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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are ladies on the forum I would enjoy meeting, but this is primarily about chat for me. As and when I'm in the UK I might well nudge some poor soul to say hello though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?.. "
I'm in a minority. There have been about 2 forum members in 6 years that I've found attractive sexually. There's a whole sexual world away from the forum. It's really a good thing and far from over! |
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"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?.. "
Over last few weeks I’ve chatted to some lovely people and wouldclas them all as friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..
I'm in a minority. There have been about 2 forum members in 6 years that I've found attractive sexually. There's a whole sexual world away from the forum. It's really a good thing and far from over!"
I find the forum like a gold fish bowl. I've grown to fit it and get how it works the more I've used it. There's a very specific culture on it. I don't blame you for not finding guys who inhabit that culture attractive. It can be quite juvenile and piss takey, as well as competitive. But I'd hazard a guess that some of us aren't really those things. I know I'm not. But I enjoy joining in. Take me away from it and you'll find me quite different and happy to linger on the deeper, more beautiful and meaningful things in life xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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There are certainly some people who I've started chatting to with a view to meeting, where over time it's been more about chatting than anything - in one particular instance we lived a distance apart but had agreed to meet for a social and then realised we'd friendzoned one another - we still talk lots about anything and everything and apart from perving her pics (which I wouldn't he a red blooded male if I didn't;-) ) there's nothing in the slightest bit sexual in my intentions or thoughts where she's concerned.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, there’s a few people I’ve spoken to on the forums and seen the way they interact that has made me change my opinion of them in a negative way. But it has also worked the opposite way as well x |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"There are certainly some people who I've started chatting to with a view to meeting, where over time it's been more about chatting than anything - in one particular instance we lived a distance apart but had agreed to meet for a social and then realised we'd friendzoned one another - we still talk lots about anything and everything and apart from perving her pics (which I wouldn't he a red blooded male if I didn't;-) ) there's nothing in the slightest bit sexual in my intentions or thoughts where she's concerned.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah.
I pretend to be interested in their mundane waffling but all I really want is for them to sit on my face and snog my wife whilst she rides my penetration device. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.
However very few people are prepared to take the plunge."
I like bungee jumping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.
However very few people are prepared to take the plunge.
I like bungee jumping"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.
However very few people are prepared to take the plunge."
. Rubbish! You’re just like your forum persona.  |
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"There are certainly some people who I've started chatting to with a view to meeting, where over time it's been more about chatting than anything - in one particular instance we lived a distance apart but had agreed to meet for a social and then realised we'd friendzoned one another - we still talk lots about anything and everything and apart from perving her pics (which I wouldn't he a red blooded male if I didn't;-) ) there's nothing in the slightest bit sexual in my intentions or thoughts where she's concerned.
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Thank God it's not only me. If I'm honest and it's my own fault this place is the last place I get out from but having said that it's been some time since I've even tried. I've asked myself so often why I'm still here and I really don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?.. "
Yes
And yes, mine might as well be too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..
Yes
And yes, mine might as well be too
Faf"
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"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..
Yes
And yes, mine might as well be too
Faf
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Sorry sister Scarlett I didn't recognise you without you habit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.
However very few people are prepared to take the plunge.
. Rubbish! You’re just like your forum persona. "
true dat |
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