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"Awww thank you but no thank you "If I had a complete list of users in the clique, what snacks are available, what days do we meet to discuss clique type discussions etc, what colour pens do we use during meetings...I’d maybe be interested | |||
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But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine! | |||
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"I think people mistake it for a clique, yet it’s just a group of people who’ve probably met each other so the conversation can flow easier. I’ve not been made to feel unwelcome at any time in the forums, except by my own lack of confidence. X " There’s definitely people that you talk to more often, but you’d get that in any setting. Some people you don’t mesh well with but you don’t have to get on with everyone at the end of the day | |||
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"Ewww, with all those germs, no thank you. ."Shall we go jump Lib instead, and then get some chips? | |||
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"Good analogy "You know what goes on in those hot tubs don't you  | |||
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"Ewww, with all those germs, no thank you. .
Shall we go jump Lib instead, and then get some chips?"He's leaving for to travel the world to find himself 
We still have chips | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine! "I agree | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine! "Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it! | |||
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"Ewww, with all those germs, no thank you. .
Shall we go jump Lib instead, and then get some chips?
He's leaving for to travel the world to find himself
We still have chips "Chips are probably more satisfying too.  | |||
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"I think people mistake it for a clique, yet it’s just a group of people who’ve probably met each other so the conversation can flow easier. I’ve not been made to feel unwelcome at any time in the forums, except by my own lack of confidence. X There’s definitely people that you talk to more often, but you’d get that in any setting. Some people you don’t mesh well with but you don’t have to get on with everyone at the end of the day " Yes definitely, I get on well with most people, but there are a few I give a wide berth to x | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it! " I’m here to make lurve, not war!  xx | |||
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"Can join you in the hot tub?" But of course. The rest are vicious though. So I'd recommend you sidle up to me so I can protect you. Let me just... get... my... arms... around... your... gorgeous... boobs. There all safe now   | |||
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"I think people mistake it for a clique, yet it’s just a group of people who’ve probably met each other so the conversation can flow easier. I’ve not been made to feel unwelcome at any time in the forums, except by my own lack of confidence. X " I've met a total of 0 people on here. The ride hasn't been smooth. There's a lot of piss taking. But I feel like I'm surrounded by friendly faces now Well almost haha | |||
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"Awww thank you but no thank you
If I had a complete list of users in the clique, what snacks are available, what days do we meet to discuss clique type discussions etc, what colour pens do we use during meetings...I’d maybe be interested"Snacks and colouring in........ where do I sign up V x | |||
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"We love everyone and we have cake "Ignored again even when we offer cake, bloody cliquey forumites. | |||
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"We love everyone and we have cake
Ignored again even when we offer cake, bloody cliquey forumites. "I’m just coordinating a group response via PM, but as an early heads up it’s looking like, yes, we’d love some cake please! | |||
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"I'm not sure I'm completely ready. Can I keep my bikini on? " You? Keep your bikini on? Especially no! | |||
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"We love everyone and we have cake
Ignored again even when we offer cake, bloody cliquey forumites.
I’m just coordinating a group response via PM, but as an early heads up it’s looking like, yes, we’d love some cake please! "We’ve got a strap on and left the thread now! Strop on, we meant strop on!!! | |||
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"We love everyone and we have cake
Ignored again even when we offer cake, bloody cliquey forumites. "I don't mind you offering sex you can't deliver. But holding the prospect of cake before me without actually sending me a slice in the post?! That's crossing a line Virtual sex is still sex of some sort Virtual cake = no cake
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"I'm not sure I'm completely ready. Can I keep my bikini on? You? Keep your bikini on? Especially no! "I mean, can I put it on. I'm already naked | |||
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"Good post! Is there room for one more? "Of course dude Just mind where you put your hands | |||
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"Nar you don't know who's pee'd in here." But you know it's on the lamposts! | |||
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"We love everyone and we have cake "I'll have cake please | |||
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"Nar you don't know who's pee'd in here." And how do you know someone's pee'd in there Ignite? You women are all the same. Give them a way to avoid queuing for the loo and you'll take full advantage of it with your "hey my urine is just like water" excuses | |||
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"I think people mistake it for a clique, yet it’s just a group of people who’ve probably met each other so the conversation can flow easier. I’ve not been made to feel unwelcome at any time in the forums, except by my own lack of confidence. X I've met a total of 0 people on here. The ride hasn't been smooth. There's a lot of piss taking. But I feel like I'm surrounded by friendly faces now Well almost haha "Yes, you’ve ingratiated yourself in the forums now. And it’s all friendly banter once you know how to take it x | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine! "100% this^^^^^^^^^. Apart from the twat part ha. You just have to be thicked skined and not give a toss what others think. I do think at times certain people do make others not feel welcome and they know exactly what they're doing. But they mask it by saying oh am i not allowed an opinion etc. But when others jump in is what i don't like to see in any walk of life. Yes we all have fab friends,but that doesn't mean we have to make others feel like they shouldn't comment in a public community | |||
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"Nar you don't know who's pee'd in here. But you know it's on the lamposts! "Ooh I need someone's lamppost to pee pee up. | |||
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I don't think there is a simple group , there are a number of tribes and sub tribes
And all manner of reasons for apparent symbiosis
I'm not really a fan of
Come on in everyone the waters lovely
Not everyone is lovely nor does everyone have a lovely opinion or a lovely sense of humour
I'm very happy for the little groups that form and have zero issue with anyone who does not want me in their particular club
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"...is a bit like staring at a hot tub full of chatting people and thinking they're excluding you Just strip off and come in. The water's warm and some of the guys in here are full of hot air so lots of bubbles "And not just the guys lol | |||
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"Nar you don't know who's pee'd in here. And how do you know someone's pee'd in there Ignite? You women are all the same. Give them a way to avoid queuing for the loo and you'll take full advantage of it with your "hey my urine is just like water" excuses "The water has a slightly yellow tinge to it that's how I know. | |||
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"Other side of the pond but enjoy the forums can I join the clique "But of course But take those Xmas lights off your tits first. Health n safety and everything We don't want to fry xx | |||
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"Other side of the pond but enjoy the forums can I join the clique
But of course But take those Xmas lights off your tits first. Health n safety and everything We don't want to fry xx"You dare to tell a woman to remove her Christmas lights? You fucking Scrooge!! | |||
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"*dips toe in water* Yeeeeesh... You could turn up the thermostat a bit OP. Anyone would think you wanted to be surrounded by erect nipples.... "Tits, he wants to be surrounded by tits. | |||
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"Seriously though... the more you post, the more people will notice you and start saying hi in their own sweet way "How do we know you're not the leader of the clique  | |||
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"*dips toe in water* Yeeeeesh... You could turn up the thermostat a bit OP. Anyone would think you wanted to be surrounded by erect nipples.... " | |||
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"Other side of the pond but enjoy the forums can I join the clique "Can I squeeze in between you? | |||
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"*dips toe in water* Yeeeeesh... You could turn up the thermostat a bit OP. Anyone would think you wanted to be surrounded by erect nipples....
Tits, he wants to be surrounded by tits."If he doesn't turn up the heat they'll all be Blue Tits!! | |||
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"*dips toe in water* Yeeeeesh... You could turn up the thermostat a bit OP. Anyone would think you wanted to be surrounded by erect nipples....
Tits, he wants to be surrounded by tits.
If he doesn't turn up the heat they'll all be Blue Tits!! "But great tits nonetheless. | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it! "Best answer on here . Truth.
(Love ya Dan!) | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it!
Best answer on here . Truth.
(Love ya Dan!)"Yep! | |||
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"I read them don't post much find it is clicky "Give it a whirl Roxy Plenty of people on here looking for a fwb xx | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it!
Best answer on here . Truth.
(Love ya Dan!)"See, OP! Coordinated harassment!! | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it!
Best answer on here . Truth.
(Love ya Dan!)
See, OP! Coordinated harassment!! "I know! I coordinated it | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it!
Best answer on here . Truth.
(Love ya Dan!)
See, OP! Coordinated harassment!!
I know! I coordinated it "Odd considering I received no PMs. Stop projecting, Dan. | |||
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" Odd considering I received no PMs. Stop projecting, Dan. "Ah but silence on the number that you sent!
Busted! Pot, kettle etc | |||
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"There's a massive clique on the forums...always has been, careful what you say though as joking aside I've been barred for the smallest things. It's mainly people who've never met each other in real life or met many other people as they are happiest at the keyboard, they will have in jokes, nicknames or references to each other as they all swarm a thread. Usually be the first to pounce on threads that can be turned on the OP, try make op feel bad about what they've posted or ridicule them for asking a question at all, quite bullyish at times. Those that think freely, show signs of humour or challenge the endless "kiss, fuck, donate a kidney" and "send a pointless pic to the person above" threads are quickly dealt with. Few stand up to them, but not many." Am I in this clique. I'd quite like to know... | |||
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"I'll pass as in The hot tub time machine movie they went back to the 1980's!" Bad hair decade? | |||
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"Mostly true OP! Mostly true .. But surely you’ve seen the posse coming to the defence of a wronged mate on here? Happens all the time! It’s almost as if it can be coordinated via PM first some times ..
But yeah, on the whole, come in, make some noise, make yourself look a twat and you’ll be fine!
Dan Berks, you are the biggest ever coordinator, stirrer and gossip on the site! And you know it!
Best answer on here . Truth.
(Love ya Dan!)
See, OP! Coordinated harassment!!
I know! I coordinated it
Odd considering I received no PMs.
Stop projecting, Dan. "Oh. So that's what it is then?  It's all down to PMS | |||
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"There's a massive clique on the forums...always has been, careful what you say though as joking aside I've been barred for the smallest things. It's mainly people who've never met each other in real life or met many other people as they are happiest at the keyboard, they will have in jokes, nicknames or references to each other as they all swarm a thread. Usually be the first to pounce on threads that can be turned on the OP, try make op feel bad about what they've posted or ridicule them for asking a question at all, quite bullyish at times. Those that think freely, show signs of humour or challenge the endless "kiss, fuck, donate a kidney" and "send a pointless pic to the person above" threads are quickly dealt with. Few stand up to them, but not many. Am I in this clique. I'd quite like to know... " That's actually a very fair question. All these folks who insist on there being cliques, but none of us know if we're the ones being accused... I'd like to know if anyone thinks I'm in a clique. No judgement... Just interested to know. | |||
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"There's a massive clique on the forums...always has been, careful what you say though as joking aside I've been barred for the smallest things. It's mainly people who've never met each other in real life or met many other people as they are happiest at the keyboard, they will have in jokes, nicknames or references to each other as they all swarm a thread. Usually be the first to pounce on threads that can be turned on the OP, try make op feel bad about what they've posted or ridicule them for asking a question at all, quite bullyish at times. Those that think freely, show signs of humour or challenge the endless "kiss, fuck, donate a kidney" and "send a pointless pic to the person above" threads are quickly dealt with. Few stand up to them, but not many. Am I in this clique. I'd quite like to know... That's actually a very fair question. All these folks who insist on there being cliques, but none of us know if we're the ones being accused... I'd like to know if anyone thinks I'm in a clique. No judgement... Just interested to know. " Aye me too | |||
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"There's a massive clique on the forums...always has been, careful what you say though as joking aside I've been barred for the smallest things. It's mainly people who've never met each other in real life or met many other people as they are happiest at the keyboard, they will have in jokes, nicknames or references to each other as they all swarm a thread. Usually be the first to pounce on threads that can be turned on the OP, try make op feel bad about what they've posted or ridicule them for asking a question at all, quite bullyish at times. Those that think freely, show signs of humour or challenge the endless "kiss, fuck, donate a kidney" and "send a pointless pic to the person above" threads are quickly dealt with. Few stand up to them, but not many. Am I in this clique. I'd quite like to know... That's actually a very fair question. All these folks who insist on there being cliques, but none of us know if we're the ones being accused... I'd like to know if anyone thinks I'm in a clique. No judgement... Just interested to know. " That lady a while ago said I was in the clique. I'm still waiting for my t-shirt | |||
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"There's a massive clique on the forums...always has been, careful what you say though as joking aside I've been barred for the smallest things. It's mainly people who've never met each other in real life or met many other people as they are happiest at the keyboard, they will have in jokes, nicknames or references to each other as they all swarm a thread. Usually be the first to pounce on threads that can be turned on the OP, try make op feel bad about what they've posted or ridicule them for asking a question at all, quite bullyish at times. Those that think freely, show signs of humour or challenge the endless "kiss, fuck, donate a kidney" and "send a pointless pic to the person above" threads are quickly dealt with. Few stand up to them, but not many." We need name's... | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... " It's catnip to some. | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... " ^ this poster gets it! | |||
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"There's a massive clique on the forums...always has been, careful what you say though as joking aside I've been barred for the smallest things. It's mainly people who've never met each other in real life or met many other people as they are happiest at the keyboard, they will have in jokes, nicknames or references to each other as they all swarm a thread. Usually be the first to pounce on threads that can be turned on the OP, try make op feel bad about what they've posted or ridicule them for asking a question at all, quite bullyish at times. Those that think freely, show signs of humour or challenge the endless "kiss, fuck, donate a kidney" and "send a pointless pic to the person above" threads are quickly dealt with. Few stand up to them, but not many. Am I in this clique. I'd quite like to know... That's actually a very fair question. All these folks who insist on there being cliques, but none of us know if we're the ones being accused... I'd like to know if anyone thinks I'm in a clique. No judgement... Just interested to know. That lady a while ago said I was in the clique. I'm still waiting for my t-shirt" Theres a t-shirt clique? Round or V neck? I'll have to know before I apply | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... ^ this poster gets it! "And regularly | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... " Aww but come on some of them like the gorilla guy yesterday are hilarious  It's the equivalent of jumping into the middle of the hot tub and helicoptering your big schlong whilst saying "OK which one of you lucky ladies wants the pleasure of this?" No wonder everyone retorts "just sit down dude and stop making a fool of yourself" | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... It's catnip to some." Indeed. I think this thread actually reinforces the clique theory. The more people claim there isn't one the more it appears that there is. | |||
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" Odd considering I received no PMs. Stop projecting, Dan.
Ah but silence on the number that you sent!
Busted! Pot, kettle etc "Zero, actually. | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... Aww but come on some of them like the gorilla guy yesterday are hilarious It's the equivalent of jumping into the middle of the hot tub and helicoptering your big schlong whilst saying "OK which one of you lucky ladies wants the pleasure of this?" No wonder everyone retorts "just sit down dude and stop making a fool of yourself" "And the ones who come on just wanting a bit of friendly advice and steering in the right direction? | |||
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"Can join you in the hot tub?" Who could refuse that kind offer | |||
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"Hmm tell this to the young, single men who naively post something that more experienced members have knowledge of... It's catnip to some. Indeed. I think this thread actually reinforces the clique theory. The more people claim there isn't one the more it appears that there is. " That’s very true | |||
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" Odd considering I received no PMs. Stop projecting, Dan.
Ah but silence on the number that you sent!
Busted! Pot, kettle etc
Zero, actually. " ah something else we have in common then! FAF | |||
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"and so ..... join in or carry on regardless" Bad show old bean! Hiding your profile and wanting people to snuggle up to you is like trying to slip into the hot tub fully geared up in wet suit, scuba gear, and a mask | |||
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"Cliquey hot tubs are the worst." Cillit Bang the lot of 'em! | |||
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"and so ..... join in or carry on regardless Bad show old bean! Hiding your profile and wanting people to snuggle up to you is like trying to slip into the hot tub fully geared up in wet suit, scuba gear, and a mask "Is this not allowed?
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"...is a bit like staring at a hot tub full of chatting people and thinking they're excluding you Just strip off and come in. The water's warm and some of the guys in here are full of hot air so lots of bubbles "Should we be inviting the LGBT community to join us too | |||
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"...is a bit like staring at a hot tub full of chatting people and thinking they're excluding you Just strip off and come in. The water's warm and some of the guys in here are full of hot air so lots of bubbles
Should we be inviting the LGBT community to join us too "Ooo you shit stirrer We'll keep them over on the other side... away from the "I'm straight" guys | |||
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!"" Load of tosh...same usernames that pile in have been around years!!!!! | |||
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!"" well put ! | |||
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!" Load of tosh...same usernames that pile in have been around years!!!!!" Hey! Don't single out Tosh | |||
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"...is a bit like staring at a hot tub full of chatting people and thinking they're excluding you Just strip off and come in. The water's warm and some of the guys in here are full of hot air so lots of bubbles
Should we be inviting the LGBT community to join us too
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"Lol, some people have an overactive imagination! "Omg this is so evident on this thread. Stop being so fucking mard grow a pair and join the fuck in | |||
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"Seriously though... the more you post, the more people will notice you and start saying hi in their own sweet way "Or not. There is a huge clique in the forums but personally I just chip in where I feel like it and don't expect a response If I get one, great, if I don't I ain't crying into my coffee mug | |||
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"Although we would LOVE to anx could quite easily rattle off the names of the main clique players, we aren't stupid..unless you fancy a very, long ban!! It's funny because you see new faces each week that try and please the main clique so they can be allowed in, that's tragic to see." I am asking you to say if I am in the clique. If someone requests something you won't get a ban. | |||
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!" Load of tosh...same usernames that pile in have been around years!!!!!" I guess it's different perspectives but I stand by the post - having been here for getting on for three years now I've actually seen cycles of people coming and going - some that bounce off one another in what some will see as cliques, others will just see as friendships between people who have met etc - groups form, groups break up and new ones form - it's just a microcosm of life really. I just carry on with posting when I have something vaguely relevant to say and really don't worry myself about whether there is or isn't a clique | |||
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!" Load of tosh...same usernames that pile in have been around years!!!!! I guess it's different perspectives but I stand by the post - having been here for getting on for three years now I've actually seen cycles of people coming and going - some that bounce off one another in what some will see as cliques, others will just see as friendships between people who have met etc - groups form, groups break up and new ones form - it's just a microcosm of life really. I just carry on with posting when I have something vaguely relevant to say and really don't worry myself about whether there is or isn't a clique "The clique thing really is utter bollocks. There are various groups of people who post about different things that interest them. I tend to post about political stuff, but don't get involved in ones about TV and rate the poster above etc ones. So, if there are cliques there's quite a few of them. It might be better to call them interest groups. | |||
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"Although we would LOVE to anx could quite easily rattle off the names of the main clique players, we aren't stupid..unless you fancy a very, long ban!! It's funny because you see new faces each week that try and please the main clique so they can be allowed in, that's tragic to see." I think there's no doubt that there are a bunch of people who've been on here for donkeys years and I'm guessing many have met each other at some point, some shagged, some successfully, some not. They might even consider this "their forum". But it isn't really (  You didn't hear it from me ).
Some of them can be less welcoming than others. But the whole point of the site is to find lovely people to fuck. So you'll often find even the old guard willing to say hi and welcome you in if they like the look of you.
I don't think this group makes up a large amount of the people who regularly post on here. And there appears to be a vibrant gossip scene of old hands who never post here at all. They just lurk and judge us between themselves. So you can't even claim the clique, if there really is such a thing, only exists on the forum.
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!"" Ooh I've never been plagiarised before, does that mean I'm kinky now? | |||
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"Seriously though... the more you post, the more people will notice you and start saying hi in their own sweet way
Or not.
There is a huge clique in the forums but personally I just chip in where I feel like it and don't expect a response
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"I'll pass as in The hot tub time machine movie they went back to the 1980's! Bad hair decade? "It was! Things were much better hair wise in the 90's! | |||
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"I’m cliquey with some people because I like them, or am interested in talking to them, sometimes because I want to counter their opinion and discuss something. I ignore some people on purpose, because who has time/will to engage with people they don’t really like the read of, at other times I’ll challenge and contest them. I’ll miss people accidentally or due to the speed of posting, some threads I don’t really go in, sometimes I get really into a conversation but it then reads as if I’m purposefully excluding others, I’ll post more when I’ve time, and less when I’m busy or doing real life stuff. I will be interpreted by people who never once talk directly with me positively and negatively according to their own views not objective fact and then they’ll seek evidence to firm their narrative and it’s always possible to do that. Things unrelated will be read one way or another, people will gossip, others won’t give a shit. Sometimes it won’t faze me on others it can upset me greatly. I’m a multi faceted human. There both is and isn’t a clique. Thing is we are both in some and not in the others. It’s a forum, what do you expect?" In other words she only really really argues with guys she wants to swallow in her pussy lips
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"I’m cliquey with some people because I like them, or am interested in talking to them, sometimes because I want to counter their opinion and discuss something. I ignore some people on purpose, because who has time/will to engage with people they don’t really like the read of, at other times I’ll challenge and contest them. I’ll miss people accidentally or due to the speed of posting, some threads I don’t really go in, sometimes I get really into a conversation but it then reads as if I’m purposefully excluding others, I’ll post more when I’ve time, and less when I’m busy or doing real life stuff. I will be interpreted by people who never once talk directly with me positively and negatively according to their own views not objective fact and then they’ll seek evidence to firm their narrative and it’s always possible to do that. Things unrelated will be read one way or another, people will gossip, others won’t give a shit. Sometimes it won’t faze me on others it can upset me greatly. I’m a multi faceted human. There both is and isn’t a clique. Thing is we are both in some and not in the others. It’s a forum, what do you expect?" | |||
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"I'm not sure there's cliques as such. Theres lots of differing groups of people who've grown to know each other over time, who know each others sense of humour, share common interests and "stuff". Circles within circles. Some people get on, some don't. Just like the real world. I've seen people who would argue until Hell freezes over on the forums, but get on famously in the real world. To the outsider or newbie this can look like a clique. I'd say it's just friends (or sworn enemys) you haven't made yet. Two pence spent." Come on I did my best to chase you off way back in your early day. Guess I fucked that up | |||
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"I've borrowed this from Frisky Mare who posted it on the other clique thread currently running as it well and truly hits the nail square on the head: "I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!" Ooh I've never been plagiarised before, does that mean I'm kinky now? "You're only plagiarised if someone passes your posts off as their own - so I think you're safe | |||
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"I liked the clique of c*nts thread " Best flounce ever, I love a good flounce | |||
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"Personally. My own opinion is I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!! "Plagiarist!!!! It's quite the ego trip actually lol! | |||
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"Personally. My own opinion is I've never been able to identify any cliques and I've been here ages.... there's just a random and continually changing selection of people who chat, meet, shag, fall out, and become overly dependant on forum posting for their self-worth! If you don't like this weeks clique, come back next week, they'll be different!!
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"But I don't like getting totally naked. Does that mean I'm not allowed in the hot tub?" just keep your socks on | |||
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"Seriously though... the more you post, the more people will notice you and start saying hi in their own sweet way "Agree. Theres afew that grate me on here, but i just ignore them tbh Ive made some great contacts via the forums | |||
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"I'll just carry on spouting bollocks. If anyone pays attention, great. If not, fuck 'em. "I almost asked where Nonya was | |||
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"But I don't like getting totally naked. Does that mean I'm not allowed in the hot tub?" I'll put my hand over your tuppence for you | |||
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"I'll just carry on spouting bollocks. If anyone pays attention, great. If not, fuck 'em.
I almost asked where Nonya was "It's near here, close to there, and very far away from everywhere. | |||
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"Seriously though... the more you post, the more people will notice you and start saying hi in their own sweet way "Lies | |||
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"Seriously though... the more you post, the more people will notice you and start saying hi in their own sweet way
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"But I don't like getting totally naked. Does that mean I'm not allowed in the hot tub?" We can cover each other | |||
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"Oh is this another clique thread? I prefer this one there’s a hot tub. Move over "Have you ever had that feeling you just can't quite fit in....come on the steam rooms looking hot and steamy | |||
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"Oh is this another clique thread? I prefer this one there’s a hot tub. Move over
Have you ever had that feeling you just can't quite fit in....come on the steam rooms looking hot and steamy "I never fit in but I like it that way. Steam room it is. Let’s go | |||
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"Oh is this another clique thread? I prefer this one there’s a hot tub. Move over
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"Clique thread with a hot tub! Things are looking up! Well I just got in after coffee with a gorgeous fabster and could do with a bubble about but I haven't paid my clique subs this month, am I still in? Or do I need to do some lamppost pissing first?
Peach x"Consider yourself thoroughly drenched in my piss Hmm  that didn't quite come out the way I had intended | |||
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"Clique thread with a hot tub! Things are looking up! Well I just got in after coffee with a gorgeous fabster and could do with a bubble about but I haven't paid my clique subs this month, am I still in? Or do I need to do some lamppost pissing first?
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"I'm wary of interacting with new men on the forums because in the past some have seen it as a green light to send private messages. That in itself isn't a problem, it's when they want to talk sex that it is. So, I'm careful about who I respond to now." Ditto | |||
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"And we are not in any cliques/groups, we're still new and getting to know people, most we have have interacted with from the forums have been genuinely lovely people. Jo.Xx" We can’t wait to interact with you properly! | |||
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"...is a bit like staring at a hot tub full of chatting people and thinking they're excluding you Just strip off and come in. The water's warm and some of the guys in here are full of hot air so lots of bubbles " | |||
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"...is a bit like staring at a hot tub full of chatting people and thinking they're excluding you Just strip off and come in. The water's warm and some of the guys in here are full of hot air so lots of bubbles "The guys in the hot tub making bubbles is the hot air methane? | |||
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"So anyway, I can’t be arsed to read all the thread. What was the conclusion? Is there a clique or not? "Yes oh clique master | |||
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"Pretty sure the clique thing comes out when a new guy posts and he gets absolutely rinsed. Sometimes deservedly but not always. I just do my own thing on here but I'm a lone wolf in life too! " That's not a clique, that's a wake of vultures | |||
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"And we are not in any cliques/groups, we're still new and getting to know people, most we have have interacted with from the forums have been genuinely lovely people. Jo.Xx We can’t wait to interact with you properly! "Likewise | |||
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"So anyway, I can’t be arsed to read all the thread. What was the conclusion? Is there a clique or not? "Your one of those guys who don't read profiles arnt you | |||
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"Just join a clique of one, as I’ve done. I value intelligent company. "You get to decide which biccies to have at the meetings too. | |||
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"And we are not in any cliques/groups, we're still new and getting to know people, most we have have interacted with from the forums have been genuinely lovely people. Jo.Xx We can’t wait to interact with you properly!
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"Yes there is a clique,and there is a king and queen aswell,if you think it's you then go and sit on your pedestal right now" We could have a prom and vote for the King and Queen of the clique!! | |||
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"Yes there is a clique,and there is a king and queen aswell,if you think it's you then go and sit on your pedestal right now We could have a prom and vote for the King and Queen of the clique!! "You and Dash!  | |||
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"And we are not in any cliques/groups, we're still new and getting to know people, most we have have interacted with from the forums have been genuinely lovely people. Jo.Xx We can’t wait to interact with you properly!
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