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The most stupid question asked..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you enjoying fab?
Nah, on here cause I hate it"
I often think that there's a little bit of masochist in all of us (obviously more those that really dig it) for persevering on here... |
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"Why are you on fab if you’re not meeting?
Fair question tbh"
I was asked this last week, my answer was
"because I have a serious injury at the moment"
To which I was told I shouldn't be posting pics, and should hide my profile, as I'm wasting people's time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are you on fab if you’re not meeting?
Fair question tbh
I was asked this last week, my answer was
"because I have a serious injury at the moment"
To which I was told I shouldn't be posting pics, and should hide my profile, as I'm wasting people's time "
I’m the same! I’m signed off work and in immense pain, the first line on my profile says I’m not meeting due to ill health...but yep, I’m wasting everyone’s time  |
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"What you into?
Ffs 
Lol, get asked this constantly."
People change what they're looking for and don't ways update their profile to match. So i don't see what the issue would be to that question. You've got to remember that everyone runs there profile how they like.  |
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By *j48 OP Man
over a year ago
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"What you into?
Ffs
Lol, get asked this constantly.
People change what they're looking for and don't ways update their profile to match. So i don't see what the issue would be to that question. You've got to remember that everyone runs there profile how they like. "
I doubt that a lot, what you into basically means I /we couldn't be arsed reading your profile but have looked at your message / pics so we came up with this as a question
intelligence in abundance ha ha |
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"How are you finding Fabs?
What's wrong with that question?. "
If it was part of an ongoing chat/conversation, then nothing wrong.
But as it seems to be the standard one line I get sent a lot as an opening message, well, then there's a lot wrong with it. |
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"On a guided tour of Cheddar gorge caves, someone asked our guide, ‘how thick are the walls?!’
Someone else asked ‘how many more miles of undiscovered caves are there?!’
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Answers:
Quite!
and
Could be quite a few but maybe not so many!
Think that should cover it! |
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"What you into?
Ffs
Lol, get asked this constantly.
People change what they're looking for and don't ways update their profile to match. So i don't see what the issue would be to that question. You've got to remember that everyone runs there profile how they like.
I doubt that a lot, what you into basically means I /we couldn't be arsed reading your profile but have looked at your message / pics so we came up with this as a question
intelligence in abundance ha ha "
Not necessarily, I use a variation on the theme a lot because so many people have sod all in their text and every interest displayed, so how else am I meant know if they're looking for the same sort of things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chancers question..
Im not gay but.. Would u like to suck or be sucked, Discrete car meet.
Umm.. Kinda makes u a little gay m8, & my profile says no guys so what do u reckon? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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‘What are you up to?’
Well... like most of us, I’m sat on the sofa in a slightly-less-sexy-than-ideal outfit... with a cup of tea and my eyes glued to the phone! |
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You free?
Without qualifying if they refer to £ or time - or both 
Will you meet when I'm in your area?
I really have no clue, your profile silhouette isn't alluring, I don't know when you are here etc
Could you contact X, as they have blocked me?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is, people run out of things to say and try to make conversation even with dumb questions because its better than the effortless alternative
"Hey lets fuck"
People who want articulate structured sentences that constantly flow are asking for too much on a site like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or what you looking for on here...."
See I ask this because so many profiles don’t tell you, or only tell a partial vanilla story.
Almost no one is going to say ‘I’m a hung black guy who likes fucking curvy white women up the arse’, that’s got to come out in conversation. or after a first meet. |
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"The thing is, people run out of things to say and try to make conversation even with dumb questions because its better than the effortless alternative
"Hey lets fuck"
People who want articulate structured sentences that constantly flow are asking for too much on a site like this"
If they can't be bothered with sentences though, I can't be bothered putting any bits of their body in mine so I'd say they're the one asking too much |
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"On a guided tour of Cheddar gorge caves, someone asked our guide, ‘how thick are the walls?!’
Someone else asked ‘how many more miles of undiscovered caves are there?!’
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On holiday in Morocco (a Muslim country) people were complaining about the fahz salat: asking if it could be moved to a later time so they could enjoy their holiday lie in. |
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"What shoild you ask then to find out boundaries etc.. i certainly would never meet anyone unless we had talked about limits "
I’ve had a few interesting conversations with people who’ve said they won’t meet me because I didn’t list their specific ‘likes’ in my preferences.
Surely the only stupid question is the one you didn’t ask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you into?
Ffs
but if you havnt read the profile a valid question surely
Read profile 1st to avoid this  "
yes but my point was most don't, so on that premise knowing that most guys and some women don't read profiles, they just look at pics, then in that instance a valid but albeit annoying question |
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"What you into?
Ffs
but if you havnt read the profile a valid question surely
Read profile 1st to avoid this yes but my point was most don't, so on that premise knowing that most guys and some women don't read profiles, they just look at pics, then in that instance a valid but albeit annoying question "
Exactly, when question is asked thats in the bio it doesn't warrant a reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I asked one....can I see a face pic? ....reply was....you first! what’s that all about??? she wanted to see yours first "
for fear of rejection you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I asked one....can I see a face pic? ....reply was....you first! what’s that all about??? she wanted to see yours first for fear of rejection you mean? "
No women rule so if she liked your pic or not as the case may be she wouldn't send you hers and probably in the more ruthless scenarios just press the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you into?
Ffs
but if you havnt read the profile a valid question surely
Read profile 1st to avoid this yes but my point was most don't, so on that premise knowing that most guys and some women don't read profiles, they just look at pics, then in that instance a valid but albeit annoying question "
I dont state my turn on and offs in my profile really.. so the question would need to be asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you into?
Ffs
but if you havnt read the profile a valid question surely
Read profile 1st to avoid this yes but my point was most don't, so on that premise knowing that most guys and some women don't read profiles, they just look at pics, then in that instance a valid but albeit annoying question
I dont state my turn on and offs in my profile really.. so the question would need to be asked"
yes and this point illustrates that we are all different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask you a question?
That gets instant delete from me
Me too as I dread what’s coming next lol !  "
I don't believe you would but the initial hint at a stupid question is a little pointless, just hit them with the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I ask you a question?
That gets instant delete from me
Me too as I dread what’s coming next lol ! I don't believe you would but the initial hint at a stupid question is a little pointless, just hit them with the question "
Usually they’re profile gives some hints as to what I’m in for lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I ask you a question?
That gets instant delete from me
Me too as I dread what’s coming next lol ! I don't believe you would but the initial hint at a stupid question is a little pointless, just hit them with the question
Usually they’re profile gives some hints as to what I’m in for lol "
yes I bet the name eg ' iwannadrillu ' and a cock pic avatar and one line of profile write up eg 'if you're interested ask me anything ' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I ask you a question?
That gets instant delete from me
Me too as I dread what’s coming next lol ! I don't believe you would but the initial hint at a stupid question is a little pointless, just hit them with the question
Usually they’re profile gives some hints as to what I’m in for lol yes I bet the name eg ' iwannadrillu ' and a cock pic avatar and one line of profile write up eg 'if you're interested ask me anything '"
Absolutely ! |
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"What you into?
Ffs
Lol, get asked this constantly.
People change what they're looking for and don't ways update their profile to match. So i don't see what the issue would be to that question. You've got to remember that everyone runs there profile how they like.
I doubt that a lot, what you into basically means I /we couldn't be arsed reading your profile but have looked at your message / pics so we came up with this as a question
intelligence in abundance ha ha "
Well that's why we all have opinions . I'm going off past experience and facts. And lost we come across don't actually say what they're looking for. I could forward 10 profiles that would make you agree. But for all those who don't have what they're looking for 100s do as as you mentioned most can't be bothered to read it. Will always be an exception to the rules. #Life |
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"What you into?
Ffs
but if you havnt read the profile a valid question surely
Read profile 1st to avoid this yes but my point was most don't, so on that premise knowing that most guys and some women don't read profiles, they just look at pics, then in that instance a valid but albeit annoying question "
Don't forget couples. We've seen that they are the worst culprits of this |
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"What you into?
Ffs
but if you havnt read the profile a valid question surely
Read profile 1st to avoid this yes but my point was most don't, so on that premise knowing that most guys and some women don't read profiles, they just look at pics, then in that instance a valid but albeit annoying question
Don't forget couples. We've seen that they are the worst culprits of this "
Yes but usually the random messages from couples is fake account. Had today, I need a fuck, another was want pussy pussy action along with the usual people concerned how we are  |
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By *j48 OP Man
over a year ago
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"The thing is, people run out of things to say and try to make conversation even with dumb questions because its better than the effortless alternative
"Hey lets fuck"
People who want articulate structured sentences that constantly flow are asking for too much on a site like this
If they can't be bothered with sentences though, I can't be bothered putting any bits of their body in mine so I'd say they're the one asking too much "
This
A little bit of effort and showing some interest in the person they're messaging goes a long way....
Hi there, I see you say on your profile such and such, then ask a relavent question
Can't do that then I ain't spending any time dragging a conversation out of someone
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