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over a year ago
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I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before  . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude? |
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"I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude? "
Bet you're a right boring shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude?
Bet you're a right boring shag."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here, I don't so much think I'm a prude but certainly not really that kinky.
Then I talk to my friends outside of here and they all think I'm a deviant.
Perspective. |
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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't want to use someone else toys either,well the one's that get inserted anyway."
I think that at least it's quite fair. They can be hard to sterilise so do pose an STD risk. It also interacts with the disgust response which we don't have much control over and which, interestingly to me, correlates with political views. More easily disgusted people are to the right and vise versa. I'm very liberal :D
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Seen some vegetable related fuckery on here that made my eyes water just looking.
I like to think I’m open minded by I draw the line at some of the stretching type things on here.
Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very prudish and vanilla.
I'd never have anything more than a one on one encounter, if I had a significant other I would not want to see him having any kind of sexual relations with other people. I could never be blindfolded and have random guys have sex with me. Also the act of snowballing makes me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very prudish and vanilla.
I'd never have anything more than a one on one encounter, if I had a significant other I would not want to see him having any kind of sexual relations with other people. I could never be blindfolded and have random guys have sex with me. Also the act of snowballing makes me "
Sound normal and level headed to me.
Nothing wrong with that |
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"They fox tails hanging out their bahookies. Canny even look at them x"
I'm not prudish, just a little naive maybe. For a long time I used to think the rest of the fox was still attached to the tail. I now know it's just a butt plug.
Though knowing that sooner would have avoided me a lot of embarrassment. It would also have avoided Basil Brush having to take that restraining order out on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude? "
Wherever you are what you find the limits of your personal erotic zone, someone else will call that the start point.
Some stuff on here I read with a pained expression, sometimes wish I hadn't started reading. Other outrageous stuff I read and thing, so, do that daily..
Your not a prude, you just found the ledge that suits you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a proper prude 
Sooooo much I don’t understand and/or won’t do. I’m very vanilla and boring "
Ah nuts to it, you're fortunate enough that your looks overcome any boring tenancies.
Mike xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude?
Bet you're a right boring shag."
If only you knew  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here, I don't so much think I'm a prude but certainly not really that kinky.
Then I talk to my friends outside of here and they all think I'm a deviant.
Perspective."
I told my friend about fab recently. I also showed her.
I think she's still recovering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here, I don't so much think I'm a prude but certainly not really that kinky.
Then I talk to my friends outside of here and they all think I'm a deviant.
Perspective.
I told my friend about fab recently. I also showed her.
I think she's still recovering "
Only a couple of my friends know about fab, I just meant in general. Most know nothing of this and still think I'm deviant.
I'm an angel really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure there's not a prudish bone in my body but when I see pics of objects shoved up vaginas, like wine bottles, cans, vegetables etc my brain goes into a tizz! The germs! Bacteria! Please tell me that people sterilize them first surely?
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude?
Bet you're a right boring shag.
If only you knew "
Only one way to find out
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"I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude? "
Not IMO - I know too much about microbiology to ever be comfortable letting someone use their toys one me. |
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"They fox tails hanging out their bahookies. Canny even look at them x
I'm not prudish, just a little naive maybe. For a long time I used to think the rest of the fox was still attached to the tail. I now know it's just a butt plug.
Though knowing that sooner would have avoided me a lot of embarrassment. It would also have avoided Basil Brush having to take that restraining order out on me."
And Bryan Ferry's son chasing you round the bed in a red tailcoat.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here, I don't so much think I'm a prude but certainly not really that kinky.
Then I talk to my friends outside of here and they all think I'm a deviant.
Perspective.
I told my friend about fab recently. I also showed her.
I think she's still recovering
Only a couple of my friends know about fab, I just meant in general. Most know nothing of this and still think I'm deviant.
I'm an angel really "
You've got the look!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm pretty sure there's not a prudish bone in my body but when I see pics of objects shoved up vaginas, like wine bottles, cans, vegetables etc my brain goes into a tizz! The germs! Bacteria! Please tell me that people sterilize them first surely?
Peach x "
Weirdly I haven't ever thought that when I see those pics, I just think ouch! |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I had an online argument with a woman about the use of toys. She expected me to use a brand new toy with each partner I saw. By contrast, I knew that she barebacked with all her partners.
My toys that were, and still are: mostly chosen to be hypoallergenic, sterilised to within an inch of their lives, with the glass silicone and stainless steel going through the dishwasher. Yet she met with people who may be carrying who knows what.
Needless to say, we didn’t play! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had an online argument with a woman about the use of toys. She expected me to use a brand new toy with each partner I saw. By contrast, I knew that she barebacked with all her partners.
My toys that were, and still are: mostly chosen to be hypoallergenic, sterilised to within an inch of their lives, with the glass silicone and stainless steel going through the dishwasher. Yet she met with people who may be carrying who knows what.
Needless to say, we didn’t play!"
She sounds like a serious hypocritic!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can’t get my head around pain being pleasure. I’ll chat with people and it’s going well and then they send me a pic of someone’s skin falling of and bleeding or bruised...instantly turns me of. Soooo many people here(mainly girls) seem to love being hurt. I just can’t understand it. Sure give me a cane and I’ll hurt you if you like but touch me like that and you’re in trouble... makes me feel like a weirdo here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we had our first club visit mrs Absolutebeginner took a pack of antiseptic wipes with her to make sure that any areas we decided to play in would be clean. "
I think that's perfectly acceptable. After all you never know who's dribbled on what seat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m so vanilla and dull that I often wonder if I’m on the right site!
The 3 P’s tend to be my main turn offs and, I’m quite sure this MUST have been mentioned before but I haven’t read the thread through yet, call me a prude but the thought of sitting in a hot tub full of other peoples spunk and bodily fluids like some sort of sex stew at a club really doesn’t do it for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had an online argument with a woman about the use of toys. She expected me to use a brand new toy with each partner I saw. By contrast, I knew that she barebacked with all her partners.
My toys that were, and still are: mostly chosen to be hypoallergenic, sterilised to within an inch of their lives, with the glass silicone and stainless steel going through the dishwasher. Yet she met with people who may be carrying who knows what.
Needless to say, we didn’t play!"
I did actually think about this point too but no matter how clean they were I still couldn't! I appreciate that can seem irrational but it is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can’t get my head around pain being pleasure. I’ll chat with people and it’s going well and then they send me a pic of someone’s skin falling of and bleeding or bruised...instantly turns me of. Soooo many people here(mainly girls) seem to love being hurt. I just can’t understand it. Sure give me a cane and I’ll hurt you if you like but touch me like that and you’re in trouble... makes me feel like a weirdo here"
I'm the same. I don't mind things getting a bit rough but I would get nothing from someone purposefully trying to hurt me. |
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"I’m so vanilla and dull that I often wonder if I’m on the right site!
The 3 P’s tend to be my main turn offs and, I’m quite sure this MUST have been mentioned before but I haven’t read the thread through yet, call me a prude but the thought of sitting in a hot tub full of other peoples spunk and bodily fluids like some sort of sex stew at a club really doesn’t do it for me "
Mrs Absolutebeginner will not entertain the idea of the jacuzzi for the same reason! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m so vanilla and dull that I often wonder if I’m on the right site!
The 3 P’s tend to be my main turn offs and, I’m quite sure this MUST have been mentioned before but I haven’t read the thread through yet, call me a prude but the thought of sitting in a hot tub full of other peoples spunk and bodily fluids like some sort of sex stew at a club really doesn’t do it for me "
I have to force myself into a public pool, nevermind one in a sex club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I am quite open minded and love all sorts of different kinky things
However there are things I see on here that just make me cross my legs and shiver! I don’t think I’m a prude I just think it’s part of human nature to be unable to comprehend someone else enjoying something that turns us off.
I see so many women talking about anal and DP and it’s in so much porn it makes me feel like I’m a prude because I just couldn’t entertain the idea.
DVP (so long as I’m well warmed up before and there is lots of lube) on the other hand is my idea of heaven yet the majority of women seem to frown on it. There is no one size fits all in life I suppose so don’t feel you are being prudish just because you aren’t in to the same things as everyone else.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Exactly, the odd smack on your ass, fine. And a little hair pulling, even my neck being grabbed a little, I like it rough but not to the point of being hurt. It really bewilderes me. I think I’m missing out not understanding it but then I think they are just of their heads lol. Each to their own desires hey x |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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The hot tubs and pools should be no less pleasant than public pools. For the most part, those using such facilities will have showered.
Just think about other situations: public transport, public toilets, touch screen check outs, ATMs, peanuts on a bar. They may not be directly connected with sexual activity or fluids. There could be a lot worse transferred though.
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"I see so many things on here that people do or are into that make me think that's just not for me.
Earlier I saw a photo of a guy's toy collection and I just thought I don't know where they've been before . I just couldn't share toys!
Do you have anything that many people do that you just can't or am I just a prude? "
This reminds me of when I used to work in a Sex Shop in Birmingham, The Amsterdam Experience.....a guy came in clutching a grotty carrier bag saying " I bought this at the weekend ( a strap on which a guy can wear and put his cock inside) but the Mrs didn't like it, can I have my money back please" Me: "so you've used it then" him: " yeah, couldn't you just wipe it off put it back in the box and sell it" Me: " would YOU buy a second hand strap-on?" Him: " errrrrr no" Me " off you go then"......shudder |
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