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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
Wank around or walk around? Albeit both happen.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?
Wank around or walk around? Albeit both happen. "
Deliberate typo.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?
Wank around or walk around? Albeit both happen.
Deliberate typo. "
It was a good one! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!"
Good point. Exhibitionists would be peeved if no-one was watching. I'm needed. |
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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
Because you should not have an opinion or be available to make your choices.
Now start blabbering and get your arse in there  |
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"Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!
Good point. Exhibitionists would be peeved if no-one was watching. I'm needed. "
I know this is roles reverse would you like peoole watching you get fuckes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
Nothing wrong with it. It can be a real turn-on to be watched, just as much as watching... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had this happen years ago with a buddy. Was having a mff when the third person said she wanted to sit and watch us two fuck while she played with herself. It was a very erotic experience ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen so many people fuck, I have become de-sensitized to it
I don't find it horny, but I'm not appauled by it either
I would only get horny if I was involved and, even then, I don't find threesomes or group fun half as horny as 1 on 1 |
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
Live porn would you request certain positions and outfits ?
Like a director |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never really thought about it , but I could be a watcher .... I’d not have to shave my legs
Nice legs you would have too, love to stroke them "
How would you know ??  |
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"I’ve never really thought about it , but I could be a watcher .... I’d not have to shave my legs
Nice legs you would have too, love to stroke them
How would you know ?? "
I can just imagine you have can see it in your eyes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?
Live porn would you request certain positions and outfits ?
Like a director "
No I just watch silently without moving.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had this happen years ago with a buddy. Was having a mff when the third person said she wanted to sit and watch us two fuck while she played with herself. It was a very erotic experience ??"
It leads to an awkward silence if the lady decides to sit out a MMF... |
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?
Live porn would you request certain positions and outfits ?
Like a director
No I just watch silently without moving. "
I can imagine moving something |
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"We love watching..... And being watched, its why we at on here. Xxxxxx"
Same here, it is a thrill watching and an even bigger thrill knowing you are being watched.... We only recently found that out on our first visit to a sex club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
It's the score boards... they put me off, either that or you yawn too loudly   |
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"Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!
Good point. Exhibitionists would be peeved if no-one was watching. I'm needed. "
If I had someone to shag then you could watch me Doris  |
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"Had this happen years ago with a buddy. Was having a mff when the third person said she wanted to sit and watch us two fuck while she played with herself. It was a very erotic experience ??
It leads to an awkward silence if the lady decides to sit out a MMF..."
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We never frown on women (or anyone) watching as long as they are respectful. We love being watched and you'd be always welcome. To be honest we don't know anyone that frowns on women watching in a space for watching. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was with my ex one of my big fantasies was of spotting a hitherto unseen sexy woman sitting in a gloomy corner watching us. She'd put a finger up to her lips and shhh. Then as she watched intently and I fucked my ex staring intently at her, she'd part her legs and start to play with herself.
Anyone who doesn't think that's hot can leave right now |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
If you want to watch then I don't see any problem with it the frowners are just frustrated people who should concentrate on their own lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?"
That was a horizontal dancing disarrrster darling! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?"
Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters? |
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?
Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?"
Oh god, imagine if she starts chanting “you don’t know what you’re doing “! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
Nothing wrong with it as far as I'm concerned. I like to watch a lady masturbate and would also like to be watched.  |
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On the big bed at Libs it was common to see ladies watching the show. Several times I looked up from the ex to see them watching the show. Probably more to do with how my ex looked than my cum face. |
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
We love this as well. You'd be very welcome to watch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
Nothing wrong with that OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?
Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?
Oh god, imagine if she starts chanting “you don’t know what you’re doing “! "
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?"
I love the idea of a tea lady with a little tea trolley going round the club keeping everyone refreshed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?
Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?
Oh god, imagine if she starts chanting “you don’t know what you’re doing “! "
I'll lead the wanking men - their cocks will rise in a Mexican wave.
I'll sit in the corner in my anorak with my flask of coffee and a packet of pickled onion Monster Munch. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?
I love the idea of a tea lady with a little tea trolley going round the club keeping everyone refreshed."
Like Mrs Overall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?
Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?
That was a horizontal dancing disarrrster darling!"
Arrange a mmmmmmmf then someone can hold up a "Se-veeeeeeeeen" |
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"I have seen so many people fuck, I have become de-sensitized to it
I don't find it horny, but I'm not appauled by it either
I would only get horny if I was involved and, even then, I don't find threesomes or group fun half as horny as 1 on 1"
This
Seeing people fuck at clubs or parties just has no appeal for me, I find I'm completely disconnected and oblivious to it (might as well be watching rutting wildebeest on National Geographic). A private threesome can be fun if it's with 2 people I've completely got the hots for (a very rare occurrence), but in reality I really just prefer an intense 1-1 these days... Maybe it's just me getting older, maybe it's just that I've got someone who satisfies me in every way, or maybe I've just become jaded to the whole swinging thing... But that's just me. If you like to watch OP, you go for it!!  |
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
I’d like to be watched
Watch me
I’ll put on a real good show |
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"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.
People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.
Men wank around clubs just watching.
So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch? "
You are more than welcome to watch us any time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's frowning upon it?  Weirdos
C"
Maybe something to do with OP's steel heals making a log of noise as she is climbing the ladder to peer through the window |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who's frowning upon it? Weirdos
C
Maybe something to do with OP's steel heals making a log of noise as she is climbing the ladder to peer through the window "
Makes a change from wind chimes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to watch too. Why don't we create a fab group of ladies just for this? Then we can tell each other when stuff comes up and go along together? We could provide side commentary lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love to watch, particularly when I visit clubs. As soon as I arrive and grab a drink I tend to go check out what’s happening, and at various points in the night will stop my play to watch others.
What I do find frustrating is the amount of times my watching is mistaken for ‘loitering with intent’ and the male watchers assume I’m there to play with them. In one club in particular the best viewing areas become rather predatory later in the night and I’m unable to indulge myself voyeuristically. There definitely seems to be a few people who struggle with a woman liking to just watch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love to watch, particularly when I visit clubs. As soon as I arrive and grab a drink I tend to go check out what’s happening, and at various points in the night will stop my play to watch others.
What I do find frustrating is the amount of times my watching is mistaken for ‘loitering with intent’ and the male watchers assume I’m there to play with them. In one club in particular the best viewing areas become rather predatory later in the night and I’m unable to indulge myself voyeuristically. There definitely seems to be a few people who struggle with a woman liking to just watch. "
Maybe we just need a "voyeurs only" sign that we can stand under so men don't take our watching as intent to do anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love to watch, particularly when I visit clubs. As soon as I arrive and grab a drink I tend to go check out what’s happening, and at various points in the night will stop my play to watch others.
What I do find frustrating is the amount of times my watching is mistaken for ‘loitering with intent’ and the male watchers assume I’m there to play with them. In one club in particular the best viewing areas become rather predatory later in the night and I’m unable to indulge myself voyeuristically. There definitely seems to be a few people who struggle with a woman liking to just watch.
Maybe we just need a "voyeurs only" sign that we can stand under so men don't take our watching as intent to do anymore?"
Haha that might help! Usually once I’ve told one or two off for touching me they get the message. |
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