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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
I found Netflix good to use or sky sports news for all my gossip good too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not saying everyone isn't genuine. I'm just saying at the moment we're struggling to find exactly what were looking for. Just asking for suggestions.noy causing a debate about the site lol |
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
I like MSN as it is the greenist site on the net ......
It recycles all the news and old stories .... |
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"I'm not saying everyone isn't genuine. I'm just saying at the moment we're struggling to find exactly what were looking for. Just asking for suggestions.noy causing a debate about the site lol"
think you will find all similar sites are about the same, perhaps a few more timewasters as this is a free site, but with practice its easy to spot them lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
I’m sure there’s plenty of genuine people on here. I’ve never not turned up to a social or meet yet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
I’m sure there’s plenty of genuine people on here. I’ve never not turned up to a social or meet yet.
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Hmm! I suppose everyone’s going to say that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People have a lack of respect mainly. We usually meet couples but thought we'd try a single guy and have messages from people who clearly haven't read the profile. Are extremely pushy and won't take no for an answer! We've been off looking for single men on here to be honest |
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
I’d say it’s about half and half on this site op! Half are actually looking to meet - the other half are just fannying about!
There are other swinging sites but, from what I’ve been told, Fab is the most popular in the UK by far!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
I know what you mean - but there are plenty of genuine people here, me included.
However, on occasions it can be very frustrating: you seem to be chatting nicely with someone and then suddenly they stop communicating, or hide their profile (usually when you try to actually arrange a time and place to meet)and if you're really unlucky, it happens at a later stage and they just don't show up to your meet.
But persevere - come and chat to the "genuine" ones. |
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"People have a lack of respect mainly. We usually meet couples but thought we'd try a single guy and have messages from people who clearly haven't read the profile. Are extremely pushy and won't take no for an answer! We've been off looking for single men on here to be honest "
If you’re looking for single guys or group play - the easiest place to find it by far is in a swingers club. You have a couple of great ones near you - but stupidly neither of them let single guys in on a Saturday! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"People have a lack of respect mainly. We usually meet couples but thought we'd try a single guy and have messages from people who clearly haven't read the profile. Are extremely pushy and won't take no for an answer! We've been off looking for single men on here to be honest "
Perhaps do your own searching? |
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"Well trying looking as a single straight male...
It's sure hard work, well for an average guy like me anyway  "
Actually I’d say you were better than average in appearance - but your profile could be an awful lot better - and clubs and socials are the easiest place to get a verification (the club owners and regulars will verify you if you take the trouble to chat to them and ask nicely! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trying looking as a single straight male...
It's sure hard work, well for an average guy like me anyway
Actually I’d say you were better than average in appearance - but your profile could be an awful lot better - and clubs and socials are the easiest place to get a verification (the club owners and regulars will verify you if you take the trouble to chat to them and ask nicely! ) "
Flattery will get you everywhere  |
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"Well trying looking as a single straight male...
It's sure hard work, well for an average guy like me anyway
Actually I’d say you were better than average in appearance - but your profile could be an awful lot better - and clubs and socials are the easiest place to get a verification (the club owners and regulars will verify you if you take the trouble to chat to them and ask nicely! )
Flattery will get you everywhere "
It often does! 
Pm’d you with a few suggestions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
Yeah there’s none. Nobody wants to have sex with me.  "
No because your such a minger. NOT!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a couple your profile is all about the female which is a put off from my perspective. Hardly no Male pics and you are also limiting the people who will meet you as you’ll only meet other people if they see mixed race/black.
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"People have a lack of respect mainly. We usually meet couples but thought we'd try a single guy and have messages from people who clearly haven't read the profile. Are extremely pushy and won't take no for an answer! We've been off looking for single men on here to be honest
Perhaps do your own searching? "
Whoa.. steady on, you can't say that that would be sensible, logical, obvious . Where's the fun in that the op wouldn't be able to complain in a round and about way about guys.
Effort in reward out is often suggested.
The guys you're likely seeking op are already out there having fun...you might need to give them a reason to meet you it's a two way street. |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
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Over the years I have tried most of the other sites either as a couple or as a single and would say Fab is about the best.
I think the biggest problem is geography, its finding what you are after in your area- that's always been the problem on all the sites. Pushy rude arseholes are everywhere, sadly they're now part of life.
My advice is keep looking; new members join every day or broaden your search area. Forward planning and hotel meets are the norm for many on here now
Don't give up and good luck |
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"But that's what were after.
As per our profile Jay likes to watch which is why it's not focussed on him. "
That's fair enough.
I would agree with what others have said.
Get yourself to a club or search for yourself.
Allowing single guys to contact you opens the floodgates to all and sundry...
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Idiots have infiltrated every single site like this one, what makes you think any other site will be differnt op? "
Harsh but true.
OP do you go looking for people or wait for them to mail you? When I had a couples profile we ticked off all of our very varied fantasies. It took a lot of work looking and mailing but it was worth it. |
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up. "
Is it a free site? |
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Having been on various swingers' websites for over 14 years, the best era for them was when you paid a yearly fee to join (£50 in my case), irrespective of whether you were a single male, female or a couple, and most who joined were on there for all the same reasons. The minute these sites waived their membership costs, and made all sites free, they started to become infiltrated by fucking idiots of all types (not just single males either). Free sites has just encouraged nut-jobs, time-wasters, bullies and fakes - the worst thing to happen to them.
I'd happily pay a membership fee just to join a decent site full of genuine people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having been on various swingers' websites for over 14 years, the best era for them was when you paid a yearly fee to join (£50 in my case), irrespective of whether you were a single male, female or a couple, and most who joined were on there for all the same reasons. The minute these sites waived their membership costs, and made all sites free, they started to become infiltrated by fucking idiots of all types (not just single males either). Free sites has just encouraged nut-jobs, time-wasters, bullies and fakes - the worst thing to happen to them.
I'd happily pay a membership fee just to join a decent site full of genuine people. "
Far worse nut-jobs, lunatics and bunny boilers on the regular dating apps!  |
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"Having been on various swingers' websites for over 14 years, the best era for them was when you paid a yearly fee to join (£50 in my case), irrespective of whether you were a single male, female or a couple, and most who joined were on there for all the same reasons. The minute these sites waived their membership costs, and made all sites free, they started to become infiltrated by fucking idiots of all types (not just single males either). Free sites has just encouraged nut-jobs, time-wasters, bullies and fakes - the worst thing to happen to them.
I'd happily pay a membership fee just to join a decent site full of genuine people.
Far worse nut-jobs, lunatics and bunny boilers on the regular dating apps! "
True! |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up. "
100% no fakes and everyone is genuine only members who are referred. chances are it'll be years before there's any sizable numbers of members otherwise it'll soon be populated by the same percentage of genuine fakes as all other sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many fun genuine people in this site but like any site where the prime reason is to bring people together you will always find the trolls the wasters and the idiots.
You just have to see past that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But that's what were after.
As per our profile Jay likes to watch which is why it's not focussed on him. "
So what exactly are you looking for then. A couple or a single guy?. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up. "
What site is it your joining? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up.
What site is it your joining?"
Well we can't tell you bcz we don't know you lol. That's the whole point. If we met you and could say 100 that you are who you say you are then we could. So we'd have to have a social first guys. Pm us and we can sort a social out.
We're having a group one before our party so maybe that would be good for you guys to attend?. Lexi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up.
100% no fakes and everyone is genuine only members who are referred. chances are it'll be years before there's any sizable numbers of members otherwise it'll soon be populated by the same percentage of genuine fakes as all other sites "
Obviously there isn't thousands of members. But what's the point of having thousands of members but still can't meet the people you want?. Like this place at times. So your opinion isn't true at all.
How can it be when you can only get on once the owners verify that you know who's been referred?. So if you wanted to go on. We would refer you after meeting you. The owners would ask us if we knew you etc. If we say no. Then you can't do anything on the site..even if you've set up a profile. So much negative know it alls on here. Wonder why so many complain about certain members. Lexi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having been on various swingers' websites for over 14 years, the best era for them was when you paid a yearly fee to join (£50 in my case), irrespective of whether you were a single male, female or a couple, and most who joined were on there for all the same reasons. The minute these sites waived their membership costs, and made all sites free, they started to become infiltrated by fucking idiots of all types (not just single males either). Free sites has just encouraged nut-jobs, time-wasters, bullies and fakes - the worst thing to happen to them.
I'd happily pay a membership fee just to join a decent site full of genuine people. "
If you're serious then read my post and if it sounds appealing them pm me. Lexi |
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
There's a new site that only has members who have been referred by someone already on there. So there's 100% no fakes and everyone is genuine. Whether you'll find what you're looking for is debatable. Me and my girl are going to join it after being told about by the people who set it up.
Is it a free site? "
I'd habe to check sorry |
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use? "
I tried other sites before finding Fab, and none have come anywhere near to the level of success I've enjoyed (and continue to do so) in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seem to not be many genuine people on this site. Any other good sites to use?
Yeah there’s none. Nobody wants to have sex with me. "
Faux self-deprecation in one so young and obviously attractive, what's the world coming too? |
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I must be honest I find fab the best site by far..I’m not looking for dating so it’s perfect, easy to use and so many naughty fu@kers on here
sure there’s some fakes and time wasters on here..but I’ve found loads of good genuine people.
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I have found that people people dismiss certain people as they judge far too quickly. They say one thing but actually mean another. When you offer help,they come back with you're this and you're that. Maybe if they actually treated people as individuals then they'd get a lot more success |
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