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over a year ago
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At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never really had an age preference. I have generally tended to attract women older than myself though so I've been drawn more to older women as a result.
Since turning 30 though, I've attracted more younger women. Funny old world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the first time I was with someone in their late-twenties cemented that as the lower limit. Obviously all people are different, but it's generally by then that folk have sussed themselves out enough to give their best to others. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I don’t have hard and fast rules on age. But historically I have tended to be meet women plus of minus ten years of my age.
While I find some much younger women physically attractive, I think I’d have less in common. And once it gets close to the age of my daughter it gets too weird for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the age of 42. I had had a few men older than me and wasn't feeling sexy or comfortable with them, then a 22 year old started chatting to me on a Facebook app.
It was general chit chat, nothing sexual, and we got on very well.
After about 6 months he said he would like to meet me. I was taken aback and apprehensive but agreed and when he returned from Europe we met, and that was the beginning of two years of him showing me how good sex can be.
Since then, I still find I feel more comfortable with younger men, although, as I get older so do they. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was younger I much preferred older women, me 20 them 30+. Then the age gap sort of closed as I hit 30/40. Now it's going the other way, as I got past 40 I started to prefer younger women than me, a lot younger.
Apparently the French are like it, young women prefering older men with more worldly experience and the mature ladies prefering younger men....... guess you don't have to be a phycologist to work out why! |
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Couldn't really put a year on it, but I guess somewhere in my 30s I realised I preferred younger men and hadn't been with an older man or even one my own age in about 10 years. I think I shocked a lot of Fab friends earlier this year when I met someone my own age (some even stopped speaking to be because of the whole 'well why make an exception for him and not me' thing). Most of my partners have been 5-12 years younger (long term fwb is 7 years younger). The fanny wants what the fanny wants  |
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I don't have particular preferences, though in the past I've tended to stick to people close to my own age.
This year I've had some great times with older women. I think as you get into your 30s, age becomes less of a factor |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to think I was attracted to older guys as I always went for guys in their 30's/40's. Now I'm in my 30's I realise it's not older guys I'm into per se, it's just that age range. |
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?"
I've recently developed a thing for 21 year old Scottish women . Dunno why  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was younger I much preferred older women, me 20 them 30+. Then the age gap sort of closed as I hit 30/40. Now it's going the other way, as I got past 40 I started to prefer younger women than me, a lot younger.
Apparently the French are like it, young women prefering older men with more worldly experience and the mature ladies prefering younger men....... guess you don't have to be a phycologist to work out why!"
That must be why I love France so much - sums up my sexual history completely.  |
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I realised in bed 1 night with a rather tasty little thing I don't like them to young. Think it may have been her telling me I was older than her dad. Hmmmm questions not to ask that's a whole other thread  |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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its altered with my age, but then i go through phases with my preferences, also with the size and type of woman i meet... i have never had a set type or age or size and long may it continue like this too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up until the age of 30 I had never slept with a lady younger than me, not by choice, it was just the way it worked out, I've since slept with younger but have no preference really, if I like you I like you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?
I've recently developed a thing for 21 year old Scottish women . Dunno why "
There’s some pretty hot ones out there to be fair |
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?
I've recently developed a thing for 21 year old Scottish women . Dunno why
There’s some pretty hot ones out there to be fair"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?
I've recently developed a thing for 21 year old Scottish women . Dunno why
There’s some pretty hot ones out there to be fair
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?
I've recently developed a thing for 21 year old Scottish women . Dunno why
There’s some pretty hot ones out there to be fair
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Ooh those fluttery eyes make me go all unnecessary  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My kinky imagination has always been open to erotic encounters with quite a wide age range of women. Luckily for me it's remained legal and decent haha. When I was 15 I'd fantasise about a house wife on my paper round taking me in and fucking me. As I've got older I've found myself fantasising more about younger 18+ women. But I've had some extraordinary erotic encounters with 60+ yr old women at clubs that were totally unexpected.
Haha don't know if I answered the question but I enjoyed writing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ages irrelevant to me. I seem to attract woman older to myself.
I look for someone that stimulates me mentally (this is rarely anyone younger).
Physically What i look for is good teeth, good hair and someone that looks after themselves regularly works out and takes pride in their appearance
Age doesnt come into it as such although older women are typically better lovers & more passionate.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening"
 Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease |
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I don't really have a preference, in my youth I generally liked guys the same age or a few years older than me, but the older I get, the less of those I fancy, so I have to meet people a few years younger. |
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over a year ago
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease "
Is 21 too old to apply? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease "
Noooooooo it's just wrong on lots of levels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?"
the age bit didn't come into it, I just realised I liked fucking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At what age did you realise ‘I like fucking people this age’ ?
For example, I prefer men older than me (older than 30 really). I’ve always fancied older men, but I never gave it much thought (because I wasn’t in an open relationship or marriage) until I joined here. Now there’s a very small chance that I’d actually be attracted to someone under 30 (but it has happened occasionally)
So what age did you realise your preferences? Have they change much over the years?
the age bit didn't come into it, I just realised I liked fucking"
That’s the spirit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always been attracted to older men. Slept with a lovely 39 year old when I was 19 and definitely had a preference for those over 30. I’ve slept with a few guys in their 20s but they weren’t very good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve always been attracted to older men. Slept with a lovely 39 year old when I was 19 and definitely had a preference for those over 30. I’ve slept with a few guys in their 20s but they weren’t very good! "
Honestly, today I've never been so happy to be over 30 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 43 and met my first much younger friend with benefits, he was 20. I have been hooked ever since. Although I think my brain is thinking I need a bf or something as I have been finding more guys, closer to my own age, attractive, lately. |
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"I’ve always been attracted to older men. Slept with a lovely 39 year old when I was 19 and definitely had a preference for those over 30. I’ve slept with a few guys in their 20s but they weren’t very good!
Honestly, today I've never been so happy to be over 30 "
Like a rat up A trouser leg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease
Noooooooo it's just wrong on lots of levels"
It's the wrong that makes it right |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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In my 20's a few years either side of my own age. 30's older up to 9 years.
Now its diffinantly younger only because there are very few men I find attraction around my own age.
I'm attracted to fit/ athelic men with a great smile |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease
Noooooooo it's just wrong on lots of levels
It's the wrong that makes it right "
I agree with her (sorry) there is a certain age were it just doesn't feel right..the opportunity is there but not for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease
Noooooooo it's just wrong on lots of levels
It's the wrong that makes it right
I agree with her (sorry) there is a certain age were it just doesn't feel right..the opportunity is there but not for me "
Her? Did Dash just have an operation I don't know about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Defo always been attracted to older women  I just think there much beautifuler
That’s a good confidence boost"
Just personal preference not saying I'd never go with a girl younger than myself but there's something about an older lady x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease "
Me thinks maybe he protest too much!  |
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Age doesn't really register with me.
I never really think about it til after the event.
I either fancy the person or I don't.
I only realise they're in their 20s or their 50s later.
My vanilla relationships have always been with people around the same age as me tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 year old lusting after me,I kid you not,it's actually scaring me tbh,I'm 55 FFS and it ain't fucking happening
Dear God Just once in my life pleeeeease
Noooooooo it's just wrong on lots of levels
It's the wrong that makes it right
I agree with her (sorry) there is a certain age were it just doesn't feel right..the opportunity is there but not for me
Her? Did Dash just have an operation I don't know about? "
Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my 20's a few years either side of my own age. 30's older up to 9 years.
Now its diffinantly younger only because there are very few men I find attraction around my own age.
I'm attracted to fit/ athelic men with a great smile "
Can't see me smiling for my beard... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really have a preference, in my youth I generally liked guys the same age or a few years older than me, but the older I get, the less of those I fancy, so I have to meet people a few years younger. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really have a preference, in my youth I generally liked guys the same age or a few years older than me, but the older I get, the less of those I fancy, so I have to meet people a few years younger.
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While i'm here, maybe you should try a Pisces too. I hear they make the best lovers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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when I was 17 (long time ago) I met a girl on a night out , except little did I know she was 34 …. so have had a fancy for older since then ..lol wonder why … |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess "
45 plus is old? Cheeky! |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky! "
To be fair, I’m 47 and I class guys over 40 to be too old for ME. |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
To be fair, I’m 47 and I class guys over 40 to be too old for ME. "
How is the new squeeze going? |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
To be fair, I’m 47 and I class guys over 40 to be too old for ME. "
31 over here just saying  |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
To be fair, I’m 47 and I class guys over 40 to be too old for ME.
How is the new squeeze going? "
It’s nice but complicated. I always meet the ones that want kids and I don’t. Not sure where we go from here. |
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over a year ago
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"Who likes fucking people my age ... anyway...age has nothing to do with how good a fuck you are..."
Not me. You’re 6 years older than my grandad. I just couldn’t do it.
Lots of people will want to fuck folk your age though |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone old like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
To be fair, I’m 47 and I class guys over 40 to be too old for ME.
How is the new squeeze going?
It’s nice but complicated. I always meet the ones that want kids and I don’t. Not sure where we go from here. "
Awww I'm sorry lovely. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you can both work through it. That's a really difficult issue to overcome though, bless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer guys older than my sons and who know what they're doing - I'm too old to start teaching anyone
Just curious how old are your sons ha
The eldest is older than you "
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky! "
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha |
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"Who likes fucking people my age ... anyway...age has nothing to do with how good a fuck you are...
Not me. You’re 6 years older than my grandad. I just couldn’t do it.
Lots of people will want to fuck folk your age though "
true .. and it's not compulsory  |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha"
Hahaha you changed it!!! |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha
Hahaha you changed it!!! "
Dam you noticed!  |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha
Hahaha you changed it!!!
Dam you noticed! "
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha
Hahaha you changed it!!!
Dam you noticed!
I notice everything "
Yeah I can tell... Good observation... Gold star |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who likes fucking people my age ... anyway...age has nothing to do with how good a fuck you are..."
I have in the past. I would say age may come into how good of a fucj you are depending on an individual basis though x |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha
Hahaha you changed it!!!
Dam you noticed!
I notice everything
Yeah I can tell... Good observation... Gold star "
News Flash!! Woman notices something man hoped he'd get away with. Read all about it. Read all about it |
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"I don't really have a preference, in my youth I generally liked guys the same age or a few years older than me, but the older I get, the less of those I fancy, so I have to meet people a few years younger.
While i'm here, maybe you should try a Pisces too. I hear they make the best lovers. "
That’s so true!!! |
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"Always been younger for me until a couple of weeks ago. She was only 37 though. But it made no difference. So have no preference really. Haven't gone older like 45 plus but its a experience to endeavour i guess
45 plus is old? Cheeky!
No but its older... Hey! I never said no haha
Hahaha you changed it!!!
Dam you noticed!
I notice everything
Yeah I can tell... Good observation... Gold star
News Flash!! Woman notices something man hoped he'd get away with. Read all about it. Read all about it "
You should try Big Issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!... |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!..."
Another big confidence boost |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When i was younger i preferred older men and now I'm older i still prefer older men..
I've only ever been with one man who was the exact same age as me and that was my ex..
But i have also met a few that were younger which is what has made me realise i prefer older |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Another big confidence boost "
You did ask |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Another big confidence boost
You did ask"
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Another big confidence boost "
I still notice them ... just don't think that they notice or want me |
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"When i was younger i preferred older men and now I'm older i still prefer older men..
I've only ever been with one man who was the exact same age as me and that was my ex..
But i have also met a few that were younger which is what has made me realise i prefer older "
The youngest person I’ve been with is my husband...who is four years older than me |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!..."
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong  |
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I have always been attracted to women of my own age (or thereabouts). When I was 18 I liked women in their late teens or early twenties. The same all the way through my life. When I was 30, I fancied and shagged women in their late 20s and early 30s. Now at the half century... the women I fancy are still just above or below my age.
The only exception I can think of is a short-lived summer fling with a 19 year-old when I was 27. I noticed the age/experience gulf very quickly. |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong "
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things... |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things... "
How rude of her. I've experienced that myself though mate tbh. Phones are so antisocial especially when there's just 2 of you... And dinner to. Same age mate pretty much so yeah it would be quite hard. Plus everyday life gets in the way its even harder. |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Another big confidence boost "
You're younger than my youngest daughter but i still think you're hot. |
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I was probably about 17 when I actually noticed I preferred men quite a bit older than me!
I’ve been with guys my own age, but I find I’m more critical when it comes to them.
For me I prefer older men 35+, and find a lot who are younger than that are still in “little boy” mentality and their immaturity tends to show up quite quickly, that’s when I lose interest.
The sweet spot would be between 35 and 48 I think. I’m the kinda girl who is eyeing up the Dad whilst the son is eyeing up me, haha! |
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"I was probably about 17 when I actually noticed I preferred men quite a bit older than me!
I’ve been with guys my own age, but I find I’m more critical when it comes to them.
For me I prefer older men 35+, and find a lot who are younger than that are still in “little boy” mentality and their immaturity tends to show up quite quickly, that’s when I lose interest.
The sweet spot would be between 35 and 48 I think. I’m the kinda girl who is eyeing up the Dad whilst the son is eyeing up me, haha! "
This is exactly me
I matched with someone on tinder because he had a photo with his dad and I wanted to know the deal...tragically, happily married  |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things... "
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that. |
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"I was probably about 17 when I actually noticed I preferred men quite a bit older than me!
I’ve been with guys my own age, but I find I’m more critical when it comes to them.
For me I prefer older men 35+, and find a lot who are younger than that are still in “little boy” mentality and their immaturity tends to show up quite quickly, that’s when I lose interest.
The sweet spot would be between 35 and 50 I think. I’m the kinda girl who is eyeing up the Dad whilst the son is eyeing up me, haha! "
Fixed that for you |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that. "
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be "
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene. |
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I've always loved older woman. When is was 17 my first girlfriend was 23 then it stared from then they got older till i turned 19. Then i started liking woman who are like bigger age gaps |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene. "
I'm still young then! Haha |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha"
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol "
One place I've never been... Cream fields... Need to pull.my fingers out and get there |
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"I was probably about 17 when I actually noticed I preferred men quite a bit older than me!
I’ve been with guys my own age, but I find I’m more critical when it comes to them.
For me I prefer older men 35+, and find a lot who are younger than that are still in “little boy” mentality and their immaturity tends to show up quite quickly, that’s when I lose interest.
The sweet spot would be between 35 and 48 I think. I’m the kinda girl who is eyeing up the Dad whilst the son is eyeing up me, haha!
This is exactly me
I matched with someone on tinder because he had a photo with his dad and I wanted to know the deal...tragically, happily married "
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol
One place I've never been... Cream fields... Need to pull.my fingers out and get there "
That was never a place I wanted to go to when I was in the scene. A bit rough for me so I’ve heard. |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol
One place I've never been... Cream fields... Need to pull.my fingers out and get there
That was never a place I wanted to go to when I was in the scene. A bit rough for me so I’ve heard. "
It’s up the road from me and it’s very rough |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol
One place I've never been... Cream fields... Need to pull.my fingers out and get there
That was never a place I wanted to go to when I was in the scene. A bit rough for me so I’ve heard.
It’s up the road from me and it’s very rough"
Maybe I’m a snob but that wouldn’t be my type of younger guy to approach. Glastonbury or End of the road, yes. Even a steel panther gig Hannah? |
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I was always into older men, could imagine being with someone younger than me.
Now though, if I'm looking for mf play, more often than not it'll be younger  |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol
One place I've never been... Cream fields... Need to pull.my fingers out and get there
That was never a place I wanted to go to when I was in the scene. A bit rough for me so I’ve heard.
It’s up the road from me and it’s very rough
Maybe I’m a snob but that wouldn’t be my type of younger guy to approach. Glastonbury or End of the road, yes. Even a steel panther gig Hannah? "
I did have an offer once from Michael Starr, so I reckon I’d be in. If only it wasn’t sold out in Feb!!! |
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"There’s honestly nothin more attractive than an older, matriarchal type woman that has her sh*t together!
You kinda stop noticing the younger ladies?!...
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong
Honestly fella it’ll change your whole outlook!... the last year I dated a woman in her 20’s on and off for about 6 months and she was completely fixated with her phone, like even out to dinner etc (I do also realise this could be just the person and nothin to do with age at all)... but it just got to a point I needed somethin else?... Now the tricky part is how does a guy in his early 30’s meet the more mature lady?... it’s not that easy?... It’s not gonna happen on nights out with the boys or during Leeds Festival weekend?... So decided to explore other routes and experience a few different things...
I’m into gigs and festivals and exactly where I tend to meet guys that are younger than me. Don’t rule out places like that.
She has a point lol. Thought that festivals would be a good place tbh. I'm more into the clubbing scene though, Gatecrasher is my place to be
Gatecrasher was me in my 20s. Went off it in early 30s and got into the indie scene.
I'm still young then! Haha
We’re usually more into the European festivals, “Rock Werchter” and “Pukkelpop” etc... Do Leeds every year, did get offered Creamfields but didn’t really fancy it?!...
... it’s funny you say that, every time I’ve pulled at a festival it’s been someone younger ... maybe my game just isn’t that strong? lol
One place I've never been... Cream fields... Need to pull.my fingers out and get there
That was never a place I wanted to go to when I was in the scene. A bit rough for me so I’ve heard.
It’s up the road from me and it’s very rough
Maybe I’m a snob but that wouldn’t be my type of younger guy to approach. Glastonbury or End of the road, yes. Even a steel panther gig Hannah?
I did have an offer once from Michael Starr, so I reckon I’d be in. If only it wasn’t sold out in Feb!!!"
I know. Keep fingers crossed for another date or tickets becoming available. x |
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"I was always into older men, could imagine being with someone younger than me.
Now though, if I'm looking for mf play, more often than not it'll be younger "
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Since I first started dating I liked men my own age, by the time I was 26 they were always younger, this site is great for meetings with whoever your fancy, so for me, with no exceptions always younger or a lot younger, I like my men young and bouncy and most have been really good sexually |
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Since quite young I’d say I’ve known that I prefer those older me. Just seem to get along better and click more. I’m still yet to meet someone around my age off this site.
Since I’ve been 19 I think I’ve been with older women. Used to meet a few regularly who were in the early to late thirties. Age wasn’t a factor to us and we had an amazing time.
I’m coming up to nearly bloody 30 and I’m still in touch with them alll.
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"Since I first started dating I liked men my own age, by the time I was 26 they were always younger, this site is great for meetings with whoever your fancy, so for me, with no exceptions always younger or a lot younger, I like my men young and bouncy and most have been really good sexually "
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My first real big relationship was with a guy who was 11 years older than me when I was 18. I was initially drawn to older men as I think a lot of younger woman are.
Now tipping 50 I find not many men my own age meet the standards and requirements I set for myself.
I’m also quite feisty and rather dominant in nature, ah fuck it, sexually as well and that’s often not compatible with older guys even in the one off kind of set ups that I pursue in my single outings
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I've always been attracted to women in their mid 30's to mid 50's
I've always been attracted to younger guys
My ex Mrs was 10 years my senior
My current partner is 24 years my junior |
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Until I hit my 30s I was only attracted to guys older than me, we're talking 10 years or so. However recently I've been interested in younger guys. My current squeeze is 32 |
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I have always tended to hover around my own age group, although when I was 21 I had a 31 year old girlfriend for a year. A wise friend once told me that the only thing about getting older was that you fancy a wider age range of women..true, I find. |
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I have always liked younger men but my husband is older so i thought i prefered older about 15 years ago when i started to meet other older men as well as younger i realised i prefered younger men, not all young men though of course. |
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