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Is it best to be honest and up front about your marriage status or should you just keep it to yourself and lying about it??
As far as I am concerned it’s best to be honest and up front about it.
It will be great to see what everyone else thinks about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably better to be honest then people can make informed decisions about wether or not they are comfortable getting involved.
Personally though the majority of my play is in clubs so I neither know, nor care, the marital status of my playmates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say honest, but upfront yes. You can’t really say ‘but I’m being honest!’ While cheating  "
Yes you can. Telling people on here you are married is being honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say honest, but upfront yes. You can’t really say ‘but I’m being honest!’ While cheating "
You can be honest with one person and not another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely be honest, people should be allowed to make their own informed choices. I wouldn’t want to turn up to a meet to be confronted by an enraged husband who had just followed their wife... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got duped before by a married guy and felt shitty over it, I don't think it's fair involving anyone else in cheating without their knowledge. Either be honest or just go to clubs and don't say anything I'd say |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
I would be severely pissed off if some one lied about their marital status to me, knowing I don't meet people cheating. Fortunately, so far I've found out before actually meeting them. By not being upfront its disrespecting the preferences of people that don't want to meet them and not allowing them to make an informed choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always honest. If someone doesn't want to play with married people and you lie it's a pretty low thing to do. "
Just had this happen and it was truly shitty. Essentially I feel he got inside my body under false pretences. If I think about it I feel a little ill as I have REALLY strong feelings about this issue.
Please don’t post the ‘block and move on’ response. I have, but it seemed particularly relevant to the thread and I was surprised how strongly I felt about it. We shouldn’t have to be crack investigators to ensure our preferences are respected. |
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"I got duped before by a married guy and felt shitty over it, I don't think it's fair involving anyone else in cheating without their knowledge. Either be honest or just go to clubs and don't say anything I'd say "
Did he say he was over 6ft too ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got duped before by a married guy and felt shitty over it, I don't think it's fair involving anyone else in cheating without their knowledge. Either be honest or just go to clubs and don't say anything I'd say "
Would it still upset you to have met married at a club |
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"I wouldn’t say honest, but upfront yes. You can’t really say ‘but I’m being honest!’ While cheating
You can be honest with one person and not another. "
That's true you can be honest with someone under those circumstances but you are not a honest person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Up front. Some people here prefer to meet people in relationships as they are less full on.
Yes less full on  "
Is there a reason your rolling your eyes?? I am in a relationship but not cheating. He knows I'm here. I have met single guys in the past and a lot have wanted more than what I want to offer so yes I often prefer to meet attached guys and what a wonderful world fab is that I can do that with out judgement.... Oh wait  |
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"Up front. Some people here prefer to meet people in relationships as they are less full on.
Yes less full on
Is there a reason your rolling your eyes?? I am in a relationship but not cheating. He knows I'm here. I have met single guys in the past and a lot have wanted more than what I want to offer so yes I often prefer to meet attached guys and what a wonderful world fab is that I can do that with out judgement.... Oh wait "
Oh I don't roll my eyes when I'm judging people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got duped before by a married guy and felt shitty over it, I don't think it's fair involving anyone else in cheating without their knowledge. Either be honest or just go to clubs and don't say anything I'd say
Would it still upset you to have met married at a club"
I don't go to clubs but nah I don't think so as I imagine that's a bit more anonymous, and without all the chat beforehand.
I wouldn't say I was upset, more that I felt both guilty on behalf of his wife and pissed off for me as we'd been out in public for coffee/drinks as well as meeting in private and I could've been dragged into some drama when I personally wasn't doing anything wrong. I like things without any strings or drama so I definitely don't want to take on anyone else's |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got duped before by a married guy and felt shitty over it, I don't think it's fair involving anyone else in cheating without their knowledge. Either be honest or just go to clubs and don't say anything I'd say
Did he say he was over 6ft too ?"
To be fair, that bit was true! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Be honest with me, because trust me I will find out! It will always be a no thanks, so no point trying to hide the fact, most women aren't stupid, unless they are just looking for a fuck and go meet of course, then that is different |
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"I got duped before by a married guy and felt shitty over it, I don't think it's fair involving anyone else in cheating without their knowledge. Either be honest or just go to clubs and don't say anything I'd say "
That makes no sense. |
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