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Some advice please
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"You don’t need advice luv Just message people and be polite but don’t always expect an answer" If you called me "luv", I would give you one of my special one fingered Chinese burns  | |||
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"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that " I see. Personally I wouldn’t respond to a message asking me for a meet straight up. I like men to send me a message after reading my profile, telling me a bit about themselves and attaching a face picture. But other women will like different things. | |||
"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that " I wouldn't respond to that. How would I know if I wanted to meet you if we've never spoken? | |||
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"Only put to meet up bcoz i fill you get to know a person much better face to face and if you don't like part was but with no hard fillings lol but if u both like then see where it gos lol " I wouldn’t like to meet up with a complete stranger | |||
"Hi everyone was wondering if any1 can help out I've been on this site for a while now I send messages but I have never got one back or meet up with anyone so was wondering if am going something wrong lol " Use the force  | |||
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"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that " Now, to the uninitiated, you think that might work In the real world it might, but this is Fabland, a world filled with dismissive Queen Bees Unfortunately, these Queen Bees don't just want regular nectar, they want the best. Not only do they want the best, but they want it when it suits them and presented to them in a manner that suits them. If this doesn't happen, they can be cruel and dismissive, some would say cold They would say it's their choice and it's within the rules of the hive Fortunately for them, the army of worker bees is ever growing, ever changing and endlessly aiming to please Some even keep a few workers nearby to act as Gate Guardians, Defenders of the Realm They are ex-workers that have made it in the hive So, to a degree, the Queens are always kept well fed and can afford to keep the hive in order as they wish Yes, occasionally, they will need to make a new worker aware of his shortcomings and occasionally a worker will overstep the mark and need his little buzzy wings clipping, but overall, the life of a Queen Bee in Fabland is considerably more blessed than that of those that serve them. So, although you feel you can bring nectar into the hive, is it better nectar than they are already getting ? Do you buzz differently to the other worker bees ? Does your nectar look nicer ? Does it taste better ? Are you able to bring it ? These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even think of hitting that send button, let alone dreaming of a response to it | |||
"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that Now, to the uninitiated, you think that might work In the real world it might, but this is Fabland, a world filled with dismissive Queen Bees Unfortunately, these Queen Bees don't just want regular nectar, they want the best. Not only do they want the best, but they want it when it suits them and presented to them in a manner that suits them. If this doesn't happen, they can be cruel and dismissive, some would say cold They would say it's their choice and it's within the rules of the hive Fortunately for them, the army of worker bees is ever growing, ever changing and endlessly aiming to please Some even keep a few workers nearby to act as Gate Guardians, Defenders of the Realm They are ex-workers that have made it in the hive So, to a degree, the Queens are always kept well fed and can afford to keep the hive in order as they wish Yes, occasionally, they will need to make a new worker aware of his shortcomings and occasionally a worker will overstep the mark and need his little buzzy wings clipping, but overall, the life of a Queen Bee in Fabland is considerably more blessed than that of those that serve them. So, although you feel you can bring nectar into the hive, is it better nectar than they are already getting ? Do you buzz differently to the other worker bees ? Does your nectar look nicer ? Does it taste better ? Are you able to bring it ? These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even think of hitting that send button, let alone dreaming of a response to it " I would hate to think I made others feel like that! Yes it’s a women’s world here, but we’re all (male or female) entitled to choose, but treat people with respect while choosing | |||
"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that Now, to the uninitiated, you think that might work In the real world it might, but this is Fabland, a world filled with dismissive Queen Bees Unfortunately, these Queen Bees don't just want regular nectar, they want the best. Not only do they want the best, but they want it when it suits them and presented to them in a manner that suits them. If this doesn't happen, they can be cruel and dismissive, some would say cold They would say it's their choice and it's within the rules of the hive Fortunately for them, the army of worker bees is ever growing, ever changing and endlessly aiming to please Some even keep a few workers nearby to act as Gate Guardians, Defenders of the Realm They are ex-workers that have made it in the hive So, to a degree, the Queens are always kept well fed and can afford to keep the hive in order as they wish Yes, occasionally, they will need to make a new worker aware of his shortcomings and occasionally a worker will overstep the mark and need his little buzzy wings clipping, but overall, the life of a Queen Bee in Fabland is considerably more blessed than that of those that serve them. So, although you feel you can bring nectar into the hive, is it better nectar than they are already getting ? Do you buzz differently to the other worker bees ? Does your nectar look nicer ? Does it taste better ? Are you able to bring it ? These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even think of hitting that send button, let alone dreaming of a response to it " Perfect analogy. | |||
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"Only put to meet up bcoz i fill you get to know a person much better face to face and if you don't like part was but with no hard fillings lol but if u both like then see where it gos lol " You've used 'bcoz' twice now. Would advise you don't communicate like a teenage girl as a 29 y/o man... | |||
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"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that Now, to the uninitiated, you think that might work In the real world it might, but this is Fabland, a world filled with dismissive Queen Bees Unfortunately, these Queen Bees don't just want regular nectar, they want the best. Not only do they want the best, but they want it when it suits them and presented to them in a manner that suits them. If this doesn't happen, they can be cruel and dismissive, some would say cold They would say it's their choice and it's within the rules of the hive Fortunately for them, the army of worker bees is ever growing, ever changing and endlessly aiming to please Some even keep a few workers nearby to act as Gate Guardians, Defenders of the Realm They are ex-workers that have made it in the hive So, to a degree, the Queens are always kept well fed and can afford to keep the hive in order as they wish Yes, occasionally, they will need to make a new worker aware of his shortcomings and occasionally a worker will overstep the mark and need his little buzzy wings clipping, but overall, the life of a Queen Bee in Fabland is considerably more blessed than that of those that serve them. So, although you feel you can bring nectar into the hive, is it better nectar than they are already getting ? Do you buzz differently to the other worker bees ? Does your nectar look nicer ? Does it taste better ? Are you able to bring it ? These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even think of hitting that send button, let alone dreaming of a response to it Perfect analogy. " Awesome way of looking at it | |||
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" You've used 'bcoz' twice now. Would advise you don't communicate like a teenage girl as a 29 y/o man... " Agree with this. We don't respond to messages written in text talk, poor English etc. With most phones having spell checker now just shows laziness to us. | |||
"Hi everyone was wondering if any1 can help out I've been on this site for a while now I send messages but I have never got one back or meet up with anyone so was wondering if am going something wrong lol " Join the club....its hard work | |||
"I've put things like hi how are you, do fancy a drink some time, fancy meeting up and getting to know each other thing like that Now, to the uninitiated, you think that might work In the real world it might, but this is Fabland, a world filled with dismissive Queen Bees Unfortunately, these Queen Bees don't just want regular nectar, they want the best. Not only do they want the best, but they want it when it suits them and presented to them in a manner that suits them. If this doesn't happen, they can be cruel and dismissive, some would say cold They would say it's their choice and it's within the rules of the hive Fortunately for them, the army of worker bees is ever growing, ever changing and endlessly aiming to please Some even keep a few workers nearby to act as Gate Guardians, Defenders of the Realm They are ex-workers that have made it in the hive So, to a degree, the Queens are always kept well fed and can afford to keep the hive in order as they wish Yes, occasionally, they will need to make a new worker aware of his shortcomings and occasionally a worker will overstep the mark and need his little buzzy wings clipping, but overall, the life of a Queen Bee in Fabland is considerably more blessed than that of those that serve them. So, although you feel you can bring nectar into the hive, is it better nectar than they are already getting ? Do you buzz differently to the other worker bees ? Does your nectar look nicer ? Does it taste better ? Are you able to bring it ? These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even think of hitting that send button, let alone dreaming of a response to it " If you treat the ladies with respect and as an equal rather than serve them (unless that's your thing)the know your worth. there may be many more guys than ladies ... it's still a level playing field only person that allows it to be tilted is you.. everybody on here has the same choices yes please no thanks | |||
