffs, hairs a mess
Skirt is on back to front
Mud on shoe
Make ups gone to pot
One boob is lower than the other
One earring!!!
Looked as if I’ve just fallen out of some randoms bed....
Had you?"
Shhh! Don’t tell anyone, but guilty...
At least I didn’t have a stain on my skirt this time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heavens no . I look in the mirror and say , hello dear chap , now what adventures can we get up to today.
Be compassionate with yourself as you are with others |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Funny you should ask
Was in Tesco went by mirror.
Oh ffs, hairs a mess
Skirt is on back to front
Mud on shoe
Make ups gone to pot
One boob is lower than the other
One earring!!!
Looked as if I’ve just fallen out of some randoms bed....
Had you?
Shhh! Don’t tell anyone, but guilty...
At least I didn’t have a stain on my skirt this time"
Question is how did you get mud on your shoe? |
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It seems the older I am getting the more I am accepting of myself. I can look in the mirror naked from all different angles and think to myself you know what, it isn't how it used to be, it's not how you'd love it to be but woman you look good and you are sexy.
It's not every time but way more than ever before. It's nice not to cry from hating my body anymore. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Heavens no . I look in the mirror and say , hello dear chap , now what adventures can we get up to today.
Be compassionate with yourself as you are with others "
Compassionate,I'm in no mood to be compassionate. I'm menopausal and I'm in a 'see food and eat it',I feel old and bits are falling off me bit like my old car. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny you should ask
Was in Tesco went by mirror.
Oh ffs, hairs a mess
Skirt is on back to front
Mud on shoe
Make ups gone to pot
One boob is lower than the other
One earring!!!
Looked as if I’ve just fallen out of some randoms bed....
Had you?
Shhh! Don’t tell anyone, but guilty...
At least I didn’t have a stain on my skirt this time
Question is how did you get mud on your shoe?"
Are you sure it was mud...? That's the real question. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)  "
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heavens no . I look in the mirror and say , hello dear chap , now what adventures can we get up to today.
Be compassionate with yourself as you are with others
Compassionate,I'm in no mood to be compassionate. I'm menopausal and I'm in a 'see food and eat it',I feel old and bits are falling off me bit like my old car."
aww gosh it's going to be a beautiful day today , have a jolly splendid day out and walk . That always makes me feel positive and good x |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Heavens no . I look in the mirror and say , hello dear chap , now what adventures can we get up to today.
Be compassionate with yourself as you are with others
Compassionate,I'm in no mood to be compassionate. I'm menopausal and I'm in a 'see food and eat it',I feel old and bits are falling off me bit like my old car. aww gosh it's going to be a beautiful day today , have a jolly splendid day out and walk . That always makes me feel positive and good x "
Nope I'm just going to go with the self loathing today Taff,I'll cheer up immensely if the local council ring me back and say I can get a grant towards a new roof,until then I'm having a moan. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heavens no . I look in the mirror and say , hello dear chap , now what adventures can we get up to today.
Be compassionate with yourself as you are with others
Compassionate,I'm in no mood to be compassionate. I'm menopausal and I'm in a 'see food and eat it',I feel old and bits are falling off me bit like my old car. aww gosh it's going to be a beautiful day today , have a jolly splendid day out and walk . That always makes me feel positive and good x
Nope I'm just going to go with the self loathing today Taff,I'll cheer up immensely if the local council ring me back and say I can get a grant towards a new roof,until then I'm having a moan."
aww good luck with the council and Pooch and I will send positive thoughts from our hillside . And a cwtch too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
I have to stand further away...I can't see close up anymore "
a bit of squinting takes 10 yrs off Im sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind."
My older sisters would warn me wrinkles would get me, oh how I laughed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind.
My older sisters would warn me wrinkles would get me, oh how I laughed. "
Laughing too much gives you wrinkles... that's why I am grumpy...  |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Funny you should ask
Was in Tesco went by mirror.
Oh ffs, hairs a mess
Skirt is on back to front
Mud on shoe
Make ups gone to pot
One boob is lower than the other
One earring!!!
Looked as if I’ve just fallen out of some randoms bed....
Had you?
Shhh! Don’t tell anyone, but guilty...
At least I didn’t have a stain on my skirt this time
Question is how did you get mud on your shoe?
Are you sure it was mud...? That's the real question. "
Was deffo mud, went dogging before the guy.
Shhh! |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind.
My older sisters would warn me wrinkles would get me, oh how I laughed. "
You see that's the thing it creaps up on us all. I wish I had worn sunglasses more and not squinted quite so much. I remember someone telling me I'd get wrinkles in my teens I wish I'd listened to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind.
My older sisters would warn me wrinkles would get me, oh how I laughed.
You see that's the thing it creaps up on us all. I wish I had worn sunglasses more and not squinted quite so much. I remember someone telling me I'd get wrinkles in my teens I wish I'd listened to them."
Now sunglasses hid them...  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind.
My older sisters would warn me wrinkles would get me, oh how I laughed.
You see that's the thing it creaps up on us all. I wish I had worn sunglasses more and not squinted quite so much. I remember someone telling me I'd get wrinkles in my teens I wish I'd listened to them.
Now sunglasses hid them... "
Only to the outside world,but I know they're there... |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
Having lost 4 stone and toned up quite nicely thanks to my PT sessions and running, I am very happy to look at the mirror
There’s still work to do, not happy with my mum tum, but for the first time in 10 years I’m happy looking at mirrors instead of avoiding them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to stand further away these days and only look in certain light (dark)
Now I seem to remember I was pretty happy at 42,I want to be 42 again. Just not to have the relationship I was in then mind.
My older sisters would warn me wrinkles would get me, oh how I laughed.
Laughing too much gives you wrinkles... that's why I am grumpy... "
I just keep smiling. Scrumples them all back up again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I look in the mirror.
I see my dad.
All these wrinkles.
Its very sad.
.
But im in my fifties.
So have too except.
Im getting older.
No youth i kept.
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I still remember like yesterday.
Getting asked my age.
When buying a drink.
Alas i turned the page.
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So im getting older.
Im more lucky than some.
Live is for living.
So lets have some fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process.
I wonder why I bothered losing weight some days. Seems my skin is used to being stretched "
Fat fills out the wrinkles.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to the gym soon,this time yesterday I was eating cake. My willpower is weak to say the least."
If I looked even 5% as good as you I'd be happy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club "
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light "
Send me one!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it some mirrors you think, hmmm going to be a great day, then you go out, catch a glimpse in a shop window/reflection and think wow that went downhill quickly... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mirror at the gym makes me look good,but when look at home and shops don’t recognise fat old man looking at me.Have an image in my head of what I look like that is different to reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light "
I'd get naked with you  |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club "
I still want you Dana |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club "
That's nice of you to say thankyou. It's like you say though it's how you feel yourself inside and yep this peri thing isn't great,so many annoying little symptoms.
From what I saw as well you looked great so be safe in the knowledge it's just in our heads a lot of the time. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why is it some mirrors you think, hmmm going to be a great day, then you go out, catch a glimpse in a shop window/reflection and think wow that went downhill quickly... "
That's funny,bright light isn't good give me dimmed lighting anyday. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Actually I look at myself and think do you know what Im not bad for over 50.
I've make the best with what I have. I'm lucky that I've not got one stretch mark anywhere on my body thats good genes. I exercise alot which helps.
I'm average and happy within that skin.
Age is just a number but you can never be that you of 30 years ago...but you can be the best you today |
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process."
Sometimes. The beard is turning salt and pepper these days. No bad thing.
When I look in the mirror, the good looking bearded gentleman staring back at me is 6”3 with a 34 inch waste and is ageing like a fine wine rather than fresh flowers. He has a good family and a good group of mates around him...
I’m improving with age and only just coming into my prime, at the age of 35. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!"
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process."
Oh god yes. And leaning forward to turn off the bath taps seeing your reflection  what the hell happened there!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get told I don’t look my age but tbh when all the clothes are off I think greats tits abd bum and ignore the wobbly bits and the stretch marks
Even in my youth I thought by the time a guy was in bed with you naked he didn’t care about cellulite or a wobbly bit so I’ve never been shy |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now."
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber... |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Actually I look at myself and think do you know what Im not bad for over 50.
I've make the best with what I have. I'm lucky that I've not got one stretch mark anywhere on my body thats good genes. I exercise alot which helps.
I'm average and happy within that skin.
Age is just a number but you can never be that you of 30 years ago...but you can be the best you today "
I do get inspired when I see your pics,my motivation is just a bit up and down at the moment. I went to the gym earlier but to be fair it wasn't the best effort I've ever put in. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process.
Sometimes. The beard is turning salt and pepper these days. No bad thing.
When I look in the mirror, the good looking bearded gentleman staring back at me is 6”3 with a 34 inch waste and is ageing like a fine wine rather than fresh flowers. He has a good family and a good group of mates around him...
I’m improving with age and only just coming into my prime, at the age of 35. "
You wee pup come back in 20 years and tell me how you feel then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber... "
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple of years ago it happened at the barbers and for a split seconded I thought who's that out of shape old man looking at me.
It was an epipthanic moment for me and since then I stopped drinking and started eating healthier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process."
You look great .. I had no idea you were your age when I saw you in the flesh, until I read your profile ... I'm always looking on the mirror and thinking what happened ? ... More so now my laughter lines are getting slightly longer... lol |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta "
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Actually I look at myself and think do you know what Im not bad for over 50.
I've make the best with what I have. I'm lucky that I've not got one stretch mark anywhere on my body thats good genes. I exercise alot which helps.
I'm average and happy within that skin.
Age is just a number but you can never be that you of 30 years ago...but you can be the best you today
I do get inspired when I see your pics,my motivation is just a bit up and down at the moment. I went to the gym earlier but to be fair it wasn't the best effort I've ever put in."
Well that's very nice to say.
Join a class, start spinning, have swimming lessons somewhere you can't hide. It will hurt alot but you'll also find it will help with all the other problems your bodies going though. I've done it and didn't even know it had all happened.
Get a bike there are lots of cycling groups for just women of all levels thats how I started my cycling journey.
I cant explain the feel good factor you get from exercise. Even if you don't look that great at least you feel it.
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"and think what the hell is going on there in. Damn the aging process.
You look great .. I had no idea you were your age when I saw you in the flesh, until I read your profile ... I'm always looking on the mirror and thinking what happened ? ... More so now my laughter lines are getting slightly longer... lol "
Thankyou I'll take that compliment. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science! "
Take your rocket science and stick it up... |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Actually I look at myself and think do you know what Im not bad for over 50.
I've make the best with what I have. I'm lucky that I've not got one stretch mark anywhere on my body thats good genes. I exercise alot which helps.
I'm average and happy within that skin.
Age is just a number but you can never be that you of 30 years ago...but you can be the best you today
I do get inspired when I see your pics,my motivation is just a bit up and down at the moment. I went to the gym earlier but to be fair it wasn't the best effort I've ever put in.
Well that's very nice to say.
Join a class, start spinning, have swimming lessons somewhere you can't hide. It will hurt alot but you'll also find it will help with all the other problems your bodies going though. I've done it and didn't even know it had all happened.
Get a bike there are lots of cycling groups for just women of all levels thats how I started my cycling journey.
I cant explain the feel good factor you get from exercise. Even if you don't look that great at least you feel it.
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Right I do have a bike unfortunately it hasn't moved out of my shed in the 6 year's I've been in this property. I'm a danger on the roads and stuck to the trails I blame it on not having a bike as a child.
I did enjoy it though. Spinning looks knackering I don't think I'd keep up with the class. I like swimming. I'm the master of excuses. |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up..."
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears . |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears . "
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears . "
We know it's not rocket science,we don't need you to tell us it's not rocket science. |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
"
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. . |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. . "
It wasn't me that said that by the way I was just commenting,but as she's already stated she wasn't complaining about her weight either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. .
It wasn't me that said that by the way I was just commenting,but as she's already stated she wasn't complaining about her weight either."
I said the bit about taking the new pic cos I'm fatter now, and I'm not complaining about my weight.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. . "
Medically sound advice eh?
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
Some days I do, others I squint and am thankful my eyesight is getting worse in my old age too.
I try to love me for who I am but the majority of us find failings in ourselves, it’s human nature. You’ll never find me joining in on a what do you dislike about yourself thread - fucking hell im not gonna draw attention to the things I’m already self conscious about.
But age does creep up on us physically far quicker than it does mentally I think and that’s why you have those oh shit moments when you look in the mirror or try to get up off the floor. In your head you’re always at least still 10/15 years younger than your body is telling you. |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. .
It wasn't me that said that by the way I was just commenting,but as she's already stated she wasn't complaining about her weight either."
Read the thread and you’ll see that she was complaining about her weight. As I’ve already repeatedly stated!
I don’t judge her for that but, if someone wants to lose weight, I’ve explained how to do it, with reference to a medical doctor.
Take it as this: if you’re unhappy about your weight, the advice I’m giving you on how to lose weight is the same advice your GP would give you. How do I know that? Because my friend whose a GP has confirmed it...
I’m honestly not sure how many times I can say the same thing until it will be accepted... I won’t bother repeating it anymore, that’s for sure. |
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. .
Medically sound advice eh?
What's the best thing to do with my piles?"
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
But she’s the one complaining about her weight.
I hope she takes my advice, confirmed by an actual doctor (who I’ll be balls deep in tomorrow when she finally gets down here). I’m not joking, for once...
Loving my life right now .
I give medically sound advice when I can because I’m nice like that. You people should think of me as that bloke from embarrassing bodies. .
It wasn't me that said that by the way I was just commenting,but as she's already stated she wasn't complaining about her weight either.
Read the thread and you’ll see that she was complaining about her weight. As I’ve already repeatedly stated!
I don’t judge her for that but, if someone wants to lose weight, I’ve explained how to do it, with reference to a medical doctor.
Take it as this: if you’re unhappy about your weight, the advice I’m giving you on how to lose weight is the same advice your GP would give you. How do I know that? Because my friend whose a GP has confirmed it...
I’m honestly not sure how many times I can say the same thing until it will be accepted... I won’t bother repeating it anymore, that’s for sure. "
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"This thread ain't about fickin weight loss. "
No it was about ageing.
I’ve chimed in to say I’m ageing well thanks very much...
Someone else has moaned about how overweight they are, I’ve explained how they could turn that around, with reference to a doctor. That advice has been ignored/dismissed.
You can take a horse to water.... |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This thread ain't about fickin weight loss.
No it was about ageing.
I’ve chimed in to say I’m ageing well thanks very much...
Someone else has moaned about how overweight they are, I’ve explained how they could turn that around, with reference to a doctor. That advice has been ignored/dismissed.
You can take a horse to water.... "
No it hasn't been ignored/dismissed it just wasn't wanted. You're like a dog with a bone. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I was going to post, but I don't want to be told to lose weight and go to the gym, I don't even weigh 8 stone
But this middle aged spread is not just a myth and it's no laughing matter "
I know I didn't realise it was actually a thing how flipping wrong was I,take your eye off the ball and bang it's there. Being peri has made me eat more at times with lethargy,combined it doesn't help. I'm bang on 8 stone.
God I've mentioned weight I'm in for a sermon... |
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over a year ago
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"I feel like I've aged while reading this thread. It's like listening to my nan go on about milk when I've asked her when her Dr appointment is "
How old is your Nan ? |
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"I was going to post, but I don't want to be told to lose weight and go to the gym, I don't even weigh 8 stone
But this middle aged spread is not just a myth and it's no laughing matter
I know I didn't realise it was actually a thing how flipping wrong was I,take your eye off the ball and bang it's there. Being peri has made me eat more at times with lethargy,combined it doesn't help. I'm bang on 8 stone.
God I've mentioned weight I'm in for a sermon..."
How much is your watch worth for God’s sake?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like I've aged while reading this thread. It's like listening to my nan go on about milk when I've asked her when her Dr appointment is
How old is your Nan ?"
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over a year ago
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"I feel like I've aged while reading this thread. It's like listening to my nan go on about milk when I've asked her when her Dr appointment is
How old is your Nan ?
Are you interested in an older woman then?"
Does she look like Helen Mirren ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
"
This is a major part of the problem. You women worry far too much about this stuff... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I was going to post, but I don't want to be told to lose weight and go to the gym, I don't even weigh 8 stone
But this middle aged spread is not just a myth and it's no laughing matter
I know I didn't realise it was actually a thing how flipping wrong was I,take your eye off the ball and bang it's there. Being peri has made me eat more at times with lethargy,combined it doesn't help. I'm bang on 8 stone.
God I've mentioned weight I'm in for a sermon..."
You just had to go and do it!
It's just this year the spread has happened, need to find an exercise that enjoys me never mind I enjoy |
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"I was going to post, but I don't want to be told to lose weight and go to the gym, I don't even weigh 8 stone
But this middle aged spread is not just a myth and it's no laughing matter
I know I didn't realise it was actually a thing how flipping wrong was I,take your eye off the ball and bang it's there. Being peri has made me eat more at times with lethargy,combined it doesn't help. I'm bang on 8 stone.
God I've mentioned weight I'm in for a sermon...
You just had to go and do it!
It's just this year the spread has happened, need to find an exercise that enjoys me never mind I enjoy "
Mountain biking ? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'm with you there Op. Although I met you recently and thought you looked great, really good.
I'm so down on my body now that I can't stand the thought of being naked with someone. I'm also peri menopausal and cry most days. It's pretty tough getting old and feeling you are destined for the W.I. or the local knit and natter club, not the sex club
I'll send you a photo of my naked body and you'll look at yours in a different light
Send me one!!
You have no idea what you have just let yourself in for
Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.
If you’re unhappy with your weight, just eat and drink less, and hit the gym.
An easy and effective strategy to shed some timber...
I didn't say I was unhappy and I know how to lose weight ta
Ok, but you did say:
“Just for you I'll take one when I get home later. My old ones might not reflect how fat I am now.”
There’s no need for a big pity party, as I say. If you’re unhappy about your weight, the remedy certainly isn’t complaining about it on an Internet forum.
The solution to your problem is simply this: eat less, exercise more.
It’s not rocket science!
Take your rocket science and stick it up...
Love it.
Which bit of it did you disagree with? Just checked with the GP bestie. The good doctor concurs with me.
If calories out exceed calories in = weight loss.
Tell me which bit of my advice I should shove up my rear end?
I’m all ears .
She's not overweight though. A good food plan and a bit of exercise for toning...youre not a women so you couldn't possibly understand what's going on in her head right now.
This is a major part of the problem. You women worry far too much about this stuff..."
Nope not at all Im not worried it is what it is. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I was going to post, but I don't want to be told to lose weight and go to the gym, I don't even weigh 8 stone
But this middle aged spread is not just a myth and it's no laughing matter
I know I didn't realise it was actually a thing how flipping wrong was I,take your eye off the ball and bang it's there. Being peri has made me eat more at times with lethargy,combined it doesn't help. I'm bang on 8 stone.
God I've mentioned weight I'm in for a sermon..."
8 stone omg your just about 2 stone lighter than me and you're much taller.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I was going to post, but I don't want to be told to lose weight and go to the gym, I don't even weigh 8 stone
But this middle aged spread is not just a myth and it's no laughing matter
I know I didn't realise it was actually a thing how flipping wrong was I,take your eye off the ball and bang it's there. Being peri has made me eat more at times with lethargy,combined it doesn't help. I'm bang on 8 stone.
God I've mentioned weight I'm in for a sermon...
You just had to go and do it!
It's just this year the spread has happened, need to find an exercise that enjoys me never mind I enjoy
Mountain biking ?"
But how do I get out to the mountains with a bike? I'm not looking for excuses I promise, I just don't drive 
But I do need to find something that works for me (and my back)
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