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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…. |
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over a year ago
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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I'm fat...
I make no excuses for it.
Don't ever describe me as a BBW though.... I'm not that far up my own fat ass or American. I steer away from the BBW threads because I find them patronising and full of the kind of men I'm not terribly attracted to.
I get what you are saying regards slimmer ladies though, absolutely. Skinny and thin implies you are under fed or all bones, not a nice description at all.
Why can't we just be women? Do we need further labels? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat...
I make no excuses for it.
Don't ever describe me as a BBW though.... I'm not that far up my own fat ass or American. I steer away from the BBW threads because I find them patronising and full of the kind of men I'm not terribly attracted to.
I get what you are saying regards slimmer ladies though, absolutely. Skinny and thin implies you are under fed or all bones, not a nice description at all.
Why can't we just be women? Do we need further labels?"
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
Great post"
It had to be said, as I hate being called thin, or 'only a dog likes bones' think your word's through before you type and send them!
Sometimes words can cut deep, so please just think before hitting the send button!
You may have your own preference but please be mindful on how you explain it, don't put down the type of person you don't like it doesn't help anyone |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
Here here ...im a curvy woman but i bloody hate the labels so easily put on women....we are all beautiful  |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
"I'm fat...
I make no excuses for it.
Don't ever describe me as a BBW though.... I'm not that far up my own fat ass or American. I steer away from the BBW threads because I find them patronising and full of the kind of men I'm not terribly attracted to.
I get what you are saying regards slimmer ladies though, absolutely. Skinny and thin implies you are under fed or all bones, not a nice description at all.
Why can't we just be women? Do we need further labels?"
I couldn't agree more I sometimes wonder if people who like labels go round the house putting stickers on everything I really hope they don't though. Oh and im fat too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did post on another thread relating to size.
Women and men come in all shapes and sizes.No need to label.
Gets boring anf impacts on people unnecessarily |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m fat in places and slim in others. Even when I was a size 10 I had a tummy. I have good points and not so. But I think if you are good at grooming and looking after yourself regardless of size that goes along way.
I’ve seen beautifully dressed and polished woman at size 16+ that carry themselves confidently and size 8 woman that are a little rough and vice versa. I say good hair nails shoes makeup and a pretty face, and overall polished appearance comes into play rather than just being FAT or SLIM.
That’s my rant over  |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
the white knights dare not utter a word. Great post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the ladies that have posted soo far, but can the 'white knights' please post also?
I'd love to hear your views x"
Who's going to admit to being a white knight? |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
the white knights dare not utter a word. Great post."
I didn't think they would, but thought it would be good to give them the opportunity x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know what category i fit in now, i say im fat, other half says curvy?! I dont really care, im squishy!
Good point though, although i try to say slim or "wow she has a gorgeous bum/boobs/figure"
Mrs S xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the ladies that have posted soo far, but can the 'white knights' please post also?
I'd love to hear your views x
Who's going to admit to being a white knight? "
I think it's an awful word people use on here is insulting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hear what you’re saying OP I get called a ‘skinny fucker’ at work by overweight blokes, even though I’m smack bang in the middle of what my BMI is supposed to be. |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I wear a size 6 (Next sizes) but I am still sqishy as you put it! That is why I hate body types, I am either put on a pedestal by guys saying you have a great body, it just puts me off to be honest or obsessed by what I actually look like, that I might just become slightly paranoid, which is not a good feeling to have either, it's all these pigeon boxes men want to put us in, it really doesn't help, just my view of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer the term Natalie, I'm a person,not a size.  "
I understand what you’re saying but a name doesn’t describe you, eg if I committed a crime and the police were questioning a witness about what build I was, they wouldn’t say he looked like a Dan. They’d say I looked fat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
the white knights dare not utter a word. Great post.
I didn't think they would, but thought it would be good to give them the opportunity x"
Quite a few of them use those terms, so you're right to think that they wouldn't comment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wear a size 6 (Next sizes) but I am still sqishy as you put it! That is why I hate body types, I am either put on a pedestal by guys saying you have a great body, it just puts me off to be honest or obsessed by what I actually look like, that I might just become slightly paranoid, which is not a good feeling to have either, it's all these pigeon boxes men want to put us in, it really doesn't help, just my view of course "
On here it is about body though. If it wasn't, people wouldn't bother showing theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear what you’re saying OP I get called a ‘skinny fucker’ at work by overweight blokes, even though I’m smack bang in the middle of what my BMI is supposed to be."
Yup. Same gets levelled at me. "More meat on a racing snake" has been said my way by a larger fella. Not so long ago I got asked if I ate enough too. Which is amusing as anyone that knows me will tell you I eat enough for two people most days! |
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"I hear what you’re saying OP I get called a ‘skinny fucker’ at work by overweight blokes, even though I’m smack bang in the middle of what my BMI is supposed to be.
Yup. Same gets levelled at me. "More meat on a racing snake" has been said my way by a larger fella. Not so long ago I got asked if I ate enough too. Which is amusing as anyone that knows me will tell you I eat enough for two people most days! "
As a child my older sisters used to take the piss out of me because I was skinny (I'm talking skinny skinny not slim or a squishy in places). When I got in the bath they would tell me to make sure I got out of the bath before I pulled the plug out, in case I went down the plug hole (just writing that made me laugh). My dad used to call me tin ribs and my mum moaned about my bony bum on her knees when I sat on her lap.
When I put on 9st my husband would call me a fat doughnut eating cunt (laughing again).
None of their words ever affected me, I didn't even flinch.
Sticks and stones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear what you’re saying OP I get called a ‘skinny fucker’ at work by overweight blokes, even though I’m smack bang in the middle of what my BMI is supposed to be.
Yup. Same gets levelled at me. "More meat on a racing snake" has been said my way by a larger fella. Not so long ago I got asked if I ate enough too. Which is amusing as anyone that knows me will tell you I eat enough for two people most days!
As a child my older sisters used to take the piss out of me because I was skinny (I'm talking skinny skinny not slim or a squishy in places). When I got in the bath they would tell me to make sure I got out of the bath before I pulled the plug out, in case I went down the plug hole (just writing that made me laugh). My dad used to call me tin ribs and my mum moaned about my bony bum on her knees when I sat on her lap.
When I put on 9st my husband would call me a fat doughnut eating cunt (laughing again).
None of their words ever affected me, I didn't even flinch.
Sticks and stones. "
I’ve been on the same receiving end of mental abuse! Oh your too skinny! Or your wasting away!! Then on the other scale my ex would call me all kinds (can’t even bring myself to write them) but as he said “ he never signed up for a fat bird” sticks and stones etc but words will ALWAYS hurt me more! That saying is daft in my eyes. I can take a dig, or kick but the words lay deeper |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear what you’re saying OP I get called a ‘skinny fucker’ at work by overweight blokes, even though I’m smack bang in the middle of what my BMI is supposed to be.
Yup. Same gets levelled at me. "More meat on a racing snake" has been said my way by a larger fella. Not so long ago I got asked if I ate enough too. Which is amusing as anyone that knows me will tell you I eat enough for two people most days!
As a child my older sisters used to take the piss out of me because I was skinny (I'm talking skinny skinny not slim or a squishy in places). When I got in the bath they would tell me to make sure I got out of the bath before I pulled the plug out, in case I went down the plug hole (just writing that made me laugh). My dad used to call me tin ribs and my mum moaned about my bony bum on her knees when I sat on her lap.
When I put on 9st my husband would call me a fat doughnut eating cunt (laughing again).
None of their words ever affected me, I didn't even flinch.
Sticks and stones.
I’ve been on the same receiving end of mental abuse! Oh your too skinny! Or your wasting away!! Then on the other scale my ex would call me all kinds (can’t even bring myself to write them) but as he said “ he never signed up for a fat bird” sticks and stones etc but words will ALWAYS hurt me more! That saying is daft in my eyes. I can take a dig, or kick but the words lay deeper "
I'm lucky that words don't get to me like that. Once these kinds of words leave a person's lips they lose any respect I had and I look down my nose at them. |
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By *inny999Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m fat in places and slim in others. Even when I was a size 10 I had a tummy. I have good points and not so. But I think if you are good at grooming and looking after yourself regardless of size that goes along way.
I’ve seen beautifully dressed and polished woman at size 16+ that carry themselves confidently and size 8 woman that are a little rough and vice versa. I say good hair nails shoes makeup and a pretty face, and overall polished appearance comes into play rather than just being FAT or SLIM.
That’s my rant over "
Hell yes couldnt have put that better myself xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m fat in places and slim in others. Even when I was a size 10 I had a tummy. I have good points and not so. But I think if you are good at grooming and looking after yourself regardless of size that goes along way.
I’ve seen beautifully dressed and polished woman at size 16+ that carry themselves confidently and size 8 woman that are a little rough and vice versa. I say good hair nails shoes makeup and a pretty face, and overall polished appearance comes into play rather than just being FAT or SLIM.
That’s my rant over
Hell yes couldnt have put that better myself xxx "
I often wander things like this, men come into my work all shapes and sizes but the first thing I note is their face and how they are dressed, and portray themselves. |
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By *inny999Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m fat in places and slim in others. Even when I was a size 10 I had a tummy. I have good points and not so. But I think if you are good at grooming and looking after yourself regardless of size that goes along way.
I’ve seen beautifully dressed and polished woman at size 16+ that carry themselves confidently and size 8 woman that are a little rough and vice versa. I say good hair nails shoes makeup and a pretty face, and overall polished appearance comes into play rather than just being FAT or SLIM.
That’s my rant over
Hell yes couldnt have put that better myself xxx
I often wander things like this, men come into my work all shapes and sizes but the first thing I note is their face and how they are dressed, and portray themselves. "
Me too... eyebows on women is my first thing i notice ... and teeth on men snd women. Just my weird little quirks. Self care goes a long way for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m fat in places and slim in others. Even when I was a size 10 I had a tummy. I have good points and not so. But I think if you are good at grooming and looking after yourself regardless of size that goes along way.
I’ve seen beautifully dressed and polished woman at size 16+ that carry themselves confidently and size 8 woman that are a little rough and vice versa. I say good hair nails shoes makeup and a pretty face, and overall polished appearance comes into play rather than just being FAT or SLIM.
That’s my rant over
Hell yes couldnt have put that better myself xxx
I often wander things like this, men come into my work all shapes and sizes but the first thing I note is their face and how they are dressed, and portray themselves.
Me too... eyebows on women is my first thing i notice ... and teeth on men snd women. Just my weird little quirks. Self care goes a long way for me x"
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely. |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely."
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14? |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14? "
sounds petite to me .. |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
sounds petite to me .."
Not for my size!! I’m very overweight |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do understand what you are saying OP. Some terminology used to describe a person can be hurtful sometimes. I used to get offended when I'd see size threads and people would come on to 'white knight' as you call It and shame those of the opposite shape spectrum, but some would also come on to shame the shape that was being appreciated. Unfortunately, this being an open forum, it will always happen and we can't control how people behave or comment (within site rules). I just avoid said threads or let it go over my head. It's really not worth getting offended over. They are just words on a screen to me now. I focus on the threads I want to interact on and don't worry about those I don't, or may aggravate me. The only thing we can control is our reactions to certain remarks. I do love the sentiment though, despite believing it will fall on deaf years of those guilty of this. |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
sounds petite to me ..
Not for my size!! I’m very overweight "
according to BMI I'm obese!!
6,3" and 16.5 stone?? tell that to Anthony Joshua lol
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14? "
Well the issue is size can be deceiving, some women have a small waist but a large bum so it's more so about the height and figure in my opinion. The previous comment was more so an example as I cannot make such a personal statement without seeing you. But essentially I mean there are much nicer words to use should you give it a little thought. |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
sounds petite to me ..
Not for my size!! I’m very overweight
according to BMI I'm obese!!
6,3" and 16.5 stone?? tell that to Anthony Joshua lol
eye of beholder"
I get you!! I was 11st but a size 10 and ran 40k a week. Cross trained. My weight has never ever reflected my size or health. X |
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It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions. |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
Well the issue is size can be deceiving, some women have a small waist but a large bum so it's more so about the height and figure in my opinion. The previous comment was more so an example as I cannot make such a personal statement without seeing you. But essentially I mean there are much nicer words to use should you give it a little thought. "
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
sounds petite to me ..
Not for my size!! I’m very overweight
according to BMI I'm obese!!
6,3" and 16.5 stone?? tell that to Anthony Joshua lol
eye of beholder
I get you!! I was 11st but a size 10 and ran 40k a week. Cross trained. My weight has never ever reflected my size or health. X"
I pay no attention to it...Ive always been fit/healthy but id look like rodney trotter if I was 12 stone - well sort of!!
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions."
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
Well the issue is size can be deceiving, some women have a small waist but a large bum so it's more so about the height and figure in my opinion. The previous comment was more so an example as I cannot make such a personal statement without seeing you. But essentially I mean there are much nicer words to use should you give it a little thought.
What have I said? Nicer words? Little thought ?"
Not you personally I am speaking generally, Apologies if it didn't come across that way. |
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"Well I consider myself an intellectual and I think people's choice of words give away a lot about them and their perceptions, so it's fine for people to say whatever they choose Because all it does in my eyes is allows you to get a reasonable read on them before they are able to try and portray themselves as someone else. See a few words of every sentence people come out with are subconsciously filled by your mind. Therefore you can get a reasonable idea of their nature from that subconsciousness. Personally I'd use the word petite,that's a nice word which sounds lovely.
Petite! Is small , I’m 5’2 and size 4 feet am I petite? Size 14?
Well the issue is size can be deceiving, some women have a small waist but a large bum so it's more so about the height and figure in my opinion. The previous comment was more so an example as I cannot make such a personal statement without seeing you. But essentially I mean there are much nicer words to use should you give it a little thought.
What have I said? Nicer words? Little thought ?
Not you personally I am speaking generally, Apologies if it didn't come across that way. "
You quoted me that’s all. Apologies accepted. |
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions."
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Read every post with interest, I don’t know if it’s not all down to the world we inhabit that media , social written and visual, have no place for imperfection and everyone , males included, (though not nearly the amount that ladies do,)constantly patronise and shame people outside the “spectrum of so called desirability “
Only having returned to Fab from a long hiatus, it seems , corrrect me if am wrong, a different Fab , more judgemental, Profike pictures may catch my eye , it was difficult to begin with , but I fully read a profile before looking at that persons gallery ,if I don’t wasn’t in that persons head , I don’t want in they’re bed ,
And OP ?.......you and every lady commenting are right , drop the labels and raise the standards
Changing tag to Dominsomniac.... what yiu think lol
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At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions."
What about men/woman with food addictions? As a real mental health problem? Do you say the same. |
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions.
What about men/woman with food addictions? As a real mental health problem? Do you say the same. "
was hoping too see the reply
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions."
Your words are bad dude! I hope you reflect on what you say |
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions.
Your words are bad dude! I hope you reflect on what you say "
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP "
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype. |
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions.
What about men/woman with food addictions? As a real mental health problem? Do you say the same.
was hoping too see the reply
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He won’t. I’ve been on both ends of over eating and under eating. I work in mental health and hate any type of body bashing. I hated being slim. I hated being overweight. I struggle basically being ME. But I understand and can manage. Lots of people can’t understand or relate. Social media and domestic abuse plays a huge part in mental abuse or health.
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"It's about being lazy and self respect taught. If you're fat and you start with the excuse of I have gland issues ok but if not, you're just fat lazy and don't care about yourself, you eat chips with bread and you expect a big black vegetarian cock, fkin hell get a high res printer, and Start to respect yourself. If you're fat and you like it then that's it, you found your recipe, anything else is just bulshiting around some subjects. What I hate for real is fat lazy cunts and wannabees, and they're plenty,milions.
What about men/woman with food addictions? As a real mental health problem? Do you say the same.
was hoping too see the reply
He won’t. I’ve been on both ends of over eating and under eating. I work in mental health and hate any type of body bashing. I hated being slim. I hated being overweight. I struggle basically being ME. But I understand and can manage. Lots of people can’t understand or relate. Social media and domestic abuse plays a huge part in mental abuse or health.
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I hope you're becoming happy and comfortable now. We all have our struggles ... god Ive got a list as long as an elephants trunk
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype. "
I’d challenge your view. When your conditioned to think your over weight and useless. Slowly but surely the narcissist takes away your control. !! By making you think your worthless. He uses reverse control techniques |
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype. "
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier  |
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I lost 10st a few years back, and I hated how I looked, all my wobbly bits had turned into saggy bits, i was miserable so I purposefully put weight back on to turn the saggy bits back into wobbly bits lol
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier "
I'm "skinny" at the moment but no chance I'd die first haha I probably eat more than most people and I can locate food wherever it's stashed lol. I actually need tablets to slow my metabolism it sucks |
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
I'm "skinny" at the moment but no chance I'd die first haha I probably eat more than most people and I can locate food wherever it's stashed lol. I actually need tablets to slow my metabolism it sucks "
Why you'd die first!! Hahahahahahaha... I actually managed to be born hyperactive as opposed to the norm which is you become hyper!! I could eat a horse or two daily and it never showed! Luckily I have 'slowed' ish now so it's easier ... |
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier "
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously?? "
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously??
Oh yes lol in a survival moment of dire need unfortunately the first to go!! Hahahahahahaha... we're doomed!! "
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously??
Oh yes lol in a survival moment of dire need unfortunately the first to go!! Hahahahahahaha... we're doomed!!
I’ll stop my fasting now! I’ll gorge on bread meat and dairy. Yum yum "
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously??
Oh yes lol in a survival moment of dire need unfortunately the first to go!! Hahahahahahaha... we're doomed!!
I’ll stop my fasting now! I’ll gorge on bread meat and dairy. Yum yum
Fantastic idea!! "
Garlic bread , cheese on toast, |
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously??
Oh yes lol in a survival moment of dire need unfortunately the first to go!! Hahahahahahaha... we're doomed!!
I’ll stop my fasting now! I’ll gorge on bread meat and dairy. Yum yum
Fantastic idea!!
Garlic bread , cheese on toast, "
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
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Smoker
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously??
Oh yes lol in a survival moment of dire need unfortunately the first to go!! Hahahahahahaha... we're doomed!!
I’ll stop my fasting now! I’ll gorge on bread meat and dairy. Yum yum
Fantastic idea!!
Garlic bread , cheese on toast,
do you do takeaways to order?? lol"
Omg insomnia and now hungry!! Whoa is me ... |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
"
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At last a sensible thread! I've been tall and skinny ... tall and slim ... tall and curvy now but still slimish all my life and whilst abuse has always been there (exactly the same for extreme shapes either end of the scale tbh) I have never seen it so rife as on fab! And the slim bashing is totally incredible!! Whilst most in the forums consider themselves amazingly tolerant and open minded people it's just gobsmacking at the open abuse of really anyone!!
Well put OP
it is quite a strange phenomenon for sure, you'd think given we all have some form of insecurity or something we would change that all having ourselves on display would level it out a little. I think a lot of people's views come from whether they see certain people or groups of people as attainable. More often than not it becomes apparent if someone's slating one somatotype its following rejection from someone belonging to said somatotype.
What I have found is it tends to be simple jealousy sometimes and sometimes not backed up by a person's insecurities and/or inferiorities ... we live in a world that loves labels and complications
Also people in their most basic form have not evolved from their basic distrust of anything that is different and survival of the fittest! And let's face the 'skinnies' would die first and everyone else regardless of labels would become much skinnier
Face Palm. “Skinnies”. Seriously??
Oh yes lol in a survival moment of dire need unfortunately the first to go!! Hahahahahahaha... we're doomed!!
I’ll stop my fasting now! I’ll gorge on bread meat and dairy. Yum yum
Fantastic idea!!
Garlic bread , cheese on toast,
do you do takeaways to order?? lol"
To order only |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy . "
I agree lovely. But thought best ignore x |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy .
I agree lovely. But thought best ignore x"
I have a feeling I recognise those lovely legs |
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over a year ago
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy .
I agree lovely. But thought best ignore x
I have a feeling I recognise those lovely legs "
Nahhhh never  |
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over a year ago
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy .
I agree lovely. But thought best ignore x
I have a feeling I recognise those lovely legs
Nahhhh never "
We need a bloody catch up. It's been ages!! |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy .
I agree lovely. But thought best ignore x
I have a feeling I recognise those lovely legs "
I know your fabulous writing style anywhere. And your beautiful face. I hope your well. Such a beautiful soul. X |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So why describe YOURSELF as ''Slim''
on your profile ? Not Average if you're well within your BMI ?
Foxy
44 years old
Straight
5'1" 155cm
Slim
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Why have you copy and pasted that? It's just creepy .
I agree lovely. But thought best ignore x
I have a feeling I recognise those lovely legs
I know your fabulous writing style anywhere. And your beautiful face. I hope your well. Such a beautiful soul. X"
Aww thank you lovely. I'm really good. Just plodding along. How about your gorgeous self? I've missed you x |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
I don't post on bbw threads as I do find the pseudo celebration of fat women to the detriment of other women annoying. You can express your preference without being derogatory to women outside your preference.
That said I don't get precious if someone decribes me as fat as that's what I am, conversely I wouldn't be upset if I were slim and someone called me thin.
Fatso and skinny minnie etc I would take exception to as they are derogatory.
Again that said, I'm the wrong side of 50, see my doctors more times than I see my friends. Do I have time left to be offended at every little thing? No! I truly envy those with time to waste on trivialities. |
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"I'm fat...
I make no excuses for it.
Don't ever describe me as a BBW though.... I'm not that far up my own fat ass or American. I steer away from the BBW threads because I find them patronising and full of the kind of men I'm not terribly attracted to.
I get what you are saying regards slimmer ladies though, absolutely. Skinny and thin implies you are under fed or all bones, not a nice description at all.
Why can't we just be women? Do we need further labels?"
Thanks for writing what I haven't really got time to - absolutely agree and I'm fat too (NOT a BBW ... Hideous phrase IMHO and stated on my profile ) x |
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Same can be said about stating preferences to natural boobs vs enhanced. You can state your preference towards natural without having to say unnecessarily nasty things about enhanced breasts. I've had everything from two Velcro lads with tennis balls stuck on to my favourite one, not being a real woman because I have implants. That one is the worst because it's like I have a womb, I carried a life inside me for 9 months and gave birth and breastfed even though I have implants because they're still fully functioning working breasts.
Does my head in. |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
Nothing wrong with a sexy arse |
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"What does the label 'white knight' mean?
I've been ignored further up on this thread, so thought I'd try my luck for an answer again "
Nice tits on you |
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over a year ago
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"What does the label 'white knight' mean?
I've been ignored further up on this thread, so thought I'd try my luck for an answer again "
It’s basically describing a man that comes galloping in in his shining armour to ‘rescue’s woman on the thread with words of comfort and support. They can be easily confused with just nice people. |
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"What does the label 'white knight' mean?
I've been ignored further up on this thread, so thought I'd try my luck for an answer again
It’s basically describing a man that comes galloping in in his shining armour to ‘rescue’s woman on the thread with words of comfort and support. They can be easily confused with just nice people. "
Thank you Mr Vine x |
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"What does the label 'white knight' mean?
I've been ignored further up on this thread, so thought I'd try my luck for an answer again
It’s basically describing a man that comes galloping in in his shining armour to ‘rescue’s woman on the thread with words of comfort and support. They can be easily confused with just nice people. "
Thanks, that's what I thought but wasn't sure |
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"What does the label 'white knight' mean?
I've been ignored further up on this thread, so thought I'd try my luck for an answer again
It’s basically describing a man that comes galloping in in his shining armour to ‘rescue’s woman on the thread with words of comfort and support. They can be easily confused with just nice people. "
Trust me: there's no confusion.
White knights tend to trowel on the Sir Galihad act by putting down others ie on bbw threads if someone says the dreaded "fat" they arrive atop their trusty stead to save the fat...I mean curvy, sexy, real women from their bag of bones nemesis! |
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Labels, schmabels. We have labels for sexuality, gender, skin colour, age brackets, body type, height... Where do you draw the line? I get people not wanting to be pigeonholed, I'm not a huge fan of them myself, but sometimes, we have preferences, so needs must. |
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"Labels, schmabels. We have labels for sexuality, gender, skin colour, age brackets, body type, height... Where do you draw the line? I get people not wanting to be pigeonholed, I'm not a huge fan of them myself, but sometimes, we have preferences, so needs must."
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"Labels, schmabels. We have labels for sexuality, gender, skin colour, age brackets, body type, height... Where do you draw the line? I get people not wanting to be pigeonholed, I'm not a huge fan of them myself, but sometimes, we have preferences, so needs must.
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exactly, you're man, woman or you're a couple all the other titles are superfluous |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...…."
So what would you class yourself as then sweet?. I personally would say your slim/thin . You're not athletic,not muscley and obviously not curvy or bbw |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
So what would you class yourself as then sweet?. I personally would say your slim/thin . You're not athletic,not muscley and obviously not curvy or bbw "
She already answered that in the OP. |
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"I missed the last thread before it closed, but can I just say I never post on the BBW or curvy threads as obviously they do not include me. so I don't post. Quite simple really.
However, what I do object to are the words used to describe us ladies of the slim body type.
Why do people call us thin? I am not thin, I am well nourished, I am within my BMI, I am in my 40's and have squidgy bits I don't like but hey it comes with age! I haven't put on weight it has just spread out a bit.
So please in any future threads you want to start, about BBW or comparing BBW against 'slim' please think about the words you use and no I am not of the snowflake generation just be mindful of the words you use, because most are derogatory because you are trying to worm your way into someone's knickers!
Lets not pretend we are being stupid with this lol we are not thick in trying to curry favour, so don't make an arse out of yourself
Just a hint of course, but it is all down to you...….
I don't post on bbw threads as I do find the pseudo celebration of fat women to the detriment of other women annoying. You can express your preference without being derogatory to women outside your preference.
That said I don't get precious if someone decribes me as fat as that's what I am, conversely I wouldn't be upset if I were slim and someone called me thin.
Fatso and skinny minnie etc I would take exception to as they are derogatory.
Again that said, I'm the wrong side of 50, see my doctors more times than I see my friends. Do I have time left to be offended at every little thing? No! I truly envy those with time to waste on trivialities. "
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"Labels, schmabels. We have labels for sexuality, gender, skin colour, age brackets, body type, height... Where do you draw the line? I get people not wanting to be pigeonholed, I'm not a huge fan of them myself, but sometimes, we have preferences, so needs must."
I don't mind labels at all, as long as they're not derogatory |
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"Labels, schmabels. We have labels for sexuality, gender, skin colour, age brackets, body type, height... Where do you draw the line? I get people not wanting to be pigeonholed, I'm not a huge fan of them myself, but sometimes, we have preferences, so needs must.
I don't mind labels at all, as long as they're not derogatory "
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