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Do you view the word ‘slut’ as a positive or negative ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Or does it depend on context ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t like it personally but if said in jest like from my hubby then I think it’s funny but not from a total stranger.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I personally don’t mind being called a slut. I have a high level of emotional intelligence so couldn’t give a rats arse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on context. I don't like it used in relation to me at all. Some people love the word and own it/ reclaimed it as a positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on context. I don't like it used in relation to me at all. Some people love the word and own it/ reclaimed it as a positive."

I think it’s a turn on when a woman calls herself a slut.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on context. I don't like it used in relation to me at all. Some people love the word and own it/ reclaimed it as a positive.

I think it’s a turn on when a woman calls herself a slut."

I've never turned a man on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on context. I don't like it used in relation to me at all. Some people love the word and own it/ reclaimed it as a positive.

I think it’s a turn on when a woman calls herself a slut.

I've never turned a man on."

Fuck, that got me hard !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on context. I don't like it used in relation to me at all. Some people love the word and own it/ reclaimed it as a positive.

I think it’s a turn on when a woman calls herself a slut.

I've never turned a man on.

Fuck, that got me hard !

Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Context is important

Someone calling me a slut on the street would make me feel different to someone calling it me in the bedroom!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Context

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was told just yesterday the if the emphesis is on the word MY slut its ok but honestly id still not feel comfortable saying it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess I am quite old fashioned in language and courtesy so I dislike the word in any use. Its like the 'C' word - unnecessary IMHO.

Its another Americanism we have adopted and maybe has a meaning over there. Its like they use the word 'nasty' in a very different context.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Negative.

And I've read The Ethical Slut. Twice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Negative, in all contexts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Negative, in all contexts. "

To me the word ‘slag’ is negative in all contexts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Negative.

And I've read The Ethical Slut. Twice."

No exceptions ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Negative, in all contexts. "

Same

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

"Yeah I laugh when I call you a slut, it's funny"

Not sure why anyone would use it to be a positive but ok...

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"Negative.

And I've read The Ethical Slut. Twice.

No exceptions ?"

If someone identifies as one, cool beans. I simply find it a vulgar, misogynistic slur

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Negative, in all contexts.

To me the word ‘slag’ is negative in all contexts."

I don’t like either but I’d say slut was slightly worse than slag. Just slightly mind. Either would get a short sharp slap from me.

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By *parksAbiWoman over a year ago

Anywhere I like

Context and who is saying it

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

No more slut dropping

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By *mp411Man over a year ago

chester

Both are terrible words goddess or beauty are far more apt

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Negative ... no matter who is saying it or the context.

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By *winkleFairyCouple over a year ago

If someone calls me a slut I’ll take offence, unless they know me very very well.

It’s less what I think of the word and more how it’s used as negative by most people so I’m offended by what they are implying!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Context and depending on who's saying it.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Negative, in all contexts.

To me the word ‘slag’ is negative in all contexts."

However, “slagroom’ is Dutch for whipped cream. Slag heap is coal related.

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By *ananas57Couple over a year ago

lake ariel

Depends on how it's said

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Contextual, only rarely positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how it's said

With a Devon accent ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the word slut used in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like the word slut used in the bedroom "

Only in certain situations, not when I'm tidying up or watching tv

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if he's calling me a slut or his slut.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Negative

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Positive

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Totally negative, hate it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Said in the right context I love it and have used it myself as a term of affection/complimentary term.

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