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over a year ago
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9/10 months ago my now ex had an affair with a fella who works in a local shop. They are now together and I’m happy for them. I run a couple of groups on Kik and he’s joined them. He’s openly asking for nsa fun. Should i Ignore it or let him know I know what he’s up to ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"9/10 months ago my now ex had an affair with a fella who works in a local shop. They are now together and I’m happy for them. I run a couple of groups on Kik and he’s joined them. He’s openly asking for nsa fun. Should i Ignore it or let him know I know what he’s up to ? "
Some would say thats karma coming to bite her in the ass.
I'd probably say it to him but resist the urge to tell her. |
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"He don’t know I run groups. And yes I reckon it would give me slight satisfaction if she knew lol
How did your relationship finish with your ex?"
When I caught them. I’d installed a camera on to the garage at back of house and saw them on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd let him dig himself a bigger hole, then you bury him in it.
That's just me, I'm not a bitter person, just a warped sense of humour haha "
I don’t hold grudges but I’d love to do that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Set up a fake female profile, add it to your Kik group,entice him to meet and then get her to come along and arrange a camera crew to film it for tv/YouTube? "
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I'd be so fucking tempted to tell her but the devil inside me would want to play the long game. Preferring to sit back and watch knowing it's got fuck all to do with me but by fuck revenge is sweet |
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"He don’t know I run groups. And yes I reckon it would give me slight satisfaction if she knew lol
How did your relationship finish with your ex?
When I caught them. I’d installed a camera on to the garage at back of house and saw them on that. "
Not well then I take it I will be honest I would find it hard not to indulge in sweet revenge and if you did well I wouldn't blame you or castigate you for doing it. |
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I'm not a vengeful person, but I do believe in 'what goes around, comes around'
You've had your karma OP, I'd leave it there.
If you interfere, then it could back fire on you & you'll be made to look the bad person. |
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"9/10 months ago my now ex had an affair with a fella who works in a local shop. They are now together and I’m happy for them. I run a couple of groups on Kik and he’s joined them. He’s openly asking for nsa fun. Should i Ignore it or let him know I know what he’s up to ? "
I'd just enjoy the karma and let it play out however it plays out...
Likely as not she finds out, it all kicks off and you have a chuckle. Or she doesn't find out, he snides her without her knowing, and you have a chuckle.
Either way the universe is taking care of revenge for you without you having to lift a finger.
As soon as you start getting involved, the potential for drama and being embroiled in shit you really don't need has just infinitely increased...
I'd say just grab some popcorn, sit back and let it unfold naturally |
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Tell her on their wedding day.
Nah seriously, ignore him. You keep saying "I'm happy for them" or "I don't hold a grudge", but you clearly do and that's pretty natural. What goes around, comes around so sit back and let nature do its work. |
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Did she know about you being on here? If so then I doubt she will care about what he is doing.
Avoid the angst and let them get on with it is my advice... |
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"Did she know about you being on here? If so then I doubt she will care about what he is doing.
Avoid the angst and let them get on with it is my advice..."
No she didn’t know I was on here. Simply because when was together I wasn’t on here |
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Realistically what would it achieve apart from opening old wounds and scores? This can only serve to drain your energies and raise negative emotions. I'd move on and ignore it and be the better person. That way if it ever comes up later you will have the moral high ground.
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