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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

Two meets in three months of being on the site is pretty good going OP but it's entirely up to you. Nobody can tell you what's right for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put it down to experience and move on there are plenty more who will like what they see

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day.

Two meets in three months of being on the site is pretty good going OP but it's entirely up to you. Nobody can tell you what's right for you

Yea true. Just feel like I'm a little out of my league women seem to love the Adonis type which is definitely not me haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Put it down to experience and move on there are plenty more who will like what they see"

Yea just seems to correspond with how I have been feeling as of late. Hope you're right haha

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman over a year ago

Dublin

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

Well thats not a nice thing to say is it to you

So are you going to leave or leave leave?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

That's true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignore someone who would call you ugly - they are clearly just cocks.

Brush yourself off and get back out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

Maybe I'm just a bit like marmite haha

Or maybe they were just out to be mean.

Thank you by the way. Looking quite lovely yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

That's true

Can't be that bad, surely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just put it down to experience, us women get plenty of abusive messages too and no sooner have we left we join back up!

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day.

Well thats not a nice thing to say is it to you

So are you going to leave or leave leave? "

I didn't think so. But then overthinking the comment might not have helped.

I'm on the fence. Going to hang the decision the the jist of this post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

That's true

Thank you :p

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

Remember those wise old words...Should've gone to Specsavers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

That's true

Can't be that bad, surely

Definitely feeling a bit more appreciated in the forum haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ignore someone who would call you ugly - they are clearly just cocks.

Brush yourself off and get back out there."

Cheers man. Maybe just being a tad to over sensitive about it.

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By *weetandHungMan over a year ago

liverpool

Dont worry about it OP i have been told im ugly too mate. Just keep believing in yourself.

As previously stated you have had meets but the decision is yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just put it down to experience, us women get plenty of abusive messages too and no sooner have we left we join back up!

Good luck x "

Yea so I've heard . This is why I always try to be polite and courteous in all messages.

Some people just suck I guess.

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore someone who would call you ugly - they are clearly just cocks.

Brush yourself off and get back out there."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Remember those wise old words...Should've gone to Specsavers."

Aha yes that is always a good one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dont worry about it OP i have been told im ugly too mate. Just keep believing in yourself.

As previously stated you have had meets but the decision is yours"

Thanks. True. Probably best way. Seem to just be full of doubts lately .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Goodbye OP, all the best in your future endeavours X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder

Haha this is true . To many beauty standards we compare ourselves too.

Damn.... I also have no beer in my house right now

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can’t believe people would say that. It’s just not nice. What’s wrong with sorry you’re not for me or something like that. If they’re the sort of person who’d turn around and say “you’re ugly” then to me they’re not a nice person so I wouldn’t worry. Although to be honest I’d probably have a little cry if it was me and then think fuck em!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can’t believe people would say that. It’s just not nice. What’s wrong with sorry you’re not for me or something like that. If they’re the sort of person who’d turn around and say “you’re ugly” then to me they’re not a nice person so I wouldn’t worry. Although to be honest I’d probably have a little cry if it was me and then think fuck em! "

You’ve said worse to me lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

Haha yea maybe I'm being a bit of a pussy aha

I'm not the kind of person to send insulting messages back . Good insult though :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’ve said worse to me lmao

Hahaha. Yeah but that’s you. You’re ‘ard you can take it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

Thanks Cher

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just ignore it , move on ! You'll only comeback of you leave . I've been on here for over 8 years now, just learn to grow a thick skin buddy

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One says ugly and other says incredibly handsome.. hmm..

That's true

Thank you :p "

Now you will feel better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder

Haha this is true . To many beauty standards we compare ourselves too.

Damn.... I also have no beer in my house right now "

Wanna compare?

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea that's exactly what I thought. If you're not interested I just ignore or delete I'm fine with that. It was the going out of their way to chat on a messenger then insult me which I think got me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

Haha yea maybe I'm being a bit of a pussy aha

I'm not the kind of person to send insulting messages back . Good insult though :p"

It's good that you aren't but sometimes it makes us feel good to throw something back

Dirty baggy slag goes down like a cup of cold spunk.

But seriously don't go to kik too soon. And don't take any nonsense

Women don't so why should men have to?

Report the skanky biatch troll.

Probably an old man having a weekend wank whilst his wife is at a tea dance

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!"

Be all all?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

Thanks Cher"

Cher'ing is caring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just ignore it , move on ! You'll only comeback of you leave . I've been on here for over 8 years now, just learn to grow a thick skin buddy

Good luck

I've been on and off for a couple now. This time round just seems a bit worse.

Should just thicken the skin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are plenty of people on here who like to put others down and say the nastiest things, in order to make themselves feel better about their not so great life.

Don’t worry about them, you’ve had a couple of meets in a few months so that’s good going!

Keep doing as you do and anyone who’s nasty to you block and report!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

Be all all?"

Awww it’s my phones fault sorry it gets d*unk when I do sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

Haha yea maybe I'm being a bit of a pussy aha

I'm not the kind of person to send insulting messages back . Good insult though :p

It's good that you aren't but sometimes it makes us feel good to throw something back

Dirty baggy slag goes down like a cup of cold spunk.

But seriously don't go to kik too soon. And don't take any nonsense

Women don't so why should men have to?

Report the skanky biatch troll.

Probably an old man having a weekend wank whilst his wife is at a tea dance

Yea I went to kik quite quickly haha

It probably was some weekend wanking badger fanny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yea that's exactly what I thought. If you're not interested I just ignore or delete I'm fine with that. It was the going out of their way to chat on a messenger then insult me which I think got me."

Yeah I think that’s a bit nasty to be honest. Forget it and move on. Don’t leave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Suck it up and move on. Can't be to sensitive on this place. It's a jingle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There are plenty of people on here who like to put others down and say the nastiest things, in order to make themselves feel better about their not so great life.

Don’t worry about them, you’ve had a couple of meets in a few months so that’s good going!

Keep doing as you do and anyone who’s nasty to you block and report!

Yea it just doesn't make sense. We are all here for a fun time right so why ruin it.

Thanks I feel like I should now.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

OP, from what I can see, you look attractive, stick with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

Be all all?

Awww it’s my phones fault sorry it gets d*unk when I do sorry

Haha I have the same trouble.... even when I'm not d*unk. Autocorrect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea that's exactly what I thought. If you're not interested I just ignore or delete I'm fine with that. It was the going out of their way to chat on a messenger then insult me which I think got me.

Yeah I think that’s a bit nasty to be honest. Forget it and move on. Don’t leave. "

Ok i shall give it a go. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others."

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

Be all all?

Awww it’s my phones fault sorry it gets d*unk when I do sorry

Haha I have the same trouble.... even when I'm not d*unk. Autocorrect."

Yep they can at times make you look like a d*unk weird person

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, from what I can see, you look attractive, stick with it

Thank you

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"OP, from what I can see, you look attractive, stick with it

Thank you

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

Be all all?

Awww it’s my phones fault sorry it gets d*unk when I do sorry

Haha I have the same trouble.... even when I'm not d*unk. Autocorrect.

Yep they can at times make you look like a d*unk weird person

I'm terrible at proof reading as well so sometimes I must come across as deranged haha

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh."

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

Be all all?

Awww it’s my phones fault sorry it gets d*unk when I do sorry

Haha I have the same trouble.... even when I'm not d*unk. Autocorrect.

Yep they can at times make you look like a d*unk weird person

I'm terrible at proof reading as well so sometimes I must come across as deranged haha "

When I was doing my degree I proof readed everything. Surprised I passed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner! "

Exactly. What happened to just treating everyone the way you'd want to be treated?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No they don’t believe me !! It’s not the be all all !!

Be all all?

Awww it’s my phones fault sorry it gets d*unk when I do sorry

Haha I have the same trouble.... even when I'm not d*unk. Autocorrect.

Yep they can at times make you look like a d*unk weird person

I'm terrible at proof reading as well so sometimes I must come across as deranged haha

When I was doing my degree I proof readed everything. Surprised I passed

Aha what was the degree in?

Sorry I have to do this.

*proof read

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner!

Exactly. What happened to just treating everyone the way you'd want to be treated?"

Yep, doesn't always happen on here

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

Ignore the buffoon OP and stay. You seem a really nice guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!"

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner!

Exactly. What happened to just treating everyone the way you'd want to be treated?

Yep, doesn't always happen on here

Yea first time I've experienced it personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day.

Ignore the buffoon OP and stay. You seem a really nice guy

Thanks I do try. Never seen the point of being mean.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner!

Exactly. What happened to just treating everyone the way you'd want to be treated?

Yep, doesn't always happen on here

Yea first time I've experienced it personally "

Well you're clearly not ugly, so I wouldn't ponder on it too long

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You'll always be ugly to someone, you'll also be gorgeous to others.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Try not to let someone else spoil your experience on here OP. Just rise above it. You will have a much more pleasant time if you just ignore those kind of comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner!

Exactly. What happened to just treating everyone the way you'd want to be treated?

Yep, doesn't always happen on here

Yea first time I've experienced it personally

Well you're clearly not ugly, so I wouldn't ponder on it too long

Thanks again

Yea probably just overthinking. Glad I came to the forum to check aha

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help."

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You'll always be ugly to someone, you'll also be gorgeous to others."

Good point. Everyone likes different things. Should think more like that.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"I've hidden my profile and not using the site currently or meeting as much as I used to thanks to certain others.

Ah that's not good. People suck eh.

To quick to act like spoilt brats or judge, jury and executioner!

Exactly. What happened to just treating everyone the way you'd want to be treated?

Yep, doesn't always happen on here

Yea first time I've experienced it personally

Well you're clearly not ugly, so I wouldn't ponder on it too long

Thanks again

Yea probably just overthinking. Glad I came to the forum to check aha "

Bless ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Try not to let someone else spoil your experience on here OP. Just rise above it. You will have a much more pleasant time if you just ignore those kind of comments. "

Yea I'm sure you're right. Just got to me.

Everyone on the forum here has helped though .

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"You'll always be ugly to someone, you'll also be gorgeous to others.

Good point. Everyone likes different things. Should think more like that."

Like I said, imagine how boring life would be if we all liked the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You'll always be ugly to someone, you'll also be gorgeous to others.

Good point. Everyone likes different things. Should think more like that.

Like I said, imagine how boring life would be if we all liked the same thing! "

I doubt there would be a fab if we all did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think using the word ugly to anyone is abit strong at best & downright hurtful at worse. Just remember taste is a subjective thing we all have different flavours afterall!

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions . "

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant. "

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You'll always be ugly to someone, you'll also be gorgeous to others."

Have you found anyone you’re gorgeous to yet?

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think using the word ugly to anyone is abit strong at best & downright hurtful at worse. Just remember taste is a subjective thing we all have different flavours afterall! "

Yea not sure why it got to me so much. Probably just didn't come at the best time.

I get the different flavours bit definitely .

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

And you quite rightly got them, not nice having your confidence knocked. You look and sound like a nice young man

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone"

Haha you're beautiful ;D

Yea should have told them to do one. Just apologised instead though haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

And you quite rightly got them, not nice having your confidence knocked. You look and sound like a nice young man

I have indeed. Thanks everyone.!!

Thank you again as well :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't let it bother you Spoony. After sending a polite introductory mail I was told no way and that my teeth were disgusting and told to consult a dentist. As they could not spell disgusting I just emailed back and suggested they consult a dictionary. Delete, block and move on is my motto.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

Nope its really easy but im really a hypnotist you are getting sleepy

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone

Haha you're beautiful ;D

Yea should have told them to do one. Just apologised instead though haha "

You apologised because they perceive you as ugly?!? And you did that because ....?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't let it bother you Spoony. After sending a polite introductory mail I was told no way and that my teeth were disgusting and told to consult a dentist. As they could not spell disgusting I just emailed back and suggested they consult a dictionary. Delete, block and move on is my motto.

Wow that just shows some people aren't worth the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone

Haha you're beautiful ;D

Yea should have told them to do one. Just apologised instead though haha

You apologised because they perceive you as ugly?!? And you did that because ....?"

Yea.... I apologised for wasting their time.

I apologise a lot aha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day.

Nope its really easy but im really a hypnotist you are getting sleepy

It's been a long day..... my eyelids are getting heavy aha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be who you are. I’ve been on and off here for 7 years. And some times for the right reasons and it’s served me well. And other times for wrong reasons, I’ve used it as a crutch and it’s not helped me (mentally). But on the whole if you tap into the forum they are a lovely bunch with a great pool of advice.

Don’t be a stranger ahd ever feel alone, I know that feeling too well x

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone

Haha you're beautiful ;D

Yea should have told them to do one. Just apologised instead though haha

You apologised because they perceive you as ugly?!? And you did that because ....?

Yea.... I apologised for wasting their time.

I apologise a lot aha "

Sounds like you need to stop

you can’t apologise for other people’s dumbness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You'll always be ugly to someone, you'll also be gorgeous to others.

Have you found anyone you’re gorgeous to yet? "

Bit harsh but evidently not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just be who you are. I’ve been on and off here for 7 years. And some times for the right reasons and it’s served me well. And other times for wrong reasons, I’ve used it as a crutch and it’s not helped me (mentally). But on the whole if you tap into the forum they are a lovely bunch with a great pool of advice.

Don’t be a stranger ahd ever feel alone, I know that feeling too well x"

Yea lately I sometimes don't know who I am as cliche as that sounds although I know I have always been less than vanilla in the bedroom haha

Yea they all do seem rather great. Yourself included

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone

Haha you're beautiful ;D

Yea should have told them to do one. Just apologised instead though haha

You apologised because they perceive you as ugly?!? And you did that because ....?

Yea.... I apologised for wasting their time.

I apologise a lot aha

Sounds like you need to stop

you can’t apologise for other people’s dumbness"

Yea I've been told that before aha it's just a bad habit

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By *weetandHungMan over a year ago

liverpool

if ladies say a polite sorry not my type isnt it pretty much similar but a more polite manner. I may be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure why you’d leave just because one person has called you ugly?!? How boring would life be if we all liked the same thing!

Been doubting this site as can't quite find what I'm after.

Having someone go out of their way to be mean just didn't help.

It’s just people feeling brave behind a keyboard. I’m sure you know who you are, and what you are and who you’re not, so don’t let someone who doesn’t know you bring you down.

Yea doubt they would say that in real life as they'd have to face repercussions .

You just want everyone to tell you how beautiful you are don’t you?!? Haha. Let it go. Their opinion is irrelevant.

Aha beautiful would be pushing it a little

but definitely needed a bit of kind words at least.

I’m feeling pretty ugly too. I know you can’t see my face but feel free to tell me how beautiful I am ....

hahahahaha. I’m joking. But don’t let a strangers words put you down. We are all beautiful to someone

Haha you're beautiful ;D

Yea should have told them to do one. Just apologised instead though haha

You apologised because they perceive you as ugly?!? And you did that because ....?

Yea.... I apologised for wasting their time.

I apologise a lot aha

Sounds like you need to stop

you can’t apologise for other people’s dumbness

Yea I've been told that before aha it's just a bad habit "

Ok well let’s stop now with the feeling sorry for woe is me. We ( me , I) can’t speak for the rest of the retrobates but I’m guessing they think your ok. So let’s move on dude. Life’s crap at times I bloody well know this and won’t bore you. But we’re here. Cheers, And good night

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"if ladies say a polite sorry not my type isnt it pretty much similar but a more polite manner. I may be wrong"

Haha I guess to some degree but then they might find them attractive but not what they are after ?

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"if ladies say a polite sorry not my type isnt it pretty much similar but a more polite manner. I may be wrong"

Not necessarily, someone can be handsome but not necessarily someone else's type for other reasons

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

Don’t we all

get a grip dude. Tomorrow (well, today) is a new day. Let it go x

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"if ladies say a polite sorry not my type isnt it pretty much similar but a more polite manner. I may be wrong"

No? I can’t find someone attractive physically but know they are not for me?!

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By *weetandHungMan over a year ago

liverpool

"if ladies say a polite sorry not my type isnt it pretty much similar but a more polite manner. I may be wrong

Not necessarily, someone can be handsome but not necessarily someone else's type for other reasons

I didnt realise that, i know tbe same as OP have been called ugly, always seem.to get sorry not my type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don’t we all

get a grip dude. Tomorrow (well, today) is a new day. Let it go x"

Annnnd now I have frozen in my head.

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Don’t we all

get a grip dude. Tomorrow (well, today) is a new day. Let it go x

Annnnd now I have frozen in my head."

Cant hold it back anymore. Let it go. LET IT GO. Turn away and slam the door. (And this next line is just for you) I don’t care what they’re going to say!!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's up to you what you do OP. I wish you well whatever you decide. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t we all

get a grip dude. Tomorrow (well, today) is a new day. Let it go x"

I have visions of Anna (frozen)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t we all

get a grip dude. Tomorrow (well, today) is a new day. Let it go x

Annnnd now I have frozen in my head.

Cant hold it back anymore. Let it go. LET IT GO. Turn away and slam the door. (And this next line is just for you) I don’t care what they’re going to say!!! "

Frozen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op. If all a woman has to go on is photos, of course she'll gravitate to the type of guys she dreams of. There are enough guys on here for her to find that. But most women have a soft spot for an attractive personality. So the trick is to get out to clubs and meet them so that you can win them over. Either that or start posting on here and hope someone local takes to you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don’t we all

get a grip dude. Tomorrow (well, today) is a new day. Let it go x

Annnnd now I have frozen in my head.

Cant hold it back anymore. Let it go. LET IT GO. Turn away and slam the door. (And this next line is just for you) I don’t care what they’re going to say!!!

Frozen.

Got to love frozen haha

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman over a year ago

"Op. If all a woman has to go on is photos, of course she'll gravitate to the type of guys she dreams of. There are enough guys on here for her to find that. But most women have a soft spot for an attractive personality. So the trick is to get out to clubs and meet them so that you can win them over. Either that or start posting on here and hope someone local takes to you. Good luck

A photo says nothing about a person. I’m one of them women who is genuinely attracted to personality. Give me an ‘ugly’ man who can make me laugh and has a shit hot personality over a gorgeous boring b@stard any day

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea definitely. There must be a vast choice for the women to choose from haha

Would like to go to some clubs but wouldn't want to go alone is the problem.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

We’ve all got different tastes, but to be so openly rude just shows what kind of person they are.. fuck them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yea definitely. There must be a vast choice for the women to choose from haha

Would like to go to some clubs but wouldn't want to go alone is the problem.

Cheers "

Then maybe find someone to go with. Male or female. Doesn't matter which. Or arrange to meet someone there.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "
your not ugly x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day.

We’ve all got different tastes, but to be so openly rude just shows what kind of person they are.. fuck them

Defintely seems to be the general consensus

They can go fuck themselves aha should have been my first response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea definitely. There must be a vast choice for the women to choose from haha

Would like to go to some clubs but wouldn't want to go alone is the problem.

Cheers

Then maybe find someone to go with. Male or female. Doesn't matter which. Or arrange to meet someone there. "

Yea would have to be someone i know just don't have anyone in my life who would be game unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. your not ugly x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yea definitely. There must be a vast choice for the women to choose from haha

Would like to go to some clubs but wouldn't want to go alone is the problem.

Cheers "

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/771329

Might give you the inspiration

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea definitely. There must be a vast choice for the women to choose from haha

Would like to go to some clubs but wouldn't want to go alone is the problem.

Cheers

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/771329

Might give you the inspiration

That's a good write up. I should find a club then see if I can get over that initial fear of going into a room fulloff strangers aha that's the scary bit for me

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It's only if yer mirror cracks when you have a shave that might not be considered an oil painting Bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's only if yer mirror cracks when you have a shave that might not be considered an oil painting Bro

Aha if this happens I shall remove myself from civilisation and live in a cave :p

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By *abulously curiousCouple over a year ago

manchester

Don't take it personal. Arsehole for being so nasty. But....u ain't ugly so NEXT........

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't take it personal. Arsehole for being so nasty. But....u ain't ugly so NEXT........"

Cheers

Yea onto the next one haha

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By *andy apMan over a year ago

aberdeen

"Don't be such a fanny

It's one dickwad on kik

Call them a slack vaginad cuntwaffle and get back on your horse man.

You are welcome

. Wise words!!

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By *andy apMan over a year ago

aberdeen

I think the response you have had on this thread - mostly from women, is an indication of what you should do! ( maybe a good tactic to get some female attention! )

Leaving is a little drastic. Block the individual and move forward!

As Forest Gunp says, "life is like a box of chocolates!" Don't know about you but there's always one or two in the box that's not as good as the rest! That's personal choice and it's the same here. What's good for one might not be for another. Don't take it personal, although sometimes not as easy said if it knocks your confidence a little.

Think positive, pick yourself up and move forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think the response you have had on this thread - mostly from women, is an indication of what you should do! ( maybe a good tactic to get some female attention! )

Leaving is a little drastic. Block the individual and move forward!

Think positive, pick yourself up and move forward.

. "

Cheers man. Yea the general response from this post has been great.

Definitely will be using the forums a little more I think :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me and L were both singles on here (it’s how we met). I always knew I’m not the best looking, but I didn’t do bad as a single male, I had a couple of meets within a couple of months, but when we made our couples profile I realised just how many messages women got, it really knocked my confidence at first because I wasn’t getting any messages addressed to me. It actually got me down a bit, but then with the help of L I realised that if I’m not someone’s type then I’m not their type, I am who I am, and I look how I look, if people aren’t attracted then so what. I move one.

I guess what I’m trying to say is there’s someone out there for everyone, someone’s idea of attractive is another’s idea of ugly. Everyone has different tastes , just be you and you’ll find someone you’re attracted to and vica versa.

On a side note, whoever told you you’re ugly is rude as fuck! A polite thanks but no thanks would’ve been acceptable. She seems like the type of woman we would avoid, fickle and shallow.

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By *vcarolTV/TS over a year ago

kilmarnockish

Been called lots of things over the years, from simple insults, to having a full nightshift of cops hurling abuse ( long time ago)some people are just mean and some get a kick out of it.

But round the corner, there are some very nice, very understanding, very sensual and just brilliant people.

Chin up! Call it what you will, just go round the next corner....

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

"Ignore someone who would call you ugly - they are clearly just cocks.

Brush yourself off and get back out there."

I've brushed myself off so often the brush has worn out

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You seem to be a nice guy with manners and a sense of humour, I think you'll be fine. By the way, lovely new profile pic, definitely not ugly. I would.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've looked at your profile photo OP, you most definitely are not ugly.

I don't know why people have to be so cruel to others, she had an ugly personally to say that to you.

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

I am not gay or bi-sexual. You are far away from being ugly. You should send her the address of their nearest Specsavers.

Out of interest was she sexy or beautiful?

I have seen some very ugly women call men ugly. The old pot calling the kettle black.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

She was obviously a very horrible person. She must have seen your profile pic before you chatted on kik.

I will never understand how one human can be so cruel to another human.

She could have simply said thanks but you are not my type.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just messaged someone on here then got asked to kik then told I'm ugly.

I've been debating for a while now whether to carry on with fab or not think I've had my answer.

Do other so for guys have it so hard on here?

I know women do with the hundred is messages a day. "

They do, their ego’s get hammered and destroyed. Question is can you man up and take the punishment? Or are you going to wilt like flower on a hot summer’s day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Me and L were both singles on here (it’s how we met). I always knew I’m not the best looking, but I didn’t do bad as a single male, I had a couple of meets within a couple of months, but when we made our couples profile I realised just how many messages women got, it really knocked my confidence at first because I wasn’t getting any messages addressed to me. It actually got me down a bit, but then with the help of L I realised that if I’m not someone’s type then I’m not their type, I am who I am, and I look how I look, if people aren’t attracted then so what. I move one.

On a side note, whoever told you you’re ugly is rude as fuck! A polite thanks but no thanks would’ve been acceptable. She seems like the type of woman we would avoid, fickle and shallow. "

That's pretty awesome. makes sense, two similar individuals coming together. Would like to find someone like that and make a couples profile.

Yea just seems like the kind of person I wouldn't want to be associated with anyways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You seem to be a nice guy with manners and a sense of humour, I think you'll be fine. By the way, lovely new profile pic, definitely not ugly. I would.

Hehe thank you very much :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've looked at your profile photo OP, you most definitely are not ugly.

I don't know why people have to be so cruel to others, she had an ugly personally to say that to you.

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you good luck."

Thank you. From the jist of this post I think I'll stay for a bit longer... if I left I'd come back probably haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woukd you leave planet earth every time someone hinted you weren't their type? Soldier on and accept not everyone's going to like you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" Woukd you leave planet earth every time someone hinted you weren't their type? Soldier on and accept not everyone's going to like you."

I wouldn't mind leaving the planet haha be cool to see outer space.

But it was more the malicious way of telling me that which got me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still here i see

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Still here i see"

Yea for now and for a while. My holiday ends today as well -_-

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still here i see"

Don’t be mean. I’d be calling you crying if that was me requesting you cheer me up with your impressions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And it goes on......

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Don't let one cunty comment put you off OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still here i see

Don’t be mean. I’d be calling you crying if that was me requesting you cheer me up with your impressions. "

Not being mean just saying what i see is all and not many get to see my impressions

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't let one cunty comment put you off OP. "

After this post I'm definitely not. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Still here i see

Don’t be mean. I’d be calling you crying if that was me requesting you cheer me up with your impressions.

Not being mean just saying what i see is all and not many get to see my impressions"

I'm curious now...... What impressions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still here i see

Don’t be mean. I’d be calling you crying if that was me requesting you cheer me up with your impressions.

Not being mean just saying what i see is all and not many get to see my impressions

I'm curious now...... What impressions "
its secret shhhhhhhhh

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Don't let one cunty comment put you off OP.

After this post I'm definitely not. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have that problem mr.op I don't message and I don't meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still here i see

Don’t be mean. I’d be calling you crying if that was me requesting you cheer me up with your impressions.

Not being mean just saying what i see is all and not many get to see my impressions

I'm curious now...... What impressions its secret shhhhhhhhh"

Haha yeah. Our little secret

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

My personal advice is to develop the level of arrogance that means you don't give a fuck if somebody you've never met thinks you're ugly.

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still here i see"

How many posts until thread becomes too long?

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Well at least they responded. I just usually get blocked after showing my face

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Your certainly not ugly. Some people are just nasty at times.

It does knock your confidence at times though. We all have knock backs in life. This is the adult playground.

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