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a survey: is pussy-licking is an essential element in sex? do all men/women like it?
hi guys.. i am straight man, 30 years, who doesn't like it at all. the majority looks at me like i am alien.
i have never try it and i will not.
i like kissing and i like the sex to be clean 100% , there are more ways and techniques to make your night brilliant without licking.
what about you? give me your opinion in much details please 
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"I can exclude the blowjob giving/receiving from my sexual life, if my partner think its selfish. the most important for me, is the fun for both of us.
i need more opinions from men/ women please  "
Why do you need opinions?
If it's your personal sexual dislike, how will opinions here help? |
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over a year ago
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If the pussy is clean and fresh then I’m chewing down on it but I have been met with some questionable smelling and tasting pussies so tend to hold back to start |
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"I can exclude the blowjob giving/receiving from my sexual life, if my partner think its selfish. the most important for me, is the fun for both of us.
i need more opinions from men/ women please "
I don't really understand why its considered selfish to not want to do something you don't like. It could be argued that selfishness is expecting your partner to do something they don't like.
I really enjoy giving but specify that I don't want the favour returned. |
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i need to know two things:
1) is there any man doesn't like it, never try it, will not try it (like me)
2) are all women like it as an essential element in sex. can she exclude it from her sexual life.
( can you live with a partner without it)
Thanks all for participation.
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over a year ago
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Love it an could not go with out it, obviously depends on the condition it’s in .......
Spend hours enjoying it, an more so so has every woman .......
Don’t like to boast but I will tell the truth
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over a year ago
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i need to know two things:
1) is there any man doesn't like it, never try it, will not try it (like me)
2) are all women like it as an essential element in sex. can she exclude it from her sexual life.
( can you live with a partner without it)
Thanks all for participation.
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I don't have to have it all the time. But I wouldn't like to never have it.
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Nothing's ever 'essential'. There are no rights or wrongs OP. You do what you're happy with doing. Different strokes for different folks.
I absolutely love oral sex. I love giving a lady pleasure that way. I love looking up and seeing she's enjoying herself. I have a thing for clits. I love pussies. I love 'em pressed against my face. Love the way they look. Love the way they feel. Love the way they taste. Love the way they smell. Yep, I love everything about cunnilingus  |
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i need to know two things:
1) is there any man doesn't like it, never try it, will not try it (like me)
2) are all women like it as an essential element in sex. can she exclude it from her sexual life.
( can you live with a partner without it)
Thanks all for participation.
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I can't speak for men but a couple of women have said they don't like it.
Why are you concerned? |
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over a year ago
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Enjoy receiving but it’s not essential.... giving on the other hand is absolutely essential for me. I prefer giving oral to actual intercourse .... not to say I don’t enjoy that part too |
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I love it and so does Lou. It’s great for foreplay and even better mixing it up whilst fucking. Replacing my cock with my fingers and sucking/flicking her clit my tongue, making her cum before thrusting my cock back inside her again, drives her insane. I get immense pleasure from her pleasure, so it’s a win win.
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over a year ago
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I really enjoy it with my long term and regular partners. With anyone else I'm not bothered, but, if they are only not doing it because they save it for special women/gfs but expect to be shoving their cock in my mouth throughout the evening, then they can go without too.
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"a survey: is pussy-licking is an essential element in sex? do all men/women like it?
hi guys.. i am straight man, 30 years, who doesn't like it at all. the majority looks at me like i am alien.
i have never try it and i will not.
i like kissing and i like the sex to be clean 100% , there are more ways and techniques to make your night brilliant without licking.
what about you? give me your opinion in much details please
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I love to lick it's like kissing an essential part of sex |
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"a survey: is pussy-licking is an essential element in sex? do all men/women like it?
hi guys.. i am straight man, 30 years, who doesn't like it at all. the majority looks at me like i am alien.
i have never try it and i will not.
i like kissing and i like the sex to be clean 100% , there are more ways and techniques to make your night brilliant without licking.
what about you? give me your opinion in much details please
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I like the sex to be dirty 100%.
Clean 100% doesnt sound like fun. |
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A little goes a long way... While it's nice to receive, having someone chomp away until your bits have lost all sensitivity (and are suffering from severe beard rash) is no fun. That's why these guys who brag about being able to lick like lassie and breathe through their ears just make me 
Oral sex is just the appetiser guys... Its the main course we really want  |
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"A little goes a long way... While it's nice to receive, having someone chomp away until your bits have lost all sensitivity (and are suffering from severe beard rash) is no fun. That's why these guys who brag about being able to lick like lassie and breathe through their ears just make me
Oral sex is just the appetiser guys... Its the main course we really want "
I wish my wife had your views if I go down on her she doesn’t let me up until she’s paralysed which then means it’s over and I’m left to fend for myself lol |
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By *anGarCouple
over a year ago
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Before I met my wife, I had a bad experience and it put my off licking any girl for a long while. My wife finally convinced me to go down on her, she was clean and washed, it completely changed my mind. I have even managed to get her to multi-orgasm before intercourse, where I leave her totally paralysed and twitching, even the slightest breeze sets her shivering  |
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Of course you shouldn't feel obliged to try anything which doesn't appeal OP but I'm a bit meh that what seems to be putting you off (based on what you've said so far) is the idea that going down on a woman is unclean ? I'm sure even women who aren't fussed about oral wouldn't be terribly impressed by that suggestion ... |
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OP I have a question.
How do you get sex to be 100% clean? Any kind of sex involves bodily fluids - even just a good snogging session. Do you get fully suited up in hazmat gear to prevent getting "dirty"?
To answer the question in your original post - I don't have to receive oral to enjoy sex and often I don't particularly enjoy it. Mostly I think that's down to the fact most guys are actually really crap at giving oral. Only once have I met a guy who was really good at it and I could have quite happily let him carry on for hours. I'm not sure I could live without it forever though.
When it comes to giving oral I won't just suck any cock that comes my way. I have to be relaxed and comfortable with the person to enjoy doing it. Some guys think it's ok to try and face fuck you and make you gag. If sucking I have to be in full control so will only do it with people I trust. |
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"a survey: is pussy-licking is an essential element in sex? do all men/women like it?
hi guys.. i am straight man, 30 years, who doesn't like it at all. the majority looks at me like i am alien.
i have never try it and i will not.
i like kissing and i like the sex to be clean 100% , there are more ways and techniques to make your night brilliant without licking.
what about you? give me your opinion in much details please
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For me OP yes essential, I love it and would be highly disappointed if it wasn’t an option.
Personally OP I wouldn’t tick the box of oral in “Interests” if I weren’t prepared to give....
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It's essential for me. It's probably the most important part of sex in my opinion. We are going nowhere without good foreplay. Do a good job and I'm very happy to return the favour though. |
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I hate receiving oral and hate it even more if men try to make me feel abnormal for not liking it. Surprised to find so many one-trick ponies on here who don't know any other ways to turn a woman on |
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Depends on their teeth... if they have good teeth ill go down there... teeth that havnt seen a dentist in years.. nope!
I love doing it but if they dont take care of their oral hygiene... generally hygiene lacks elsewhere. |
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Love to give and receive.
I'd say it was essential for me.
Met a guy a few years back (not off here). He was gorgeous, funny, sexy as and great in bed...except he wouldn't go down. I saw him a handful of times but he wasn't into it (although he expected a blowjob back)....so his days were numbered. |
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"a survey: is pussy-licking is an essential element in sex? do all men/women like it?
hi guys.. i am straight man, 30 years, who doesn't like it at all. the majority looks at me like i am alien.
i have never try it and i will not.
i like kissing and i like the sex to be clean 100% , there are more ways and techniques to make your night brilliant without licking.
what about you? give me your opinion in much details please
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I’m presuming you are perfectly ok with a woman not giving you oral then?
Because you know, if a pussy isn’t clean then what makes you think your cock is?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do like it,but.......its got to be with someone who really knows what they are doing!!
Too many guys and girls think they are experts when they are not!
If you can actually make me by it you're a keeper  |
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"a survey: is pussy-licking is an essential element in sex? do all men/women like it?
hi guys.. i am straight man, 30 years, who doesn't like it at all. the majority looks at me like i am alien.
i have never try it and i will not.
i like kissing and i like the sex to be clean 100% , there are more ways and techniques to make your night brilliant without licking.
what about you? give me your opinion in much details please
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Question for you then OP, how do you know you don't like it then if you've never tried?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men should put as much effort into giving great oral as they do trying to make us squirt.
The world would be a much happier place."
Totally agree, it is essential I do enjoy giving oral, love the look of satisfaction after. |
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i need to know two things:
1) is there any man doesn't like it, never try it, will not try it (like me)
2) are all women like it as an essential element in sex. can she exclude it from her sexual life.
( can you live with a partner without it)
Thanks all for participation.
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How do you know you won’t like it as you haven’t tried it. Maybe try and see how you feel after that  |
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"What if the woman considers oral to be 'the greatest of highs'?
Not all women do, I personally consider anal to be the greatest of highs for me. "
No one said all women do as far as I can remember. Maybe I'm wrong though |
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"What if the woman considers oral to be 'the greatest of highs'?
Not all women do, I personally consider anal to be the greatest of highs for me.
No one said all women do as far as I can remember. Maybe I'm wrong though "
You didn't |
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"What if the woman considers oral to be 'the greatest of highs'?
Not all women do, I personally consider anal to be the greatest of highs for me. "
Now you’ve really got my attention |
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"Depends on their teeth... if they have good teeth ill go down there... teeth that havnt seen a dentist in years.. nope!
I love doing it but if they dont take care of their oral hygiene... generally hygiene lacks elsewhere."
My teeth are perfect so get busy |
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"How do you know you don't like it if you've never tried it? "
My thoughts exactly can't say no to something it maybe the idea repels you but you can't actually say you don't like it!!
It's like all.sex acts you either do it you don't.. |
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While it's not essential every time I have sex, I couldn't see someone more than once in awhile who wouldn't go down on me ever. I do sort of assume it's part of the deal, and I'm disappointed when it doesn't happen.
I enjoy cock sucking, so my partner giving that up in exchange wouldn't be a good exchange. |
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i know a lot of people they didn't like chicken, and they haven't try it before..simply because they are vegetarians.
i know a lot of men they didn't like to have sex with other men..and they haven't try it before..simply because they are straights.
so its natural to not like something , even if you didn't try it before.
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"i know a lot of people they didn't like chicken, and they haven't try it before..simply because they are vegetarians.
i know a lot of men they didn't like to have sex with other men..and they haven't try it before..simply because they are straights.
so its natural to not like something , even if you didn't try it before.
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I think you'll limit your options fairly drastically, for better or worse. |
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"Nothing's ever 'essential'. There are no rights or wrongs OP. You do what you're happy with doing. Different strokes for different folks.
I absolutely love oral sex. I love giving a lady pleasure that way. I love looking up and seeing she's enjoying herself. I have a thing for clits. I love pussies. I love 'em pressed against my face. Love the way they look. Love the way they feel. Love the way they taste. Love the way they smell. Yep, I love everything about cunnilingus "
Haha. I think he was just after a simple yes or no  |
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By *cedGemsWoman
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Oral is definitely part of the build up ... but nothing worse than someone who thinks that diving straight in is going to make you cum.... it's patience and the appreciation of the act which does it for me |
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"hahaha no i am happy for more details and opinions and experiences
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Hang on a minute. Firstly. How do you know you don’t like it if you haven’t tried it?
Secondly. details? What kind of details? Like I’ve been with a woman please give me the exact details kind of details? Hmmmmm |
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To me oral is often important, it's very intimate and giving, both ways. I usually have my strongest orgasms via other methods, but it's wonderfully pleasurable. It's part of the vulnerability of sex which can be so important to me.
Everyone does it differently, but the only ones I tend to dislike are the ones who claim they're amazing and obsessed with it. Even if it's nice (and often the man doth protest too much there!) it is only something I like for a certain amount of time. Hours? I might fall asleep. |
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"hahaha no i am happy for more details and opinions and experiences
Hang on a minute. Firstly. How do you know you don’t like it if you haven’t tried it?
Secondly. details? What kind of details? Like I’ve been with a woman please give me the exact details kind of details? Hmmmmm "
To be fair, I’d like to hear all the details of your pussy-licking experiences too please! PM’s are open .. just sayin’   |
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How do you know you don’t like it if you haven’t tried it?
i answer this question before.. and i received a lot today !!
Secondly. details? What kind of details? Like I’ve been with a woman please give me the exact details kind of details?
for example, i like it , my partner like it, i've met a person does/ doesn't like it.. i like dirty.. i will not give if i didn't receive.. etc. |
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" How do you know you don’t like it if you haven’t tried it?
i answer this question before.. and i received a lot today !!
Secondly. details? What kind of details? Like I’ve been with a woman please give me the exact details kind of details?
for example, i like it , my partner like it, i've met a person does/ doesn't like it.. i like dirty.. i will not give if i didn't receive.. etc. "
Ok. I like it.
I’ve actually never met a man that doesn’t like it.
Do I like dirty? Not sure exactly what you mean by that. But if you mean unclean as in dirty no!!
Yes I would give if I didn't receive because I like that too. |
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"i know a lot of people they didn't like chicken, and they haven't try it before..simply because they are vegetarians.
i know a lot of men they didn't like to have sex with other men..and they haven't try it before..simply because they are straights.
so its natural to not like something , even if you didn't try it before.
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That's not disliking something though. That's them saying they dislike without even trying it.
If you have little ones who say "I don't like it" before they've even tried something, most will get them to try so they can make up their mind.
I'm straight. I know I am straight as I'm not attracted to men.
I have had sexual encounters with me. Wasn't my thing. There for I know I do not like sexual encounters with men.
I've not been ch0ked during sex. Not keen on the idea. Not tried it, there for do not know if I will like it, but know I don't want to try. I don't dislike it, as I've not tried it...
See where this is going? |
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We both absolutely love it and we do it every time unless it's a quickie. For some reason we prefer to do it separately, spending the time on each other rather than 69. I could actually cum myself without her touching me from just licking her pussy, a massive turn on  |
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"How do you know you don't like it if you've never tried it?
Yeah. I bet he says the same about artichokes
And sushi. "
I don’t like sushi and I’ve never tried it |
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I don’t think it’s an important part of having sex. But personally it’s my favourite thing to do both ways. Smelling fresh and being clean is a must for me when getting my mouth around any penis |
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I would not expect a female to suck it n see if I was not prepared to reciprocate...in fact I would initiate it with any willing lady as I love to feel/hear her responding (subject to the usual terms and conditions of cleanliness). And fingers are not a suitable substitute automatically. |
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I get a huge amount of satisfaction giving a lady oral. Finding out which bits are her trigger points, how much touch is required etc I like the feeling of power and being in control. |
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