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By *an_bury OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not me, I’m sure many do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not at all, however each to their own no offence meant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not for me but I prefer more alpha men

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Alpha males for me. Just not for me this and hairy backs are the biggest turn off for me. But we are all different

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By *ngelina4uWoman  over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Not for me but if it makes someone happy they should go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No nothing I hate more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men in tights? If they’re not romping around Sherwood Forest, then it’s probably a no from me! But if they enjoy it, good for them!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its not the sequel to Men in Black then....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No

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By *urved HunnyWoman  over a year ago

Essex

Very off putting for me, I like a masculine man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very off putting for me, I like a masculine man"

Me too. Each to their own but you wouldn’t see me for dust. Definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like manly top men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not for me but I prefer more alpha men"
alpha romeo?

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

How refreshing to see so many women liking men to be men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to send my ex to work in a garage wearing a pair of my thongs

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"I used to send my ex to work in a garage wearing a pair of my thongs "

Because you liked it or as a punishment ?

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

YES!!!!!

A hot bloke in stockings and girlie bits is so very hot. I blame my Rocky Horror obsession.

Glad more chaps are getting into and open about it. As displayed on all the above posts, most people prefer fixed gender binaries, I like the blurry bits between

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

Not for me personally

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I adore a big, manly man in a pair of black lace women's knickers.

The more manly the better. Big turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to send my ex to work in a garage wearing a pair of my thongs

Because you liked it or as a punishment ? "

He quite liked it too so not a punishment..

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By *entileschiWoman  over a year ago

Norwich


"I adore a big, manly man in a pair of black lace women's knickers.

The more manly the better. Big turn on."

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Does nothing for me but if it makes you feel good then go for it

Ms B

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester

Nope doesn't do it for me sorry - Fi

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"YES!!!!!

A hot bloke in stockings and girlie bits is so very hot. I blame my Rocky Horror obsession.

Glad more chaps are getting into and open about it. As displayed on all the above posts, most people prefer fixed gender binaries, I like the blurry bits between "

I was starting to wonder if there was something wrong with me.

As a teenager, I often saw men in basques, stockings and suspenders due to Rocky Horror.

I wouldn't specifically look for it, but I'd have no problem with it (unless he looked better than me in the basque, stocking and suspenders! )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love a masculine guy in lingerie, especially when they are hard and in charge.

Partial to a sexy TV too..but not the sissy boy thing.

Would love to find a dominant TV or CD but little luck so far.

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By *an_bury OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love the feel of lingerie but it's not a part of my fantasies....it was with one ex....she loved to dress me up and paint my toe nails....lovely girl

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By *isty286Couple  over a year ago

Dorset

No just makes us burst out laughing, would kill a meet in it's tracks

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I adore a big, manly man in a pair of black lace women's knickers.

The more manly the better. Big turn on."

A hard on poking over the waistband of a pair of knickers is a sight I love.

I love it that so many guys are happy to oblige

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Naaa count me out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alpha male here lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone.

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone."

Plenty of people share his taste, as my inbox can attest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing more kinky than a large erection trying to burst through a pair of fishnet tights

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do if dressed properly and convincing!

Not a hot bloke in a six pack wearing my knickers does it for!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester

In club other week on couples night & 2 x male half of couples had lace see through dresses on, one was tall other portly - wasn't pleasing to my eye but each to their own

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Nothing more kinky than a large erection trying to burst through a pair of fishnet tights "

Oh God yes....

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By *elvet RopeMan  over a year ago

by the big field

Well they say laughter is the best way in to a ladies knickers- they'd be rolling around in tears at my hairy gibbon legs in a pair of skimpies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I quite often get a laugh when people see what I’m wearing

I’m my opinion.... if you dont like what you see, then look away.... if it’s not hurting anyone, then carry on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone.

Plenty of people share his taste, as my inbox can attest."

Nice to see some actual responses to the OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing more kinky than a large erection trying to burst through a pair of fishnet tights

Oh God yes...."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nice to see opinion is divided

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By *an_LexaCouple  over a year ago

Sunderland

Love to see a man who knows how to dress.

Or one who is willing to be dressed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing more kinky than a large erection trying to burst through a pair of fishnet tights "

God yes, or sheer tights ...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I like some men in women's underwear, depending on the guy it can be a big turn on.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?"

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By *hechapMan  over a year ago

Derry

Alot of sheep about today.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?"

She certainly wouldn’t be as feminine as she would have been .

With regard to her personality , not necessarily , but if her personality was one which thought I may like to see her in your boxers then we wouldn’t have got along anyway .

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

She certainly wouldn’t be as feminine as she would have been .

With regard to her personality , not necessarily , but if her personality was one which thought I may like to see her in your boxers then we wouldn’t have got along anyway ."

I think your dislike of anyone that doesn't stick to social gender norms has been documented enough on these forums by now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

"

On the right man I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not for me at all sorry. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Love a masculine guy in lingerie, especially when they are hard and in charge.

Partial to a sexy TV too..but not the sissy boy thing.

Would love to find a dominant TV or CD but little luck so far."

There are plenty of domme TV's on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?"

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. "

Not what I said at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all"

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?"

It may not change someone’s personality but I would not be able to view a man as ‘masculine’ if he was dressed in a feminine way. Equally, I wouldn’t regard a woman as feminine if she was wearing men’s clothing. Clothing can reflect our personalities or just our mood, I don’t feel particularly feminine in certain outfits.

Lou x

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?"

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

On the right man I love it."

Thank you

Oh, you meant someone else didn't you...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018."

At least someone understands

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018."

I know. And I understand that but it’s not for me. Just like something may not be for you. And you know how I feel about you and I think the feelings mutual. Doesn’t mean I’m particularly fond of your tights and heels. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

I know. And I understand that but it’s not for me. Just like something may not be for you. And you know how I feel about you and I think the feelings mutual. Doesn’t mean I’m particularly fond of your tights and heels. x"

Very true and they aren't me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

I know. And I understand that but it’s not for me. Just like something may not be for you. And you know how I feel about you and I think the feelings mutual. Doesn’t mean I’m particularly fond of your tights and heels. x

Very true and they aren't me."

Haha ssshhhhhhh

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By *winger212Woman  over a year ago

Live in spain

Not for me either if I was having a personal meet as it would be a complete turn off. However because I watch bi men, the majority of them dress up and in this instance it doesn't bother me as I'm looking at it with whole new eyes, cause it's not me getting involved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hey I used to go on guard duty in Falklands with tights on over my thermals lovely and warm only problem having a slash

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands"

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

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By *inky NikkiTV/TS  over a year ago

Kinksville


"Love a masculine guy in lingerie, especially when they are hard and in charge.

Partial to a sexy TV too..but not the sissy boy thing.

Would love to find a dominant TV or CD but little luck so far."

We are a rare breed apparently

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!"

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?"

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie."

There are a few men on here into it

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie."

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine."

Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though.

To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine."

Not in my book!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine.

Not in my book!"

Agree - like my men dressed manly

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

It's too easy and frankly, basic to gender clothing. A bloke in silky things is still a bloke.

To quote Eddie Izzard "They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.”

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine.

Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though.

To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless."

So you have come across men wearing lingerie then?

You can say you don't get it, but you can't exactly say you haven't come across it. You have.

It's exactly the same whether he wear it going out to RH or to a meet. It doesn't change the person who is wearing.

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"It's too easy and frankly, basic to gender clothing. A bloke in silky things is still a bloke.

To quote Eddie Izzard "They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.”"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's too easy and frankly, basic to gender clothing. A bloke in silky things is still a bloke.

To quote Eddie Izzard "They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.”"

Exactly!

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

She certainly wouldn’t be as feminine as she would have been .

With regard to her personality , not necessarily , but if her personality was one which thought I may like to see her in your boxers then we wouldn’t have got along anyway .

I think your dislike of anyone that doesn't stick to social gender norms has been documented enough on these forums by now "

Oh really ?

I wasn’t aware that I had a dislike of anyone that doesn’t stick to social gender norms , but thanks for making me aware of it now .

Quite how my answer above suggests that I don’t like any particular gender is a bit puzzling though .

Does everyone who has answered in a negative fashion with respect to men dressing in women’s lingerie have the same dislike of social gender norms too ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

"

No. I find straight men in women's underwear a turn off. I don't even like guys wearing male thongs, fetish wear or those silly Ann summers type underwear.

Sorry but for sex I just prefer men to be naked!

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

It dosn't do anything for me but I dosn't see why people can't wear what they like as long as they arn't exposing themselves to people.

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By *notherGirlTV/TS  over a year ago

Somewhere

Being all things to all women is quite a challenge isn’t it.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine.

Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though.

To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless.

So you have come across men wearing lingerie then?

You can say you don't get it, but you can't exactly say you haven't come across it. You have.

It's exactly the same whether he wear it going out to RH or to a meet. It doesn't change the person who is wearing."

I’m merely answering the OP’s question which was do any women like it? To me that’s asking am I as a woman, turned on by a man wearing lingerie, I’m thinking he means on a regular basis as opposed to once in a blue moon for fancy dress.

IMO that is not the same thing at all, if you think it is then that’s your prerogative.

And for the record I haven’t said it changes the person so not sure where that comment comes from.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin."

Absolutely agree with this.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie.

Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!

You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?

Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT.

I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie.

Honestly, no not OTT.

I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works.

Still very masculine.

Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though.

To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless.

So you have come across men wearing lingerie then?

You can say you don't get it, but you can't exactly say you haven't come across it. You have.

It's exactly the same whether he wear it going out to RH or to a meet. It doesn't change the person who is wearing.

I’m merely answering the OP’s question which was do any women like it? To me that’s asking am I as a woman, turned on by a man wearing lingerie, I’m thinking he means on a regular basis as opposed to once in a blue moon for fancy dress.

IMO that is not the same thing at all, if you think it is then that’s your prerogative.

And for the record I haven’t said it changes the person so not sure where that comment comes from.

"

Exactly - it doesn't change someone, but it does change how I feel about their sexual attraction to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin.

Absolutely agree with this. "

I don’t disagree with the concept that the individual doesn’t feel anything but masculine irrespective of the clothes they wear, but if we’re dealing with semantics, this masculine chap is, whether we like it or not, DRESSING femininely.

So I kind of agree with both parties (unlike me to sit on the fence really!) - it’s not a masculine method of clothing oneself, but the individual themselves can be masculine.

Clear as mud!?

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By *melia transexualTV/TS  over a year ago

Reading

OK.. Love all the messages. Well here goes.. I dress like a whore every other evening and charge guys to come and serve me in private dungeons, they can be quite pathetic at times some of them, however I understand the power a sexy woman has over a guy when dressed to thrill. In addition many...even Masculine alpha males sometimes admit to wanting some cock, and whilst with me love to dress in my lingerie, some

love oral some anal some want to be spit roasted. And it seems to be acceptable for them to enjoy this experience with a t girl opposed to a hairy gay guy. And to answer the original question.... YES! There are plenty of females who do like it, (Especially the ones who have fucked lots of guys and girls then want a new challenge, finding them is as difficult as it is to get a straight guy to admit he would love to suck on a cock one day. I live with my fiance btw. FEMALE. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin.

Absolutely agree with this.

I don’t disagree with the concept that the individual doesn’t feel anything but masculine irrespective of the clothes they wear, but if we’re dealing with semantics, this masculine chap is, whether we like it or not, DRESSING femininely.

So I kind of agree with both parties (unlike me to sit on the fence really!) - it’s not a masculine method of clothing oneself, but the individual themselves can be masculine.

Clear as mud!? "

It’s the confidence that turns me on. I love guys in skinny jeans, many on here think it’s too girly. We are all attracted to different things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

On the right man I love it.Thank you

Oh, you meant someone else didn't you..."

Your legs are alright.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin."

Isn’t a guy who is wearing female lingerie trying to be less masculine ?

And isn’t the phrase “ comfortable in their own skin “ , a bit of a misnomer with respect to men wearing lingerie ?

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive "

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

can be a totally alpha but like dressing like a total slut now and then , some ladies love it !

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin.

Isn’t a guy who is wearing female lingerie trying to be less masculine ?

And isn’t the phrase “ comfortable in their own skin “ , a bit of a misnomer with respect to men wearing lingerie ? "

Only to someone who doesn't get it.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. "

Well said

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. "

Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. "

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"You can still wear tights and be alpha.

You can also wear boxers and be sub.

Clothes don't change the person.

But hey, never let that get in the way.

Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018.

At least someone understands

I do too!

I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin.

Isn’t a guy who is wearing female lingerie trying to be less masculine ?

And isn’t the phrase “ comfortable in their own skin “ , a bit of a misnomer with respect to men wearing lingerie ?

Only to someone who doesn't get it."

Like many on this thread , guess I don’t get it at all , but hey ho .

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS  over a year ago

Leicestershire

I like making Dom top alpha men wear them

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on.

Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine"

It does to some of us .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on.

Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. "

Exactly. This is why I try not to get involved in these kind of threads. It’s ridiculous. Every now and then I do though. If you see me doing it again give me a short sharp kick! We’ll be back to preferences V something “ist” before long. A man in a woman’s underwear or clothes isn’t for me no matter how masculine he may be. If there’s a label for me there then stick it on me I’ll take it.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Exactly. This is why I try not to get involved in these kind of threads. It’s ridiculous. Every now and then I do though. If you see me doing it again give me a short sharp kick! We’ll be back to preferences V something “ist” before long. A man in a woman’s underwear or clothes isn’t for me no matter how masculine he may be. If there’s a label for me there then stick it on me I’ll take it. "

I rarely come on the forums full stop , and quite how I got involved in this one is anyone’s guess . I have watched my husband ( who is on the forums 99% of the time ) play with TVs and although I like watching him , the guy in female attire does nothing for me at all . Simple as that . And if I’m playing , I like the guy to be a guy and certainly not be dressed in female lingerie . I’ll play with a woman if that’s what I seek . And I know in my mind that the guy in female lingerie is less masculine , so what anyone else says is irrelevant to me isn’t it ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Well said "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Exactly. This is why I try not to get involved in these kind of threads. It’s ridiculous. Every now and then I do though. If you see me doing it again give me a short sharp kick! We’ll be back to preferences V something “ist” before long. A man in a woman’s underwear or clothes isn’t for me no matter how masculine he may be. If there’s a label for me there then stick it on me I’ll take it.

I rarely come on the forums full stop , and quite how I got involved in this one is anyone’s guess . I have watched my husband ( who is on the forums 99% of the time ) play with TVs and although I like watching him , the guy in female attire does nothing for me at all . Simple as that . And if I’m playing , I like the guy to be a guy and certainly not be dressed in female lingerie . I’ll play with a woman if that’s what I seek . And I know in my mind that the guy in female lingerie is less masculine , so what anyone else says is irrelevant to me isn’t it ?

"

Yes. Same with a woman though. I only like feminine women. I wouldn’t be attracted to a woman in a pair of boxers dressed like a bloke. My choice. Everyone else’s choice what they like. Simple as that surely!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on.

Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine"

It kind of does though looking at this definition of the word masculine:

“having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men.”

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that."

I feel like both sides are trying to shame the other.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on.

Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine

It kind of does though looking at this definition of the word masculine:

“having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men.”

"

It kind of does to me as that definition is the one I associate with masculinity too

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?

So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do.

Not what I said at all

Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?

Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive

Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on.

Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine

It kind of does though looking at this definition of the word masculine:

“having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men.”

"

Women look less feminine when dressed in unisex clothing than in a pretty frock - so what?

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that.

I feel like both sides are trying to shame the other. "

I don't think anyone who is ok with it is trying to shame anyone who doesn't.

I can only speak for myself in saying I'm putting a different view forward and explaining my views so people can understand.

I understand already why others may not find it attractive, so don't need it shoved down my throat.

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that."

Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question...


"Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?"

Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either.

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By *teveblackpoolMan  over a year ago

Blackpool


"Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone.

Plenty of people share his taste, as my inbox can attest."

I just love the feel I get when I wear them, as you can see from my pictures, doesn't mean I want sex with another man, totally the opposite, I would love to have sex while wearing a sexy pair of Lacey panties, each to their own

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By *cedGemsWoman  over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

Dare anyone to define 'normal' ... it's about the person, not the clothing. Plenty of opinions on the subject, I prefer 'live and let live' x

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that.

Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question...

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either."

The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it .

Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices .

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No, it wouldn't really do anything for me.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?"

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There's one guy on here that looks great in stockings etc, each to their one but it doesn't do anything for me in sexual way.

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By *teveblackpoolMan  over a year ago

Blackpool


"Dare anyone to define 'normal' ... it's about the person, not the clothing. Plenty of opinions on the subject, I prefer 'live and let live' x"

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By *arold_n_maudeCouple  over a year ago

preston

More importantly panties make your schlong look hooge

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that.

Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question...

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either.

The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it .

Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices . "

I don't understand why it's so important to state that you don't find a man in lingerie to be masculine. Who cares? Do you need to keep reinforcing this opinion?

We're all on a swingers site. Our lifestyle is marginalised and judged from the mainstream. Ideally we'd all be welcoming of alternatives, wether they tickled our pickle or not.

Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would ."

Pink is a female colour though?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that.

Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question...

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either.

The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it .

Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices .

I don't understand why it's so important to state that you don't find a man in lingerie to be masculine. Who cares? Do you need to keep reinforcing this opinion?

We're all on a swingers site. Our lifestyle is marginalised and judged from the mainstream. Ideally we'd all be welcoming of alternatives, wether they tickled our pickle or not.

Hey ho "

They weren't the first/only ones to mention it.

And tbf I'd guess the reason they keep bringing it up is because people keep asking questions about masculinity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it....on me...hate seeing washed out knickers and baggy jeans on women

Big turn off.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

Pink is a female colour though?"

I can see what you are saying , but a male item of clothing is a male item of clothing whatever colour it is . The concept of pink being a female colour is long gone .

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that.

Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question...

Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?

Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either.

The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it .

Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices .

I don't understand why it's so important to state that you don't find a man in lingerie to be masculine. Who cares? Do you need to keep reinforcing this opinion?

We're all on a swingers site. Our lifestyle is marginalised and judged from the mainstream. Ideally we'd all be welcoming of alternatives, wether they tickled our pickle or not.

Hey ho

They weren't the first/only ones to mention it.

And tbf I'd guess the reason they keep bringing it up is because people keep asking questions about masculinity."

Thank you , I was about to reply but you’ve said it just as I would have

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

Pink is a female colour though?"

Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

Pink is a female colour though?

Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both "

I’m sure I read that it’s because of Hitler that pink is now seen as girls colour? Idk

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

Pink is a female colour though?

Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both "

I knew about the dresses, but didn't know about the colour switch

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS  over a year ago

France, Not in

Lots of discussions on whether it increases masculinity but for lots of us that do dress up we do so because we are wanting to be less masculine. And in answer to the OP original question, yes lots of women do enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots of discussions on whether it increases masculinity but for lots of us that do dress up we do so because we are wanting to be less masculine. And in answer to the OP original question, yes lots of women do enjoy it."

That was where my confusion lay in relation to the masculinity question. Tbh I thought that was the point for a lot of people who do it.

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

Pink is a female colour though?

Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both

I knew about the dresses, but didn't know about the colour switch "

Pink is a stronger pigment so they thought it more dominant. Only post WW2 that clothing manufacturers switched it around. And now everything is gendered

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By *teveblackpoolMan  over a year ago

Blackpool

Like I said before, as far as I'm concerned, each to their own, I find it such a turn on feeling a sexy Lacey pair covering my cock and bum, as my pictures show any fem is welcome to have a look and message me if they fancy a chat about it pm or kik me, my addy is on my profile xx

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By *an_bury OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Got their knickers in a right twist on this thread!

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Got their knickers in a right twist on this thread!

"

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie.

Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?

Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would .

Pink is a female colour though?

Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both

I knew about the dresses, but didn't know about the colour switch

Pink is a stronger pigment so they thought it more dominant. Only post WW2 that clothing manufacturers switched it around. And now everything is gendered "

I think it needs to be the right kind of pink too - I would not like barbie pink on a man but a deep or slightly mauvey pink...hubba hubba!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off"

I’m glad you qualified what I thought you were thinking

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off"

I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You women are such piss takers. Leave us alone .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off

I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost "

I don't think they did

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off

I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost "

I don’t think your views got lost at all .

It would be very dull ( or should I say even more dull than it already is ) on here if we all agreed on everything .

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By *teveblackpoolMan  over a year ago

Blackpool


"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off

I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost

I don’t think your views got lost at all .

It would be very dull ( or should I say even more dull than it already is ) on here if we all agreed on everything . "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no.

I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment.

Good to see opinions! Healthy!

I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off

I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost

I don’t think your views got lost at all .

It would be very dull ( or should I say even more dull than it already is ) on here if we all agreed on everything . "

I read your views WD but was too tired to respond sorry.

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By *teveblackpoolMan  over a year ago

Blackpool

I see this discussion has gone quiet , shame )

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By *an_bury OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham


"Got their knickers in a right twist on this thread!

"

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By *pertureTV/TS  over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Equally you could swap the aren't for are, the thing is everyone has different tastes and i'm fine with that, some men like big tits, some like big bums and some dont like them. some women like men in knickers, some like gym bods some dont.


"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds.

Well said

"

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By *teveblackpoolMan  over a year ago

Blackpool

Shame the thread has died off

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