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Why do most people use 40 as an age cut off ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I use 40 as a lower age limit

As for your question..because they can

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's the beginning of old age

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm doomed, may as well give up now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???"

They don't want to meet anybody over 40?I might be wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone knows its all downhill 40

31 is where its at

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By *rivateparts!Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I'm doomed, may as well give up now "

No I'm doomed I'm past it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm doomed, may as well give up now "

Me too. I’ve hit 46 now. I’m definitely doomed !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Absolutely agree

People meet whoever they want to and whatever age, but just wondered why 40 seams to be a cut off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My lower age is 48 I'm forever told off as they say it's too high...can't win

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

You are far from doomed

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By *andonmessMan  over a year ago

A world all of his own

Life begins at 40. Or ends, can't remember which.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

my favourite way to be woken up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

I prefer to have them for supper

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Looking at profile there seems to be 3 distinct cutoffs for upper age well round my way there are and they are 40 45 and 50 which is a shame at times but people have choices and you can't deny people to set age limits as the site has that facility. Im buggered next year im guessing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My parents are 45. So it's just a bit weird for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I want young, hung and dumb.

Men get clever when they hit 40.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life begins at 40. Or ends, can't remember which."

On here it ends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because they don't know what they are missing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Come get me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Usually because they haven’t reached that age yet

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By *ebjonnsonMan  over a year ago

Maldon


"Life begins at 40. Or ends, can't remember which.

On here it ends "

Life begins at 40? Try saying that to John Lennon.

50 is the new 40? Try saying that to the police when stopped for speeding.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because it’s their preference

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't, I use 35, for guys... Usually I just rarely fancy guys closer to my own age Women on the other hand...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

Although it is frowned upon in Western Culture

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My parents are 45. So it's just a bit weird for me. "

There is that. But on the plus side your parents would fucking freak if they knew you'd had a fucking amazing night with a gorgeous older guy So at least it's high in rebellion factor...

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By *tuartsCelloCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

49 and decrepit here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am doomed at 47

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???"

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

Coventry

Most, really?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because I want young, hung and dumb.

Men get clever when they hit 40."

Durrr I kindly point you to my curriculum vitae of idiotness

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/809807

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why worry about the reasons people have for having age criteria you don't meet OP?

Better to focus on finding people whose criteria you do meet than wasting time on something you can't change

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common. "

I'm finding the same with myself. I don't know why men my age don't instil any excitement or lust in me any more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common. "

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

I'm finding the same with myself. I don't know why men my age don't instil any excitement or lust in me any more."

I love a hipster with beard and tats, someone that loves gigs and music in general. I guess the places I go to are mainly younger guys. I like spontaneity and randomness, older tend to not be up for that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy "

I’ve not dated my age or older since I was 20.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm 49 and I'm only just getting started

Mr B

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy "

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him."

Cor you lucky thing! That's the kind of thing guys can only fantasise about. Drool

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

I'm finding the same with myself. I don't know why men my age don't instil any excitement or lust in me any more.

I love a hipster with beard and tats, someone that loves gigs and music in general. I guess the places I go to are mainly younger guys. I like spontaneity and randomness, older tend to not be up for that. "

The look or their interests are varied with mine. I can only think it's that life hasn't dragged them down yet and their enthusiasm for life cheers me up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m well past it then, but I prefer my men over 40 x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him.

Cor you lucky thing! That's the kind of thing guys can only fantasise about. Drool "

I think that every time I look at my LTP.

I hit the jackpot with him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

I'm finding the same with myself. I don't know why men my age don't instil any excitement or lust in me any more.

I love a hipster with beard and tats, someone that loves gigs and music in general. I guess the places I go to are mainly younger guys. I like spontaneity and randomness, older tend to not be up for that.

The look or their interests are varied with mine. I can only think it's that life hasn't dragged them down yet and their enthusiasm for life cheers me up. "

They also have to be deep thinkers and intelligent. I have lots of boxes to tick.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him.

Cor you lucky thing! That's the kind of thing guys can only fantasise about. Drool

I think that every time I look at my LTP.

I hit the jackpot with him "

You definitely have, he’s very drool worthy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

I'm finding the same with myself. I don't know why men my age don't instil any excitement or lust in me any more.

I love a hipster with beard and tats, someone that loves gigs and music in general. I guess the places I go to are mainly younger guys. I like spontaneity and randomness, older tend to not be up for that.

The look or their interests are varied with mine. I can only think it's that life hasn't dragged them down yet and their enthusiasm for life cheers me up.

They also have to be deep thinkers and intelligent. I have lots of boxes to tick. "

Mine is more a venn diagram

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him.

Cor you lucky thing! That's the kind of thing guys can only fantasise about. Drool

I think that every time I look at my LTP.

I hit the jackpot with him

You definitely have, he’s very drool worthy "

I have to admit I will miss him when he goes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

I'm finding the same with myself. I don't know why men my age don't instil any excitement or lust in me any more.

I love a hipster with beard and tats, someone that loves gigs and music in general. I guess the places I go to are mainly younger guys. I like spontaneity and randomness, older tend to not be up for that.

The look or their interests are varied with mine. I can only think it's that life hasn't dragged them down yet and their enthusiasm for life cheers me up.

They also have to be deep thinkers and intelligent. I have lots of boxes to tick.

Mine is more a venn diagram "

I’ve started to go that way. Adding more possible options into the mix that I usually wouldn’t but always younger.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

With marmite soldiers....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???"

I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays? "

And that'll be my excuse for hiding my age on tinder Cheers for that dude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays? "

After 40, I stopped celebrating mine.

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By *ebjonnsonMan  over a year ago

Maldon


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I’m 47 but have always dated and married younger. I tend to click more mentally with someone mid to late 30s. I’m rarely attracted to someone around my age as never have anything in common.

Ahh this takes me back to our "would rather date younger but you oldies the same age as me will do" orgy

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him."

What about a gorgeous, funny,charming, well hung 60 year old with amazing sexual skills (asking for a friend) a younger man in the wings, with a set of jump leads?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

And that'll be my excuse for hiding my age on tinder Cheers for that dude "

you're Nepalese? Or old?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

After 40, I stopped celebrating mine. "

yes I don't really celebrate birthdays but having said that you don't look 40 and I do

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

I can't make do. I did have sex with a few older men after I left my husband and I was not inspired. Then, a sexy 22 yr old chatted me up and we met when he turned 23 and I was 43 and showed me how fulfilling sex can be.

You can blame him."

Haha, I had 3 very disappointing middle aged sessions in 2 years after I divorced before I finally said 'Fuck it!' and met the 26 yr old that was pestering me on POF and promising to 'fuck me properly' lol! He did too.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Erm, because that’s their cut off point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not the ones I want to meet. I have a 15 year window, in regards to age. Luckily I'm still in theirs too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Il bang em

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

After 40, I stopped celebrating mine. yes I don't really celebrate birthdays but having said that you don't look 40 and I do "

It’s all the Nepalese food I eat...

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By *etLikeMan  over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays? "

That’s like saying the Nepalese (or the Chinese for that matter) don’t celebrate New Year. They do celebrate birthdays, traditionally just not by the calendar day. In most cases now, the Nepalese mark the calendar day; especially with children.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Il bang em "

You're nearing 40 yourself dear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Il bang em

You're nearing 40 yourself dear "

shhhhhhhh

Not so loud il go back to 30 the day before and get 10 more years of sex now shhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

That’s like saying the Nepalese (or the Chinese for that matter) don’t celebrate New Year. They do celebrate birthdays, traditionally just not by the calendar day. In most cases now, the Nepalese mark the calendar day; especially with children. "

Well its another case where the western world demands a change in culture

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

And that'll be my excuse for hiding my age on tinder Cheers for that dude

you're Nepalese? Or old?"

I think I can get away with looking a bit Nepalese... at least in the eyes of a naive 23yr old like all these lucky women are shagging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???

I really don't know, did you know the Nepalese don't celebrate birthdays?

And that'll be my excuse for hiding my age on tinder Cheers for that dude

you're Nepalese? Or old?

I think I can get away with looking a bit Nepalese... at least in the eyes of a naive 23yr old like all these lucky women are shagging "

damn 23 year olds

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

56 soon and the age filter has only been an issue when I made it an issue. You soon realise filters are there for different reasons; not always because they don't like people over or under a certain age, but more often than not to help manage the way they run their profile and these filters are often very flexible.

I use the block to manage filtering those that don't respond to a message thus showing they're 'not' interested. It's nothing personal but just filters them out of status updates and any future messaging.

This I occasionally review maybe 6 or 8 months later. They may be in a different place and respond to my message then if not then the cycle repeats.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because that’s their preference? Simple answer.

There are so many people on here with different age preferences so I’m sure there isn’t one reason for all. Personally for me I prefer 35+, but the next woman might only want under 30s and she’s damn entitled to!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's the beginning of old age "

Hope not I feel younger every year

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By *owdyboy 890Man  over a year ago

Country West

Like some people using 99 as theirs

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By *andy_satinTV/TS  over a year ago

Wakefield


"Like some people using 99 as theirs "

Well cutting off age at 40 means your missing out as most men and women nowadays don't even look their age and are fully functional.If you don't want to miss out then put in your profile the type of over 40 person you want to meet which solves the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because they don't know what they are missing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they don't know what they are missing. "

Unless you can send them a message saying what a shame it is that they have excluded you

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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Cause they don't like wrinklies?

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By *ornCouple  over a year ago

Sedgemoor


"Because I want young, hung and dumb.

Men get clever when they hit 40."

Your choice, not mine!

I like a bit of experience. And staying power.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they don't know what they are missing.

Unless you can send them a message saying what a shame it is that they have excluded you"

Their loss and all that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they don't know what they are missing.

Unless you can send them a message saying what a shame it is that they have excluded you

Their loss and all that "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Like some people using 99 as theirs

Well cutting off age at 40 means your missing out as most men and women nowadays don't even look their age and are fully functional.If you don't want to miss out then put in your profile the type of over 40 person you want to meet which solves the problem."

Some people probably don’t mind that they are “missing out” on people they have no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they don't know what they are missing.

Unless you can send them a message saying what a shame it is that they have excluded you"

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

Oh dear, I'm rapidly approaching that.

On the upside, I'll be able to save the fab subscription money to pay for my room at the retirement community.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m 40 in November

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At 41, I look the best I ever have. I finally have the grown up face I always wanted, instead of the cute baby one everybody told me I had . If someone doesn't want to meet me because of my age its Just less messages

I need to troll through

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Agree .. and you sure look great mystique! I have just turned 40 and found I can no longer communicate with certain folks due to age restrictions

Personally I feel more secure and confident and happy in my own skin !

Bring on the mid life crisis I’m going to have a 3 way

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"Everyone knows its all downhill 40

31 is where its at "

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots leave it at 18 to 99 cos they can't be bothered to set it properly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ll look forward to being thrown on the to old pile next year when I hit 40, ironically though I still get Id’d for alcohol every now and again and met several people in their 20’s who look way older than me.

Quite amusing really

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By *.H.SMan  over a year ago

London

life starts at 40 bosh lol

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

I don't think most set the limit at 40 but in reality so many fiddle ages these days I tend to go on how old they look not how old they say they are.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man  over a year ago

Didcot

I don't have a problem with people having a minimum and maximum age on their profile as long as it's something like 40,50, 60, it's when people put 53, 61 etc why not round it up or down, personally I prefer more mature and experienced people and I certainly have no interest at all in young guys.

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"I don't have a problem with people having a minimum and maximum age on their profile as long as it's something like 40,50, 60, it's when people put 53, 61 etc why not round it up or down, personally I prefer more mature and experienced people and I certainly have no interest at all in young guys."

They've probably already added a little leeway, their max was 50 and 60 in your examples but they wouldn't mind a few years over that.

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"Lots leave it at 18 to 99 cos they can't be bothered to set it properly "

I've been accused of being a desperado for leaving it like that before!

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By *rsSBWoman  over a year ago

toy town

People life spam is about 80. 40 is in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots leave it at 18 to 99 cos they can't be bothered to set it properly "

Or it's a choice because for them age is genuinely just a number and they do know that maturity/ immaturity, ability/inability, connection/no connection has little to do with age but more to do with the mind. It's our mind which ultimately makes the filters.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman  over a year ago

Tamworth

Do most people?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's the beginning of old age "

Not a chance ... My life started to begin at 48 and now I am heading for 51 it's getting better all (well most) of the time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because I want young, hung and dumb.

Men get clever when they hit 40."

I must have missed that memo. Anyway, over 40 is the best age for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People life spam is about 80. 40 is in the middle "

I love your little vocabulary faux pas'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello

Anyone any ideas ???"

Maybe because they haven't thought that far ahead for whatever reason. There's a 45 cut off and a 50 cut off too. We all have different ideas of who we are and what we expect in life as well as fab. Mine changes from time to time depending on what I'm looking for... its a filter to help and so it can be changed depending on needs or wants.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I didn't even look at FAB until 40. My experiences don't appear that different to younger men?

Usual, no replies, can't get a meet complaints from everyone I think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

They sure do lol

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"old age rubbish.

i know plenty of older women who eat guys for breakfast."

I like mine stiffy-side up

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'll shut the door on the way out then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll shut the door on the way out then "
yes you're well out of date

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Their loss

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'll shut the door on the way out then yes you're well out of date "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll shut the door on the way out then yes you're well out of date

I know "

awwww

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