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Smart and chic or funky and cool?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Which is more likely to turn your eye and make your heart flutter?
A well groomed man in a sharp suit/perfectly made up woman in a chic outfit
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A funky somewhat scraggy and unshaven man in cool gear/funky styled woman in cool gear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Prefer to be A (when I can be bothered) but attracted to B"
Oh that's a good idea  Say which you prefer to be then which you're most attracted to.
I prefer to be B and am generally attracted to B. But I tend to dress up as A when swinging or dating as B can be a bit marmitey |
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"Which is more likely to turn your eye and make your heart flutter?
A well groomed man in a sharp suit/perfectly made up woman in a chic outfit
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A funky somewhat scraggy and unshaven man in cool gear/funky styled woman in cool gear"
I view life in colour , not false divisive dichotomies xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"B to both. I like someone relaxed and happy to just be himself rather than try too hard.
Plus I can be a bit scruffy myself at times! "
I think the interesting thing is if we're all getting dressed up as A when we swing, in order to be attractive to others, but are all actually attracted to B  |
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I love shabby chic, that's one reason Monty Don really trips my trigger - I love his slightly posh bohemian wardrobe!
Gotta be clean and sweet smelling of course, but when I worked as a creative the 'suits' were the enemy, and I've never quite been able to shake off the aversion lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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B for me definitely! I'm very rarely in dress up mode, just not comfortable and just not 'me'! Though if they're happier dressed smart that's good too...at the end of the day it's all about what you are happy with 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suits depend on who is wearing them.
I was never really turned on by a man in a suit until my LTP turned up in one on his way to work.
I think I left a snail trail from the front door to the sofa. |
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over a year ago
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"Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A
Oh jeans and a tailored shirt and t jacket are not a suit......  "
But it's bloody hot!... so I'm cheating a little  |
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"Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A
Oh jeans and a tailored shirt and t jacket are not a suit......
But it's bloody hot!... so I'm cheating a little "
Yes, I like that look...  |
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