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Who looks in the background of pic for cleanliness ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, quite often see men laid on grubby looking bed sheets or women with dirty washing all over in the background and it just puts me right off someone who otherwise was attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tidiness as well both work together if there's clutter & mess every where "
You've obviously never had kids,clutter and mess is just that, nothing to do with a dirty home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do. Also when single men message and there his and her toothbrushes and make up and perfume bottles on the side in the photo we tend to look out for that too. There is a difference between clutter and dirtiness but you are trying to sell yourself in your photos at least hide the clutter |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"We do. Also when single men message and there his and her toothbrushes and make up and perfume bottles on the side in the photo we tend to look out for that too. There is a difference between clutter and dirtiness but you are trying to sell yourself in your photos at least hide the clutter "
I think you worded it better than me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm hoping people are more distracted by me than the background lol
But I am a bit of a clean freak so it's not like they will find anything out of place. |
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"I always think oh they have a nice house hahaba . Sometimes I think fuck that living room must be huge!!
Could just be camera angles I suppose lol.xx"
I've done the thing where I think I'd be way too embarrassed to invite them to my tiny house that's a work that's not progressing  |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I always think oh they have a nice house hahaba . Sometimes I think fuck that living room must be huge!!
Could just be camera angles I suppose lol.xx"
Bigger the room the more people you can invite I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads of clothes and shit laying about the place puts me right off. Make some fucking effort 
Exactly.... takes 2 seconds to scoop it all up and hide it  "
Yup! Just don’t look in the cupboards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always think oh they have a nice house hahaba . Sometimes I think fuck that living room must be huge!!
Could just be camera angles I suppose lol.xx
I've done the thing where I think I'd be way too embarrassed to invite them to my tiny house that's a work that's not progressing "
We have had a couple of house party's and I have spent 2 weeks prepping the house in advance.
"Don't put that there" "do not light that scented candle yet it's for the party" and "stop using those there for the party" were shouted a lot hahah
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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Yep I do... women often say about guys taking photos while on the loo... But a lot of ladies do the legs in the bath pose... one of the first things I look for is the state of the tiles and groutting.  |
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We always look...for cleanliness plus "clues" that say all in the pic isn't the poster or is a-kilter with their profile.
Then there is the biggest turn off of all: crap, poor photo with T shirt pulled up and boxers/shorts scrumpled down at ankles (with socks on)!
Anything in that category goes straight into delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always look for dresses, makeup, handbags, stilettos etc in single men pic backgrounds.
Mrs
To see if they wear them or girlfriend ?"
Not worried if they wear them. None admitted it so far
All we get is an instant block as soon as I ask if Mrs can confirm her blessing. |
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"I always think oh they have a nice house hahaba . Sometimes I think fuck that living room must be huge!!
Could just be camera angles I suppose lol.xx
I've done the thing where I think I'd be way too embarrassed to invite them to my tiny house that's a work that's not progressing
We have had a couple of house party's and I have spent 2 weeks prepping the house in advance.
"Don't put that there" "do not light that scented candle yet it's for the party" and "stop using those there for the party" were shouted a lot hahah
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I'd probably be the same until the day before and then the fuck it, if they don't like it, tough, kicks in and all is lost |
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We do .And we feel that making a effort should extend to your pictures too. Some might say it's being pedantic. But think on if they say they can accommodate and you can see last week's washing on the floor or a pile of empty beer cans in the corner . Does it paint a picture to you ???? |
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By *hill44 OP Man
over a year ago
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"We do .And we feel that making a effort should extend to your pictures too. Some might say it's being pedantic. But think on if they say they can accommodate and you can see last week's washing on the floor or a pile of empty beer cans in the corner . Does it paint a picture to you ????"
I suppose if the pics just been taken during a group session then you have to except some mess |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't just look for cleanliness but for an insight into the state of humanity today.
Colour and style, clutter, oddments cast around, grandparents living in student digs"
Guilty
Entirely judgemental and quite possibly a little bit bonkers ... but yes I do this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the floor looks like it hasn’t been hoovered in weeks and there’s piles of dishes and clutter everywhere I do block, as a mum of 2 and a dog and cat I hoover every day or every other day! Takes 10 minutes to tidy up for a photo but there’s no excuse for dirt  |
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I've viewed so many profiles, mostly gay/bi guys, where the background mess has put me off and I've seen some where kids toys, baby walkers etc are in the background which is seriously inappropriate in my view, do people not think and slightly off topic, why do guys feel the need to take pictures of their dick whilst sat on the bog, ewe. |
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Can't say I go looking specifically for messy backgrounds, but I have seen some gorgeous men and women upload selfies with the kind of squalor in the background you can smell with your eyes. Instant turn-off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find myself peeking but sometimes it's in your face . That loaded up clothes airer or dirty pants on the floor . I sometimes wonder do people hang their washing on the airer and think. Mmmmm time to get my cock / tits out as that's another job done . Lol ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tidiness as well both work together if there's clutter & mess every where "
I had a message from a guy at the weekend - he was supposed to be single but behind him in the attached photo he had lots of toys for young children.
A turn off on a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tidiness as well both work together if there's clutter & mess every where
I had a message from a guy at the weekend - he was supposed to be single but behind him in the attached photo he had lots of toys for young children.
A turn off on a swinging site. "
Not saying it’s a good look for a photo on a swinging website to have children’s toys in the background, but that’s not definitive evidence that he’s not single. Again, not disputing the prevalence of “single” guys on here who are anything but, however there’s a number of single fathers too. |
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"Tidiness as well both work together if there's clutter & mess every where
I had a message from a guy at the weekend - he was supposed to be single but behind him in the attached photo he had lots of toys for young children.
A turn off on a swinging site.
Not saying it’s a good look for a photo on a swinging website to have children’s toys in the background, but that’s not definitive evidence that he’s not single. Again, not disputing the prevalence of “single” guys on here who are anything but, however there’s a number of single fathers too. "
Exactly what I thought when I read this comment  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi is it just me or do you also look in the back ground of pics posted on here to see the cleanliness behind the scenes ? "
Defo, bed sheets instead of curtains or blinds. Wall paper pealing off, the general look of a bail hostel is a no no.Making sure there is no huge chest freezer to hold dismembered body parts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi is it just me or do you also look in the back ground of pics posted on here to see the cleanliness behind the scenes ? "
Defo, bed sheets instead of curtains or blinds. Wall paper pealing off, the general look of a bale hostel is a no no.Making sure there is no huge chest freezer to hold dismembered body parts.
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