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over a year ago
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Had a nice conversation with a nice girl on here. We're getting on well, she asks if I could meet for a social, I say I can't cus I'm at work, but up for meeting another day...Got Blocked..How dare I say no cus I have a life, OK lesson learned, next time, I'll drop everything and get sacked. |
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Unfortunately a lot of people pretend they'd be happy for a social but it's just a disguise to make you feel more comfortable then when the time comes they make excuses and the next contact from them is wanting to meet for sex even though there's been no social.
She may be jumping to conclusions, but it happens loads. |
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It happens to us all but look at the bright side, if she's not mature enough to realise that you have a life away from the site or that sometimes you might speak or meet up with others then you have definitely dodged a bullet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been called fake for not being able to meet because of having my daughter at home, how dare I have a dependent lol"
The very idea of it..how dare you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately a lot of people pretend they'd be happy for a social but it's just a disguise to make you feel more comfortable then when the time comes they make excuses and the next contact from them is wanting to meet for sex even though there's been no social.
She may be jumping to conclusions, but it happens loads."
Exactly!
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"Unfortunately a lot of people pretend they'd be happy for a social but it's just a disguise to make you feel more comfortable then when the time comes they make excuses and the next contact from them is wanting to meet for sex even though there's been no social.
She may be jumping to conclusions, but it happens loads."
If she'd looked at my status, she could have saved herself by not mailing me in the first place. Lol glad I didn't meet now |
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"It happens to us all but look at the bright side, if she's not mature enough to realise that you have a life away from the site or that sometimes you might speak or meet up with others then you have definitely dodged a bullet. "
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"Unfortunately a lot of people pretend they'd be happy for a social but it's just a disguise to make you feel more comfortable then when the time comes they make excuses and the next contact from them is wanting to meet for sex even though there's been no social.
She may be jumping to conclusions, but it happens loads.
Exactly!
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If I get judged without someone knowing me first. Then it's not my loss |
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"It happens to us all but look at the bright side, if she's not mature enough to realise that you have a life away from the site or that sometimes you might speak or meet up with others then you have definitely dodged a bullet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could be that she had no intentions of meeting.
Or maybe she just changed her mind.
You never know.
At least you didn’t waste any time meeting though! That’s a positive! |
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"How high ?
Aww I don't miss this  
Bit unsure what you meant by that 
She said jump and you didn't
I thought you said she was nice ?  "
seemed to be. But you live and learn. Not the first time someone made a judgement without knowing someone first and I going to take the high ground and not become cynical about people on here. To easy to do that. |
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"How high ?
Aww I don't miss this
Bit unsure what you meant by that
She said jump and you didn't
I thought you said she was nice ?
seemed to be. But you live and learn. Not the first time someone made a judgement without knowing someone first and I going to take the high ground and not become cynical about people on here. To easy to do that. "
Maybe you killed her spontaneity did you see the post about rejection? |
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"How high ?
Aww I don't miss this
Bit unsure what you meant by that
She said jump and you didn't
I thought you said she was nice ?
seemed to be. But you live and learn. Not the first time someone made a judgement without knowing someone first and I going to take the high ground and not become cynical about people on here. To easy to do that. "
Yes very easy for people to jump to the wrong conclusion without actually asking the question. Some people are just to quick to make that judgement when if they communicate with you and actually ask things get sorted out without any miss understandings |
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