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The assumption swingers don't judge.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You see it a lot on this site. People making comments about others being judgemental on a swingers site. Swingers aren't judgemental of course....tut!!
Where has it ever been recorded that sexually liberated people aren't judgemental, and why do some assume this should be the case? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well usually people assume swingers don't judge because it's kind of like throwing stones in a glasshouse... swingers already get it in the neck enough from vanilla monogamous people in society, why cause more grief and ill will amongst us with judgement? |
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" You see it a lot on this site. People making comments about others being judgemental on a swingers site. Swingers aren't judgemental of course....tut!!
Where has it ever been recorded that sexually liberated people aren't judgemental, and why do some assume this should be the case? "
That made me smile! Of course they are judgemental getting your swingers badge doesn't change people at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my judgement, swingers are as entitled as anyone else to be judgemental. Problem comes in wide group discussion that people judge wrongly that they should offer judgement on things that don't come into contact with their real lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thought the swingers code was don't body shaming everyone is naked tra la la la la la.
We all like what we like sometimes you judge somone and they surprise you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Thought the swingers code was don't body shaming everyone is naked tra la la la la la.
We all like what we like sometimes you judge somone and they surprise you "
That's what she said when I fell out of her wardrobe with her knickers on my head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This place is full of judgmental people, he said judgementally!
Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr "
Damn it, now you made me judge your pics. And I judgementally decided the first on with a very fine arse on show needed fabbing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's also often assumed that swingers are "open minded". "
Actually the worse assumption I have witnessed on here is that everyone is a swinger and wants to see your bits in strange public places... |
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"It's also often assumed that swingers are "open minded".
Actually the worse assumption I have witnessed on here is that everyone is a swinger and wants to see your bits in strange public places... "
Yes there's that too. |
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So swingers are open minded enough to feel that monogamy is not for them . That’s cool . But it doesn’t mean that they will not judge what they think is right or wrong in a whole multitude of other subject matters . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So basically when people say "woah I didn't think a swinging forum would be judgemental" what they really mean is "in my opinion, you guys are the bottom of the moral barrle". "
I guess they are? It's kind of funny in my eyes, how people will pass comments on threads, and when someone else challenges them (rightly or wrongly) that's their retort?
Though to answer one comment above, it's far easier to judge in here. After all most of us are nothing but a profile....a few pictures and some text unless you've spoken to them.
I guess it always puzzled me why it was an assumption by some.
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"So basically when people say "woah I didn't think a swinging forum would be judgemental" what they really mean is "in my opinion, you guys are the bottom of the moral barrle".
I guess they are? It's kind of funny in my eyes, how people will pass comments on threads, and when someone else challenges them (rightly or wrongly) that's their retort?
Though to answer one comment above, it's far easier to judge in here. After all most of us are nothing but a profile....a few pictures and some text unless you've spoken to them.
I guess it always puzzled me why it was an assumption by some.
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Well this is a forum where people post provocative questions every day. So you see more ideas from the profiles than you would in normal conversation. Let's face it, if this was a social in a swingers club then we wouldn't be talking about single parent families, pregnant women who smoke or gender neutral pronouns. So you'd just never know what the other people's views were. Then again, talking about sex is way more interesting face to face than online too. |
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Judgemental... bloody well of course swingers are as judgemental as the next person.
Accepting of others ways is probably more the case..
Where else other than a swingers site can you openly admit that you like to put a cucumber up your arse while taking a tepid shower and singing Cabarets Mein Herr and not be judged by others.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judgemental... bloody well of course swingers are as judgemental as the next person.
Accepting of others ways is probably more the case..
Where else other than a swingers site can you openly admit that you like to put a cucumber up your arse while taking a tepid shower and singing Cabarets Mein Herr and not be judged by others.."
My god man! What is this tepid shower nonsense, showers have to be either hot or cold.  |
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"Judgemental... bloody well of course swingers are as judgemental as the next person.
Accepting of others ways is probably more the case..
Where else other than a swingers site can you openly admit that you like to put a cucumber up your arse while taking a tepid shower and singing Cabarets Mein Herr and not be judged by others..
My god man! What is this tepid shower nonsense, showers have to be either hot or cold. "
Bloody judgemental bastard!! |
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