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By *otswaps OP Couple
over a year ago
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"No pics, no profile just screams lazy and not interested so why should we be interested in them?
Same with lazy messages... They just get deleted"
That’s often our thought. However we sometimes give people a chance. But should we bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is empty right now and not because I’m lazy.
I’m just struggling to write one that’s not negative but one that also gets my personality over.
I’m in a cynical stage and that came across on my profile so I deleted it.
Start again I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No pics, no profile just screams lazy and not interested so why should we be interested in them?
Same with lazy messages... They just get deleted"
Absolutely!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can it be said that people that are too lazy to write a decent profile and put some nice pics on, are also likely not to be bothered in the bedroom and be crap in bed?
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This is this first time I've been on a site like this so I'm not exactly sure what to put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far from lazy. But, if you’ve seen how my profile texts usually are. You’ll think I got too much time on my hands.
My profile text is always crap. I’m not the best when it comes to selling myself.
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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Are we not rather preaching to the converted somewhat? It needs a great big banner telling new (or rejoining for the 20th time that month) members that the more they put in, the more they’ll get out.
Certainly I get a lot of positive effects for my efforts. Albeit my photos need an update. |
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People please chill with the negativity! We all have our good and bad qualities.. Why dont you focus on what you do really well and if your bad points are getting to you maybe try and change or improve them =)
To answer the main question though, i think its a pretty big assumption to judge how a person could act solely based on their profile (or lack of) or their "bad pics". Which is all complete subjective i might add. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was a full profile. Deleted it as pictures speak louder than words and very few read it anyway.
Funnily enough i get more messages now. "
I get as many messages with/without a profile.
And I didn’t like my profile so deleted it. |
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I only message ladies that I think I would click with I write a message based on what they have said on their profile and what I have to offer etc and it just gets delete
It’s sooooooo rude a simple no thanks but thanks for actually making the effort
Half of the laziness I feel is because loss of people here are very narrow minded and think far to much of themselves |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I only message ladies that I think I would click with I write a message based on what they have said on their profile
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Do you want to know why this happens? Because they have written one that you are attracted to enough to write to them, yet you don't have one yourself.
I get this all the time and it pisses me off, why? Because they don't see the fucking irony in what they have just done and said   |
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"I only message ladies that I think I would click with I write a message based on what they have said on their profile and what I have to offer etc and it just gets delete
It’s sooooooo rude a simple no thanks but thanks for actually making the effort
Half of the laziness I feel is because loss of people here are very narrow minded and think far to much of themselves "
As they should |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No pics, no profile just screams lazy and not interested so why should we be interested in them?
Same with lazy messages... They just get deleted
That’s often our thought. However we sometimes give people a chance. But should we bother."
And when you’ve given them a chance has your opinion changed? |
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By *otswaps OP Couple
over a year ago
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"No pics, no profile just screams lazy and not interested so why should we be interested in them?
Same with lazy messages... They just get deleted
That’s often our thought. However we sometimes give people a chance. But should we bother.
And when you’ve given them a chance has your opinion changed? "
Not that can recall.
Maybe with women as they don’t have to on here. If they do they would prob get even more attention that can’t keep up with.
But with guys, there are so many so if no pics etc then move on. |
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