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By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago
Morecambe |
you come on this site to have fun explore you sexual desires ect and wether your married single whatever it's down right rude manners to leave some one waiting with no msg to just even say sorry not coming. I know women do it as well but men get a grip for God's sake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special  "
Be clearly registered blind if anyone didn't think you was special.. And hot of course!!  x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you arranging socials or inviting people to yours?
Report them op,but if its continual maybe change the way you do things ? Ie a social meet ,don't indulge them in sexy talk.
Miss"
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Are you arranging socials or inviting people to yours?
Report them op,but if its continual maybe change the way you do things ? Ie a social meet ,don't indulge them in sexy talk.
Miss"
Or pic swaps or going off site. This sorts out the keyboard wankers, as does arranging the first meet as social only. |
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Seems to be par for the course on here but sorry to hear you are frustrated with it all but anyone passing up a meet with yourself is clearly not right in the head chin up and legs open you will get another meet sorted in no time xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!! No wonder you sound so cross...I hope you have a better day 
6 in one day  "
Its good to have options |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!! No wonder you sound so cross...I hope you have a better day
6 in one day
Its good to have options"
So if 6 let you down then approx how many in the one day didnt let you down?
You dont need to give an exact number. Just round it up to the nearest dozen.
Example 25 showed up (2 dozen)
45 showed up (4 dozen)
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By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago
Morecambe |
I had a threesum organised the first two I couldn't get hold of so my mind knew they weren't coming so organised a different two they didn't turn up so tried 2 last minute ones they didn't turn up either. I'm a horny person were all here for the same reason I play safe so why not have some fun im single crack on if u don't like it jog on |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I had a threesum organised the first two I couldn't get hold of so my mind knew they weren't coming so organised a different two they didn't turn up so tried 2 last minute ones they didn't turn up either. I'm a horny person were all here for the same reason I play safe so why not have some fun im single crack on if u don't like it jog on"
Perhaps you need to tighten up your meet criteria. X |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"I had a threesum organised the first two I couldn't get hold of so my mind knew they weren't coming so organised a different two they didn't turn up so tried 2 last minute ones they didn't turn up either. I'm a horny person were all here for the same reason I play safe so why not have some fun im single crack on if u don't like it jog on"
6 times.. there was a couple with 13 the other day... I said the same to them.
The common denominator in this is you. Refine or change your selection process Put further checks and balances in place , if there are any red flags move on. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I had a threesum organised the first two I couldn't get hold of so my mind knew they weren't coming so organised a different two they didn't turn up so tried 2 last minute ones they didn't turn up either. I'm a horny person were all here for the same reason I play safe so why not have some fun im single crack on if u don't like it jog on
6 times.. there was a couple with 13 the other day... I said the same to them.
The common denominator in this is you. Refine or change your selection process Put further checks and balances in place , if there are any red flags move on."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I say it?
These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys"
Disagree totally thats a negetive way to look at things it makes no diffence to me if others waste time im bothered about my experience not theres |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have these guys been meet verified ?
Some guys like the chase
Maybe they decided it wasn’t for them. Yes they should message.
Op. Isn’t there my local clubs that you can scratch that itch. ? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"true but few were guys id been speaking to for months but hey ho "
Just a bit of advice if you aren't already doing this OP:
Don't give them wank fodder, ie naughty chat pictures.
Keep things on fab, alarm bells ring for me if they immediately try to get me on another app.
Speak on the phone or cam before meeting.
Insist on a social meet first.
Hopefully these tips will help you to w33d out the timewasters on here.
I wish you luck. xx
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The op is a single , horny woman who fancied a threesome . Nothing wrong with that .
The problem is that she ended up with six guys who said they would meet her for some mutually satisfying fun , and none turned up .
I’d say that’s pretty indicative of the general level of apathy shown by the guys who said they would turn up and just didn’t . Every one of them should be kicked off the site . Simple .
I hope the op reported them all , and admin do something positive about it , because if it gets much worse on fab , genuine people who want to meet will find another site where there aren’t as many time wasting dreamers . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I say it?
These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys
Can I use the cliche..
Their loss  Or has that gone already "
No you got it.... I’ll use the old
These guys must be crazy not to meet you...
if I lived closer and you invited me to a meet. I would definitely turn up.. |
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Unfortunately it is the nature of fab OP. The site is overrun with single men,who are basically fantasists. Offer a real meet and they get scared. It's been like this for a while. Stopped meeting off here years ago. Clubs are your best bet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men talk the talk on here..but when it comes down it..that's all it is, all talk..they bottle out when it time to meet a confident woman who knows what she wants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately it is the nature of fab OP. The site is overrun with single men,who are basically fantasists. Offer a real meet and they get scared. It's been like this for a while. Stopped meeting off here years ago. Clubs are your best bet. "
In our experience we have had 1 no show from all of our arranged meetings since joining Fab. The guys we have met have been genuine and good fun. We have never been to a club, and don’t intend to, so can’t express an opinion on those places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!!"
If 6 guys in one day let you down there's something amiss with your selection process. I've never had a no-show |
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"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!!
If 6 guys in one day let you down there's something amiss with your selection process. I've never had a no-show "
This
I’ve been on here since 2013, firstly as a single before I met hubby here. In all that time I have only ever had one no show. In that case alarm bells were ringing so I arranged to meet for coffee an hour before my shift at work. My instincts were right and he didn’t turn up but I lost nothing, had a lovely cuppa and bit of cake then went to work.
As someone else said, the common denominator here is you OP. If you want to stop the no shows then it’s time to look at your selection and vetting process. |
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